| 3/23/2008 10:11:48 AM |
What is a good age to get married? |
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strick_business
Decatur, AL
age: 21
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Well my opinon is that you both should atleast be mature enough to relize the reality of marriage (not alone just love). Alot of people marry for the wrong reasons.If you can't get along with eachother no age is good.I do think if you have strongly overlooked it the 20's is the earliest in my opinon.
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| 3/23/2008 10:16:34 AM |
What is a good age to get married? |
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lildifferent
Sacramento, CA
age: 47
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do it when you're dead!
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| 3/23/2008 10:16:42 AM |
What is a good age to get married? |
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southbuster
Haughton, LA
age: 31
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I was one that did'n listen to the "wiser" and married at 20.....we were divorced 2 1/2 years later........we started to "grow up" and realized we were different people then we were in our teens........I guess some make it but I know SOOOOO many who married shortly after high school and I cant think of ONE thats still married today
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| 3/23/2008 10:22:42 AM |
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myr_jas
Quincy, FL
age: 56
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NO NO NO NO NO NO!!!!! You have too much to do as yourself. There's plenty of time for marriage. Please wait!
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| 3/23/2008 10:51:01 AM |
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smilin_bob
Broadway, VA
age: 47
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You have doubts.. pressures of college versus pressures of balancing the relationship.
ONLY get married when BOTH you and him are emotionally ready for it, and prepared to put the work and effort into making it succeed.
While I was in college, I knew a married couple. When the Husband graduated, he said, "well, I don't need you any more." He left her. She was in college, and working to pay bills for the both of them. She was also working on the relationship. She had nothing in the end.
I am NOT saying that will happen to you. In order to succeed, you and him will have to make sure you both communicate, understand each other, and have common long-term goals.
I do wish you the best of luck in what ever decision you make!
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| 3/23/2008 11:08:34 AM |
What is a good age to get married? |
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coslty8
Uniondale, NY
age: 31
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What you wanted at 5 you didn't want at 10
What you wanted at 10 you didn't want at 15
What you wanted at 15 your not going to want at 20
and what you want at 20 your not going to want at 25...
Take your time and grow, mentally, emotionally and financially.
Marriage is not something that you just DO...it's not something that you do because it's expected of you.
Getting married is totally different from actually having a marriage.
Take advantage of your single life by learning how to build a healthy relatioinship with yourself, friends and men.
Belive me, if you are not confidant mature and happy as a single young woman, then you will be the same when you get married.
[Edited 3/23/2008 7:26:55 PM]
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| 3/23/2008 11:14:31 AM |
What is a good age to get married? |
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wishicould
Mesquite, TX
age: 51
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60
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| 3/23/2008 1:54:23 PM |
What is a good age to get married? |
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doll121
Middleport, OH
age: 50
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when you have grown up and have a good job.
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| 3/23/2008 2:00:47 PM |
What is a good age to get married? |
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floaton03
Saint Louis, MO
age: 42
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no one knows some say early some say late who knows how it will work out
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| 3/23/2008 2:24:42 PM |
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firstlight
Strasburg, VA
age: 47
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I'm thinking 65
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| 3/23/2008 2:27:45 PM |
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wkg
Merrifield, VA
age: 54
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late 20's,so if you have kids ,you'll hopefully live long enough to enjoy them,payfor their schooling and see them on their own
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| 3/23/2008 2:47:03 PM |
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steak_king
Whitmore Lake, MI
age: 50
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If you want kids I'd have them young. Takes a lot to keep up with them. If you don't, why get married at all.
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| 3/23/2008 2:50:16 PM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!
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I don't think age is as important as priorities taken care of first. Finish school to as far as you want, make great friends and keep in touch with family, find a good steady job or enter into a great career, be able to exist and persist alone and don't rush into anything.
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| 3/23/2008 3:07:38 PM |
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againnothing
Miles City, MT
age: 31
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When you figure out you love the person when you not heavy into sex anymore.Or sometimes there never a good age so dont worry about getting married.i never will.Dont wanna live by a piece of paper and jewelary.
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| 3/23/2008 3:09:42 PM |
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ipscdude
Jamaica, NY
age: 50
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Sweetie:
If you don't find a compatible mate and you're not mature enough
to contribute to a marriage, it won't matter how old you are.
Immaturity and marriage equals a prescription for DISASTER.
HEED the very good advice offered here.
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