| 3/2/2014 6:38:50 AM |
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goodole57
Sulphur Rock, AR
60, joined Jun. 2013
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It has been 4and a half years since the lord took her home. I still think about her every day.
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| 3/3/2014 8:28:22 AM |
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gdaddy47
Columbia, TN
69, joined Sep. 2009
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As long as you WANT and ALLOW it to last. If you want to wake up every morning for the rest of your life and say "my heart is so empty" then that's what's gonna happen.
[Edited 3/3/2014 8:29:26 AM ]
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| 3/3/2014 8:57:10 PM |
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miss_cantbe
Fort Collins, CO
54, joined Feb. 2014
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Its been 15 years for me. Ive kept busy. Raised our kids. Kids are out exploring the world as we raised 'em too. Ive found myself alone .So know I feel that that emptiness more often. Thats why Ive posted on this site. Have friends that met some great people. Waiting for it to happen for me. I dont tell people Iam a widow. So,Iam glad to find this forem!
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| 3/13/2014 6:48:23 PM |
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tasgosa
Knob Noster, MO
62, joined Jul. 2013
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*HUG*...
It took me over 2 years...I almost didn't See the 21st Century....
I Still have an Empty-spot...but I don't dwell on it any more....
She wanted me to find
"Someone New...That you can Love as much...and as Well...as you have Loved ME..!!"
_That's_ my ~Driving-Force~, Now...!!!
I just want to make her ~Proud~..!!!
 
[Edited 3/13/2014 6:49:52 PM ]
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| 3/18/2014 12:07:07 AM |
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24milkduds
San Francisco, CA
58, joined Mar. 2012
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I stay busy busy...always working with no time for anything else but sleep...I'll be going on 3 years this July...I miss my late husband..I think it's normal to think about our spouses..moving forward slowly but surely..
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| 3/26/2014 1:40:46 PM |
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carlsj
Cleveland, OH
47, joined Mar. 2014
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Last time I saw mines was 2006 she was missing for 26 months and 19 days! Found her now I believe that she walks with me daily, but I will find somebody else! But the bar is raised pretty high!
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| 3/31/2014 7:20:18 AM |
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yetskimama
Walterboro, SC
66, joined Sep. 2011
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for me april the 8th... 14 years[ken ] Till we're together again. always loved never forgotten.
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| 4/8/2014 10:32:36 PM |
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kiki2u
Romulus, MI
63, joined Jan. 2013
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I'll always have an empty space in my heart. But, after spending 30 years with the love of my life, and losing him almost 4 years ago, I know in my heart, Ill be with him, again one day. Until then, Ill just have to make do with my pets for companionship. Life's a "B", and then you die...
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| 4/9/2014 12:23:36 PM |
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miss_cupocheer
Kalamazoo, MI
64, joined Mar. 2014
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How long does the emptiness last
~~OP~~ I do believe that your personal feelings of "emptiness" ended on February 8, 2014.
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| 5/2/2014 4:04:11 PM |
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jrupp0604
Stoughton, MA
68, joined May. 2011
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Well it has been two years. I try to stay busy, but i still get sad days where tears run down my cheek. I am trying so hard to find friends, laugh more, and find happiness in my life. 
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| 5/2/2014 6:26:20 PM |
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drewd66
Kankakee, IL
50, joined Apr. 2014
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OP: The emptiness will last the rest of your life. But the wonderful part is that the heart has the capacity to grow to accept someone new as part of it. Don't compare with what you had or you will fail with someone new. The path of grief is different for all of us but I have learned that at some point you have to choose when and how you move forward with your life. Re-open your heart and start a new chapter in your book of life.
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| 5/2/2014 9:16:21 PM |
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maviebaby400
Salt Lake City, UT
54, joined Mar. 2014
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I lost my husband in 2011 we was married 30years and I can still feel the pain
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| 5/4/2014 7:45:05 AM |
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ldyinred54
Buford, GA
62, joined Jul. 2013
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It has been 2 1/2 years this month since my husband passed. I can say its gotten better with time the bad days are getting less and less. When I have a bad day I try to think about good times we had together it works sometimes. Being lonely and thinking there might not be anyone out there for me again gets to me.We were married 38 years.
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| 5/23/2014 10:28:44 AM |
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citifiedcountry
Little Rock, AR
39, joined Apr. 2014
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I will have 13 years of failed relationships trying to find one like my Tommie on November 28th. Funny, it's a lot more fresh now than it was 2 days after it happened. It's taken me this long to analyze my behaviors. I can't commit to one man because it takes more than one to make up the difference. My heart is never truly in it, but I attempt to enjoy my life with a never say die attitude.I'll do anything once, twice if it's good and three times if it makes me laugh. If it ain't fun, it ain't right.
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| 5/30/2014 9:09:28 AM |
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lalunamoondeer
Bartlesville, OK
53, joined Apr. 2014
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I remember his kiss and his arms around me if I close my eyes I can still feel him.
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| 8/2/2014 10:47:47 AM |
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tasgosa
Knob Noster, MO
62, joined Jul. 2013
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I will have 13 years of failed relationships trying to find one like my Tommie on November 28th. Funny, it's a lot more fresh now than it was 2 days after it happened. It's taken me this long to analyze my behaviors. I can't commit to one man because it takes more than one to make up the difference. My heart is never truly in it, but I attempt to enjoy my life with a never say die attitude.I'll do anything once, twice if it's good and three times if it makes me laugh. If it ain't fun, it ain't right.
~Don't count your Hatches...before they Chicken-Out..!!!~
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| 8/14/2014 9:00:24 AM |
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ann1236
Luthersville, GA
64, joined Jul. 2014
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my husband has been gone for 6 years ..God put man and then woman on this earth to be together, not to be alone,,,what I did was put his love and memory in a special place in my heart and there he will always be. but life does go on and I live it
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| 8/14/2014 11:39:44 AM |
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gdaddy47
Columbia, TN
69, joined Sep. 2009
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Why do some people want to find someone just like their dead spouse. It isn't happening. That isn't fair to the prospective new person and it sure as heck won't happen. If you're looking for the same person in another person's body then one should expect failure in the "relationship" game.
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| 8/14/2014 12:33:49 PM |
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meangelus
Greenbrier, AR
64, joined Mar. 2013
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The emptiness along with the love last as long as you're alive. The Healing begins when you take you Spouse Off of your shoulders & place your Spouse into your heart. Will we find love again? Maybe or maybe not. You can't find another like your late spouse. But. You can find someone with some of the good qualities that attracted you & kept your interest. The emptiness dwindles.
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