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4/11/2008 6:59:39 PM	chip on her shoulder
ladyinparis Paris, TX age: 41	I just think it is very said that Chip told such a wonderful story about a woman coming into her own. We should all be very proud of that. I love that she was honest with the gentleman and that he respects her enough to understand. After all of that, Elizabeth had to come in and burst her bubble with a judgment. I think everyone is allowed their opinion, but I have seen Elizabeth in several threads being negative to anyone she could be negative to-just because.... Everyone is here to make friends and to share with others. If you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all. Gone has seen Elizabeth do this previously. That is where her remark came from and that is why I agreed with her. I stand by my decision. I do not wish to kick dust in anyones face, I just wish people would be considerate of other's feelings.
4/11/2008 7:00:52 PM	chip on her shoulder
kfab1023 Jacksonville, FL age: 51	Well well well at it again huh Miss Perfect You who know so much and oh by the way just got off the phone with the same man Gone Sailing and Luving you go girls And lady you are what you say a LADY [Edited 4/11/2008 7:02:01 PM]
4/11/2008 7:02:14 PM	chip on her shoulder
jacob56 Tarpon Springs, FL age: 56	Hi terminal I am a new member and as of tonight a past one. I would not ever recommend this site to anyone after seeing the content of these forums and people like the two you stood up to. Such hatred in these peoples lives and so many others on here. I just wanted to say I am glad to see a woman with character and class to reaffirm there are still good women in the world and it is a shame you are on this site with so many other good women that are looking for the last love of your life.
4/11/2008 7:04:32 PM	chip on her shoulder
terminalchaos Tampa, FL age: 47	Kfab I hope your date and meeting with this man turns out to be "the one". Keep that great smile on your face .... it will launch a thousand ships. Best To You!! [Edited 4/11/2008 7:06:02 PM]
4/11/2008 7:06:52 PM	chip on her shoulder
gonesailingbabe Des Moines, IA age: 44	Sorry to see you go Jacob - don't let the door hit you in the ass. Take Elli A and her mom with you please? Wait - maybe you're her Daddy???? You folks should have taught little Miss Twit some manners before you sicked her on the world.
4/11/2008 7:10:28 PM	chip on her shoulder
kfab1023 Jacksonville, FL age: 51	GSB you rock girl
4/11/2008 7:18:32 PM	chip on her shoulder
terminalchaos Tampa, FL age: 47	Jacob56 : Hi terminal I am a new member and as of tonight a past one. I would not ever recommend this site to anyone after seeing the content of these forums and people like the two you stood up to. Such hatred in these peoples lives and so many others on here. I just wanted to say I am glad to see a woman with character and class to reaffirm there are still good women in the world and it is a shame you are on this site with so many other good women that are looking for the last love of your life. From an Educator, Lawyer, on and on..... This is what the "hurting" people get here : GONE SAILING Quote: Sorry to see you go Jacob - don't let the door hit you in the ass. Take Elli A and her mom with you please? Wait - maybe you're her Daddy???? You folks should have taught little Miss Twit some manners before you sicked her on the world. I cannot stand hatred. We all battle with the feeling...but, it's usually "HURT" not "hate". We HAVE to know the difference. People's words can "hurt" me but I don't have to "hate" them for their words or opinions. We all do the thing called "LIFE", we all DO wear a mask in certain environments, we have opinions, disappointments, hardships, and "sometimes" we have to "see" when a person is hurting on this medium and "do the right thing"..not bash but give help. This particular post was a woman who, bare naked, gave her soul on where she was in life. She deserved true support, not bullshit. And again, I admire her courage and bravery and I wish more were like her.... [Edited 4/11/2008 7:23:41 PM]
4/11/2008 7:20:26 PM	chip on her shoulder
kgearly1021 Valdosta, GA age: 48	Just a few words from ole Liz herself here-- In the Anybody actually looking thread: vilobo, women are just mimicking the men, that’s all they are doing. There is the old saying what goes around comes around. I will be very candid, I have never been in one place for a short period of time where I have encountered more insecure, immature, wimpy, cry baby men. It makes we want to let my stomach contents loose. good for you lite, but I have come to the conclusion, it is not going to happen on a dating site. Well not for me. yummy it is persuing a relationship and getting to know them is the first step---duh, but again, I give 100% from the start, if they cannot they are gone, it is that simple. I am not desperate here. I can remain single very easily. Oh I was just reading some of my email. Talk about stupid people and jerks. No culture, no class. that may be yummy, but I am not here to get to know people I have no interest in. I have more friends than I can stay up with. I dont need friends here. When I am in the forum, I am just taking breaks as I complete some of my case work. sort of clears my mind for a moment...some of the topics are sort of infantile ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- These are from the I had a date finally thread: I will add this, many claim how they met someone here and how great they are. Each of these sites boasts there success rate as do indiviudals, What you never here, " how long did it last". If it did, beautiful, yet I can say with little doubt, most will not last a year. I went to another site briefly which was really, well..... After reading dozens of profiles, over 72% were those were those who returned after saying how great the person was they met. Most did not last 6 months. It was very interesting. So, regardless of how many claim DH is so great, or any other site for that matter, how many have TRULY met a keeper. so how many people you meet here, how much you spend in a forum, group chat, or any other area. The idea is to get off the site, not stay on it. I can tell you this, if I did find someone, I sure would not be wasting my time here. I would be giving to the man in my life. Why would I want to waste time on a dating site after finding someone. I truly beleive all those who claim they did and are still here, never really found anyone. mrsmiles, in most instances in life, I will trust someone. On a dating site, there is so much deception. I will give you an example. I read many profiles here. I also make a copy of them. Since I have been on here, I have received 74 emails to date. of the 74, 59 changed their profiles before contacting me to add tibits to line up with mine. What would you call that? I call it deception. If one will stoop that low to start out, believe me, they will continue to do it. As you know, I am a fairly savy person. The testing is merley to see how one will react to a given situaiton. It is nothing more then simple chat and probing. Men do the same thing in their way, they just wont admit it. I see through the probing quesitons or the subtle fishing techniques used. Any one can do it if they just pay attention. One only needs a degree in street smarts. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ There are many more along the same lines, and SHE HAS THE NERVE TO ASK SOMEONE WHY THEY ARE ON THIS SITE. Give me strength. She also really needs to work on her spelling.
4/11/2008 7:38:31 PM	chip on her shoulder
terminalchaos Tampa, FL age: 47	kgearly? All of your posts I have read to this date ( I'm new mind you ) shows and reeks of intelligence. Again, do the math, I am not the mother of Elizabeth, never met the young lady....but DID see how she would be attacked BRUTALLY by the "Regulars" on DH. I believe she is trying to tell women to "think" I believe she is trying to tell men to "think" While her words may not be as soft as we would like ... they are her words, right? and yes, Gone Sailing, if YOU educate children.....I am fear of our tomorrows. I have read your posts ....would you be uncomfortable with the parents reading them? I think so. B.O.E. in Des Moines would NOT be pleased, Stephanie. [Edited 4/11/2008 7:52:18 PM]
4/11/2008 7:51:52 PM	chip on her shoulder
kgearly1021 Valdosta, GA age: 48	Terminal-I never suggested you were her Mother-I was responding to Liz's first post in this thread, here is an excerpt- My only question, why do people come to dating sites when they KNOW they are not ready. Does one not know the hurt they can cause another. I do not think it is fair to the person on the receiving end who extends themselves to another openly only to be shut down because the other is NOT READY. I do believe we all need to use some good judgement before steppping out in this world regardless of what it may be. I was trying to point out that even though it might not be for the same reasons she might not be ready to be on a dating site, or at the very least offer up advice to anyone else.
4/11/2008 8:00:47 PM	chip on her shoulder
terminalchaos Tampa, FL age: 47	kgearly, Elizabeth was doing the same... we are fallible. Sometimes in the grasps of being alone, we WANT to believe, in a heartbeat that we have found SOMEONE to fill a void. We can jump the gun, only to repeat our mistakes. The OP was wise to see her demise. Damn, she made me smile.
4/11/2008 8:03:28 PM	chip on her shoulder
kgearly1021 Valdosta, GA age: 48	The original post made me smile as well, and I am proud of any one who can stand up for what they believe in. I also think folks should 'practice what they preach' and should as my Grandmother would say, "Sweep up around your own back door before you try sweeping up around someone else's."
4/11/2008 8:07:03 PM	chip on her shoulder
luvinlifetou Biddeford, ME age: 41	Terminal...way to come into a new site, stick up for someone who has harassed and belittled the men here...alienated the regulars, and started more baloney than I have seen in quite some time. That is going to get you into a very nice spot of coming on like a nice person...or not. YOU have no idea what you are talking about...you are making judgements on a few posts...and obviously...you did not do as I suggested and look back at the posts made by our nasty little Betty. Or maybe you were recruited by her to stick up for her? Huh.... I do believe, that is the reason, that leads people to believe that you are here for one reason only...to stick up for little betty...hence the accusations of mommy and daddy...sorry, cant blame them for that. So, put her on your friends list...Im sure you will find others who wish to share in the nastiness and malcontent you have both shown here. To bad you find Gonesailings ability to stand up for DH and its members not to your taste. Personally...Im glad she had the nerve to say something. This abusive behavior does not go unnoted...and, as far as your accusations against gone? Ummm....Hello...POT??? This is the Kettle calling....... We have enough trolls here that we dont need the negativity or nastiness and namecalling that Betty has made her trademark, and you are going to barge in here and stick up for her? Good for you. Hope this gets you far. Doubt it. See Ya. Luvin At least the original Poster was honest about her feelings, and for that I respect HER. Kfab, Kgearly....Hi ladies... [Edited 4/11/2008 8:08:59 PM]
4/11/2008 8:23:03 PM	chip on her shoulder
terminalchaos Tampa, FL age: 47	LUVIN ---- I refuse to be a person that "sways" with the public "forum" Walk a single 1/2 miles in MY shoes. I have book material on sessions with adolescences and single parents. And I expect DHU "Sitkarains" to battle ... I left High School Years ago... BTW I've read your posts a hard working "single" mother. sacrificed to make a better life for your children. and in the event that no man has told you... YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL YOU... don't need to shed more than your smile in your pics. What man would NOT want you in your life? But as a Mother? It's NOT just about you, right? Is it so damned bad to set your standards high for YOU and the one's YOU brought here ( children ) .....my answer is NO Be diligent, protect what you now have . It's YOUR history... [Edited 4/11/2008 9:01:37 PM]
4/11/2008 8:25:13 PM	chip on her shoulder
tfortexas Big Sandy, TX age: 56	Is it fight time Ladys ?

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