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2/7/2015 9:36:25 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

frankevalley
Brownsville, TX
27, joined Jul. 2014


This is for the people who know what I'm talking about. Call me faithful and old fashioned, but after years of trying to figure out what I want in a relationship, I'm ready for what I want. The only thing is I feel that if I'm dating someone that I would rather wait to get intimate. My ideal is to not have sex until I know for certain that the woman is the one I will spend the rest of my life with. I'd hope to wait until marriage but that can change depending on the relationship. But so far lots of women my age don't get it, and frankly I won't compromise on that. But what's everyone's opinion on keeping someone while waiting to make sure the person is a keeper?

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2/7/2015 9:44:09 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

pickygirl72
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Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011


Sex is important and is part if a good relationship. You need to see if you are compatible on ALL levels with someone b4 entering marriage.

Having sex doesn't make you a bad person.



[Edited 2/7/2015 9:45:44 PM ]

2/7/2015 10:57:24 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

ymia_dikhed
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Gresham, OR
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I've heard about sex before and here is what I think.

I think that if you feel that you have to wait to have sex with a Woman until you are pretty sure that she is the one then good for you. Where the sex is lacking keep in mind that it would be wise to compensate it in a manner that she doesn't start to think that you are not interested in her.

2/7/2015 11:23:37 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  
poet987
Tiffin, OH
41, joined Jan. 2015


Bro then you wont get laid until fifth anniversary. I say just let them decide when they are ready. They have needs to. Its just simpler that way. If you think its too soon you can tell her but she might think something is wrong.




[Edited 2/7/2015 11:23:56 PM ]

2/7/2015 11:24:24 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

irenes_shadow40
Conway, AR
74, joined Nov. 2013


That`s like saying , you want to remain a virgin, until you are ready for marriage, It could work if you meet a virgin woman who wants the same thing as you.
Otherwise buy the pig in a poke not knowing what you got. or buy the cow and enjoy the milk. either way you got to test the waters.

2/7/2015 11:48:44 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  
unique_woman
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,771)
Omaha, NE
27, joined Dec. 2014


Quote from ymia_dikhed:
I've heard about sex before and here is what I think.

I think that if you feel that you have to wait to have sex with a Woman until you are pretty sure that she is the one then good for you. Where the sex is lacking keep in mind that it would be wise to compensate it in a manner that she doesn't start to think that you are not interested in her.


I agree

2/8/2015 12:26:58 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  
luxorus
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,034)
Peoria, IL
36, joined Apr. 2014


what if you or her hates the sex?

2/8/2015 12:47:05 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  
amusicluvr
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,375)
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013


Use it, or lose it. If you wait too long to start having sex, you won't be able to have sex when you want to.

2/8/2015 12:51:05 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

vagmasterflash
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So if a supermodel dropped her panties, and grabbed your crank, you are going to humbly decline? Righhhhht.

2/8/2015 1:01:45 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

bumblebee7
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Nothing odd in his profile to dispute the post. I had to check, because there are some who have used a thread like this as a scam.

Op, in my generation, we were more brought up on the notion of waiting for sex, maybe till married and all that. But even the ones who seemed to stick to that marriage notion, did about everything else, but intercourse, and many past a certain young age, didn't stick to that notion as far as waiting till marriage or deep into the relation.

Moving forward, this generation wasn't brought up on those notions so much, T.V. examples don't depict it like in my day, the songs don't, its the first generation brought up on common porn...etc.

If you had said, wait until there are feelings, your committed....well, all there would have to be to keep her till then, is she having's feelings or strong interest.

But to wait till marriage or way off in the future, is asking a lot of the common person these days.

And I have to ask myself, what is a person like this doing on DH?

Dude, here and in life...it sounds like your barking up the wrong tree's... .you need to look in places where this would more likely be....like a church or where the types like this congregate and do things and a dating site more condusive to people with a similar mind frame.

2/8/2015 1:20:23 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

grneyesrme
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,606)
Sacramento, CA
47, joined Aug. 2013


I'm old, I've been around the block more than a few times..... I'm not waiting until marriage because I don't really care to be married again.

2/8/2015 6:23:18 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

testsignup
Over 2,000 Posts (3,965)
Springfield, VA
61, joined Sep. 2009


I suggest you reconsider your question, Frankevalley. Ask it again, but in a more generic way. It's a trick I figured out which helps sometimes.

A generic way to ask this question, might be something like

"How do I get someone to forget about what they want, until I get what I want?"

When you ask it that way, it's much more honest of you, and makes the correct answer pretty obvious. You DON'T try to find a woman who wants to have sex before committing, and then fool her into waiting around. You want to find someone who is already compatible with your way of mating.

2/8/2015 7:00:03 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

lovetodoit
Over 1,000 Posts (1,613)
Buffalo, MO
59, joined Sep. 2011


I like to spend all my sex I don't have a savings account for it. But if that's what u do that's ok.

2/8/2015 8:16:15 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

truckerdaddy915
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,792)
El Paso, TX
39, joined Feb. 2014


Quote from frankevalley:
This is for the people who know what I'm talking about. Call me faithful and old fashioned, but after years of trying to figure out what I want in a relationship, I'm ready for what I want. The only thing is I feel that if I'm dating someone that I would rather wait to get intimate. My ideal is to not have sex until I know for certain that the woman is the one I will spend the rest of my life with. I'd hope to wait until marriage but that can change depending on the relationship. But so far lots of women my age don't get it, and frankly I won't compromise on that. But what's everyone's opinion on keeping someone while waiting to make sure the person is a keeper?


Yeah, good luck with that.

2/8/2015 9:08:11 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  
mortara
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Quote from frankevalley:
This is for the people who know what I'm talking about. Call me faithful and old fashioned, but after years of trying to figure out what I want in a relationship, I'm ready for what I want. The only thing is I feel that if I'm dating someone that I would rather wait to get intimate. My ideal is to not have sex until I know for certain that the woman is the one I will spend the rest of my life with. I'd hope to wait until marriage but that can change depending on the relationship. But so far lots of women my age don't get it, and frankly I won't compromise on that. But what's everyone's opinion on keeping someone while waiting to make sure the person is a keeper?


By the data of Cupid and it seems the guy who stated it was a numbers guy, by 26, most women have had at least 6 partners. By 40, it's around 12.

He is the one that started saying having an ugly friend in the profile picture gets you more messages.

All I know is if your the 60 year old Cialis Man Model, your going to get long messages from 50 year old women including nurses who think they have met you before.



[Edited 2/8/2015 9:08:56 AM ]

2/8/2015 9:34:24 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

allseeme2
Manassas, VA
64, joined Feb. 2014


Quote from unique_woman:
I agree



Why not give it 3 months of dating her,,see what you both think,,you should be able to know something by then,,but in the mean time keep her interested in you,and let her know how you feel and your intentions.Dont let her think your not into her..



2/8/2015 9:37:14 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

nicoli7
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Louisville, KY
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Cunilingus on a regular basis.

2/8/2015 12:13:50 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

bouze
Durand, MI
54, joined Jul. 2010


REALLY , come on man your a PLAYER ! Your playing I'm a vergin card to see how many ladies will take the bait persay ! On the note of " OOoooh that's sooooo sweet.. " ladies this guy is good, NOT GREAT but good.. PLAYER / SCAMMER.. Think about this wone.

2/8/2015 12:14:49 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

lovethelake17
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (32,715)
Henderson, NV
56, joined May. 2009


What Testsignup said.

Something else to keep in mind--you are not the only one driving the relationship train. You both decide when the right time is. So, since you know what you want, it's best to find someone who feels as you do about it, so you start off making your relationship decisions together.

2/8/2015 12:45:12 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

packersbabe920
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (16,938)
Green Bay, WI
49, joined Jul. 2013


Quote from irenes_shadow40:
That`s like saying , you want to remain a virgin, until you are ready for marriage, It could work if you meet a virgin woman who wants the same thing as you.
Otherwise buy the pig in a poke not knowing what you got. or buy the cow and enjoy the milk. either way you got to test the waters.






2/8/2015 10:09:52 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

hugsnlaughter
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,909)
McKeesport, PA
54, joined Jul. 2007


I don't think there is anything wrong with being totally sure and wanting to wait for the right time to become intimate. I don't think you should put a limit on it though, you will know when you realize she is the right one. Keep in mind though you do want to be sure you are compatible in that area also and even if you are not intimate right away, she does have to feel you desire her in that way or she may think you are not interested.

2/8/2015 11:12:23 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

frankevalley
Brownsville, TX
27, joined Jul. 2014


I like everyone's opinions and I respect those who feel that waiting is not their thing. But waiting is my thing if I'm still debating whether I can see the woman as something more long term. After all, you never know if once you do it for the heck of it, the next morning you may be like "oh crap, I made a mistake" and she's all into you and in comes drama.
I'm no player but believe what you wanna believe. I was raised old fashioned and I see no reason to change that unless I can truly see myself with a woman. But in this age, if you jump into things and start being intimate with lots of women then over time you'll feel empty inside, satisfied temporarily by sex. In the long term you'll start to see women as nothing special and pretty soon you'll miss the chance when the right one comes along, and she sees that you truly don't value her.

2/8/2015 11:30:53 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  
lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
48, joined Jun. 2013


Personally, I think it's a healthy idea to put off sex until you know that the person is a keeper. I don't think there is anything wrong with building a friendship and dating someone for six months or longer while you get to know each other better and see where things could go.

It's difficult, however, when you are attracted to someone and you KNOW that you are willing to put in the effort to make a relationship work with them. You may know these things about yourself. However, it takes time to know if the other person feels the same way and wants the same things.

Sometimes attraction wins out over logic.

2/9/2015 2:03:04 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

xray6
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Quote from frankevalley:
This is for the people who know what I'm talking about. Call me faithful and old fashioned, but after years of trying to figure out what I want in a relationship, I'm ready for what I want. The only thing is I feel that if I'm dating someone that I would rather wait to get intimate. My ideal is to not have sex until I know for certain that the woman is the one I will spend the rest of my life with. I'd hope to wait until marriage but that can change depending on the relationship. But so far lots of women my age don't get it, and frankly I won't compromise on that. But what's everyone's opinion on keeping someone while waiting to make sure the person is a keeper?



GAY ^^^^

2/9/2015 2:57:21 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  
happylauren
Over 2,000 Posts (3,682)
Crown Point, IN
53, joined May. 2013


Follow your heart. If you want to wait it is the right thing for you to do. You only get one life to live and why not do it right ?

2/9/2015 3:02:59 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

naturebiy
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Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011


Quote from frankevalley:
This is for the people who know what I'm talking about. Call me faithful and old fashioned, but after years of trying to figure out what I want in a relationship, I'm ready for what I want. The only thing is I feel that if I'm dating someone that I would rather wait to get intimate. My ideal is to not have sex until I know for certain that the woman is the one I will spend the rest of my life with. I'd hope to wait until marriage but that can change depending on the relationship. But so far lots of women my age don't get it, and frankly I won't compromise on that. But what's everyone's opinion on keeping someone while waiting to make sure the person is a keeper?


You are 26?

In todays society, your best bet is to go to church in hopes of finding a woman with the same mentality.

I say that in all seriousness. .

There is nothing wrong with the old school mentality..

But in todays society..

So many people want instant gratification. .satisfaction. .and recognition.

It is a me me me world.

I do not blame people..yet it is just the conditioning that people have allowed themselves to go through.

Their is good hearted people out there that will appreciate you for you..

But it takes time.

Good luck

2/9/2015 3:03:17 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

a4umposter
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,756)
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Dec. 2014


OP, I think you should wait until you know she's the one if that's what you want to do, believe in & feel comfortable doing. It is best though if you date women who feel the same way as you; women who will wait until they find the right man.



[Edited 2/9/2015 3:03:44 AM ]

2/9/2015 3:54:45 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

ltlwing
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,421)
Williamsburg, OH
51, joined Oct. 2013


Quote from naturebiy:
You are 26?

In todays society, your best bet is to go to church in hopes of finding a woman with the same mentality.

I say that in all seriousness. .

There is nothing wrong with the old school mentality..

But in todays society..

So many people want instant gratification. .satisfaction. .and recognition.

It is a me me me world.

I do not blame people..yet it is just the conditioning that people have allowed themselves to go through.

Their is good hearted people out there that will appreciate you for you..

But it takes time.

Good luck



Read his profile...he goes to church.I agree that you need to date a person with the same views as you.Do what is good for you! Nothing worse to me than a crowd pleaser.No one person is the same in what they want,or expect in starting any relationship...Just do "You"..you will do fine.

2/9/2015 8:21:17 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

bumblebee7
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^^^^^^^yep....I'd say his problem is barking up the wrong tree's.....such as this site in a way too.

but, maybe he has the syndrome that some young girls have.

he wants this in a person....yet is attracted to a different kind, than that.

2/9/2015 9:22:21 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

cubcougar
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,707)
Lucerne, CA
62, joined Oct. 2010


sheesh ... OP is f**ked up in his Duck Disease he got from his mom and dad ... and he is also stuck in his Toddler Tantrum mentality so that is as far as his mind can work.

In another country he would be tossing virgins into the volcano God while shouting our abortion is murder.

In this country his God the Father has baby sex with is daughters ... at the right time .. like duhhhhh



2/9/2015 9:41:15 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  
Champaree
Australian Capital
Australia
84, joined Jan. 2015


Quote from vagmasterflash:
So if a supermodel dropped her panties, and grabbed your crank, you are going to humbly decline? Righhhhht.


Shhhhhh ... Don't scare him

2/9/2015 11:32:35 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

kawkasian
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,997)
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014


Quote from frankevalley:
This is for the people who know what I'm talking about. Call me faithful and old fashioned, but after years of trying to figure out what I want in a relationship, I'm ready for what I want. The only thing is I feel that if I'm dating someone that I would rather wait to get intimate. My ideal is to not have sex until I know for certain that the woman is the one I will spend the rest of my life with. I'd hope to wait until marriage but that can change depending on the relationship. But so far lots of women my age don't get it, and frankly I won't compromise on that. But what's everyone's opinion on keeping someone while waiting to make sure the person is a keeper?


Well what is your explanation for waiting. Intimacy (re: F**king) with someone you are close to is going to bring you closer, not farther apart...so why wait?



[Edited 2/9/2015 11:33:43 AM ]

2/9/2015 11:53:28 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

cubcougar
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,707)
Lucerne, CA
62, joined Oct. 2010


Quote from ltlwing:
Read his profile...he goes to church.I agree that you need to date a person with the same views as you.Do what is good for you! Nothing worse to me than a crowd pleaser.No one person is the same in what they want,or expect in starting any relationship...Just do "You"..you will do fine.



Yup .. he be an alcoholic .. she better view up and drink that alcohol as well.

Yup ... he be a taco sauce on the swartzn**ger guy ... she better view up and lick that taco sauce clean.

Yup .. he be drinking kool aid at the Jim Town Church ... she better view up and kool aid it as well.

You need to date a person with the same views as you as they cooperate with your Duck Disease so much better.

Great family fun and the kids love it.

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2/9/2015 12:01:29 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

truheartofgold
Saugerties, NY
57, joined May. 2012


Having read alot of the online dating advice from the experts I have to laugh.They suggest waiting to have sex.In everyone of my long term relationships we had sex the first night.If a man likes you enough to continue seeing you having sex right away won't matter.I say have sex right away to ensure you are compatible in that department.It's one of the most important aspects of any relationship and its also enjoyable so why not

2/9/2015 12:03:14 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

truheartofgold
Saugerties, NY
57, joined May. 2012


I just realized that didn't quite answer the question If thats what you are looking for obviously you need to find someone who respects and has the same feelings you do.

2/9/2015 12:13:56 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

cubcougar
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,707)
Lucerne, CA
62, joined Oct. 2010


Quote from truheartofgold:
Having read alot of the online dating advice from the experts I have to laugh.They suggest waiting to have sex.In everyone of my long term relationships we had sex the first night.If a man likes you enough to continue seeing you having sex right away won't matter.I say have sex right away to ensure you are compatible in that department.It's one of the most important aspects of any relationship and its also enjoyable so why not




Sex is a good one ... I did that early with my first wife and took awhile to discover I was rubbing her raw and it was painful sex for little her I am sorry to say.

If she was going to have sex with a black man .. it would be a black midget.

As size matters ...

I do better with women that have Scorpio, Cancer, Virgo, Taurus stuff in their chart somewhere as they can take a proper p*ssy pumping with those mean down strokes tossed in.



2/9/2015 1:42:13 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

spaceface79
Over 1,000 Posts (1,277)
Des Moines, IA
35, joined Mar. 2014


There are women out there who will wait, op.
My man won't have sex until we are married. Not my decision, but I love him, so, for me it was a no brainer.

If it feels wrong, don't do it.

2/9/2015 2:04:18 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

spaceface79
Over 1,000 Posts (1,277)
Des Moines, IA
35, joined Mar. 2014


Oh, but to answer the question? Be sure to give a lot of affection, and make sure she knows that you find her attractive.

Otherwise, she will probably think you are gay.

2/9/2015 2:08:21 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

cubcougar
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,707)
Lucerne, CA
62, joined Oct. 2010


Quote from spaceface79:
There are women out there who will wait, op.
My man won't have sex until we are married. Not my decision, but I love him, so, for me it was a no brainer.

If it feels wrong, don't do it.



Cause you love her soooooo much and you spent soooooo much time and emotional investment ... when you get to the sex part ... well that is going to be good sex just like God the Father doing his daughter the Virgin Mary was good sex.

They waited until she was married ... oh no ... it is the other way around.

Anyhow ... when you get to the sex part and it is bad sex as you are to big for her and rub her raw.

She will leave you as it hurts ... and to my mind that is very understandable and really the best thing for her if she wants to have good sex.

Cause she not getting it with you ... as much as she loves you it is bad sex.

So it is her decision to leave ... and she loves you never the less.

She just wants to take a roll in the clover, lay her down and do it again.

No doing it again with you around ... once is enough and really too much.

Size matters ...



2/9/2015 3:28:34 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  
lookin4him2012
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Boone, NC
46, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from frankevalley:
This is for the people who know what I'm talking about. Call me faithful and old fashioned, but after years of trying to figure out what I want in a relationship, I'm ready for what I want. The only thing is I feel that if I'm dating someone that I would rather wait to get intimate. My ideal is to not have sex until I know for certain that the woman is the one I will spend the rest of my life with. I'd hope to wait until marriage but that can change depending on the relationship. But so far lots of women my age don't get it, and frankly I won't compromise on that. But what's everyone's opinion on keeping someone while waiting to make sure the person is a keeper?


I think that waiting to jump in the bed with someone is a good idea but waiting until you know they are the person you would be willing to marry might be a bit long. Most men I date I don't even think about marriage stuff until we've been dating a good 3-6 months or longer in some cases - and even then they usually end in disaster, hence, the reason I am currently single again.

2/9/2015 3:30:32 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  
lookin4him2012
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,698)
Boone, NC
46, joined Jan. 2012


Oh and forgot to mention that I did date a man that wanted to wait til marriage to have sex and declared that to all his family and friends. But yet we had sex several times in the months we dated and he expected to get a blow job anytime we were together. Evidently orgasms and cumming in someone's mouth isn't considered sex to some men. That guy was a fake and a loser.

2/10/2015 1:29:47 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

miss_checkin
Jasper, MO
39, joined May. 2014


I think its admiral to be willing to put that emotional connection first. I for one do not sleep around and would respect a man who wanted me for me not for what my body has to offer.

2/10/2015 1:37:01 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

naturebiy
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Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011


Quote from miss_checkin:
I think its admiral to be willing to put that emotional connection first. I for one do not sleep around and would respect a man who wanted me for me not for what my body has to offer.


Do you enjoy cookies?

2/10/2015 2:09:02 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

miss_checkin
Jasper, MO
39, joined May. 2014


Quote from naturebiy:
Do you enjoy cookies?


Is that your version of ....Do you want some candy little girl?

2/10/2015 2:11:34 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

naturebiy
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Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011


Quote from miss_checkin:
Is that your version of ....Do you want some candy little girl?



lol... that was a good one

2/10/2015 2:27:20 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

bumblebee7
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How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time ?? he ask.

well if you mean sex as in intercourse, the answer is have a great tongue.

2/10/2015 8:15:16 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

cubcougar
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Lucerne, CA
62, joined Oct. 2010


Quote from miss_checkin:
I think its admiral to be willing to put that emotional connection first. I for one do not sleep around and would respect a man who wanted me for me not for what my body has to offer.


I don't sleep around either sweetie ... and I give my self to my partner as I engage in serial monogamy. (hey, they are the ones who leave ...)

when ever you find a guy you want to sleep with and he wants to give him self to you.

then you will understand.

right now all the guys you f**ked are boy sluts and will not do that; so you lack that experience in your knowledge base.

your defense structure wants to you marry someone like dear old mom and dear old dad .. and your dad did not give him self to your mom ... it got into your Duck Disease and that has to be healed up as your defense structure is doing that work any way.

you dad was a boy slut .. and you are only interested in boy sluts right now.

me ... you are not interested in me what so ever.

I tell the truth and it is disturbing to hear or read ... (lies are comfortable like the lies you dad tells).

I give my self to my woman ... and trust me some women do not want that as they are girl sluts and sex addicts playing romance games ... with their comfortable lies they tell constantly avoiding the disturbing truth.

God wants you to f**k around .. why else did he make the Virgin Mary f**k him and then go f**k her husband.

No condoms .. Dope in the Vatican approved.

Thou Shall Not Covet Your Neighbors Daughter or Son ... so sex with children is OK according to the Bible that God wrote with his errorless pen.

This is why Priest that bugger your children go to Heaven ... to do 40 virgins up there.

The Bible was written by Jesus of course .. not by rich, creepy old guys wearing dresses.

You see a 13 year old boy who WANTS to hang out with old guys that wear dresses .. something is wrong.



2/10/2015 9:20:20 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  
missamicable
Orlando, FL
55, joined Jul. 2014


I like you thinking OP.

If i become intimate with a man, he will know that we are in a committed relationship and it will not be because of LUST.

2/10/2015 11:51:24 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

miss_checkin
Jasper, MO
39, joined May. 2014


Quote from cubcougar:
I don't sleep around either sweetie ... and I give my self to my partner as I engage in serial monogamy. (hey, they are the ones who leave ...)

when ever you find a guy you want to sleep with and he wants to give him self to you.

then you will understand.

right now all the guys you f**ked are boy sluts and will not do that; so you lack that experience in your knowledge base.

your defense structure wants to you marry someone like dear old mom and dear old dad .. and your dad did not give him self to your mom ... it got into your Duck Disease and that has to be healed up as your defense structure is doing that work any way.

you dad was a boy slut .. and you are only interested in boy sluts right now.

me ... you are not interested in me what so ever.

I tell the truth and it is disturbing to hear or read ... (lies are comfortable like the lies you dad tells).

I give my self to my woman ... and trust me some women do not want that as they are girl sluts and sex addicts playing romance games ... with their comfortable lies they tell constantly avoiding the disturbing truth.

God wants you to f**k around .. why else did he make the Virgin Mary f**k him and then go f**k her husband.

No condoms .. Dope in the Vatican approved.

Thou Shall Not Covet Your Neighbors Daughter or Son ... so sex with children is OK according to the Bible that God wrote with his errorless pen.

This is why Priest that bugger your children go to Heaven ... to do 40 virgins up there.

The Bible was written by Jesus of course .. not by rich, creepy old guys wearing dresses.

You see a 13 year old boy who WANTS to hang out with old guys that wear dresses .. something is wrong.


Your of course entitled to your opinion. Knowing nothing about me of course makes it a mute point. But I do give you credit for creativity'

2/10/2015 2:59:47 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  
amusicluvr
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,375)
Salem, OR
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OP - Unless you can invent a time machine, and go back to the year 12, you are out of luck. Todays women want sex as much as the men do...whether they admit it, or not. If you don't supply the sex, they will not keep you around.

2/10/2015 3:04:42 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

twining
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Steve Harvey's 90 day rule. Or set an exact number of dates before getting intimate .

2/10/2015 6:15:39 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

debyduh
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The only problem is what happens if you wait and end up with really bad sex?

2/10/2015 6:28:01 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

cubcougar
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,707)
Lucerne, CA
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Quote from miss_checkin:
Your of course entitled to your opinion. Knowing nothing about me of course makes it a mute point. But I do give you credit for creativity'



nawww ... it is simple psychology on how the Transference Mechanism works (Counter-Transference is when you hate some one) as it is all projection of your unfinished issues with mom and dad.

this is why Mr. Right is just like dear old dad .. or Mrs Right is just like dear old mom.

Can not get away from it ...until one fixes up the Duck Disease in the Human Condition.

In your case Miss Checkin ... from your choice of language you are NOT a virgin .. that cherry was popped some time ago.

The OP .. that guy has not given him self to his woman yet ... so he f**ks around naturally as a boy slut sex addict and that is part of the human condition I am sorry to say.

When he does do that ... if he has the will and consciousness to engage in the discipline for selfish reasons.

Then his brain will change from the hormones and he will naturally start to live as a Man.

As you might surmise .. I don't f**k around.

This is a global consciousness issue in the Human Condition when a person starts to do that.

They don't f**k around with the truth ... don't f**k around with money ... don't lie cheat steal sort of thing.

Don't make a mess, don't argue, quibble or fight ...

just lays it out there.

Simple as that ... which is what stop f**king around does.

The Truth is like an arrow .. swift and sure.

If the guy or gals truth is long winded, complicated, convuluted, sophisticated, twisted ... they are doing a lie, bull shit and f**king around with you.

Viva Cinco De Mayo Putah Pendajo Gringo Cavassa sort of thing.

We illegal messicans and have to celebrate being illegal messicans.

Deal with it libtard b*tches sort of thing .. they are not american and they f**k around.

Tried any taco sauce on your swartzn**ger lately ...

great family fun and the kids love it of course.

The Virgin Mary takes it that way .... getting her Calista Billary Shirver game on.

The learning curve is a bit flat at first but the more you put into it the more you get out of it.

Good luck ...

But Missy Checking ... you talking shit as you don't have any experience then what you have had.

The Cherry Pops thingy mentioned earlier ... as you don't f**k around.

sure you don't ...

neither did you dad ... sure he didn't

sumbuddie wear blind sea

[URL=http://www.sherv.net/][/URL]

2/10/2015 6:38:51 PM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

twining
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Quote from debyduh:
The only problem is what happens if you wait and end up with really bad sex?


Hopefully after whatever time you wait you can teach as well. Communication is what's needed to have GREAT sex.

2/11/2015 1:30:11 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

perka1
Fresno, CA
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I know what u mean im saving myself for mr,,, right,,,i used to not care,,,,,, but i have not had sex in 12 yrs ,,,,so im. Saving myself for my soul mate,,,

2/11/2015 2:10:05 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

miss_checkin
Jasper, MO
39, joined May. 2014


Quote from cubcougar:
nawww ... it is simple psychology on how the Transference Mechanism works (Counter-Transference is when you hate some one) as it is all projection of your unfinished issues with mom and dad.

this is why Mr. Right is just like dear old dad .. or Mrs Right is just like dear old mom.

Can not get away from it ...until one fixes up the Duck Disease in the Human Condition.

In your case Miss Checkin ... from your choice of language you are NOT a virgin .. that cherry was popped some time ago.

The OP .. that guy has not given him self to his woman yet ... so he f**ks around naturally as a boy slut sex addict and that is part of the human condition I am sorry to say.

When he does do that ... if he has the will and consciousness to engage in the discipline for selfish reasons.

Then his brain will change from the hormones and he will naturally start to live as a Man.

As you might surmise .. I don't f**k around.

This is a global consciousness issue in the Human Condition when a person starts to do that.

They don't f**k around with the truth ... don't f**k around with money ... don't lie cheat steal sort of thing.

Don't make a mess, don't argue, quibble or fight ...

just lays it out there.

Simple as that ... which is what stop f**king around does.

The Truth is like an arrow .. swift and sure.

If the guy or gals truth is long winded, complicated, convuluted, sophisticated, twisted ... they are doing a lie, bull shit and f**king around with you.

Viva Cinco De Mayo Putah Pendajo Gringo Cavassa sort of thing.

We illegal messicans and have to celebrate being illegal messicans.

Deal with it libtard b*tches sort of thing .. they are not american and they f**k around.

Tried any taco sauce on your swartzn**ger lately ...

great family fun and the kids love it of course.

The Virgin Mary takes it that way .... getting her Calista Billary Shirver game on.

The learning curve is a bit flat at first but the more you put into it the more you get out of it.

Good luck ...

But Missy Checking ... you talking shit as you don't have any experience then what you have had.

The Cherry Pops thingy mentioned earlier ... as you don't f**k around.

sure you don't ...

neither did you dad ... sure he didn't

sumbuddie wear blind sea

[URL=http://www.sherv.net/][/URL]

I don't talk shit. I prefer to be supportive. I don't understand why people have to choose to be hateful or always on the attack. I did nothing but support the gentleman on what his values are. We all make our own decisions. Doing something that feels wrong is disrespecting yourself.

2/11/2015 2:45:27 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

Elisa78
GhurianAlmería
Spain
36, joined Jan. 2015


Quote from pickygirl72:
Sex is important and is part if a good relationship. You need to see if you are compatible on ALL levels with someone b4 entering marriage.

Having sex doesn't make you a bad person.


I agree with that, but u should explain to her what you think because other way she can think u r not desire her.

2/11/2015 2:47:30 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  
amusicluvr
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,375)
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013


If he remains a virgin-waiting to have sex until he is married-and he marries a woman who also waited, and never had sex, neither of them will be able to teach the other a thing about sex, and the sex they do have will be lousy. What then? Does he go through life with lousy sex, or no sex, or does he get divorced,and finally marry a non-virgin, who can teach him something?



[Edited 2/11/2015 2:48:23 AM ]

2/11/2015 2:50:52 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

Elisa78
GhurianAlmería
Spain
36, joined Jan. 2015


Quote from amusicluvr:
If he remains a virgin-waiting to have sex until he is married-and he marries a woman who also waited, and never had sex, neither of them will be able to teach the other a thing about sex, and the sex they do have will be lousy. What then? Does he go through life with lousy sex, or no sex, or does he get divorced,and finally marry a non-virgin, who can teach him something?




Hahahahahahahahahhahah, could be a problem isn't

2/11/2015 5:20:59 AM How to keep a girl while saving sex for the right time?  

twining
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,972)
Anderson, SC
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Quote from amusicluvr:
If he remains a virgin-waiting to have sex until he is married-and he marries a woman who also waited, and never had sex, neither of them will be able to teach the other a thing about sex, and the sex they do have will be lousy. What then? Does he go through life with lousy sex, or no sex, or does he get divorced,and finally marry a non-virgin, who can teach him something?



They invented porno and communication. Whoever you're with whether a virgin or slut won't know what you want or like unless you tell them.