6/13/2010 6:06:21 PM |
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catbrg
Catlettsburg, KY
age: 51
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welcome nothingfake
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6/13/2010 6:07:11 PM |
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captainjul1
Columbus, OH
age: 51
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cape why didnt you tell me ive been dazed and confused
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6/13/2010 6:08:38 PM |
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joni1955
Ridley Park, PA
age: 55
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Welcome luv!!
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6/13/2010 6:09:30 PM |
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capecoralman
Cape Coral, FL
age: 47
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Uhhhh!, Jul, i'm the one on DT's trying to get off the pills....
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6/13/2010 6:11:08 PM |
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joni1955
Ridley Park, PA
age: 55
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How are you doing with that?
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6/13/2010 6:18:13 PM |
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polefrog
Harriman, TN
age: 54
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Ah you don't mean that, pole. You can't be wishing that upon some people only because they'd rejected you. It might be more complicated than it seems on the surface. You perceive it as directed at your disability, but it could easily be something else.
I only ment that we all will become less able as we get older..Just life!
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6/13/2010 6:24:50 PM |
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joni1955
Ridley Park, PA
age: 55
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You are right about that. People get very impatient when you start slowing down.
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6/13/2010 6:40:58 PM |
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julesbraden
Weaverville, CA
age: 45
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there ya go thats me, love to laugh, love to cuddle too lol
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6/13/2010 6:42:31 PM |
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julesbraden
Weaverville, CA
age: 45
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Ok Im not grtting this
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6/13/2010 6:42:56 PM |
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joni1955
Ridley Park, PA
age: 55
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Me too. Since I started feeling better, I now find humor in almost everything.
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6/13/2010 6:53:13 PM |
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nothingfake
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 43
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welcome nothingfake
Thank you- I cannot tell you how much all of you have helped me already. Even if I don't post a lot- I read you all, and you make me smile plenty of times. Not much of that going around with me lately. YUCK- I hate it when I am in a hole of self-pity, but I just don't seem to be able to shake it. I am trying to think about all the positive stuff that is still in my life, which is plentyful, but I am kind of stuck in my sad place right now... ugh So- thank you all for posting things that get my mind off of it, at least for a little while. It helps to know you all genuinely care
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6/13/2010 6:55:47 PM |
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catbrg
Catlettsburg, KY
age: 51
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welcome new family members.
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6/13/2010 6:57:27 PM |
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joni1955
Ridley Park, PA
age: 55
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Thank you- I cannot tell you how much all of you have helped me already. Even if I don't post a lot- I read you all, and you make me smile plenty of times. Not much of that going around with me lately. YUCK- I hate it when I am in a hole of self-pity, but I just don't seem to be able to shake it. I am trying to think about all the positive stuff that is still in my life, which is plentyful, but I am kind of stuck in my sad place right now... ugh So- thank you all for posting things that get my mind off of it, at least for a little while. It helps to know you all genuinely care
I was there yesterday. I was feeling sorry for myself about being lonely and missing my husband. But, the people here have helped so much and I hope we can help you to. Please post, even if it is just to say hi. We want to see you here.
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6/13/2010 7:18:42 PM |
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capecoralman
Cape Coral, FL
age: 47
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If you ever feel down Joni, you know you should post as people on here will always pick up your sprits. I told everyone i was going thru DT's getting off those pills. I'm doing good thats why i'm posing again.
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6/13/2010 7:29:01 PM |
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ms1958
Lobelville, TN
age: 52
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I don't use the word disability, I have challenging days and
motrin is my friend.
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6/17/2010 12:28:34 PM |
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sweetpotato3
Albion, IN
age: 60
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My x boyfriend had disabilities he had polio when a child and couldn't walk or do alot of things but that never stopped me from loving him...Never even thought about it much.Didn't stop him from hooking up with someone younger either
If a person has a problem with it, then they are the ones that really have the disability... they don't know how many great people they are missing...
[Edited 6/17/2010 12:31:53 PM ]
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6/17/2010 12:31:25 PM |
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joni1955
Ridley Park, PA
age: 55
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6/17/2010 1:36:47 PM |
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ms1958
Lobelville, TN
age: 52
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Everyone has a disability, some just haven't been dx yet.
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6/17/2010 2:38:59 PM |
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utahgal1
Ogden, UT
age: 50
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Everyone has a disability, some just haven't been dx yet.
Agreeable!
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6/17/2010 5:43:23 PM |
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iaminohio
Cleveland, OH
age: 59
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Not everyone but some. JMO
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6/17/2010 5:57:46 PM |
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ms1958
Lobelville, TN
age: 52
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Everyone has a disability, some just haven't been dx yet.
we all have challenges in our lives. JMO
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6/17/2010 7:42:55 PM |
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catbrg
Catlettsburg, KY
age: 51
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every one is a little nuts.
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6/17/2010 9:14:24 PM |
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nothingfake
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 43
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Some are even a little more nuts
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6/17/2010 10:40:51 PM |
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makaboy
Stillwater, OK
age: 37
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Im the king nut.
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6/17/2010 10:49:25 PM |
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nothingfake
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 43
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It takes all kinds- and only special people deserve the title "KING NUT"
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6/17/2010 11:01:21 PM |
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makaboy
Stillwater, OK
age: 37
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I was special at one time.But then I had my first B-day
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6/17/2010 11:11:00 PM |
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nothingfake
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 43
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I was special at one time.But then I had my first B-day
You just weird!
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6/17/2010 11:15:49 PM |
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makaboy
Stillwater, OK
age: 37
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6/17/2010 11:24:30 PM |
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nothingfake
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 43
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Hey, no whining!!!
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6/17/2010 11:28:02 PM |
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captainjul1
Columbus, OH
age: 51
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r u having fun with this one
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6/17/2010 11:32:46 PM |
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makaboy
Stillwater, OK
age: 37
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Oh sorry.I thought I was wineing.
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6/18/2010 12:03:08 AM |
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joni1955
Ridley Park, PA
age: 55
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6/18/2010 5:02:10 AM |
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ms1958
Lobelville, TN
age: 52
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Oh sorry.I thought I was wineing.
must be a country song.
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6/19/2010 7:52:02 PM |
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winstonian
Middletown, CT
age: 33
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Hello Ramona & friends, I myself have join a organization with people with disabilities.We get together one's a month & do activities like a cook out & or little pizza parties.I've been to two meetings & the lady in charge has been happy & welcoming me as a new member.She likes my attitude & communication & ideas that I share with them.What a small world that turn into a big picture. !WOW!WOW!
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6/19/2010 7:55:47 PM |
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utahgal1
Ogden, UT
age: 50
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Oh, wow! What an awesome opportunity, Winston! Keep up with good work! Thanks for sharing!
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6/19/2010 7:58:29 PM |
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puppyluv47
Hillsboro, OH
age: 47
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Good Winston!!
I'm thinking about checking around for church groups that have singles groups. It would be nice just to interact with other people. It would do me a lot of good.
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6/20/2010 2:31:01 PM |
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elaine43
Taylorsville, NC
age: 43
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I'm new to this site also. I was told before by my ex-bf that he didn't see me as disabled for i was human like the rest. Its just certain things on each body with disability that may not work but we do have feelings and a heart that works and can do things when we set our minds to doing it. I have been in a wheelchair since i was 14 and the 24 will be 28 yrs for me. I have been through alot and have had faith and prayers to help me keep on going. If they can't deal with our disability then its their loss and not ours. I can drive and have a 16 yr old girl. We all can do more than what others know about and they just don't want to take that chance for us to prove to them what all we can do. God bless everyone. Always think possitive and NEVER GIVE UP!!!!
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6/20/2010 3:04:22 PM |
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iaminohio
Cleveland, OH
age: 59
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One of my x boyfriends had a disability, Kleinfelter syndrome. Have you heard of it? It's when a man's body does not produce testosterone, and he had to administer injections about every month. His disability wasn't an issue, as I didn't know much about this condition, had no computer then, so I believed to whatever he said. Turned out he had terrible temper tantrums, and I think some personality disorders, 'cause he was spying on his neighbors and I never knew why. And then, his sex drive along with his mood was at its highest within a few days following testosterone injection. He was absolutely impossible to handle, as he could do it about every hour, so had to do plenty of self service. At the end of the month he was down in the dumps, couldn't do anything, and on the top of it, was drinking and using drugs. Had I known all that, I would've steered clear. You live and learn. Now I am being Xtra careful.
That being said, I am blessed with RA that is hibernating right now. I am pretty much open about it.
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6/20/2010 3:54:02 PM |
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joni1955
Ridley Park, PA
age: 55
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Welcome Elaine!!
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6/20/2010 11:05:04 PM |
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elaine43
Taylorsville, NC
age: 43
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THANKS. I DON'T GET ON HERE ALOT BUT I WILL CHECK IN EVERY CHANCE I GET FOR I STAY BUSY AT HOME DOING THINGS INSTEAD OF BEING ON THIS ALL THE TIME. UNTIL THEN TAKE CARE EVERYONE. TTYL.
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6/21/2010 4:09:46 AM |
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catbrg
Catlettsburg, KY
age: 51
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welcome and please stop in anytime. whereall family here.
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6/21/2010 5:15:43 AM |
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ms1958
Lobelville, TN
age: 52
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winston sounds like fun. elaine welcome to the group. puppy i like the pic. hey everybody. people miss a lot without dating all the fun peole.
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6/21/2010 7:14:19 PM |
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winstonian
Middletown, CT
age: 33
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Hi Puppyluv47, I myself am in Brain injury groups meetings that I go to,self advocacy for people with disabilty how to deal in the public,volunteer at the genealogy library & humane society.Also get together every year with a best buddy for a college student to be pair with & hang out & do fun things.Also volunteer at the NAACP in whisch my mother is part of & gets me to volunteer during special activity days.What else would anybody else wants to know,just ask.
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6/23/2010 2:16:30 PM |
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amyhorse
Covington, IN
age: 35
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I am on disability cause I have a bad back which is due from falling off a horse at a camp that I volunteered at.My lower back is crumbling plus I have a pinched nerve in my right leg.I have also lost a kidney due till the fall.I regret falling off horses but not working at the christian camp cause I did it for my Lord and I love being kids and horses.This happened in 1992-1997.I am not in a wheelchair.I move around freely.I do sometimes walk with a cane.I know that there is people who doesn't have a problem with people having disability just the matter of getting the right one!Seems like when u mention that ur disabiled they all want to run and have nothing to do with u!I do have a hard time trying to find someone cause of my disability,they r afaird that I or us people with disabilities aren't capable of doing things.There is nothing wrong with us having disabilies,all we want is someone to love and like us for who we are,we can do just as much as any other person who is not have disabilities can.
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6/23/2010 2:29:59 PM |
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puppyluv47
Hillsboro, OH
age: 47
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I am on disability cause I have a bad back which is due from falling off a horse at a camp that I volunteered at.My lower back is crumbling plus I have a pinched nerve in my right leg.I have also lost a kidney due till the fall.I regret falling off horses but not working at the christian camp cause I did it for my Lord and I love being kids and horses.This happened in 1992-1997.I am not in a wheelchair.I move around freely.I do sometimes walk with a cane.I know that there is people who doesn't have a problem with people having disability just the matter of getting the right one!Seems like when u mention that ur disabiled they all want to run and have nothing to do with u!I do have a hard time trying to find someone cause of my disability,they r afaird that I or us people with disabilities aren't capable of doing things.There is nothing wrong with us having disabilies,all we want is someone to love and like us for who we are,we can do just as much as any other person who is not have disabilities can.
Absolutely! Nothing wrong with us, except maybe move slower, or harder to sit, stand.
We are still people with hearts and souls.
I'm sorry that that had to happen, and especially at a Christian Camp helping kids.
But God had a reason that may never be known unto we make it to His kingdom.
Someone's life may have been touched then, or even may still be being touched by your wonderful attitude about it.
I think about riding my horse, I know I never will be able to, but would love to. She's young (just turned 2) so it'll be a year before anyone will be riding her. But she is very therapeutic to me. Just going outside and her whinnying for me. Brushing her, combing her mane and tail. Just watching her peacefully crop the grass in the yard (she is a great lawnmower!) is a calming influence on me.
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6/23/2010 2:31:55 PM |
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catbrg
Catlettsburg, KY
age: 51
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welcome to the family feel free to join usin thrthreads
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6/23/2010 2:33:40 PM |
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utahgal1
Ogden, UT
age: 50
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Welcome, Amy.
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6/23/2010 2:36:37 PM |
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joni1955
Ridley Park, PA
age: 55
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Welcome Amy!!
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6/23/2010 5:46:08 PM |
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queenbky
Bowling Green, KY
age: 50
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I have come to expect that as I am dating older ...that I may become involved with a man who has health issues. I have met a few men who had such issues and that has made me anxious but I have come to learn if that man is taking care of himself with medication and the proper diet...it doesnt have to be an issue in a relationship and that covers other disabilities as well. Everyone needs to feel loved and needed and I feel if there is a disability love is needed even more because having someone who cares about you makes it not so hard to manage. In fact, you have more of a reason to take care of yourself because your welfare involves another person.
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6/23/2010 6:25:12 PM |
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captainjul1
Columbus, OH
age: 51
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welcome amy, and queen
stay awhile were a good group here,
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6/23/2010 6:37:04 PM |
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catbrg
Catlettsburg, KY
age: 51
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welcome queen
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6/23/2010 6:41:31 PM |
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ms1958
Lobelville, TN
age: 52
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Hi queen and amy welcome and be sure and stay awhile.
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6/23/2010 6:57:34 PM |
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captainjul1
Columbus, OH
age: 51
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wow joni
your new pic looks good.
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6/23/2010 7:20:26 PM |
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utahgal1
Ogden, UT
age: 50
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Welcome, Queen
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6/23/2010 8:11:11 PM |
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ejmarley
Lumberton, TX
age: 42
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My Disability makes me Normal. It's the other people who have no compassion or understanding who truly have the disability.
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6/23/2010 8:15:45 PM |
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captainjul1
Columbus, OH
age: 51
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hi ej
couldnt of said it better
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6/23/2010 8:16:41 PM |
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joni1955
Ridley Park, PA
age: 55
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wow joni
your new pic looks good.
Thanks jul! I like it much better. I just got a haircut today and my neighbor took it.
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6/23/2010 9:14:36 PM |
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nothingfake
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 43
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Thanks jul! I like it much better. I just got a haircut today and my neighbor took it.
Joni- it's a total new YOU!!! Way to go! You should be proud of your accomplishments- weight loss, haircut, you are ready to rock and roll. Good for you.
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6/25/2010 2:00:42 AM |
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ms1958
Lobelville, TN
age: 52
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Ok Joni I agree you are a new you and we like her. Be
proud of your accomplishments and nothing feels better
than to lose weight and get a fresh new cut.
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6/25/2010 1:46:47 PM |
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joni1955
Ridley Park, PA
age: 55
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Thanks everyone, your compliments have definitely given my ego a boost.
I am sorry I haven't been here as much lately. I wanted to post more last night but couldn't. I am trying to catch up though.
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