are grown men allowed to cry? wipe those tears please! 181

3/7/2009 2:12:06 AM	are grown men allowed to cry? wipe those tears please!
noredneckhere Knoxville, TN age: 49	Quote from awakeing: You mean robots who pretend to be men don't cry. I'll take a human man any day over a robot thank you very much. Hey Now !!!!! - Don't be spreading that kind of subversive stuff around, you'll cause the vibrator companies to go bankrupt. Then Obama will have to send 'em money. Though this case would accurately be called a "stimulus package"
3/7/2009 4:45:38 AM	are grown men allowed to cry? wipe those tears please!
awakeing Walled Lake, MI age: 37	Quote from noredneckhere: Hey Now !!!!! - Don't be spreading that kind of subversive stuff around, you'll cause the vibrator companies to go bankrupt. Then Obama will have to send 'em money. Though this case would accurately be called a "stimulus package" You know what...I could kiss you! That was not only very witty...but very humorous. See there, how easy it is to get a girl to like you even if she's made up her mind he's a woman hater?
3/7/2009 5:14:02 AM	are grown men allowed to cry? wipe those tears please!
mag_eleven New Port Richey, FL age: 40	Kiss - New Music - More Music Videos
3/7/2009 5:25:09 AM	are grown men allowed to cry? wipe those tears please!
judit0606 Big Stone Gap, VA age: 52	OMG, nored, that is TOO FUNNY!!! Got to give credit where credit is DUE and THAT was a good one, for sure! NOW, in answer to the OP's QUESTION: SighWOW, mary...POWERFUL THREAD!!! I DO NOT believe that ANYONE should be looked down on whether they cry or not!!! We are ALL individuals who've been brought up with unique differences that HAS made us the people that we are today. No one is any better than anyone else on here, as far as being human...period! We ALL need to remember THAT FACT and step back a little and THINK about displaying some EMPATHY here for one another! I guess what I'm trying to say here is that we can AGREE to DISAGREE and leave it at THAT, right? Sigh... AND, YES...I DO believe that a man, like a woman, IS human and IS going to cry at certain times in his life. Whether or not he chooses to cry when he's ALONE or WITH someone he LOVES that, INNO WAY, makes him MORE or LESS of a MAN. It just makes it a personal choice BY HIM as to how HE wishes to express himself! P.S. HOPE everyone enjoys this NICE weather in parts of the East this weekend. I KNOW I'm going toPEACE...
3/7/2009 5:45:33 AM	are grown men allowed to cry? wipe those tears please!
mindovermatter6 Madison Heights, MI age: 47	Even those tears.., are they mine.. are they mind..., are they mine. And in his eyes you see nothing, No sign of love behind the tears. Cried for no one, A love that should have lasted years. Yes, men cry! When the pressures of life get too heavy or confusing, we all have the tendency to break down and cry. Okay, you lost your job, your losing your home, you can't feed your family, what can you do but cry. The one you love is leaving, what can you do but have a good cry. Someone you love dies, you cry. At work, when I'm hormonal - period! When things upset me, I'll go into the bathroom and my tears well they just fall to the ground while sitting on the pot... I get up wipe my face, look in the mirror, say "pull yourself together girl, theres five more working hours to this day!" My job is heart wenching not only for myself but others as well, I seen many co-workers walk out in a hurry with tears streeming down their faces. I have two boxes of tissue at my desk to hand out. I say it's a natural release of tension. We all have our breaking points. I say, if you have to cry let it out, but its best to do it in private, because others just don't know what to do, think or even respond since they do not know what is troubling you, they don't know how to ease your trouble, all they can do is offer you a tissue and a pat on the back, and reassure you things will be alright.. But in your reality, things are not alright, they'll never be alright, for you can't fix what is broken, get back what is lost, or get by on mere words, so have that good cry, wipe the tears away and move on. Mindovermatter.
3/7/2009 6:02:44 AM	are grown men allowed to cry? wipe those tears please!
maryg2 Philadelphia, PA age: 39	Quote from judit0606: OMG, nored, that is TOO FUNNY!!! Got to give credit where credit is DUE and THAT was a good one, for sure! NOW, in answer to the OP's QUESTION: SighWOW, mary...POWERFUL THREAD!!! I DO NOT believe that ANYONE should be looked down on whether they cry or not!!! We are ALL individuals who've been brought up with unique differences that HAS made us the people that we are today. No one is any better than anyone else on here, as far as being human...period! We ALL need to remember THAT FACT and step back a little and THINK about displaying some EMPATHY here for one another! I guess what I'm trying to say here is that we can AGREE to DISAGREE and leave it at THAT, right? Sigh... AND, YES...I DO believe that a man, like a woman, IS human and IS going to cry at certain times in his life. Whether or not he chooses to cry when he's ALONE or WITH someone he LOVES that, INNO WAY, makes him MORE or LESS of a MAN. It just makes it a personal choice BY HIM as to how HE wishes to express himself! P.S. HOPE everyone enjoys this NICE weather in parts of the East this weekend. I KNOW I'm going toPEACE... thanks, JUDIT0606, this was a very powerful thread and i learned a lot off of it. and i do agree...give credit where credit is due. and yes, i will be enjoying the spring-like temps as we speak this weekend!! Yippee!
3/8/2009 6:41:51 AM	are grown men allowed to cry? wipe those tears please!
mindovermatter6 Madison Heights, MI age: 47	Attitude are judgements - the ABC's model of {affect, behavior and cognition}. Affective response is emotional - our mental and physicological states asociated with feelings, thoughts and behavior. Emotions are subjective expereinces or experiences from emotions that are associated with our mood - a long lasting emotional state that is less intense and less likely to be triggered by a particular stimulus or event. But can have either a positive or negative valence all the same. That is a person is either in a good or bad mood. Our temperments are the aspect of an individuals personality like introversion or extroversion. Along with character our temperments are acquired through learning. As for personality - which involve individual differences and people who are similar to one another. Everyone posseses their own sets of characteristics that uniquely influences their cognition, motivation and behavior in various situations. Personality - a Latin word that means MASK - normally worn over the face for protection, concealment, performance or amusement. Our Disposition - is a habit - a routine of behavior that is repeated regularly and tends to occur subconsciously. Most habits are habitual behavior that sometimes seems to go unnoticed by those exhibiting them. Since no one slows down long enought to engage in the task of self analysis when undertaking routines, we tend to fall back on the same old habits, like men are not suppost to cry, and women are the emotional weaker sex, therefore emotional and cry often. Hubituation is an extremely simple form of learning, as habits becomes our tendency to act in a specific way. Emotioans also a Latin word meaning "Out... to move, motivation, to CRY, FIGHT, or FLEE.. Our emotions may be internal but they do have a tendency of coming out in facial expression, in movement, in action it's all depends on how we respond. It is through our emotional expression, that we release our passion, or defense, to move towards what is good, or flee from what is bad. We all need to cry when troubled or confused, and to understand that we are crying for a reason, which allows us to focus on that reason long enough to regain our composure and try to find some solution as to what is making us so upset. For what do we call a human without emotion - psychopatic, without conscious, anti-social. So cry, confess your guilt, or release your troubles and pain. Get out those emotions, don't let them eat at ya. Mindovermatter. [Edited 3/8/2009 6:53:29 AM PST]
3/9/2009 10:50:00 AM	are grown men allowed to cry? wipe those tears please!
runningbear28 Flint, MI age: 29	Yes.If its real tears its an emotional reaction.I know there's a thing going around saying its unmanly to cry which is complete b.s.Crying is a human response it shows that we have feelings.I am afraid to admit that i cry.I cried when i learned of the death of my biological brother.When i see a sad movie i cry.Crying shows that we are human.
3/9/2009 11:29:23 AM	are grown men allowed to cry? wipe those tears please!
maryg2 Philadelphia, PA age: 39	Quote from runningbear28: Yes.If its real tears its an emotional reaction.I know there's a thing going around saying its unmanly to cry which is complete b.s.Crying is a human response it shows that we have feelings.I am afraid to admit that i cry.I cried when i learned of the death of my biological brother.When i see a sad movie i cry.Crying shows that we are human. Amen, brother! what i have been saying all along!
3/9/2009 12:15:00 PM	are grown men allowed to cry? wipe those tears please!
ladyog The Dalles, OR age: 53	If a man doesn't cry ..what does he do with pent up emotions???? destroy something..kill something....beat something....Is he human???? I think everybody crys some people just never do it in front of anyone...
3/9/2009 12:15:58 PM	are grown men allowed to cry? wipe those tears please!
serenity0515 Mesquite, TX age: 35	Yes!! Next question

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