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7/7/2014 9:18:54 AM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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When someone say that "Im not looking for a relationship but whatever happens happens", what do they mean by that? Does it happens in a mutual agreement or its with the other's decision?




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7/7/2014 9:21:00 AM Whatever happens happens  
soulfullaussie
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It means they are not out looking for a relationship and they are just going to go with the flow .. and enjoy what comes their way ..



[Edited 7/7/2014 9:22:41 AM ]

7/7/2014 9:21:52 AM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from soulfullaussie:
It means they are not out to looking for a relationship and they are just going to go with the flow .. and enjoy what comes there way ..


7/7/2014 9:22:38 AM Whatever happens happens  
agoodfather23
Vineland, NJ
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Thats a very funny statement, whenever a lady says that sometimes it means friends with benefits, hookups, relationships, etc, its varies

7/7/2014 9:26:46 AM Whatever happens happens  

vanir
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It means she's not looking for a relationship but if the moon was crashing into the earth you could probably talk her into a cool threesome

7/7/2014 10:26:13 AM Whatever happens happens  

ladypat81
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Isn't it always whatever happens happens in dating?

7/7/2014 10:32:36 AM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from ladypat81:
Isn't it always whatever happens happens in dating?
well it depends

7/7/2014 1:17:41 PM Whatever happens happens  
jester0011
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It happens

7/7/2014 3:17:51 PM Whatever happens happens  
4forums76
Winfield, AL
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It means the person isn't actively looking for a partner or relationship but if a good one falls in their lap, figuratively speaking, they will go for it.

7/7/2014 3:31:34 PM Whatever happens happens  
don_johnson99
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This type of woman you need to avoid. You just might be good enough for now but if someone richer or better looking comes along YOU ARE TOAST.

7/7/2014 3:35:27 PM Whatever happens happens  

mrfckinpetey
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)

7/7/2014 4:20:25 PM Whatever happens happens  

testsignup
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
When someone say that "Im not looking for a relationship but whatever happens happens", what do they mean by that? Does it happens in a mutual agreement or its with the other's decision?


Whenever anyone says or writes anything, what they mean depends on how well and carefully they are using the language.

In this case in particular, we see the word "but" is used to join the two sentence fragments. If the person is using that word correctly, it means that the second fragment is a contradiction of the first, or an exception to it in some way.

Therefore, "I am not looking for a relationship but whatever happens happens," would mean that even though they are NOT looking to become deeply involved with someone, that if they discover that they do care deeply about someone, that they will not run away from that.

The thing to keep in mind, is, that the people who are careful about what they say in this world, are few and far between. Most people blurt out catch phrases which they have heard, as though they are a programmed response machine, or a magic 8 ball. often as not, when you ask someone to re-explain what they mean about something, they will completely reverse what they just said a moment before using a catch phrase, and will deny that they every said otherwise.

Therefore, although that statement means what I said, there's no guarantee that the person who said it to you meant you to understand that.

I would worry myself, because I have found again and again, that most of the people who like to use the phrase "whatever happens happens," tend to be callous, selfish hedonists, with no sense of honor or loyalty to anyone but themselves. A very few, are deeply caring people who accept responsibility for everything, and will go the distance for you, no questions asked.

So you'll have to learn more about the person who said that, to find out what kind of person they really are.

7/7/2014 4:35:32 PM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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Thank you everybody for your inputs

7/7/2014 4:38:59 PM Whatever happens happens  

saddestangel7
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This isn't gender specific. I've seen a whole lot of male profiles that make that statement.

It does mean exactly what it says. Not purposely seeking to be in a committed relationship but if it works out that way then I'm good with that too. You never know when you'll meet the right person.

7/7/2014 4:44:20 PM Whatever happens happens  
mr_wgk
Denver, CO
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You're kinda stupid.
You never just FOUND something... anything? Maybe just walking and found $20? Weren't out LOOKING, yet you found something of value?

So...
Not out actively looking for someone, but met some kind of way, things clicked and blah blah blah. It's not rocket-science.

And unless in a slave/master thing (slavery's been abolished btw), a relationship is always mutual in this country. "...the other's decision?" WTF

7/7/2014 4:49:39 PM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from mr_wgk:
You're kinda stupid.
You never just FOUND something... anything? Maybe just walking and found $20? Weren't out LOOKING, yet you found something of value?

So...
Not out actively looking for someone, but met some kind of way, things clicked and blah blah blah. It's not rocket-science.

And unless in a slave/master thing (slavery's been abolished btw), a relationship is always mutual in this country. "...the other's decision?" WTF
are you referring to me

7/7/2014 4:50:59 PM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from saddestangel7:
This isn't gender specific. I've seen a whole lot of male profiles that make that statement.

It does mean exactly what it says. Not purposely seeking to be in a committed relationship but if it works out that way then I'm good with that too. You never know when you'll meet the right person.
i agree and disagree. It depends on how you say it. Just because the person saying it doesn't always make it so.

7/7/2014 5:27:31 PM Whatever happens happens  
ibanez42
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
When someone say that "Im not looking for a relationship but whatever happens happens", what do they mean by that? Does it happens in a mutual agreement or its with the other's decision?


It means she has no expectations either way in anything. She is open, willing and able to make friends or have a relationship with someone who shows they worth having one with.

In laymens terms, the broad has her shit together and is ready to enjoy life without the bullshit. Most of these women are worth getting to know.

7/22/2014 5:10:11 PM Whatever happens happens  

dream82007
Cheyenne, WY
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who can really predict the future AND WHAT HAPPENS IN LIFE JUST TAKEN IT ASit comes and gos is how I see it

7/22/2014 5:19:27 PM Whatever happens happens  

bumblebee7
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To me it means if I said that....I'm not actively seeking a relation, but if it happens....so be it.

But its kinda that way anyway....I don't believe in seeking a relation, because then its the relationship they want, the person for it may become a commodity, even though they think they have feelings for them, because the sum total of them seems to have the things they are seeking....


...but in reality that doesn't mean real love exist...and in time that will cause issues.

I see it more as would like to have a relation, but not really seeking it, and date and meet and take it as it comes... till you find one that stirs those real feelings and you have enough of the important compatibility for it to have a great chance at working out and that is the reason for the relationship....not the other way around.

7/22/2014 5:27:49 PM Whatever happens happens  
iheartidiots
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That's my statement. I'm not actively seeking a partner bc I believe things fall into place when and as they should. I have no expectations.

But obviously love is the ultimate goal.

7/22/2014 5:39:51 PM Whatever happens happens  

bumblebee7
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Yep...real love would be my goal too.

but I want it to come naturally..when it does.

7/22/2014 7:13:40 PM Whatever happens happens  

pickygirl72
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I hate reading that on a guys profile. Make up your mind. You either want a relationship or want to date someone or you don't.

I feel its like saying "hey this doesn't mean a thing to me so... whatever, let's just see what happens."

I want to know you want to put some time and effort into it.

And I hate the phrase "go with the flow." I do use it sometimes, but try to not use it in a dating/relationship situation

7/22/2014 7:18:23 PM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from pickygirl72:
I hate reading that on a guys profile. Make up your mind. You either want a relationship or want to date someone or you don't.

I feel its like saying "hey this doesn't mean a thing to me so... whatever, let's just see what happens."

I want to know you want to put some time and effort into it.

And I hate the phrase "go with the flow." I do use it sometimes, but try to not use it in a dating/relationship situation
women do the same thing too so its everybody

7/22/2014 7:31:07 PM Whatever happens happens  
jerryxy
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common sense question dont cha thank?
Quote from dark_gable0585:
When someone say that "Im not looking for a relationship but whatever happens happens", what do they mean by that? Does it happens in a mutual agreement or its with the other's decision?


7/22/2014 7:32:15 PM Whatever happens happens  

wrenchspinner45
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Quote from soulfullaussie:
It means they are not out looking for a relationship and they are just going to go with the flow .. and enjoy what comes their way ..


7/22/2014 10:46:59 PM Whatever happens happens  

twining
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It means you're just friends and when you f**k not to make it get awkward. Like no, you're not dating or f**k buddies. You're friends.



[Edited 7/22/2014 10:48:17 PM ]

7/22/2014 11:06:13 PM Whatever happens happens  

blue3rose
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Saint Louis, MO
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Quote from vanir:
It means she's not looking for a relationship but if the moon was crashing into the earth you could probably talk her into a cool threesome





7/23/2014 12:05:56 AM Whatever happens happens  
kartusch
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if one comes along they won't say no...



[Edited 7/23/2014 12:06:10 AM ]

7/23/2014 8:15:31 AM Whatever happens happens  
uhatethathuh
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It means most times they're full of shit plain & simple.

7/23/2014 8:46:05 AM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from uhatethathuh:
It means most times they're full of shit plain & simple.
how so

7/23/2014 9:39:20 AM Whatever happens happens  

mylegsarecold
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Gainesville, FL
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They are looking for someone to take charge of their life because they are too passive
to do it themselves.

Going with the flow sounds like someone is willing to be flushed down a toilet.

7/23/2014 8:41:39 PM Whatever happens happens  

driver406
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It means she's an idiot and you ought to look somewhere else. She really doesn't want a relationship.

7/23/2014 8:43:40 PM Whatever happens happens  

inni_dreamz
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Quote from soulfullaussie:
It means they are not out looking for a relationship and they are just going to go with the flow .. and enjoy what comes their way ..





7/23/2014 8:45:06 PM Whatever happens happens  

inni_dreamz
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Pasadena, CA
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Quote from don_johnson99:
This type of woman you need to avoid. You just might be good enough for now but if someone richer or better looking comes along YOU ARE TOAST.


I call bull$hit - so NOT true!

7/24/2014 2:18:40 PM Whatever happens happens  
rose1206
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Gilbert, AZ
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I appreciate when someone is honest about not seeking a relationship, but that saying is too cliche. It can mean a few things, if in doubt just ask that person.



[Edited 7/24/2014 2:19:15 PM ]

7/24/2014 2:51:01 PM Whatever happens happens  

mylegsarecold
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I like to say whatever doesn't happen doesn't happen because it makes as much sense.

Although when you really think about it, the person who said this could be into set theory.
You know, like you have the set of all things that happen, and another set of all things that
don't happen, and then you do some mathematical things to them.

7/24/2014 2:53:49 PM Whatever happens happens  
4uijack
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
When someone say that "Im not looking for a relationship but whatever happens happens", what do they mean by that? Does it happens in a mutual agreement or its with the other's decision?


Do you not understand the English language?

7/24/2014 4:44:17 PM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from 4uijack:
Do you not understand the English language?
get a life stalker

7/24/2014 5:13:41 PM Whatever happens happens  
grneyesrme
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It means they are not seeking a relationship but if they were to find a special connection with someone they would consider entering a relationship.

7/24/2014 5:15:17 PM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from grneyesrme:
It means they are not seeking a relationship but if they were to find a special connection with someone they would consider entering a relationship.
but there is no timeline right?

7/24/2014 5:25:36 PM Whatever happens happens  
grneyesrme
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You are correct. No time line.

7/24/2014 5:27:19 PM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from grneyesrme:
You are correct. No time line.
oh ok. But nowadays most people just rush into things like what after four months like those tv shows

7/26/2014 12:55:41 AM Whatever happens happens  

kawiibear
Bellwood, IL
22, joined Jul. 2013


Quote from testsignup:
Whenever anyone says or writes anything, what they mean depends on how well and carefully they are using the language.

In this case in particular, we see the word "but" is used to join the two sentence fragments. If the person is using that word correctly, it means that the second fragment is a contradiction of the first, or an exception to it in some way.

Therefore, "I am not looking for a relationship but whatever happens happens," would mean that even though they are NOT looking to become deeply involved with someone, that if they discover that they do care deeply about someone, that they will not run away from that.

The thing to keep in mind, is, that the people who are careful about what they say in this world, are few and far between. Most people blurt out catch phrases which they have heard, as though they are a programmed response machine, or a magic 8 ball. often as not, when you ask someone to re-explain what they mean about something, they will completely reverse what they just said a moment before using a catch phrase, and will deny that they every said otherwise.

Therefore, although that statement means what I said, there's no guarantee that the person who said it to you meant you to understand that.

I would worry myself, because I have found again and again, that most of the people who like to use the phrase "whatever happens happens," tend to be callous, selfish hedonists, with no sense of honor or loyalty to anyone but themselves. A very few, are deeply caring people who accept responsibility for everything, and will go the distance for you, no questions asked.

So you'll have to learn more about the person who said that, to find out what kind of person they really are.


Damnnnnnn that was liiiike supaaaaa deep yooooo

7/26/2014 1:18:30 AM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from jerryxy:
common sense question dont cha thank?
Quote from dark_gable0585:
When someone say that "Im not looking for a relationship but whatever happens happens", what do they mean by that? Does it happens in a mutual agreement or its with the other's decision?
can you give me a common sense answer smartass

7/26/2014 1:20:50 AM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from saddestangel7:
This isn't gender specific. I've seen a whole lot of male profiles that make that statement.

It does mean exactly what it says. Not purposely seeking to be in a committed relationship but if it works out that way then I'm good with that too. You never know when you'll meet the right person.
where does it say that it is gender specific

7/26/2014 3:16:15 AM Whatever happens happens  
cheliz
El Paso, TX
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Hello

7/26/2014 8:31:37 AM Whatever happens happens  
cali8zice
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It means they're not interested in YOU that way but will drag you along til they find someone else the ARE interested in that way and then won't feel guilty about telling you goodbye because they told you up front they weren't interested in a relationship.



7/26/2014 8:32:53 AM Whatever happens happens  
cali8zice
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I don't know who would say that to you op

7/26/2014 11:15:32 AM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from cheliz:
Hello
short and pointless

7/26/2014 11:16:29 AM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from cali8zice:
I don't know who would say that to you op
idk either but i always expected the unexpected(well almost)

7/26/2014 12:17:22 PM Whatever happens happens  

larena40
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That's what I say.

7/26/2014 12:55:51 PM Whatever happens happens  

packersbabe920
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Quote from soulfullaussie:
It means they are not out looking for a relationship and they are just going to go with the flow .. and enjoy what comes their way ..











7/26/2014 2:42:52 PM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from larena40:
That's what I say.
what did you say?

7/26/2014 8:27:52 PM Whatever happens happens  

mei_bankai
Middletown, OH
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maybe they just want to feel a person if only for awhile but maybe they don't want to take on the responsibility of being with that person but sometimes our feelings consume us and makes us find in the end having someone in our life for a long period of time isn't so bad after all

7/26/2014 9:22:16 PM Whatever happens happens  
josfsd06
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Sioux Falls, SD
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
When someone say that "Im not looking for a relationship but whatever happens happens", what do they mean by that? Does it happens in a mutual agreement or its with the other's decision?


Oh, you don't get a vote dude. It means SHE'S reserving the right to say yea or nay. If she says yea, she'll expect YOU to toe the line of her expectations. If she says nay, she'll expect you to NEVER bring the subject up again.

7/26/2014 9:30:45 PM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from josfsd06:
Oh, you don't get a vote dude. It means SHE'S reserving the right to say yea or nay. If she says yea, she'll expect YOU to toe the line of her expectations. If she says nay, she'll expect you to NEVER bring the subject up again.
i didn't ask for a vote lol

7/26/2014 10:27:38 PM Whatever happens happens  
josfsd06
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True, you didn't. Evidently, being a door-mat isn't objectionable to you. Do carry on.

7/27/2014 8:01:19 AM Whatever happens happens  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from josfsd06:
True, you didn't. Evidently, being a door-mat isn't objectionable to you. Do carry on.
i refuse to be a doormat for anybody. I don't have time for that. My thing is.... If you interested in me then cool if not then lets move on. Plain and simple