| 12/30/2006 9:17:53 AM |
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doctorofluv
Buffalo, NY
age: 36
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anything is possible their some couple in the world that did
make it,for example my friend dad was nineteen when he meet he's wife
of thirty and they are still married
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| 12/30/2006 10:06:59 AM |
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unslightlynorml
Seaside, OR
age: 42
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Around 10 yrs seems to be ok in mmost cases...as long as both parties are "age-appropriate" if you know what I mean. My husband was 10 yrs younger and our marriage was a total circus...wonder who the ringleader and clown positions were held by? LOL But I dated a very cool man for around 3-4 yrs who was 9 yrs younger and he was wonderful....so, it just depends upon the ppl, the circumstances, the weather...whatever. Did I say this before? Can't remember - some posts look old and familiar but I am too lazy to go back and read old entries to find out. he he he
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| 12/30/2006 2:06:24 PM |
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greeneyelover
San Rafael, NM
age: 24
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LETS Find OUT
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| 12/31/2006 11:59:46 AM |
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unsatisfiedlife
Centereach, NY
age: 48
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absolutly
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| 1/1/2007 5:28:52 AM |
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spiceyone
Laguna Niguel, CA
age: 66
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Being a nurse yourself let it be said if this were to happen the chemistry would have to be real good. I myself a 66 yr old man will tell you it is a relationship undoubtably stareted by a sexual attraction.
When i was just 16 I had such a relationship that went to a love affair for me. It started with just a close freind that worked with me. I liked here for her honesty and her openess of her problems with me when we talked. It went from there to a sexual thing and I fell in love with her (16 love). I had sex with her a lot and it turned into a thing of attraction to her with me to the extent of her wanting to look younger so we could go out and not be so much looked at by people as jerks. It eventually stopped as she had real mental problems with her security with a daughter and her being on limited income so I went into service and got away from her never to know if it could of worked out to a marriage. She was 34 and I was 16 and she taught me how to make a woman happy from the get go.
Every once in awhile I think of her and wonder what happened to her life and her daughter who I adored at the time. It gave me feeling of masculinity I think to think I could of been good with her in a deeper relationship.
Hope this helps you and maybe it fits for you. Now she would of been arrested for child endangerment for our relationship times have moved on.
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| 1/1/2007 5:35:54 AM |
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spiceyone
Laguna Niguel, CA
age: 66
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I thoroughly agree with you here. The men need to feel good in a relationship to make it work. If sex is good and you like this woman and the age is not a problme in your head stay with her for life as you say and I agree again life is to short to be picky when a woman enters your life and you love her.
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| 1/1/2007 5:45:14 AM |
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spiceyone
Laguna Niguel, CA
age: 66
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Do yourself a favor and drop the issue now. The work relationship takes on different meanings for us when there at work. You get a sense of security with your talk and of your involvement and a lot of false readings from important things, like when you get older and this person is a kid still and insecure. This is usually the start of a bad relationship and I do know what I am talking about at 66 yrs of age. Good luck but do as I say dear one.
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| 1/1/2007 10:23:05 PM |
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taylor88
Auburn, CA
age: 20
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i dont want to sound too feminine, but this post sounds a lot like "the notebook"....the movie anyway. I myself am a younger male, 18 actually...and i honestly dont find any reason it couldn't work out...provided the two arent in it for a certain somethin i.e (sex,money...) so on and so forth...like any relationship, if it works great if your using the person then your a shallow superficial piece of $#$^...shallow people should learn...thank the dahli for karma...have fun everybody, tell me what you think
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| 1/3/2007 9:37:15 PM |
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hamandbeans
Reading, MI
age: 42
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I feel that it should be avoided. My x ran off with a guy half my age. And now
her kids dont talk to her at all. They are my step kids but spend time with me
while staying away from her.
I tell them that she is there mother and that they should work it out. But her
boy friend is getting her into drugs and drinking. So I think it is a bad thing to do.
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| 1/4/2007 6:07:23 AM |
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skydaddy
Covington, LA
age: 72
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Hey Taylor, you sound wise beyond your years. I know a lot of older men/younger women(my parents included), but only a couple of yonger men/older women. They all seem to be working. Also when we talk about age difference we usually are talking chronological age. Some people age a heck of a lot faster than others. Some people I know that are in their 50's are older than some that are 15 or 20 years older in actual years.
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| 1/4/2007 7:37:49 AM |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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I believe they have to connect on an emotional level and of the same generation to work. An 18 yo and a 40+ would never work unless they are both in it for just the sex. There is nothing in common. An 18 yo cant remember Elvis, The Beach Boys, The assination of John Kennedy and so on.
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| 1/4/2007 9:30:35 PM |
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hamandbeans
Reading, MI
age: 42
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I think your right on gawd.
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| 1/4/2007 9:43:37 PM |
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oceandreamz
Hankinson, ND
age: 39
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Elvis who????
Beach Bunnies where???
Glad I am only 29 LOL
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| 1/6/2007 11:26:56 AM |
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tami5507
Summersville, WV
age: 43 online now!
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enjoy oceandreamz, cause before you know it when you hid thirty it becomes a blurr.lol
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| 1/7/2007 12:36:53 PM |
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tigger35670
Somerville, AL
age: 50
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I really believe there can be real love between a younger man and an older woman. I was in a 12 year marriage with one or what they say is common law marriage. We were not just lovers but best friends too. We did everything together and could have just as much fun by ourselves as we could being around other people. It did end but I truely believe the love was for real.
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