| 1/18/2008 7:02:48 PM |
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aboomer
Little Rock, AR
age: 45
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Hey sassy, have you ever heard of SANKA? I bet it would be a laugh a minute being around you. Hey, Tell you what. You jump on a plane and come down here where it`s warm and I`ll show you the bed in my R.V.  
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| 1/18/2008 7:17:48 PM |
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stillcute
Minneapolis, MN
age: 45
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I just wish the worthy women would get spoiled.
Sorry to say, I am all to aware that in general the cold hearted gold digger, plastic women are the more likely to inspire men to spoil them. I have witnessed this fact my whole life, it is a long story dealing with my twin nieces that are only 4 years younger than me, I was more like a big sister to them and I have watched them break hearts for years and continue to do so. In fact I have had to step in and help to let these men down easy,(more times than I can remember) buy telling them they are deserving of more.
In my final opinion, men who covet these phony, plastic women get what they deserve.
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| 1/18/2008 7:23:12 PM |
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aboomer
Little Rock, AR
age: 45
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So how do we educate the guys to recognize that spoiling the girls can be counter productive??? I believe that the "worthy Women" will be spoiled, whether by design or not. Simply because any guy who has such a mate will be reminded of that fact by his friends, and If he has half a brain he`ll do those things that bring her happiness. 
[Edited 1/18/2008 7:26:40 PM]
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| 1/18/2008 7:26:58 PM |
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stillcute
Minneapolis, MN
age: 45
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Aboomer,
so I guess that leaves the good deserving down to earth women are out of luck, EH?
Oh good you edited, Nice
[Edited 1/18/2008 7:28:04 PM]
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| 1/18/2008 7:32:17 PM |
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koking30038
Lithonia, GA
age: 26
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I don't think it's bad to spoil them but you have to know when to cut it off and on and expect the same from her. Because its all a game these days. Women like a challenge and they don't want a punk ( not calling you one but that's what they think) that they can run over. And the only reasonthey treated you like shit and/or cheated on you is because they though they can get away with it. Trust me my exwife and exgirlfriend tried me the same way and I cut them off with no problem. Sometimes you have to be cold and loving I learned it the hard way.
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| 1/18/2008 8:09:50 PM |
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collide64
Janesville, WI
age: 43
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There's a big diffence between being spoiled and spoiling your woman. Does she expect it or does she appeciate it? We all like a little spoiling, and if you say you don't your lying. JMO
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| 1/18/2008 8:54:47 PM |
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tandygirl
Overgaard, AZ
age: 49
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CJ, you are a smart man and your lady is a lucky one! Deb
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| 1/18/2008 8:58:20 PM |
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tandygirl
Overgaard, AZ
age: 49
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Spoiling goes both ways! You get what you give. Shouldn't be one sided!
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| 1/18/2008 10:38:00 PM |
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sassypants26
Hudson, WI
age: 22
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hmmmmmmm rv bed that is SO tempting. if i didnt already have previous committments for the rest of my entire life, i might have actually considered it!
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| 1/18/2008 10:38:44 PM |
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nala007
Sacramento, CA
age: 47
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 DAMN YOU LOOK GOOD
SPOIL ME PLEASE
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| 1/18/2008 10:46:14 PM |
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lildifferent
Sacramento, CA
age: 46
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Sassypants.
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| 1/19/2008 12:00:00 AM |
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slh
New Bedford, MA
age: 26
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NOOOOOOOOOO! It is not bad to spoil women. Shit, I could use a lil spoiling myself. But for real tho, It's not the spoiling that gets u treated like shit,women need a challenge. Yeah it would be great to get anything I wanted, but I need to kno that my man has some backbone. If I treat a man like shit when all he does is spoil me, then it's pretty sad that he can't defend himself, and that is the biggest turnoff. You can still be a sweetheart while maintaining your dignity and pride.
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| 1/19/2008 12:00:43 AM |
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mindyb
Bloomington, IL
age: 42
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 Window to the soul. any close up's....he better, i spoil my man like crazy, i love it
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| 1/19/2008 4:25:45 AM |
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nurse1950
Ewing, KY
age: 57
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some if not most women are attracted to men that treat them like dogs...
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| 1/19/2008 7:58:46 AM |
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bamabob
Cullman, AL
age: 55
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ndncreek. Man I know exactly where you coming from. I'm finally having closure from my last gf of 5 years. I hurt really bad, excruciatingly. Had a few weeks that I couldn't work and was totally emotional...extreme problems dealing with it. It took time and a lot of studying the process to overcome it. Thank GOD it doesn't happen often.
It was really strange and I would have never thought that we would ever break up. We spoiled each other constantly and she was the proverbial perfect woman for me..but not for just anyone. I think that maybe some of you are right. I didn't know when to turn it off. Not sure what, if anything, I could have done to prevent her leaving me. I only know that she told me that I had done nothing wrong and that it was her, not me. And I totally agree with that... but, maybe if I can called her a stupid b*tch then she would have had a challenge to please me. But then again...maybe it was something I did that made her feel unappreciated. I just know that it was her daughter and love for her grand kids and feeling sorry for them that made her want to be with them all the time...so, she left me for family. I understand that but don't agree with it...and know we could never be the same and have the super wonderful relationship we once had...it's gone and it's destroyed and never will be again. Maybe next relationship I'll start out treating her like a queen then purposely to present a challenge I'll just be an ass hole all the time..if that will keep her around. I've got one ex-gf that I don't want to hang onto or stay with..but don't want to totally lose her friendship...just need that safety back up I guess...maybe that's why she's still hanging around...because I do neglect her. I see through her and know she uses sex to get what she wants. Hmmmm...maybe I'm on to something here.
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