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11/30/2013 7:13:18 PM Why men like to be players?  

browneye71
Park Hills, MO
45, joined Sep. 2013


99.9% of men on here liers and play with women hearts. Just be honest and say you want to date many women. Instead of lieing and doing it; because sooner or later you will get caught.




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11/30/2013 11:56:22 PM Why men like to be players?  

sharper170
Forest Park, GA
48, joined Jul. 2013


I do say it. But sometimes women just hear what they want.

12/1/2013 12:14:43 PM Why men like to be players?  

bier95
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,740)
Clara City, MN
66, joined May. 2011


Quote from browneye71:
99.9% of men on here liers and play with women hearts. Just be honest and say you want to date many women. Instead of lieing and doing it; because sooner or later you will get caught.


I think you went over board here. That would be like me saying the same about all women on this site. I would say it's about 40% of both genders.

12/1/2013 3:51:39 PM Why men like to be players?  

newlady2
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (42,595)
Goldsboro, NC
78, joined Apr. 2008


Why say anything different on here than r/t.........??? Makes no sense.

12/16/2013 7:53:18 PM Why men like to be players?  

browneye71
Park Hills, MO
45, joined Sep. 2013


Why can't they tell the truth?

12/16/2013 8:12:16 PM Why men like to be players?  

jrbogie1949
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,851)
Ventura, CA
68, joined Mar. 2009


Quote from browneye71:
99.9% of men on here liers and play with women hearts. Just be honest and say you want to date many women. Instead of lieing and doing it; because sooner or later you will get caught.


just can't get laid, huh?

12/18/2013 11:30:33 PM Why men like to be players?  
d_voted
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,160)
Winnipeg, MB
64, joined Sep. 2008


Quote from browneye71:
99.9% of men on here liers and play with women hearts. Just be honest and say you want to date many women. Instead of lieing and doing it; because sooner or later you will get caught.


Dear Lady,

There are 'players' both here in cyberspace and in the world at large. What it amounts to is a lack of integrity. They want to gave the physical excitement that sex provides without either the emotional connection. They are afraid of rejection or abandonment and betrayal. Some have been hurt in the past and their reaction is very much like yours.

I can see it in the Man's Land where the depersonalization of the women either attends to their physical properties or adversely a generalization that the women are all gold diggers. I doubt if most of these men ever thought this about women (at least the second statement) while they were in high school.

Something has injured them and we all know that offense is the best form of defence. Tragically they become that which they most despise about the woman who hurt them.

That makes for a merry-go-round of deceit, treachery and manipulation. They will NEVER be satisfied because they have not overcome their own miscalculations.

I am in the position of being somewhat unique as I don't expect to find anyone here. I don't think it is POSSIBLE for me to have a meaningful and mutually beneficial relationship so my purpose here is to converse and share ideas (and ideals) with whoever is willing to be sincere and forthright.

Honesty is the most precious quality I look for whether it is in a friendship, a business relationship or even casual friends. I would rather have an honest casual friendship that is honest than a hundred that I have to second guess. I admire honesty and consider it a fundamental foundation stone of integrity. Another foundation stone is the ability to introspect and ruthlessly evaluate one's own motives and actions and the third that ties the two previous ones together and is active and visible is the ability to forgive from the heart. That doesn't mean to step back into the ring with someone who has abused you but it does mean that you don't hold grudges.

I am sorry for whatever has brought you to such a conclusion about men and if you look for it you will surely see it abundantly because I can see it also. I confess that I have peeked into women's world and have seen lots of ranting and male bashing there also. Tragically all it means to me is that we have an abundance of wounded people who need comfort, stability, and tenderness.

If a woman feels she needs to 'put out' to get or keep a man's interest then he probably isn't worth her being interested in him. Similarly if a man thinks he has to compete with other men financially or with newer cars, bigger houses etc. then she isn't ever going to be satisfied - like drinking salt water.

Tragically when we think of the good old days, prior to the sixties and the advent of the pill, both parties dated for extended periods of time and spent time together doing things other than the electronic gaming but actually talked. They walked with each other and most boys didn't have cars until they got a job and saved up for it. I am pining now for those simpler days. I digress - sorry.

Anyways there are sincere people and reading their many posts will provide an indication of what it is they are about. Those of us who consider ourselves authentic will likely have pretty consistent postings no matter what forum we are in and whoever it is we converse with. I am a lunatic - read my posts, but a sincere and intelligent one who doesn't like self-serving or malicious people.

Be patient and cautious but be prudent and don't be dazzled by the glitter or baffled by the BS. You will find authentic guys in your age category. Don't sell yourself short by thinking that they can trick you. Dishonesty will always show itself through inconsistency but you need to be patient and prudent.

D

12/23/2013 8:44:39 PM Why men like to be players?  
madein1983
Miami, FL
33, joined Oct. 2013


Simple:

1. Women reject/hurt/lie and hide things from us and we do the same in return
2. We don't choose to be players we just become players after women hurt us often
3. If we can't get it we go out and find it

Not all men are the same but the same goes for women they want the "perfect" man in a un-perfect world and they forget that they also make and have their flaws

12/29/2013 8:15:38 AM Why men like to be players?  

miss_aquamarine
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
57, joined Dec. 2013


some men are home..ing pidgeons……just gotta fly with them to show them the way to your home…your heart!

12/29/2013 10:51:04 AM Why men like to be players?  

simple_man2013
Over 2,000 Posts (2,484)
Dothan, AL
59, joined Aug. 2013


Quote from browneye71:
99.9% of Women on here liers and play with men's hearts. Just be honest and say you want to date many men. Instead of lieing and doing it; because sooner or later you will get caught.


12/29/2013 2:09:17 PM Why men like to be players?  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (252,261)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


What is the percentage of female players on here, OP?

12/29/2013 2:10:15 PM Why men like to be players?  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (252,261)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


Men like to be players when they can find a woman of equal talent who knows how to play chess.

12/29/2013 8:21:17 PM Why men like to be players?  
pocahontas026
Irving, TX
30, joined Dec. 2012


Not all men are players. When a guy grows up they can become quite enjoyable to be around and to have a promising relationship and friendship with. Do not put them all in a box. Everyone is different for a reason. Perhaps the guys you have stumbled upon were meant strictly to show you trial and error but God made women and men without error. Opposites do attract. Once the connection is formed that is when the magic begins.

12/29/2013 10:02:08 PM Why men like to be players?  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (252,261)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


Quote from pocahontas026:
Not all men are players. When a guy grows up they can become quite enjoyable to be around and to have a promising relationship and friendship with. Do not put them all in a box. Everyone is different for a reason. Perhaps the guys you have stumbled upon were meant strictly to show you trial and error but God made women and men without error. Opposites do attract. Once the connection is formed that is when the magic begins.



...and does that also apply to guys who like to play cowboys and Indians on dating sites, Poca???

12/30/2013 5:41:14 AM Why men like to be players?  
pocahontas026
Irving, TX
30, joined Dec. 2012


Quote from cupocheer:
...and does that also apply to guys who like to play cowboys and Indians on dating sites, Poca???



I don't know about cowboys and Indians but doctor and nurse is fun!

12/30/2013 6:50:53 AM Why men like to be players?  
fromarlington
Arlington, TX
30, joined Apr. 2010


Straight up we play just to see if we got it and to keep our opinions open. Girls can simply pick and choose who they want to spend time with. Guys...we have to try and deal with turn downs so we keep up! In case we want something different we can easily transition without having to get back out there and hunt?

That and having variety appeals to us

12/30/2013 9:39:42 AM Why men like to be players?  

cease1000
Dallas, TX
33, joined May. 2012


Men are trained to be players by society also more than half of the time by women. The woman posting dis topic may be a good one, but wut u need to understand is theres alot of shady shiesty no good user women out, dat wheather they know it or not promote the player movement.Players dnt start out wanna do women wrong we start out like everybody else seeking luv, we're trained by no good hoes to protect our feelings and use her cause she gone use u, but once we get a taste of thorough fully not half assing but fully true woman we get to evolve and become the man for dat woman......not saying some of them player tendencies want linger but hey wut can u do

12/31/2013 2:54:16 PM Why men like to be players?  
luckynite1
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,504)
Morrison, CO
33, joined Sep. 2013


maybe 99.9% of the men you meet OP

1/26/2014 6:58:03 PM Why men like to be players?  

dsaep
Oakland, CA
31, joined Nov. 2013


Quote from browneye71:
99.9% of men on here liers and play with women hearts. Just be honest and say you want to date many women. Instead of lieing and doing it; because sooner or later you will get caught.


As someone with a science background, please provide source, otherwise what you stated is baseless with no credibility. I personally do not know the actual statistics for your statement because I do not care for it.

If the numbers you stated is correct then I am part of the 0.01%. Anecdotal assumptions are not fact.

1/28/2014 7:17:35 PM Why men like to be players?  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (252,261)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


a personal, egotistical, chest thumping, competitive nature to validate their masculinity

2/12/2014 2:24:09 PM Why men like to be players?  

themannam
Over 1,000 Posts (1,527)
Mount Berry, GA
28, joined Sep. 2013


You can't win the game if you never play.....

2/12/2014 2:31:00 PM Why men like to be players?  

themannam
Over 1,000 Posts (1,527)
Mount Berry, GA
28, joined Sep. 2013


Quote from mr_red_twizzler:
It's actually due to a circular irony that develops through an initial logic:

Women assume all men are players.

Men continuously fail their attempts at each individual women.

Men adapt by talking to as many women as possible to increase likely hood of finding mate.

Women finds out and re-confirms that men are players.



exactly to what he just said and I have also noticed there is some kind of magic like a woman can smell it on you when you have other women in your life and they are kind of drawn to you... but when you drop those other women to try to focus on that one individual poof she is gone like a disappearing act and she no longer has interest and then the dryness comes because now you are all alone in a desert with no water... people neglect the fact that we are animals and there is a mating process happening during the courting process women like value you have to show some kind of value even if it is not real

2/12/2014 7:39:29 PM Why men like to be players?  
snowbunnybaby
Elberton, GA
52, joined Nov. 2010


I know one person on here tht lies and can't b faithful if his life depended on it

3/16/2014 10:41:39 PM Why men like to be players?  
dorals
Murray, KY
42, joined Oct. 2012


So they can say that hey I've got these many woman in my life that's why the men want to be players I've known two many guys where i live and where my kids live at to and u keep on telling them to at least find one women to stick with they don't want to listen to us women at all

3/21/2014 3:15:51 AM Why men like to be players?  
d_voted
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,160)
Winnipeg, MB
64, joined Sep. 2008


Quote from dorals:
So they can say that hey I've got these many woman in my life that's why the men want to be players I've known two many guys where i live and where my kids live at to and u keep on telling them to at least find one women to stick with they don't want to listen to us women at all


The guys you describe don't listen to their own inner selves either. They are afraid of rejection, abandonment and betrayal so they keep a secondary exit in place to protect themselves from being hurt.

Real men don't have any respect for players of either sex. We are just as afraid of the same things but don't let these fears control us. We make decisions based on what we see in the other, just as women should.

Too many are desperate and afraid that life will pass them by if they don't 'hook-up' right away. They suspect the other party will lose interest.

It takes time to trust someone and to get to know their character well enough to allow them in close.

It also matters where you go fishing. A septic tank will not yield a good catch.

D

4/6/2014 11:31:34 AM Why men like to be players?  

ladybugruth58
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,546)
Patton, PA
58, joined Feb. 2014


Players get what they want cause they are charming. They have never felt rejection because they leave before they get hurt. Self defense mechanism. They are good at what they do.

4/6/2014 10:28:23 PM Why men like to be players?  
vastud25
Over 2,000 Posts (2,085)
Roanoke, VA
29, joined Feb. 2014


Because they are a piece of shit and losers

4/7/2014 9:50:09 AM Why men like to be players?  

bier95
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,740)
Clara City, MN
66, joined May. 2011


Women are players too. If a women dates 2 men she is keeping her options open. If a man dates 2 women he is a dirt bag player.

So the logic of this is flawed in the way a women thinks.



[Edited 4/7/2014 9:52:09 AM ]

4/10/2014 2:15:01 PM Why men like to be players?  
justababygirl
Houston, TX
53, joined Mar. 2014


I don't believe that all guys are players!
I'm just a liar magnet...dunno why they can't just tell ya ...no they hide and you try to find and then your too much?? When all you want is to be respected enough as at least a bud to be told. Then they are hateful like you've done something wrong by saying hello. You were attracted to the person not just for sex but the things you admire in another..then why not be chill and a friendbabygirl

4/10/2014 2:17:58 PM Why men like to be players?  
justababygirl
Houston, TX
53, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from justababygirl:
I don't believe that all guys are players!
I'm just a liar magnet...dunno why they can't just tell ya ...no they hide and you try to find and then your too much?? When all you want is to be respected enough as at least a bud to be told. Then they are hateful like you've done something wrong by saying hello. You were attracted to the person not just for sex but the things you admire in another..then why not be chill and a friendbabygirl


4/13/2014 1:44:33 PM Why men like to be players?  
bigd44906
Mansfield, OH
53, joined Oct. 2010


What I want to know is WHY is this idiotic question asked everywhere in the forums especially in places that have nothing to do with dating? It's about as lame as the token guy asking, "Why do women cheat on men?" also asked all over the forums.

4/22/2014 3:10:11 PM Why men like to be players?  
jess_is_back
Over 2,000 Posts (3,434)
Jefferson City, MO
30, joined Mar. 2013


Women play games too, its just a different game..

Not all men are like that.. If that's what you're attracting then you need to look at yourself. You're the common denominator



[Edited 4/22/2014 3:11:39 PM ]

4/23/2014 12:11:28 AM Why men like to be players?  
good_dr
Spokane, WA
53, joined Dec. 2011


Quote from bigd44906:
What I want to know is WHY is this idiotic question asked everywhere in the forums especially in places that have nothing to do with dating? It's about as lame as the token guy asking, "Why do women cheat on men?" also asked all over the forums.


I hear you on that one. I got tired of basically the same question re hashed. Gee Anyone else into RF / Radio? I'll do some in the other forums, but for this place, and I'll leave it at that.

I would of thought that this place of for of the mind, and not what is between legs.



[Edited 4/23/2014 12:14:40 AM ]

4/23/2014 2:00:49 PM Why men like to be players?  
bigd44906
Mansfield, OH
53, joined Oct. 2010


Quote from good_dr:
I hear you on that one. I got tired of basically the same question re hashed. Gee Anyone else into RF / Radio? I'll do some in the other forums, but for this place, and I'll leave it at that.

I would of thought that this place of for of the mind, and not what is between legs.




4/27/2014 8:50:53 AM Why men like to be players?  
miss_lollypopp
Kenner, LA
42, joined Dec. 2013


I agree with you. I think the label is wrong though. They aren't "players". They are in self defense mold. We all are to a certain degree. This was an interesting thread to go through while at an airport waiting and people watching I saw a man try to pick up a girl that is heading to cali. He asked her out and she straight up told him no because he seems like a player. The man said, "no i'm not I just gaurd myself from women like you". I was like, wow. It was kind of a sad exchange because he seemed into her but they were both on the defense, I guess.

4/30/2014 3:01:56 AM Why men like to be players?  

dannyloya22
San Diego, CA
27, joined Jul. 2012


I'm no player. And I would never play with a woman's heart. It's too bad all the ladies on here are to scared to give me a chance, so I can show that I'm not all talk. I want to be given a fair chance here, just like I'm prepared to do.



[Edited 4/30/2014 3:03:05 AM ]

4/30/2014 9:43:44 AM Why men like to be players?  

austin619190488
Lakeside, CA
26, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from miss_aquamarine:
some men are home..ing pidgeons……just gotta fly with them to show them the way to your home…your heart!

I agree 100% I just got out of a 3 year relationship and most of us don't start as player's we just get tired of being hurt and things being hidin from us and tired of being lied to so this is what happens we turn into player's to protect are selfs and stop careing about other's feelings. Because what women do to us we disregard every one's else's feeling to save are own and at that point its worth it its damage that is hard to be fixed if your unhappy just leave because of you dont this is what happens.

4/30/2014 4:27:16 PM Why men like to be players?  

dannyloya22
San Diego, CA
27, joined Jul. 2012


Quote from caliswagg_619:
Men were born to be players and have game unfortunately you women still be with them even if they're playing you that's what is f**ked in this generation just keep this in mind he don't like you they're just lies he just wants your kitty. Thank god some females not all but some like me already know that game that guys play I've been played in the past so that's why I know it very well and that'swhy I don't fall in their trap like some of you b*tches. Like Cmon stop being a dumb f**k open your eyes and realize he just want to f**k.



Dreya, I understand now. The reason why you look down on men is because you have had your heart broken way to many times in the past. I'm sorry to hear that. But I'm here to say, not all men were born to be players. And I am a prime example that nice guys do exist. I have seen many old couples, and I would sit down to talk to them. One of the questions I would ask them will be... " How long have you two been together ? " Most would say 20 to 30 years. But the longest I have ever heard from an old couple would be 50 years. So Dreya, don't tell me how all men are the same. Because you are very wrong on that one.

7/13/2014 3:02:24 AM Why men like to be players?  

treyj956
Monahans, TX
24, joined Oct. 2013


Men like to be players be cause alone and have no way to open up so they open up with their pants lol and 99.9% of guys no exaggeration lol if thats all youve bee getting is cause your looking in the wrong place not all men are player's ,the men that are just want different girls all day , the guys that aren't look for the right girl but want a women to to show interest as well not just them receiving all and not giving feed back you know DUHHHH

7/31/2014 12:30:39 PM Why men like to be players?  
cubcougar
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,651)
Lucerne, CA
64, joined Oct. 2010


Quote from jess_is_back:
Women play games too, its just a different game..
Not all men are like that.. If that's what you're attracting then you need to look at yourself. You're the common denominator



I would like to suggest they are still children, they are stuck in their Toddler Tantrum mentality with its immature judgments, expectations, justifications, invalidations and magical thinking.

Like Bristol "Big Middle Finger' Palin who is only interested in a sperm donor for her catch and release program on baby making ... she don't want to play house.

She hates her Dad and her Mom.

So she picks a guy .. who also .. hates his Dad and his Mom.

It is Emotional IQ and Genetic issues coming forward with the hormone poisoning that comes with nesting instinct.

Most women want a guy who is dumber then they are .. and then three years later after the hormones kick off, they find out he is a dumb truck ... dumb and just a truck. Then they want more and start to look around for better sex and money vectors. She lives in fear, stuck in her Toddler Tantrum.

A Downs Syndrome Boy gets his Romeo and Juliet game on with his Downs Syndrome girl friend. Saying '' I love her and she understand me'.

Well yeah .. she got the same brain damage.

Ah-NOLD never get Downs Syndrome taco sauce on his swartzn**ger as there is no genetic attraction for him that way and he is a sex addict .. a real boy slut.

He got that way in childhood with his own sex abuse vectors having an over sexualized childhood, he became an over sexualized adult.

If a person hates their Dad, they will be off with taking in money, paying debt, uniting their family and engaging in husbandry.

Hate your Dad you gonna have divorces, affairs and dead children.

If a person hates their Mom, they will be off on drugs, medicine, therapy, philosophy, recovery and making magic.

Hate your Mom you gonna be an addict.

Some women have three dead HUSBANDS, they busy killing them off they hate their Dad so much.

The Defense Structure is making that future of casualities, sadness and regrets .. trying to make them cry out the bitter salty tears.

Those tears are biochemically different then tears of happiness and joy .. those are light and sweet.

Oddly enough ... love fixes all this stuff up.

Not love out there .. but INSIDE in what they carry about with their resentment and bitterness, from their judgments and expectations ... of their Toddler Tantrum mentality.

For Maria to leave her sex addict husband .. and her self stop being a sex addict .. she would have to cry.

She knows where the swartzn**ger has been and she licks it any way ... hence the psychotic break with reality.

She is a sick puppy just like her husband.

This guy just has to give him self to his partner, his woman.

It is a harsh discipline, but it makes the hormones come up and the brain changes.

Boys jerk off every day ... and they make a mess.

Men give them selves to their woman .. and they make better.

Boys are greedy and stingy, always wanting something from you.

Men are kind and generous, wanting nothing.

Boys argue, quibble and fight .. Men have nothing to prove.

Boys lie, cheat, steal .. Men tell on them selves.

You see a Boy in the Casa Blanca .. he is an addict for sure.

sumbuddie wear blind sea

8/13/2014 11:28:20 PM Why men like to be players?  
stephisicated
Over 1,000 Posts (1,113)
Teaneck, NJ
34, joined Jan. 2013


Quote from sharper170:
I do say it. But sometimes women just hear what they want.


Very true.

8/15/2014 8:23:22 AM Why men like to be players?  
cubcougar
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,651)
Lucerne, CA
64, joined Oct. 2010


Quote from bigd44906:
What I want to know is WHY is this idiotic question asked everywhere in the forums especially in places that have nothing to do with dating? It's about as lame as the token guy asking, "Why do women cheat on men?" also asked all over the forums.


They are adults stuck in their Toddler Tantrum mentality.

She is a sex addict that licks taco sauce off her swartzn**ger ...

and HE is a sex addict that gets taco sauce on his swartzn**ger.

For HER to leave .. she would have to cry .. and monsters don't cry.

Same for HIM .. he is a monster, a boy who lies, cheats, steals ... where as men tell on them selves.

For a boy to become a man .. he would have to give him self to his woman and stop f**king around, and only she touches him ... sex is off the radar.

The Adult Sexual Response is in identical mimicry to the Child/Parent object bond where the baby is suppose to cry in your hands, giggle in your hands, poop in their diapers in your hands ... as it is just reflex and hormones that wake the brain up.

Same for the Adult Sexual Response .. it is you, another person, a reflex and hormones .. it changes the brain.

Boys make a mess ... Men make better.

Boys are greedy and stingy always wanting something .. Men are kind and generous never wanting.

Boys argue, quibble and fight .. Men have nothing to prove and just lay out the evidence.

There is more to boys and men ... and also for girls and women.

Girls want their Dolly and hold it close with their secrets ... Boys fight with their arms in holding fists.

180 degrees from sick is still sick .. or really ..they are just children in an adult body.

So they have magical thinkings, with their immature judgments, expecatations, justifications and invalidations.

Hence ...

you get them drinking koolaid at Jonestown ....

cause the Virgin Mary cheats on her husband for baby sex with daddy's ghost ... as it is a f**king miracle.

After all .. it is to SAVE THE WORLD !!!

With LOVE !!!

Incest is best with that crowd ... daddy doing his daughters .. and being a PLAYER !!!

sumbuddie wear blind sea



8/16/2014 11:15:57 PM Why men like to be players?  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (252,261)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


#1 --- total fear of committment

8/17/2014 12:19:32 PM Why men like to be players?  
cubcougar
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,651)
Lucerne, CA
64, joined Oct. 2010


Quote from dannyloya22:
I'm no player. And I would never play with a woman's heart. It's too bad all the ladies on here are to scared to give me a chance, so I can show that I'm not all talk. I want to be given a fair chance here, just like I'm prepared to do.



Yup ... you are scary ... just FYI ... 1 in a 100 people are genetic psychopaths and talk like you walk ...

fair being fair and all that !!!



8/29/2014 11:04:57 PM Why men like to be players?  
cubcougar
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,651)
Lucerne, CA
64, joined Oct. 2010


Quote from cupocheer:
#1 --- total fear of committment


well I guess ... if you had an oversexualized childhood .. to make you an oversexualized adulthood ...

maybe commitment phobia is part of getting taco sauce on that swartzn**ger.

WHY ... she keeps licking that taco sauce off the sex addicted swartzn**ger .. is that SHE IS A SEX ADDICT.

She has to have it !!!

For her to leave her commitment so to speak .. she would have to cry.

For a person to give themselves to their woman and drop the taco sauce addiction .. they would have to cry.

Monsters ... do not cry.

So they stay monsters and do monster stuff to people.

Such is the nature of the Beast inside .. it is sick-6-sick.

It has no love what so ever ...

sumbuddie wear blind sea



9/11/2014 9:51:23 PM Why men like to be players?  
bonafide313
Chicago, IL
30, joined Jul. 2014


My profile must be one in a million then.

11/10/2014 6:40:54 AM Why men like to be players?  

duchessa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (40,398)
Yonkers, NY
63, joined Aug. 2008


Quote from browneye71:
Why can't they tell the truth?


Because BSing is part of their excitement...something to tell their friends.

11/10/2014 6:42:43 AM Why men like to be players?  

duchessa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (40,398)
Yonkers, NY
63, joined Aug. 2008


Quote from madein1983:
Simple:

1. Women reject/hurt/lie and hide things from us and we do the same in return
2. We don't choose to be players we just become players after women hurt us often
3. If we can't get it we go out and find it

Not all men are the same but the same goes for women they want the "perfect" man in a un-perfect world and they forget that they also make and have their flaws


LOL...sure, males' behavior is a consequence of the ladies' wrongdoings..LOL

I guess your mother was not saint.

11/10/2014 12:02:02 PM Why men like to be players?  
icecreamsammich
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,290)
Tucker, GA
66, joined May. 2014


Many women make it a game.

Then sometimes when we are just not compatible, the woman will say we were playing games.

But if I choose to date a player and don't see it over time, that is on me.

Choose wisely

11/10/2014 2:11:42 PM Why men like to be players?  

duchessa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (40,398)
Yonkers, NY
63, joined Aug. 2008


Quote from icecreamsammich:

Then sometimes when we are just not compatible, the woman will say we were playing games.


But if instead of disappearing the man would tell the lady -face to face- "We are not compatible..." she wouldn't end up with the "you were playing games" feeling.

The same the other way around.

11/16/2014 4:05:20 PM Why men like to be players?  
xxgiantmidgetxx
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (31,305)
Sherman Oaks, CA
38, joined Feb. 2012


Op seems kinda bitter...js

12/6/2014 1:15:54 PM Why men like to be players?  

hitz07
Plano, TX
28, joined Sep. 2013


Alright ppl relax your thinking to hard most men are followers not leaders

12/7/2014 2:50:15 PM Why men like to be players?  
nicoli7
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,619)
Louisville, KY
33, joined Jul. 2014


Quote from browneye71:
99.9% of men on here liers and play with women hearts. Just be honest and say you want to date many women. Instead of lieing and doing it; because sooner or later you will get caught.


Not always true..

12/11/2014 3:11:16 PM Why men like to be players?  
treec36
Saint Petersburg, FL
38, joined Oct. 2014


its in their genes,but they 'll
miss out on a strong wifey type
valuable woman as me.i will never
play my man

12/11/2014 9:22:00 PM Why men like to be players?  
b2cold
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (16,950)
Elk Grove Village, IL
37, joined Mar. 2014


Why do women like to be stuck up skanks? Op it goes both ways.