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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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| 3/10/2016 6:06:07 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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Cheating on the part of my then wife. It sucks when she was getting laid more than I was.
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| 3/10/2016 8:11:56 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I didn't realize jealousy was grounds for a divorce. j/s
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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I didn't realize jealousy was grounds for a divorce. j/s
While jealousy might not be, infidelity sure is.
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| 3/10/2016 12:30:15 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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While jealousy might not be, infidelity sure is.
You broke your wedding vows?
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| 3/11/2016 2:46:32 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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You broke your wedding vows?
I guess you can not read and comprehend a simple statement "She was getting more sex than me."
That means she was cheating, not me.
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| 3/19/2016 8:25:30 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I can comprehend that she thought of intercourse as sex and you thought otherwise but you were both getting the same amount of whatever it was being called. 
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| 3/20/2016 12:40:34 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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Cheating on the part of my then wife. It sucks when she was getting laid more than I was.
Seems clear to me.
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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I can comprehend that she thought of intercourse as sex and you thought otherwise but you were both getting the same amount of whatever it was being called.
Explain this please. She was the one that cut me off from sex, yet it was O.K. for her to go sleep with others, while I had to remain faithful.
Just like a woman, deny her husband while getting what she wants else where.
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| 3/24/2016 6:51:15 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I didn't...
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| 3/25/2016 8:46:01 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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I didn't...
You already said this.
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| 3/29/2016 9:08:01 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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Posting just to post
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| 3/29/2016 10:06:38 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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| 3/30/2016 8:19:50 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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Posting just to post
Some people do.
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| 4/20/2016 10:02:20 AM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
49, joined Jan. 2012
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found out he had been talking to an old girlfriend from high school on Facebook back in 2009 while I was pregnant with our last child. We split up six months after that child was born and divorced a year later. I'm married to my soulmate now. So it's all good! 
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| 4/20/2016 10:37:00 AM |
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stargazzer
Creighton, NE
68, joined Feb. 2007
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found out he had been talking to an old girlfriend from high school on Facebook back in 2009 while I was pregnant with our last child. We split up six months after that child was born and divorced a year later. I'm married to my soulmate now. So it's all good!
What a "B*TCH" she cut's him off for talking  
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| 4/21/2016 12:18:17 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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found out he had been talking to an old girlfriend from high school on Facebook back in 2009 while I was pregnant with our last child. We split up six months after that child was born and divorced a year later. I'm married to my soulmate now. So it's all good!
Not trying to start a fight. Were you openly and honestly communicating with each other?
My 2nd. wife stopped talking to me, and eventually it lead to our divorce. I am trying to understand this situation, as it seems to be the opposite of what happened to me.
Question #2, if you are married, why are you on a dating site, and does he know?
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| 4/24/2016 10:01:46 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I am not married: no, he doesn't know I am on a dating site. He died.
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| 4/25/2016 10:43:45 AM |
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stargazzer
Creighton, NE
68, joined Feb. 2007
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Got a class reunion coming up, Thank god I have no wife  
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| 5/10/2016 5:50:23 PM |
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evandiger
Aura
Finland
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papa_jack
you werent doing your job thats why
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| 6/21/2016 12:54:27 PM |
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Carla8312016
Salinas, CA
27, joined Apr. 2016
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Not divorced but separated because our families
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| 6/22/2016 8:38:22 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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Not divorced but separated because our families
After reading your responses, I hope things work out. However, being on a dating site won't help. Especially if he finds out. I would take it as you have given up, and are looking to replace me. This would definitely end up with me going to a lawyer. I've been married/divorced twice. The last one has 2 children involved, none with the first. Neither situation was good. Be careful what you do, if you want to fix it.
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| 6/23/2016 12:39:08 AM |
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Carla8312016
Salinas, CA
27, joined Apr. 2016
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After reading your responses, I hope things work out. However, being on a dating site won't help. Especially if he finds out. I would take it as you have given up, and are looking to replace me. This would definitely end up with me going to a lawyer. I've been married/divorced twice. The last one has 2 children involved, none with the first. Neither situation was good. Be careful what you do, if you want to fix it.
Thank you for your advice...I been trying so hard but he tells me that he doesn't want me no more but I still want us but he the still saying no to me so I don't know what do any more
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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A dietitian was addressing a large audience in Chicago:
"The material we put into our stomachs is enough to have killed most of us sitting here, years ago.
Red meat is awful.
Soft drinks erode your stomach lining.
Chinese food is loaded with MSG.
Vegetables can be disastrous to some.
And none of us realize the long term harm caused by the germs in our drinking water.
But there is one thing that is the most dangerous of all and we all have eaten or will eat it.
Can anyone here tell me what food it is that causes the most grief and suffering for years after eating it?"
A 75 year old man in the front row stood up and said, "Wedding cake."
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| 6/24/2016 8:47:46 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
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Thank you for your advice...I been trying so hard but he tells me that he doesn't want me no more but I still want us but he the still saying no to me so I don't know what do any more
Maybe try a mediator?
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| 6/26/2016 11:39:29 PM |
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Carla8312016
Salinas, CA
27, joined Apr. 2016
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Maybe try a mediator?
I'm just going to stop talking to him and see how I do by myself and start forgetting about him 
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| 7/4/2016 9:23:29 PM |
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latinnyc_again
New York, NY
42, joined Aug. 2014
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Life.
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| 7/6/2016 9:22:10 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Some marriages don't end in divorce.
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| 7/13/2016 3:17:17 PM |
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lkn4freak
Blanco, OK
51, joined May. 2016
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I guess I just got tired of sleeping alone. It is a Terrible thing when you love someone and tell them that you love them and you show them everyday and all you get in return is nothing
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| 7/16/2016 5:58:11 PM |
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winkwink2u
Alpharetta, GA
52, joined Jun. 2015
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I guess I just got tired of sleeping alone. It is a Terrible thing when you love someone and tell them that you love them and you show them everyday and all you get in return is nothing
dude, I totally get this.. I became bitter I think.. I kinda created my own demise.. It's completely the best thing I ever did for myself though.
At 22 I picked a great guy. 24 years later we argued about everything, we ended in different bedrooms and we faked our whole family happiness to friends and family.
I hope he finds someone that truly loves him. He's a real good guy.. Just not the guy for me..
I really might be the b*tch he claimed me to be. . But I don't personally think so..I hope not.
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kaferj001
Russellville, TN
45, joined Jun. 2016
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I guess I'm just selfish. I wanted the bills paid, he wanted drugs. 
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| 11/3/2016 5:44:20 PM |
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redtruck33
Eupora, MS
37, joined Sep. 2012
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My ex was having an affair with my brother in law. 
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| 11/3/2016 6:27:04 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I'm not divorced.
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| 11/10/2016 2:24:19 PM |
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hersh1flame
Norristown, PA
40, joined Jun. 2012
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She told me she didn't love me anymore.
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| 11/22/2016 8:12:48 AM |
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tame_tiger
Radford, VA
70, joined Apr. 2011
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The flame went out !!!
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| 11/24/2016 10:16:38 AM |
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happyladyme
Stephens City, VA
74, joined May. 2014
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The flame went out !!!
So is this why you are afraid of getting serious with anyone now?
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| 11/28/2016 11:32:13 AM |
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tame_tiger
Radford, VA
70, joined Apr. 2011
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So is this why you are afraid of getting serious with anyone now?
Sub consciously maybe but consciously I enjoy being a single man again .
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| 11/29/2016 5:32:01 PM |
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FancyFox101
Fort Worth, TX
35, joined Nov. 2016
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the fighting and drama, argueing so i kick his butt out to the curb
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| 11/29/2016 7:28:01 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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the fighting and drama, argueing so i kick his butt out to the curb
Syntax & Spelling -- even for a "nic" you see yourself out as another fake profile.
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| 12/2/2016 3:54:24 PM |
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happyladyme
Stephens City, VA
74, joined May. 2014
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His drinking
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| 12/2/2016 4:35:26 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I didnt
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withstyle2013
Dallas, TX
66, joined Jun. 2013
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She try to cash a check in my name for $1200.00 after 37 years of marriage. Had to let her go .when i think what she has done in past when i did trust her %100 and what will she do tomorrow... was too much to even make eye contact.
So soon she be EX. small price to pay when you cross your man of 36+years that was not her first Rodeo .::brick wall::
Was I Wrong to call for Divorce?.. what would you do if that was you?
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happyladyme
Stephens City, VA
74, joined May. 2014
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Sub consciously maybe but consciously I enjoy being a single man again .
So I notice by your flirting posts at DH...
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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just wondering why anybody divorced what reason did you divorce
Both divorces were for them CHEATING on me. That is something I will not abide in a relationship.
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Both divorces were for them CHEATING on me. That is something I will not abide in a relationship.
 Wow!
Haven't you posted previously, Cavie, that they (she) divorced you? What grounds did she state as her grounds for divorce from you?
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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Wow!
Haven't you posted previously, Cavie, that they (she) divorced you? What grounds did she state as her grounds for divorce from you?
The first ex, I divorced because she cheated.
The second ex, she divorced me so she could be with her "Girlfriend" and take everything I owned.
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