10/9/2008 3:29:09 PM |
Carpe Diem? You gotta be kidding. |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45
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"Don't waste your moments on mindless sex. If you're going to have it, make it mindful and enjoy every minute. If you meet someone you like, enjoy them at what ever level is comfortable. If sex feels right, do it. If it doesn't don't. If you meet someone you think you could spend a lifetime with, enjoy every moment of life time that's left. No hurry, this moment is all we have. Yesterday is gone and tomorrow isn't here. Is that complicated? Maybe, but it seems clear to me. Yea, chick logic is weird. "
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You realize that you just blew the "Carpe Diem girls are easy" theory out of the water.
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10/9/2008 3:32:59 PM |
Carpe Diem? You gotta be kidding. |
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lnlass
Laguna Niguel, CA
age: 50
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There IS a GOD! Thank god there were a couple other sharp female posters who were able to articulate it better than I could.
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10/9/2008 3:41:29 PM |
Carpe Diem? You gotta be kidding. |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45
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Thank goodness most of the Carpe Diem women didn't understand any of that.
lol......
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10/9/2008 3:42:23 PM |
Carpe Diem? You gotta be kidding. |
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sassi_nepa
Factoryville, PA
age: 37
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ark, did you really equate the meaning of carpe diem as "there is no tomorrow"? wow, I got something totally different out of it. To me, it means don't let opportunities pass you by. If you spend too much time worrying about the future (which is different than keeping an eye towards it, as forumfun said)AND worrying about what others (community, family, whatever) will think of you, then the moment where you are able to "seize the day" will pass you by and all you will have left is the regret of NOT making ANY choice. The "what ifs" that go on and on endlessly kill our joy for life. So don't let life pass you by as you sit and overanalyze every move. Which I, as a woman, tend to do unless I make a conscious effort to avoid it
You can see how this relates to dating, right?
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10/9/2008 3:51:14 PM |
Carpe Diem? You gotta be kidding. |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45
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Oh, I took a pretty wide range of interpretations for purposes of the thread....I wanted it to be entertaining.
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10/9/2008 4:25:30 PM |
Carpe Diem? You gotta be kidding. |
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usakindatheart
Overton, TX
age: 48
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Thank goodness most of the Carpe Diem women didn't understand any of that.
lol......
i think they did...
and if you really study Horace, the phrase is not a negative connotation.
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10/9/2008 4:45:38 PM |
Carpe Diem? You gotta be kidding. |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45
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i think they did...
Doctor......we have a missing sense of humor here....prep for surgery....STAT !!
and if you really study Horace,
nope...linebacker for the Colts?
the phrase is not a negative connotation.
I hate to be Captain Obvious, but that was kind of the point of the thread.
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10/10/2008 2:57:46 AM |
Carpe Diem? You gotta be kidding. |
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usakindatheart
Overton, TX
age: 48
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i think they did...
Doctor......we have a missing sense of humor here....prep for surgery....STAT !!
and if you really study Horace,
nope...linebacker for the Colts?
the phrase is not a negative connotation.
I hate to be Captain Obvious, but that was kind of the point of the thread.
lol... i am captain clueless... beam me up scotty....
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10/10/2008 3:08:17 AM |
Carpe Diem? You gotta be kidding. |
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mr_jimi_bones
Prince Frederick, MD
age: 20
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carpe deim.....seize tha carp
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10/10/2008 3:38:11 AM |
Carpe Diem? You gotta be kidding. |
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pattilee3
Norfolk, VA
age: 49
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i think they did...
Doctor......we have a missing sense of humor here....prep for surgery....STAT !!
and if you really study Horace,
nope...linebacker for the Colts?
the phrase is not a negative connotation.
I hate to be Captain Obvious, but that was kind of the point of the thread.
CLAMPS............quickly!
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10/10/2008 4:13:07 AM |
Carpe Diem? You gotta be kidding. |
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noredneckhere
Sevierville, TN
age: 48
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Still waiting for the first chick to say" Gosh, I never REALLY thought about it. So right now I'm going out, and the first guy I see w/ a large package, I'm going to seize that carp."
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