Why do women say no when the mean yes?

1/17/2009 1:07:14 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
castanova79 Valley, NE 37, joined Jan. 2009	i dont understand it why all women so yes when they mean no or just the oppsite. on everything Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
1/17/2009 1:27:03 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
magtag East York, ON 50, joined Aug. 2007	I don't know where this assumption comes from??? When I say yes, I mean yes, when I say no, I mean no. I can't say that I've run into many people out there of either sex that do this.
1/17/2009 1:36:59 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
castanova79 Valley, NE 37, joined Jan. 2009	i ran into plenty. and it getss confuseing
1/17/2009 2:00:17 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
saphyrefaery75 Greenbrier, TN 41, joined Dec. 2008	All women dont say yes when they mean no and vice versa. As for me, when I say no I mean no...Yes to me means yes.
1/17/2009 2:07:39 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
doreen1111 Brenham, TX 53, joined Oct. 2008	I don't understand either ... I have girlfriends and they'll say ... I tried to talk to him about such and such and he just doesn't get it ... when I say what did you say to him they'll say ... well.. I told him blablbla so you'd think he would get it ... It frustrates me because I'm always telling them ... why can't you say to him what you say to me ... my god ... you love this man .... tell him what's on your mind... and if you're gonna make him "figure it out" then you don't get to be mad if he doesn't!
1/17/2009 2:13:14 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
wileyguy Wilkes Barre, PA 46, joined Apr. 2007	Quote from doreen1111: I don't understand either ... I have girlfriends and they'll say ... I tried to talk to him about such and such and he just doesn't get it ... when I say what did you say to him they'll say ... well.. I told him blablbla so you'd think he would get it ... It frustrates me because I'm always telling them ... why can't you say to him what you say to me ... my god ... you love this man .... tell him what's on your mind... and if you're gonna make him "figure it out" then you don't get to be mad if he doesn't! yes be straight and to the point.stop beating around the bush
1/17/2009 2:15:18 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
k_tothe_c Las Vegas, NV 47, joined Dec. 2008	It seems that a lot (not all) of YOUNGER women do that. It's just a game. Usually they don't even know the rules to this game...but they play play play. When they grow up a bit, the game gets boring and they stop!
1/21/2009 12:30:02 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
cinthianna Goshen, IN 37, joined Nov. 2008	the women who do that are going be indecisive in most aspects of their life..... Look for one who knows what she wants...it'll make your day easier.
1/21/2009 12:44:01 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
barbaraajo Reston, VA 60, joined Jul. 2008	Is this another trick question???
1/21/2009 12:47:44 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
dunitall Seattle, WA 52, joined Feb. 2008	After awhile you just give up trying to figure it out!...So do what you want and if she wants to go with it then ya got it beat. [Edited 1/21/2009 12:48:05 PM ]
1/21/2009 12:54:44 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
merk135r Fresno, CA 38, joined May. 2008	Haha, the time this really applies to women is when they don't want to come off as a slut. For instance, before a date they may say, "I'm not going to sleep with you." This actually means we're going to fk tonight if everything goes right. Or when you invite them in and they say, "Ok, but I don't want you to get the wrong impression." This means, I want you to fk me but you're going to have to play your cards right.
1/21/2009 1:34:02 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
evileddy Ottawa, ON 43, joined Jan. 2008	Quote from merk135r: Haha, the time this really applies to women is when they don't want to come off as a slut. For instance, before a date they may say, "I'm not going to sleep with you." This actually means we're going to fk tonight if everything goes right. Or when you invite them in and they say, "Ok, but I don't want you to get the wrong impression." This means, I want you to fk me but you're going to have to play your cards right. Exactly. When she says that that means he's already decided to bang you.
1/21/2009 1:54:16 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
sinfulcharming Fort Wayne, IN 50, joined Dec. 2006	Here are the interpretations Women's English Yes = No No = Yes Maybe = No I'm sorry = You'll be sorry We need = I want It's your decision = The correct decision should be obvious by now. Do what you want = You'll pay for this later We need to talk = I need to complain Sure ... go ahead = I don't want you to I'm not upset = Of course I'm upset, you moron! You're ... so manly = You need a shave and you sweat a lot You're certainly attentive tonight = Is sex all you ever think about? Be romantic, turn out the lights = I have flabby thighs This kitchen is so inconvenient = I want a new house I want new curtains = ... and carpeting, and furniture, and wallpaper Hang the picture there = NO, I mean hang it there! I heard a noise = I noticed you were almost asleep Do you love me = I'm going to ask for something expensive How much do you love me? = I did something today you're really not going to like I'll be ready in a minute = Kick off your shoes and find a good game on TV Is my butt fat? = Tell me I'm beautiful You have to learn to communicate = Just agree with me I'm not yelling = Yes I am yelling because I think this is important Men's English I'm hungry = I'm hungry I'm sleepy = I'm sleepy I'm tired = I'm tired Do you want to go to a movie = I'd eventually like to have sex with you Can I take you out to dinner = I'd eventually like to have sex with you Can I call you sometime = I'd eventually like to have sex with you May I have this dance? = I'd eventually like to have sex with you Nice dress! = Nice tits! You look tense, let me give you a massage = I want to fondle you What's wrong? = I guess sex tonight is out of the question I'm bored = Do you want to have sex? I love you = Let's have sex now I love you, too = Okay, I said it ... We'd better have sex now! Yes, I like the way you cut your hair = Okay, I said it ... We'd better have sex now! Let's talk = I am trying to impress you by showing that I am a deep person and maybe then you'd like to have sex with me Will you marry me? = I want to make it illegal for you to have sex with other guys (While shopping): I like that one better = Pick any bloody dress and let's go home and have sex!"
1/21/2009 2:08:13 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
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1/21/2009 2:16:46 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
bry11ca Irving, TX 52, joined Feb. 2008	When she says "No" to you, Castanova, she means "No". When she says no to me it means she wants to see me use my Amex Black Card before she bangs the hell of of me. Bry
1/21/2009 2:52:05 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
snazzy73 York, PA 47, joined Aug. 2008	I don't get it either. Maybe you've not been meeting the right type of women? Then there are thos of us who have been told we are sometimes too honest... If you don't want my HONEST opinion, thoughts, ideas etc then don't freakin' ask me!!! Sinful... even though I disagree with some of your interpretations... LMAO
1/21/2009 2:55:34 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
slowhand31 South Pittsburg, TN 39, joined Dec. 2008	Quote from castanova79: i dont understand it why all women so yes when they mean no or just the oppsite. on everything Not true.. No is No, Yes is Yes. I don't know what kind of females you've dated...
1/21/2009 3:00:22 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
cricket02 Sherbrooke, QC 48, joined Sep. 2008	That my dear..is for the woman to know...and well..for u darlin to figure out!!....Good old mistery is always good for a man to show they can figure out on their own!! ..Ya think??..
1/21/2009 3:05:03 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
cricket02 Sherbrooke, QC 48, joined Sep. 2008	Quote from cricket02: That my dear..is for the woman to know...and well..for u darlin to figure out!!....Good old mistery is always good for a man to show they can figure out on their own!! ..Ya think??.. BUT!!..Really!..NO should mean no..and YES, yes!...go with your gut to figure it out..or just ask her dirrectly damb!...Say.."WHAT DO YOU WANT WOMAN?"....cause u just can't figure it out!!!..
1/22/2009 11:30:26 AM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
clubkid66 Brooklyn, NY 50, joined Mar. 2008	Go with what she says and spare yourself the jail term.
1/22/2009 12:21:14 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
evileddy Ottawa, ON 43, joined Jan. 2008	Quote from cricket02: BUT!!..Really!..NO should mean no..and YES, yes!...go with your gut to figure it out..or just ask her dirrectly damb!...Say.."WHAT DO YOU WANT WOMAN?"....cause u just can't figure it out!!!.. ya right: man: "What do you want woman?" woman: "I... I don't know.." man: "...." woman: "You just don't "get me" runs crying holding a dvd of "The notebook" man: "thank god she's gone.. puts the game on and cracks open a beer*"
1/22/2009 12:50:23 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
wtfist El Paso, TX 52, joined Oct. 2008	i say yes and mean it and say no and mean it
1/22/2009 12:51:54 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
evileddy Ottawa, ON 43, joined Jan. 2008	Quote from wtfist: i say yes and mean it and say no and mean it Do you have many sexual partners?
1/22/2009 1:12:57 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
followurdreams2 Ridgeland, MS 48, joined Dec. 2008	Quote from castanova79: i dont understand it why all women so yes when they mean no or just the oppsite. on everything ALL women are not like this! With me, yes means yes and no means hell no.
1/22/2009 1:19:51 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
mex2max Mt Baldy, CA 62, joined Oct. 2008	My Grandpa said: The difference between a Lady and a Politician: When she says No she means MAYBE When she says Maybe she means Yes And she never ever says YES..... otherwise she isn't a lady. When he says Yes he means MAYBE when he says MAYBE he means NO AND he never ever says NO.... otherwise he isn't a politician. Now you know why we have so many female politicians today, we never ever know what they mean.
1/22/2009 1:25:04 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
sharolas Elk Grove Village, IL 47, joined Jul. 2008	Where did you come up with that one? When I say no it's no and vise versa. It's all a bunch of childish games JMO.
1/22/2009 3:23:17 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
808_sm Honolulu, HI 49, joined Mar. 2008	Quote from castanova79: i dont understand it why all women so yes when they mean no or just the oppsite. on everything You all are killing me!!!! The questions asked aren’t about simple “Yes” or “No” questions. Of course everyone answer “Yes” when they mean “Yes” and “No” when they mean “No” when asked a simple Yes-No question. What the OP means is when the NBA game starts at 4:00pm and the guy asked at 2:30pm “Do you want to go to the Mall and pick out that furniture now?” and the woman replies “No”, because she knows there is no way she going to walk through a mall with all her favorite stores inside and pick out furniture and be back home by 4:00pm. So when they guys says, “Okay, will go next week.” And then later on that night, (after the game) he asked, why did you change your mind about going to the mall, and she replies, “I really wanted to go.” So why do women say “No” when they mean “Yes” or vice versa? It is because women look into the future and us men only look in the present. You see thing coming that we don’t, so you answer accordingly and later tell us, what your real answer wanted to be. OP Is this what you meant??????
1/22/2009 3:34:51 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
luvmydogs Fairview, PA 43, joined Jan. 2009	Quote from 808_sm: You all are killing me!!!! The questions asked aren’t about simple “Yes” or “No” questions. Of course everyone answer “Yes” when they mean “Yes” and “No” when they mean “No” when asked a simple Yes-No question. What the OP means is when the NBA game starts at 4:00pm and the guy asked at 2:30pm “Do you want to go to the Mall and pick out that furniture now?” and the woman replies “No”, because she knows there is no way she going to walk through a mall with all her favorite stores inside and pick out furniture and be back home by 4:00pm. So when they guys says, “Okay, will go next week.” And then later on that night, (after the game) he asked, why did you change your mind about going to the mall, and she replies, “I really wanted to go.” So why do women say “No” when they mean “Yes” or vice versa? It is because women look into the future and us men only look in the present. You see thing coming that we don’t, so you answer accordingly and later tell us, what your real answer wanted to be. OP Is this what you meant?????? Oh boy, and you say women "talk in code" I would say that no, I don't, but you would all think I really meant yes
1/22/2009 3:50:14 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
cinthianna Goshen, IN 37, joined Nov. 2008	Quote from 808_sm: You all are killing me!!!! The questions asked aren’t about simple “Yes” or “No” questions. Of course everyone answer “Yes” when they mean “Yes” and “No” when they mean “No” when asked a simple Yes-No question. What the OP means is when the NBA game starts at 4:00pm and the guy asked at 2:30pm “Do you want to go to the Mall and pick out that furniture now?” and the woman replies “No”, because she knows there is no way she going to walk through a mall with all her favorite stores inside and pick out furniture and be back home by 4:00pm. So when they guys says, “Okay, will go next week.” And then later on that night, (after the game) he asked, why did you change your mind about going to the mall, and she replies, “I really wanted to go.” So why do women say “No” when they mean “Yes” or vice versa? It is because women look into the future and us men only look in the present. You see thing coming that we don’t, so you answer accordingly and later tell us, what your real answer wanted to be. OP Is this what you meant?????? Nuh-uh-- A: A man would never ask why the women changed her mind. They don't think it that far though. B: A woman would never let you peacefully watch the game. You would in the first quarter.
1/22/2009 4:02:56 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
808_sm Honolulu, HI 49, joined Mar. 2008	Quote from cinthianna: Nuh-uh-- A: A man would never ask why the women changed her mind. They don't think it that far though. B: A woman would never let you peacefully watch the game. You would in the first quarter. Quote from luvmydogs: Oh boy, and you say women "talk in code" I would say that no, I don't, but you would all think I really meant yes Maybe I gave a bad example. It is becuase I didn't want create an sex. Like when a woman wants too, but afraid the guy will think she is a "Ho", so she says "No", but she shows all signs of wanting too and waits unpatiently until the guys says something that will make her feel special. meanwhile the guy is trying to make her say "Yes", so he say anything and everything, until she says "Yes" or until she realize he not going too and gives up...and then later tells him she meant "Yes", without the explaination why she said "No". Now I dug myself a hole...I won't be getting out for a long while...(smile) [Edited 1/22/2009 4:20:58 PM ]
1/22/2009 6:41:43 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
luvmydogs Fairview, PA 43, joined Jan. 2009	Quote from 808_sm: Maybe I gave a bad example. It is becuase I didn't want create an sex. Like when a woman wants too, but afraid the guy will think she is a "Ho", so she says "No", but she shows all signs of wanting too and waits unpatiently until the guys says something that will make her feel special. meanwhile the guy is trying to make her say "Yes", so he say anything and everything, until she says "Yes" or until she realize he not going too and gives up...and then later tells him she meant "Yes", without the explaination why she said "No". Now I dug myself a hole...I won't be getting out for a long while...(smile) Just teasing you a bit . I think that no matter what the sex, some people are "listen to what I say, not how I say it" and some people are "listen to how I say it, not what I say"-if that makes any sense. I have encountered more of that scenario versus the yes means no scenario.
1/22/2009 6:56:23 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
soloact59 Albuquerque, NM 57, joined Sep. 2008	While none of the women on DH would ever do such a thing , most men have met women who do exactly that. When a woman says I don't care what we do tonight honey, really means this is a test to see if you know what I like and will do it instead of doing what you want to do. See how simple that is
1/22/2009 6:59:51 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
sage_way Buenos Aires Argentina 55, joined Nov. 2008	Quote from castanova79: i dont understand it why all women so yes when they mean no or just the oppsite. on everything I do not seem to have that problem....but often when I say NO the other party believes that I am saying YES.
1/22/2009 7:26:07 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
chinatown_girl Oyster Bay, NY 28, joined May. 2007	Quote from k_tothe_c: It seems that a lot (not all) of YOUNGER women do that. It's just a game. Usually they don't even know the rules to this game...but they play play play. When they grow up a bit, the game gets boring and they stop! oh dont go there; my yes is yes my no is heck no.
1/22/2009 8:25:06 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
cinthianna Goshen, IN 37, joined Nov. 2008	Quote from 808_sm: Maybe I gave a bad example. It is becuase I didn't want create an sex. Like when a woman wants too, but afraid the guy will think she is a "Ho", so she says "No", but she shows all signs of wanting too and waits unpatiently until the guys says something that will make her feel special. meanwhile the guy is trying to make her say "Yes", so he say anything and everything, until she says "Yes" or until she realize he not going too and gives up...and then later tells him she meant "Yes", without the explaination why she said "No". Now I dug myself a hole...I won't be getting out for a long while...(smile) Nah, no hole,...I (we) got it...Your posts or so well thought out, I just thought I'd throw what I could...lol. IMO,...people like that are, for lack of a better over-used word, Childish...and may remain that way forever. Some, grew up with that "I need someone to tell me it's ok" mentality. While others know exactly what they want and will tell you, without worrying of what others are going to think because they live their lives thinking for themselves. The males just have to figure out what kind of "woman" they are really into... OK,...I think I just dug the whole...
1/22/2009 8:55:41 PM	Why do women say no when the mean yes?
cricket02 Sherbrooke, QC 48, joined Sep. 2008	If it has to do with an activity one or both would like/not like to do? then...I really think they should both go do what they want ..if the other isn't into the same thing..then meet in the middle when their done!..Have that regular "do what u want" dayS every week ..to do as they please!..without the bickering, wondering and three million questions!..Basically care about the other without forcing issues, or putting a(do as i say)rope around their necks!...Love, but Live and let live!..

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