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2/7/2015 9:14:18 PM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	I have been dragging my feet these last couple of years. I know I need to change some things to make my life better after my divorce, so I am going to school to get a career. So what are you doing now that you are divorced? Anything different? Career change? What do u want to do change? So what's next? New chapter. New life. New you?! Stay on topic. Have fun. No sad long drawn out paragraphs of how horrible your divorce was. Stay positive! Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
2/7/2015 11:23:45 PM	OK, so what's next?
cupocheer Assumption, IL 69, joined May. 2010	Live til die. Be buried with a smile. And make them all wonder what I am smiling about. Sorry, Picky .... At my age ---- I don't have much room to maneuver. [Edited 2/7/2015 11:24:07 PM ]
2/8/2015 12:41:41 PM	OK, so what's next?
idk500 Mankato, MN 52, joined Jun. 2013	I planned ahead: saved money like crazy, quit my job, going to school, took some trips alone Scary decisions to make, but I'm glad I did. It would never have happened if I was still married. I've met wonderful people and had great experiences. The bad ones, I can just laugh about, and learn to avoid a repeat. All, of course, after the kids were out of high school.
2/8/2015 12:56:05 PM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	^^^sounds like you know what you want, awesome!
2/10/2015 10:49:02 PM	OK, so what's next?
legaleye Columbus, OH 65, joined Mar. 2008	The new me part was already in progress, but that was a long time ago. The big thing for me was to take a bit of time (a few months) and decide exactly what was important to me and understand that I need not compromise on those things. If she wasnt happy with me as she found me, then the understanding that it just wont work no longer scared me or put me in fear of being alone. There are other decisions you make, maybe not just because of a divorce, but also because you enter a new stage of life as you age for example. For me, decisions as to whether I wanted to work more or less, how much I needed to support a lifestyle I liked, and making sure I had sufficient free time to enjoy life, and to hell with unreasonable work demands (I am lucky, I can control that stuff and wont lose my job). Time moves on and we only have so much..... use it wisely. Just an observation though, way too many women (I dont date men so cant comment) have no understanding of life and where they have placed their priorities right there between unhappy and sad on the scale of life.
2/10/2015 11:44:29 PM	OK, so what's next?
romantikind13 San Antonio, TX 48, joined Dec. 2014	Me that's what next time for me ,not setting for anything less then a good woman or close friends .
2/11/2015 1:25:48 PM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	Its nice to see people making goals and having time to make their life what they want it to be. Who else is making changes?
2/11/2015 4:03:51 PM	OK, so what's next?
txcountrymedic Pleasanton, TX 39, joined Mar. 2014	I worked so much i never had time to do anything else. Now me and my kids fish hunt camp sports scouts 4h. And the list goes on and on. I am being the best father i can be to my kids.
2/11/2015 4:48:12 PM	OK, so what's next?
purplerider1200 South Bend, IN 62, joined Aug. 2011	I finally realized that at the age of 59, construction work is getting harder to do. So now, I'm learning to break into houses, cars, businesses, safes, anything that's locked. I'm learning the Locksmith trade. So far, there is one advantage to it over construction. Everybody and their brother can do construction. Few can really work on locks.
2/11/2015 9:47:26 PM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	^^^sounds like trying something new will work out in your favor.
2/12/2015 2:08:40 AM	OK, so what's next?
cavie59 Enid, OK 58, joined Feb. 2010	So what are you doing now that you are divorced? Living alone and taking care of my mother. Anything different? I work two jobs and live off the pay from one. Career change? Nope. I retired before my divorce. What do u want to do change? I wish I could stop working two jobs, stop paying alimony, and have some time to date. So what's next? Who knows, I do know that I can look forward to working another 30 years at least, if my health holds out. Once I do stop working, I know I will become homeless. New chapter. New life. New you?! It does not look good.
2/12/2015 10:29:43 AM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	Sorry Cavie. At least throw in a hobby or two to keep your sanity.
2/14/2015 12:33:40 AM	OK, so what's next?
sullie156 Arnold, MO 44, joined Sep. 2010	Hobbies, sanity, keeping busy, so on so on....... Be true to yourself and know life doesnt end with him and or her. FYI. Its a new beginning and open your eyes and mind to all the awesome potential. Oh and my wife left me so you can't say I am positive because I moved on first. Lol
2/14/2015 9:41:23 PM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	Hobbies are good!
2/18/2015 6:17:45 PM	OK, so what's next?
mrkelley02 Boys Ranch, TX 47, joined Jan. 2015	After my divorce, I found God and He lead me to where I am now. I am a single house parent at a Boys Ranch north of Amarillo, TX. I am currently pursuing a degree in youth ministry.
2/22/2015 10:38:03 AM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	^^^awesome!
3/15/2015 1:08:15 PM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	Anyone else?
3/15/2015 3:29:18 PM	OK, so what's next?
jrbogie1949 Ventura, CA 68, joined Mar. 2009	gots me a sailboat.
3/16/2015 1:52:15 AM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from jrbogie1949: gots me a sailboat. cool
3/19/2015 10:57:53 PM	OK, so what's next?
shucks_huck Hershey, PA 39, joined Jan. 2014	I expanded my business and incorporated. I started teaching my kids sunday school class and coaching & playing on the church softball team. I took up reloading and increased my gun collection. I flew for the first time when I went to Vegas last month. All in all my life is going great. Dating on the other hand has been a struggle.
3/20/2015 10:11:17 AM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	^^^dating can be a struggle. Just enjoy life.
3/23/2015 7:35:36 AM	OK, so what's next?
fizzyrider Pflugerville, TX 57, joined Jan. 2010	Quote from idk500: I planned ahead: saved money like crazy, quit my job, going to school, took some trips alone Scary decisions to make, but I'm glad I did. It would never have happened if I was still married. I've met wonderful people and had great experiences. The bad ones, I can just laugh about, and learn to avoid a repeat. All, of course, after the kids were out of high school. You planned ahead for divorce? I have to say that sounds terribly cold blooded and calculated. What next for me is to pay for my home. Having bought houses for two women I think it's time for me to consider my own future. I will never again be suckered into marriage, even though I'm with someone that I care about very much. Men almost invariably get screwed over in a divorce and that certainly happened to me. Once the house is paid for I retire, sell the house and move to a cottage in Italy.
3/23/2015 8:18:52 AM	OK, so what's next?
jrbogie1949 Ventura, CA 68, joined Mar. 2009	Quote from fizzyrider: You planned ahead for divorce? I have to say that sounds terribly cold blooded and calculated. i planned too. divorce doesn't happen overnight. two years before our divorce we both realized the inevitable. sure, we agreed to continue to try to work things out with counseling and such but we were pretty much decided to go our own way after the kids left the house. we began down sizing by selling the house at the peak of the market and renting and otherwise selling what we could such as the sailboat with slip rent, insurance and such until we could separate with a reasonably equal financial situation. she even began college. calculated it was. terribly could blooded it was not and it's absurd of you to suggest so without knowing the situation.
3/23/2015 8:22:11 AM	OK, so what's next?
jrbogie1949 Ventura, CA 68, joined Mar. 2009	Quote from fizzyrider: I will never again be suckered into marriage, even though I'm with someone that I care about very much. and you're still on a dating site looking for women?
3/23/2015 5:03:27 PM	OK, so what's next?
idk500 Mankato, MN 52, joined Jun. 2013	Quote from fizzyrider: You planned ahead for divorce? I have to say that sounds terribly cold blooded and calculated. What next for me is to pay for my home. Having bought houses for two women I think it's time for me to consider my own future. I will never again be suckered into marriage, even though I'm with someone that I care about very much. Men almost invariably get screwed over in a divorce and that certainly happened to me. Once the house is paid for I retire, sell the house and move to a cottage in Italy. I read the question as NOW that you are divorced... However, the ex did plan for divorce, planned it for over a year based on the high end purchases he made and took with him. As you say, I also will never again be suckered into marriage. Relationship, maybe, but not actively looking right now. Women also get screwed over in a divorce. I wanted a change, so I planned ahead to make those changes. If you are ready to retire, sell the house and make your move, why wait?
3/24/2015 12:24:42 AM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	Not letting my bad feelings ruin my chances of being happy.
3/24/2015 9:17:39 AM	OK, so what's next?
jrbogie1949 Ventura, CA 68, joined Mar. 2009	Quote from pickygirl72: Not letting my bad feelings ruin my chances of being happy. if only my ex could have known you when she felt bad cramps.
3/25/2015 10:04:26 PM	OK, so what's next?
waki_1 Suwanee, GA 52, joined Sep. 2014	A couple more years getting the kids on their paths to adulthood...then I hope to find a fun and laid back Guy friend that would enjoy driving route 66 to California ...stopping at all the Guy Farier dives for good eats and seeing all we can...Then maybe air travel and visit interesting landmarks and cruise to the Virgin Islands many times and soak up the sun......and on those days after work just sit back and enjoy a nice glass of wine while grilling on the back deck...
3/26/2015 2:06:42 AM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from waki_1: A couple more years getting the kids on their paths to adulthood...then I hope to find a fun and laid back Guy friend that would enjoy driving route 66 to California sounds fun. I live close to parts of Old route 66.
3/26/2015 9:06:32 AM	OK, so what's next?
txcountrymedic Pleasanton, TX 39, joined Mar. 2014	Got the oldest in college. Middle one will be there in a few years... Youngest keeps me busy! As for me.... I really have become reclusive with no personal life, so maybe try to start living a little different.
3/27/2015 7:12:19 PM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	^^^ Get yourself a cool hobby.
3/27/2015 9:07:27 PM	OK, so what's next?
inknpink Castle Rock, CO 32, joined Feb. 2015	I think it might be time to go back to school and finish my dreams.
3/29/2015 10:04:04 AM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from inknpink: I think it might be time to go back to school and finish my dreams. awesome
3/29/2015 12:54:16 PM	OK, so what's next?
bier95 Clara City, MN 67, joined May. 2011	After divorce I moved about 1000 miles away and started a new life for myself. Now in about 1 1/2 years I will sell this house and move again, do my favorite hobby of fly fishing for trout.
3/29/2015 2:21:29 PM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	Sometimes when we are with our mates for a long time we lose our own way. Our favorite things to do get pushed aside and the things we love stop, like hobbies. Now that we have our lifes back its time to get back to the things we love.
4/13/2015 9:00:08 PM	OK, so what's next?
waki_1 Suwanee, GA 52, joined Sep. 2014	Smiles and Laughter...I'm gonna enjoy my next 40 years...
4/16/2015 9:14:38 PM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from waki_1: Smiles and Laughter...I'm gonna enjoy my next 40 years... right on!
6/20/2015 10:47:52 PM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	I am going to school
8/26/2015 8:37:20 PM	OK, so what's next?
mistieyesdream Stephens City, VA 74, joined Nov. 2014	After the divorce I moved twice, went into a new career and then retired. Now just wish to find a great guy to do things and have fun with. In the meantime I am enjoying my hobbies and letting the younger ones see that cannot kick this old lady under the bus. [Edited 8/26/2015 8:38:14 PM ]
8/26/2015 10:06:44 PM	OK, so what's next?
flyfish77 Conyers, GA 52, joined Jul. 2014	i got a job at drug store we usedto hang out at...keepin people from hangin out in front of the drug store.....
9/6/2015 1:43:54 AM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	I am still trying to get a more successful life...its tough.
9/6/2015 3:27:20 PM	OK, so what's next?
stargazzer Creighton, NE 69, joined Feb. 2007	"now" Full retirement
9/7/2015 2:29:57 PM	OK, so what's next?
mtnboy70 Villa Rica, GA 47, joined Oct. 2011	Quote from pickygirl72: Sometimes when we are with our mates for a long time we lose our own way. Our favorite things to do get pushed aside and the things we love stop, like hobbies. Now that we have our lifes back its time to get back to the things we love. A lot of truth in this statement. It was for me, at least. My identity was what she wanted and what the kids needed. It took me a minute that,seemingly all of a sudden, I can go fishing. Or other things. Most times it is alone, but that's how you meet folks with similar interests. Doing what you do.
10/19/2015 12:58:12 AM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	Whats next?
10/21/2015 7:17:03 PM	OK, so what's next?
purplerider1200 South Bend, IN 62, joined Aug. 2011	Quote from purplerider1200: I finally realized that at the age of 59, construction work is getting harder to do. So now, I'm learning to break into houses, cars, businesses, safes, anything that's locked. I'm learning the Locksmith trade. So far, there is one advantage to it over construction. Everybody and their brother can do construction. Few can really work on locks. Drilled my first safe today. I'm finding out what fun it is to know things few others do.
10/21/2015 7:34:22 PM	OK, so what's next?
luckylouie42 Cedar Grove, WV 75, joined Mar. 2008	If you have a good husband or wife, and you get along well it is a good thing. but you don't have to have a husband or wife to survive. just keep on trucking, and enjoy your peace.
11/4/2015 2:26:19 AM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	^^you sure don't.
11/8/2015 2:12:00 PM	OK, so what's next?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 47, joined Sep. 2011	Endless possibilities

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