| 11/24/2007 10:32:50 AM |
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busymanfour
Harrisonburg, VA
age: 50
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when/if i wink to me its showing the other person im interested, if i get a response great if not thats ok...but when i get one i feel the pressure of having to answer when i dont want to...double standard or stupid...yeah i know!
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| 11/24/2007 10:32:52 AM |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49
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busy...the more you post the more people know you. Great opening to comment on something they have said.
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| 11/24/2007 10:34:51 AM |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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If you feel someone is worth taking the time to wink at then just maybe they are worth a few words.
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| 11/24/2007 10:35:03 AM |
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leila123
Liberty Hill, TX
age: 59
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Hot...you said " if a lady says she don't like winks in her profile I can understand that to I never do but for Gods sake its just a wink its not like somebody ask you to go to bed with them."
You are right.. it isn't like you asked to go to bed with them. In fact, it isn't like you asked or said anything. In fact, it is that you said nothing at all. That is the whole point. You finally got the point, but maybe you didn't even realize you finally showed that you did.
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| 11/24/2007 10:35:44 AM |
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busymanfour
Harrisonburg, VA
age: 50
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thats sooo true, I do hang around to read the posts to get to know people and how they think, then when i started posting myself..it just started to click...but from now on no more winks will i send....i will send a email first!
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| 11/24/2007 10:36:01 AM |
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mr_passion_2009
Texarkana, TX
age: 45
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lol you ladies are wonderfull no iam not like talking to a wall i just see thing with an open eye there is no road black in my life thats way i don't see think as most ppl do there is nothing stoping me from seeing are understanding what you ladies are saying but don't forget iam also in here to and if i can't spell as good i can read great
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| 11/24/2007 10:36:32 AM |
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viktoriya75
Brooklyn, NY
age: 32 online now!
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Way to go, Busy...THANK YOU for listening to us....
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| 11/24/2007 10:36:50 AM |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Bravo Busy
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| 11/24/2007 10:37:31 AM |
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busymanfour
Harrisonburg, VA
age: 50
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winks to all of you ladies just to get it out of my system!!!
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| 11/24/2007 10:38:53 AM |
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v2_1
McHenry, IL
age: 45
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Mr Passion, my point was that if someone ACTUALLY read my profile, they'd see that I am not dating at this point in my life. If Mr. Wonderful literally dropped smack dab into my lap, he might stand a small chance of getting my attention. I don't have it to give to anyone right now. But if Mr. Wonderful READ my profile, he'd know that a wink wouldn't do it!
Thanks for calling me a liar. It's about as appealing as a wink!
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| 11/24/2007 10:41:08 AM |
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mr_passion_2009
Texarkana, TX
age: 45
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but i will no longer send out winks or emails from now on i will not answer thread nore
will i try as hard the best think for me and i mean me only is to just come in and read the thread and laugh and move on
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| 11/24/2007 10:42:27 AM |
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leila123
Liberty Hill, TX
age: 59
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Thanks Busyman... some of us have found out that posting in the forums / groups does lead to getting to know others, making friendships, dating and, in some cases, finding the love many of us seek.
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| 11/24/2007 10:42:46 AM |
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pwin_here_n_now
Annapolis, MD
age: 38 online now!
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Okay jumping in again, and should probably stay out of this- but I can't hold my tongue any longer... 
Mr P.: As to standards, I would hope that every person here who is serious, and we all know there are those who are not, would have standards that they are seeking in relating to other people. I don't think the intention of dating sites is to further increase the percentages of divorces in this country beyond what it already it is... And if we go to 80% in our society, God help us all!
Mr. P., you have standards don't you? Or are you willing to get involved with a lying, cheating, steeling, addict? I don't think so, I think you are looking for that special person to share your life with.
I would hope that anyone who receives an email would have the courtesy to answer one. That being said - say you recieve 10 emails a day and it takes a max of 5 minutes to answer each one and 5minutes to review the profile that is 10 x 10 = thus an 1hr and 40 minutes of time put into responses.
I think the point is, many people here get winks they take the time to read the profile and out of courtesy have sent a short email, or wink back, and recieve a wink in return. Say it takes 6 minutes to do this and you have received 15 winks = Again thats an hour and 30 minutes... for what "a wink back?"
Again JMO but it makes sense to me. Take the time, if you want time put into it.
P.Win
BTW: Mr. P nothing personal, you just happened to be the one to speak on standards.
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| 11/24/2007 10:43:29 AM |
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busymanfour
Harrisonburg, VA
age: 50
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just changed my profile no more winks given or acct...if you want contact write me! makes sense ladies thanks for the input!
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| 11/24/2007 10:44:07 AM |
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hma2
Chico, CA
age: 68
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I am glad that someone finally said something about the winks. I hate them. When I get a wink I feel as if the guy was thumbing through profiles and looking for someone to wink at.
If it is only one sentence I would much rather an email. At least I know he took the time to type the one sentence. 
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