The bible says a woman should be submissive to her husband. It's essential for a man to be able to be a man in a relationship or the roles will be reversed

I don't wanna be a servant,Is that what your asking?

I'm thinking that most women like to be dominated from time-to-time.
Sure as hell know they wantto be man-handled.
Doesn't mean they should be disrespected.

I so hope people understand what I mean by that.

I'm thinking that most women like to be dominated from time-to-time.
Sure as hell know they wantto be man-handled.
Doesn't mean they should be disrespected.

I so hope people understand what I mean by that.

sub-missive doesn't mean////allow yourself to be walked on ....and become a man's slave...

that's just not what the Bible meant......it very much is reffering to the man is in charge, and can tell the woman what to do....but the man should treat his helpmate with respect and dignity as Jesus treated all of man...........(do unto other as you'd want done unto you..)

basically like a parent is to a child......they love the child they give into the child sometimes too, just if the parent feels that it wouldn't be wise for the child to do this or that, then they can't........That's what I believe was the original intent

I honestly believe that GOD gave man more wisdom then women, but it's only if you follow his path and ask him for that wisdom.....sadly now adays I met alot of women who are smarter, more wise, and has more common sense then their male counterpart....

how you are veiwing missive is different then what it was meant to mean....


OK I'm done blabbing

I'm thinking that most women like to be dominated from time-to-time.
Sure as hell know they wantto be man-handled.
Doesn't mean they should be disrespected.

I so hope people understand what I mean by that.

The issue is men today are not real men they are impostors they just like to say the word that they are men but they are not. A real man does not have a bunch of kids by different women, a real man has a career not a job and is financial stable, who does not have a prison record and someone who does not hit women or has bad credit. A man is a provider and protector and a man does not lie!!!

I have camouflage handcuffs OP, but that's only to make him feel a little better about being tied up and whipped.

<------ Not submissive.

The Bible says many things (many things sick and twisted), you can choose how to interpret it how you like.

Submissive? Never. No one should ever submit to anything or anyone unless they want to.

If it's your boss, and you don't, prepare to be fired.

So take the bible out of it. How many men HONESTLY want their woman to wear the pants in the family? Now THAT would be interesting to find out.

Great topic, young lady!

I've struggled with this as well, as I've been single most of my life and have learned to be extremely self sufficient. Saying that, I've noticed over the years that men appreciate that I'm not needy, but don't really appreciate me taking what they perceive as "their" role over. And for those that aren't Christians, it doesn't really matter because men are wired to be providers and women are wired to be nurturers. What I've found works is to meet in the middle. I'm not going to pretend to be a helpless ninny, but I recognize and respect that a man will do a MUCH better job at many things that are considered "manly" because while I've learned to do them, they just come naturally to him (that and it takes him half the time to do it especially if it involves physical strength).

As far as submissive, as in him being the head of the household? Again, I think we are stepping on a man's need to be respected when we try to step into those roles and in the long run it erodes his sense of well being. Allowing him to fill that role is natural, and does not equate to the woman being a doormat - I think THAT's where most women have issues in this area.