11/16/2007 4:33:54 PM |
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endlessly2
Pamplin, VA
age: 88
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I really prefer to send my pic to those I wish to have it.
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11/16/2007 4:35:38 PM |
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azlindylu
Mesa, AZ
age: 55
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You can also be attracted by what a guy says. I can read a ad with out a picture, and something will attract me, or stand out by what he said. Even then, if I decided to meet him, and there wasn't an attraction, I would not regret the date.
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11/16/2007 4:37:55 PM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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You can be attracted sure, but...common....Beauty is in the eye of the Beholder and w/o Some kind of physical Attraction are you really gonna wanna date them? Friends sure...Dates? no jmo
xoxoPeaches.
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11/16/2007 4:40:59 PM |
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endlessly2
Pamplin, VA
age: 88
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Since I am here for friends first.. physical does not matter.
One I will meet soon, I have talked with often and there is interest. He, perhaps could be an exception. A most unexpected exception.
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11/16/2007 4:46:05 PM |
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sassybrat60
Mansfield, TX
age: 46
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I reckon I have to agree with every1 else but that just me.... To eaches own.. Ta Ta
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11/16/2007 4:46:54 PM |
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justed57
Willoughby, OH
age: 57
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LOLOLOL....did someone take the pics away????????
I don't see any pics !!!
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11/16/2007 4:47:27 PM |
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endlessly2
Pamplin, VA
age: 88
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no, waiting approval
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11/16/2007 4:48:36 PM |
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castertroy
Howell, NJ
age: 38
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See?
I am one shallow Bastard , i need visual stimuli!
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11/16/2007 4:54:03 PM |
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arreis
Cottonwood, AZ
age: 46
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I need more shallow!!!
heartburn: Just south of the beautiful Red Rocks of Sedona.
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11/16/2007 4:56:16 PM |
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endlessly2
Pamplin, VA
age: 88
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castor, you spoke to me when I had only pic of dolphins posted, yet we became friends. Not romantic intersts, neither were looking for that in the other. You say you are shallow, but you spoke with me. Pic was not needed.
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11/16/2007 4:59:14 PM |
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azlindylu
Mesa, AZ
age: 55
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You are busted Castor LOL!
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11/16/2007 5:25:25 PM |
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sweetfyr
Woodbridge, VA
age: 33
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To me showing a recent photo... is one step toward "honesty"...Beside people want to see...I want to see... No photo... I think that person is hiding...and Why?
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11/16/2007 5:50:42 PM |
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azlindylu
Mesa, AZ
age: 55
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I can see we all have our different opinions, to each their own I guess. I personally will send my picture when I feel comfortable with the person I am communicating with. I like to talk with them and get to know them before I make a decision about sending my picture and meeting them. Thanks for everyones opinions, I just wanted to throw this out into cyberspace and get everyone's thoughts on this subject.
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11/17/2007 9:22:50 AM |
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mystical012
Jupiter, FL
age: 54
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I believe that in order to have a successful relationship there has to be an attraction on several different levels: Mental, intellectual, emotional, and physical. A common value system is also important. Whether we admit it or not physical attraction is very important. In my opinion, posting a recent picture that honestly depicts what you look like at the present time is important. I have met men without having had the benefit of seeing a picture because I liked their personality while chatting online or over the phone. Upon meeting them, I immediately knew there was no way I'd ever be physically attracted to them. There was just too much of a difference in what I found physically attractive and what they looked like. A picture would have saved us both from an uncomfortable situation. I'm not saying that a picture guarantees anything but it does give you somewhere to start your assessment of potential compatibility. If there is an attraction on the mental, emotional or intellectual levels, I do believe it is possible to develop a physical attraction for someone. Be that as it may, we all develop an attraction to certain body types, facial features, etc., and would know upon seeing a picture whether or not the possibility exists that we would be interested in having an intimate relationship with that person. Sometimes there can be too much of a difference in what we personally find attractive and the way a person looks. I enjoy making new friends, but my main objective in being online is to find someone to love, someone to love me, and someone that I can have a long-term intimate relationship with. Just trying to keep it real people.
[Edited 11/17/2007 9:30:18 AM]
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11/17/2007 9:30:55 AM |
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falcon77
Eugene, OR
age: 41 online now!
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It's gotta be about the entire package for me. A Mental, Physical, Emotional, and Spiritual attractiveness.
[Edited 11/17/2007 9:32:45 AM]
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