The Adult Industry Has Warped Me

2/10/2011 7:06:16 AM	The Adult Industry Has Warped Me
jemstar322 Augusta, ME 39, joined Jan. 2011	Ok, so I work for a phone sex company (YES, they still exist) and work is just about my only social interaction lately. The problem? Every guy that calls is a freak of some sort no matter how nice he seems.( I mean FREAK like, cannibal, rapist, bed wetter) I'm sure that's to be expected considering my job and I wouldn't ever "bring my work home" however because 100% of the males I interact with day to day are creeps, I start to believe that all men are that way. When I meet a nice guy I start thinking to myself: "I wonder what his nasty secret is?" So now I'm all warped and twisted. Is falling in love impossible for a sweet smut peddler like me? Thanks for taking the time to read this, leave a comment and tell me what you think. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
2/10/2011 9:14:57 AM	The Adult Industry Has Warped Me
yasoundsgood Belfast, ME 39, joined Jan. 2011	I don't thing that falling in love is impossible for you, but it is going to be tough. Perhaps after hearing these guys day after day, I can see how you would be jaded, but you must realize that NOT every man is a psycho, bedwetter, rapist, cereal killer, I mean, come on? And another thing, EVERYONE, i don't care how prudent and white-collar they may seem, has a dirty secret. Everyone has skeletons. It's just a fact of life.
2/10/2011 10:51:25 AM	The Adult Industry Has Warped Me
brokenspiral South Paris, ME 33, joined Feb. 2011	yeah i'm going to agree with the other guy kinda...first everyone has secrets...i say this in direct relation to your proffession and the connection you see between the men there and the men in "real life". being a man myself, who i think most people might consider a "freak" when it comes to the sexual, i'll speak soley for my gender in saying i think we're all pigs. maybe i'm wrong, and maybe i've just got some weird fetishes haha but i've met a few other people who are similar, sexually speaking, and it seems you encounters us freaks all the time haha. now i'm not saying i'm into raping bedwetting and canbalism or anything but i've got my fair share of taboo fetishes. but thats just it, i think humans in general are drawn to the taboo. but maybe thats too broad of a generalization but i will also agree with him again, that yes i'm sure you can find love...it just won't be easy. just like it won't be easy for me. alot of people don't want to admit/see/understand how large of a part sexual compatability plays in a relationship. i'm kink...don't go well with vanilla. which might be why i'm currently heartbroken over a girl i recently left after 3+ years. we had issues and things got out of control, but when it all boils down, i think the sexual incompatability was the catalyst for it all. and any relationship conseler i feel would agree of the importanace there. if you're not sexually compatable it just won't work. so if you don't like the freaks, you've gotta find a "normal" guy, which just may be hard. much like i've got find a kinky girl...which may be just as hard haha but i'm sure we both will someday and on a random note...it's both possum and opossum. they are technically different i beleive. the possum being a north american marsupial with a bare tail...baring very close resemablance to the austrailian opossum which has a furry tail. i could totally be wrong tho, so don't quote me on that haha peace
2/10/2011 4:12:42 PM	The Adult Industry Has Warped Me
3xander3 Eliot, ME 29, joined Jan. 2011	not all guys have that sick of minds. ill be honest i have fantasties, im a guy it happens. however every guy does have one, if he is willing to admit it or not. most guys are intimidated by girls to tell them what theirs is because they are afraid of the girls reaction. As for you working in that industry, i know you have probably heard things i have never even imagined doing, you should discuss that on like a first date with them after discussing what your line of work is. and ask them what theirs is. then you can decide if that person is worth the second date. i hope that helps
2/10/2011 6:10:17 PM	The Adult Industry Has Warped Me
jemstar322 Augusta, ME 39, joined Jan. 2011	You know, after I wrote that I regretted it. I was worried that I was going to attract comments that would be pretty offensive. Instead I got some interesting and attractive men saying how they really feel about the topic. Please understand that I don't think ALL men are that way but ALL of my customers are and they are the only interaction I've had in a while. You guys were fabulous to take on such a subject, thank you!
2/11/2011 1:58:14 AM	The Adult Industry Has Warped Me
loco_mojo69 Portland, ME 38, joined May. 2009	Yeah i think that dudes who are into phone sex hotlines are def a little creepy....dont get me wrong, i would def do the phone sex thing with my woman (if had one at the time) but i wouldnt worry if i were you cuz im sure you will find what it is that you are lookiung for
4/11/2011 5:16:59 PM	The Adult Industry Has Warped Me
omniseed Portland, ME 31, joined Apr. 2011	Phone sex with a girl you know, hot. Phone sex with a stranger, alright I guess. Rather spend the time finding some good pron videos instead, but hey that's me. I think I'm a fairly kink-friendly person, over the last few years I've discovered that kinky sex tends to be a LOT better, it's great. But every kinky thing I've been introduced to has been at the request of a lady I was with at the time, and then I've just discovered that a lot of it is universal. A hand on your woman's throat while you are sexing her up, something I used to consider pretty freaky, but I now realize just about every single girl out there loves. And it's hot. I don't know, do you think maybe you could be a little more specific? I mean there are things like people wearing diapers, the whole baby/daddy/baby/mommy thing that I will never get, or fecal play, but you've ggot to understand a lot of the things you may be hearing about for the first time from your customers might be the things that have really caught on lately, and have become really popular. Things that are no longer considered all that kinky, but are just the very basics of freaky sex, and are considered pretty vanilla by a lot of people.
4/12/2011 3:00:28 PM	The Adult Industry Has Warped Me
dougiem Richmond, KY 37, joined Aug. 2009	Wait, you work for a phone sex business yet you wonder why the men you speak with are freaks? This is a joke, right? Most normal men who aren't socially inept and actually get laid don't call sex hotlines. Of course the people you talk to are going to be weird. Hell, most people call those numbers so they can be freaky anyway. I'm sure that's the allure of it. You can be as freaky as you want and since it's relatively anonymous it doesn't matter.
5/2/2011 2:27:33 AM	The Adult Industry Has Warped Me
jasper2626 Westbrook, ME 27, joined May. 2011	Hmmm we are in the middle of maine, so many of our citizens get no social interaction because we have few places where people can feel truly comfortable socializing with new people. Therefor you get men who spend 99% of their free time on the internet watching the most horrifying porn and lord knows what else. Then the only way they can have an arousing conversation with a woman on their terms is via phone sex service where you receive the culmination of all their knowledge of porn being put into play.

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