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ddmimi
Victorville, CA
39, joined Jun. 2014
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Lately as I'm putting myself back out on the dating gates, it seems that men all just want to have sex. Hell, I'm not that woman nor percent myself as that type of woman. So what is it men you can't stand to really get to know a woman's mind first to even see if she can keep you focus in your brain? Talk to me!
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| 1/11/2015 8:32:32 AM |
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tanklp320
Laguna Hills, CA
41, joined Sep. 2014
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Lately as I'm putting myself back out on the dating gates, it seems that men all just want to have sex. Hell, I'm not that woman nor percent myself as that type of woman. So what is it men you can't stand to really get to know a woman's mind first to even see if she can keep you focus in your brain? Talk to me!
Every relationship is based on sex its just people want to focus on other area's but bottom line men are sexual if you can't tame the savage beast within a man than your looking for failure each time no man wants to be stuck in dating limbo till you decide to give it up unfortunately people have made their time more valuable than waiting for you to come around so they rather just straight ask for the sex can't hurt and to the point
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| 1/11/2015 8:43:19 AM |
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love2kiss8
Columbus, OH
26, joined May. 2013
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No every relationships don't have to be sexual. I was in relationships guys before we were together for 2 years - 7 months and we didn't have sex. They respected waiting for me until I felt ready.
It's all about respect and what you are wanting to do if a guy doesn't respect your choices on what you want or don't want shouldn't be with him. Most of the guys I dated are guys with similar wants so it didn't bother them. But I did go on dates before with guys who were wanting sex ASAP and I said no thanks and moved on.
Op relationships are what you make it if the guy wants sex and you obliged then you obliged. If you inform the person if you do want to wait a nice guy will wait. And if the guy is too impatient then you decide what you want to do.
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| 1/11/2015 2:37:50 PM |
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ddmimi
Victorville, CA
39, joined Jun. 2014
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Well I must agree, men are beast by nature but we as woman are beast as well. Being an sexual toy for a man because he wants to get wet is that old way on thinking. Women have came along way from the Good Old Days boys and we want to be seen as sexy but not used as some object.
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| 1/11/2015 5:26:50 PM |
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tanklp320
Laguna Hills, CA
41, joined Sep. 2014
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Well I must agree, men are beast by nature but we as woman are beast as well. Being an sexual toy for a man because he wants to get wet is that old way on thinking. Women have came along way from the Good Old Days boys and we want to be seen as sexy but not used as some object.
Agreed but sexy can also be done without looking like a Pole Dancer too 
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| 1/11/2015 8:11:16 PM |
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ddmimi
Victorville, CA
39, joined Jun. 2014
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True! But what about the Classy women such as myself who don't dress like a pole dancer and dress to my body shape. I want u the man to imagine what this woman is working with and that every Tom D*ck n Harry hasn't ran up and ran out??. That I'm a woman about the mind body and spirit. We can be in a relationship without having sex but a true friendship until we know if our relationship will last longer than three months
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| 1/11/2015 10:27:52 PM |
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tanklp320
Laguna Hills, CA
41, joined Sep. 2014
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True! But what about the Classy women such as myself who don't dress like a pole dancer and dress to my body shape. I want u the man to imagine what this woman is working with and that every Tom D*ck n Harry hasn't ran up and ran out??. That I'm a woman about the mind body and spirit. We can be in a relationship without having sex but a true friendship until we know if our relationship will last longer than three months
Relationships that last 3 months is not always they want sex or tired of it sometimes they discover they really didn't want to be with you or something about you turned them off
Sex is not always a key ingredient on why a man bails out it could be he didn't want to be tied down or he couldn't see himself being committed to someone who has children or all kind of woes like bills or always having to give them rides everywhere 
People forget half the time you meet people these days they always have some hard on their luck story off these web dating sites sometimes just sick and twisted people dwell on this site because everyone is always trolling the internet is just not a place to meet anyone anymore it's played the f**k out
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| 1/12/2015 1:04:27 AM |
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lilod
Aurora, IL
51, joined Aug. 2012
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Most men want to have sex. I don't think that's the same as assuming that ALL they want is to have sex. They just don't need to reach the same point you do before being interested in sex.
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| 1/12/2015 1:07:16 AM |
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lilod
Aurora, IL
51, joined Aug. 2012
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Every relationship is based on sex its just people want to focus on other area's but bottom line men are sexual if you can't tame the savage beast within a man than your looking for failure each time no man wants to be stuck in dating limbo till you decide to give it up unfortunately people have made their time more valuable than waiting for you to come around so they rather just straight ask for the sex can't hurt and to the point
Pay no attention to this, OP. Men who prioritize sex above all else are always trying to convince us that all men are the same, but it isn't true. Some of them are lying and some truly believe that all men think like they do, but either way, they're wrong.
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| 1/12/2015 4:09:15 AM |
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tanklp320
Laguna Hills, CA
41, joined Sep. 2014
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 1/12/2015 4:15:38 AM |
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tanklp320
Laguna Hills, CA
41, joined Sep. 2014
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If you all hate sex so much become Nun's and just leave it there so sick of these b*tch threads and f**ked up gender roles you wonder why things don't work out maybe because your always complaining and trying to compete with men in everything no wonder this site is dating hell internet dating is not even supposed to be this serious people
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| 1/12/2015 4:18:43 PM |
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notdeadyet60
Dixon, IL
57, joined Feb. 2013
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Sex is simply overly assumed way too often. I have several ladies I'm great friends with, and a few are pretty hot, but we wouldn't have the friendship we do, if it had to include banging each other!
So the answer is definitely NO.
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| 1/12/2015 6:12:32 PM |
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lifeplanner
Fort Worth, TX
45, joined Nov. 2013
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Lately as I'm putting myself back out on the dating gates, it seems that men all just want to have sex. Hell, I'm not that woman nor percent myself as that type of woman. So what is it men you can't stand to really get to know a woman's mind first to even see if she can keep you focus in your brain? Talk to me!
If you take the thrill out of the hunt, it's no longer fun.
Before anything is said let it be known that you are not putting out. That usually stops them dead in their tracks.
If you give them any indication that you can be persuaded its over and game on. Steer clear of anything that has any kind of sexual undertone.
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| 1/13/2015 9:35:25 PM |
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ddmimi
Victorville, CA
39, joined Jun. 2014
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I usually do! That's stay clear of any sexual advances and it's always put out there before all else. But it never stops a man from asking nor making it known that he has to go else where. Which to me is fine because from the beginning it's put out there on what type of relationship I'm looking for, to me it's his lost.
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| 1/16/2015 5:08:55 AM |
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sullie156
Arnold, MO
44, joined Sep. 2010
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First off does every relationship have to be sexual and secondly its a balance of sexual, commitment, and wanting to be with one another.
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| 1/16/2015 9:03:31 PM |
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karrpilot
Oswego, IL
54, joined Jul. 2009
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As far as I am concerned, if one does not have relations, than one does not have a relationship. Not too hard to figure out here.
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| 1/17/2015 8:27:49 AM |
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jrbogie1949
Ventura, CA
68, joined Mar. 2009
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what's the first thing that one finds attractive in another person when considering a relationship? the hair, eyes, legs, brain??? nope. the very first thing anybody notices is the SEX of the person. i'll never be attracted to a man. only a woman will ever draw my attention when it comes to a loving relationship. it may not be all about the sex but it damn sure is first about the sex.
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| 1/19/2015 8:22:48 AM |
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oppsiidazi
Orr, MN
48, joined Oct. 2014
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No, not every relationship I have with a man is sexual.
I don't have sex with every male friend I have. I only
tend to be sexual with the ones I connect with or have
chemistry. Without that connection, spark, or
chemistry it's a waste of my time becoming emotionally
vetted in them. I'm not one for misleading them into
thinking or believing I'm wanting something on a deeper
emotional level.
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