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up2youandme
Chandler, AZ
42, joined Jan. 2014
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The people. ..so we should all be flagged ....
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| 2/16/2015 6:52:23 PM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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perhaps one of the biggest problem here is about the flag issue ,,,i really dont have any idea for how long or how many times youve been flagged before your profile be deleted by the management of DH ,,,and is there any officer here at dh ,,,who conducts an investigation about the reason of flagging ? 
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| 2/16/2015 6:54:17 PM |
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reverend_chill
Boca Raton, FL
44, joined Jan. 2014
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the biggest problem anyone here has is themselves...
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| 2/16/2015 7:17:16 PM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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youve got a point there ,,,coz i also noticed that ....
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| 2/16/2015 7:18:52 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
63, joined Oct. 2013
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I have met the enemy and the enemy is me
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ol39er
Cicero, IL
45, joined Jul. 2011
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The biggest problem is adults acting like snotty teenagers. Many great serious threads are ruined that way.
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| 2/16/2015 7:19:59 PM |
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up2youandme
Chandler, AZ
42, joined Jan. 2014
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perhaps one of the biggest problem here is about the flag issue ,,,i really dont have any idea for how long or how many times youve been flagged before your profile be deleted by the management of DH ,,,and is there any officer here at dh ,,,who conducts an investigation about the reason of flagging ?
Yeah lol that's not the kind of flagging im talking about lol a whipping is what I'm talking about lol
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| 2/16/2015 7:23:35 PM |
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stumppy
Wind Gap, PA
71, joined Jan. 2008
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Lack of wisdom
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| 2/16/2015 7:29:48 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
59, joined Jul. 2010
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Site needs the traffic and as a result chaos rules w/basically no rules.
Followed closely by the shills and their various multiple profiles propping up threads.
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| 2/16/2015 7:32:52 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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First.
No one, including me, takes them seriously. The women I'd consider dating are either in a relationship or too far away for dating. The rest are just clowns.
Most aren't even that good, but I've corresponded with some nice ones now and then. They know who they are. 
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| 2/16/2015 7:33:29 PM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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Lack of wisdom
yeah you are right sir ! bcoz im from another country ,,and i just wanna tell you that im really still adjusting in some words and phrases that i really couldnt understand ...that people here were using ,,,,
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| 2/16/2015 7:35:23 PM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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@ up2 will you please explain it to me sir ,,,so that at least ill know what youre trying to imply
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| 2/16/2015 7:46:02 PM |
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mrhankchinaski
Aurora, CO
56, joined Aug. 2014
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The biggest problem is lame threads and uptight boring posters.
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| 2/16/2015 7:49:57 PM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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Site needs the traffic and as a result chaos rules w/basically no rules.
Followed closely by the shills and their various multiple profiles propping up threads.
i hope dh management will do something about this ,,,,
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| 2/16/2015 7:53:32 PM |
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stumppy
Wind Gap, PA
71, joined Jan. 2008
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Geleen,
Learning words and phrases are a matter of education.
Knowing when best to use words and phrases is when wisdom is needed.
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| 2/16/2015 7:55:17 PM |
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teeheehee_
Montreal, QC
36, joined Jun. 2014
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The biggest problem is when you people aren't being funny. 
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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Geleen,
Learning words and phrases are a matter of education.
Knowing when best to use words and phrases is when wisdom is needed.
i very well understand you sir ,,,thanks for reminding me sir ,,,,but to be honest with you ,,,im still doing my best to learn words and phrases which were used in a different meanings ,,,and i admit i sometimes used some words and phrases in a different manner or in replying which i thought it is right ,,,,again thank you sir  ill do my best to remember words that were frequently spoken here and do my best to reply or to post an input which i think is right and correct ,,,,
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| 2/16/2015 9:08:32 PM |
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machug59
Fairfield, CA
97, joined Dec. 2011
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The biggest problem here? Look at these threads...very hurt, angry, bitter people. Frustrated that they can't or won't express and vent all that pent up feeling, to their families or friends for fer that it will drive them all away. Then, they would be all alone with just themselves for company. So they come here, to a dating site, and unleash it all on people they don't know, won't ever meet, have no emotional investment in, so they can feel better...just for a while.
Some of them, have so much built up, it will take more than venting here to really help them, but they won't admit it. They let what they can out and then go out and put on their better behavior to interact with those outside of here they see face to face.
What's a shame, is all that hate, anger just adds more fuel to the others and round and round it goes...
It doesn't matter if you are a nice person, try to ignore them, say nothing to them...
they will insult and follow you around, trying to start fights.
Since this site doesn't seem to care much, all we can do is ignore, block, or delete.
To engage in fighting with them, only whips it up more.
Sad, lonely little trolls...a shame.
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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now i knew that in general people were the real ones who is making the biggest problem here at the forums ,,,,which was also stated by one of the people who posted an input to this thread ,,,,thanks
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| 2/17/2015 3:17:51 AM |
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pj_penn
Bakersfield, CA
34, joined Dec. 2014
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Mullet & Jake trashed this forum it will never be the same again.
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| 2/17/2015 3:19:22 AM |
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yetskimama
Walterboro, SC
67, joined Sep. 2011
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The biggest problem here? Look at these threads...very hurt, angry, bitter people. Frustrated that they can't or won't express and vent all that pent up feeling, to their families or friends for fer that it will drive them all away. Then, they would be all alone with just themselves for company. So they come here, to a dating site, and unleash it all on people they don't know, won't ever meet, have no emotional investment in, so they can feel better...just for a while.
Some of them, have so much built up, it will take more than venting here to really help them, but they won't admit it. They let what they can out and then go out and put on their better behavior to interact with those outside of here they see face to face.
What's a shame, is all that hate, anger just adds more fuel to the others and round and round it goes...
It doesn't matter if you are a nice person, try to ignore them, say nothing to them...
they will insult and follow you around, trying to start fights.
Since this site doesn't seem to care much, all we can do is ignore, block, or delete.
To engage in fighting with them, only whips it up more.
Sad, lonely little trolls...a shame.
  I agree with you::thumbsup:have a great day.:
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| 2/17/2015 3:24:27 AM |
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machug59
Fairfield, CA
97, joined Dec. 2011
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 yets
Hey darlin, hope you have been well.
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| 2/17/2015 4:13:16 AM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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@ yets hello ,,,miss you at the blogs ,,,,
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| 2/17/2015 4:46:53 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Probably the biggest problem is.
not enough people getting sex.
the solution: more sex.
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| 2/17/2015 4:49:09 AM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
50, joined Jun. 2014
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dh has funny rules
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| 2/17/2015 5:04:16 AM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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# bumblebee ...wow i dont think that will be the right solution here ,,,,
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| 2/17/2015 5:05:31 AM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
50, joined Jun. 2014
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they give people in the forums power to do things that they abuse.
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| 2/17/2015 5:09:27 AM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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well youve got a point there ,,,,
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| 2/17/2015 5:14:40 AM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
50, joined Jun. 2014
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most really know my antics in here aren't real just meant for fun.i rant and they rant back.its a big laugh for all.i even miss spell cause u know it a big one for others to come back at me with.there are some that are not so much like me.they just want to be a troll.i could name a few but they mostly hang at that other site now.scoobisback is one of the worst.u find its them that use dh rules to get people deleted and suspended because they think its funny.
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| 2/17/2015 5:50:08 AM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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i do understand your predicament ,,,coz i too.... experienced to be bullied here ,,,when i was just starting.....and i just ignored those people ,,,,coz i know im not doing wrong and i dont have the intention to do bad things to other people ,,,,i participate at the forums to learn and to have fun also ....
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| 2/17/2015 6:41:41 AM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
50, joined Jun. 2014
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like I said most of the trolls are gone now and things have gotten better.scoobis back still pops up in here every so often but most don't anymore.
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| 2/17/2015 6:44:20 AM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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i see ,,,well to be honest with you jester ,,i really cant remember the names of those trolls but i can remember their profile pics that they used here before
and yes i remember scoob also ,,,,
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| 2/17/2015 6:46:49 AM |
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photoartistguy
Minneapolis, MN
28, joined Dec. 2007
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Stupid people
Nothing can be done about them
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| 2/17/2015 6:53:08 AM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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perhaps there is... if we are going to understand and be patient with them and give them a chance to be heard also ...just saying
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| 2/17/2015 7:00:36 AM |
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photoartistguy
Minneapolis, MN
28, joined Dec. 2007
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Oh
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| 2/17/2015 7:25:33 AM |
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kawkasian
Beverly Hills, CA
37, joined Sep. 2014
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what do you think is the biggest problem here at the forums ? and what do you think people should do about it ?
The stupid auto rules
out of quotes
chatting detected
you can only post so many posts in a limited time
etc
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| 2/17/2015 8:21:42 AM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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what do you mean chatting detected ?
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| 2/17/2015 8:23:33 AM |
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photoartistguy
Minneapolis, MN
28, joined Dec. 2007
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what do you mean chatting detected ?
It means alot of chat
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| 2/17/2015 8:25:09 AM |
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kawkasian
Beverly Hills, CA
37, joined Sep. 2014
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What do you mean Flash Gordon approaching
Open fire!
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| 2/17/2015 8:29:39 AM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
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| 2/17/2015 12:29:11 PM |
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zane097
Arvada, CO
50, joined May. 2014
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the biggest problem anyone here has is themselves...
This is applicable to everyone but me however.
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| 2/17/2015 12:31:37 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
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| 2/17/2015 12:33:59 PM |
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acdmv
Binghamton, NY
49, joined Aug. 2014
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Technical and security issues...
The fact that we still can't post vids 7 months after the initial problems is an overture to that...
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| 2/17/2015 1:10:55 PM |
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whynotme455
Canton, MI
52, joined Jan. 2015
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My is being open and honest also in relationship don't shut me out no secrets liers and cheaters is another problem so theses are my biggest problems in Relationships id also have trust issues im working on it
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| 2/17/2015 7:32:22 PM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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@ ac ,,yeah thats what some of the people complain about here also
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| 2/17/2015 7:33:44 PM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
50, joined Dec. 2014
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The stupid auto rules
out of quotes
chatting detected
you can only post so many posts in a limited time
etc
Yeah i dont like thos either...
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| 2/17/2015 8:14:22 PM |
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dlbpearl52
Irvington, KY
55, joined Nov. 2014
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Well one thing is . and I've just got back on here after 3 year off here been back on since Jan. Had problem with my profile I was honest . in explaining my interest. But that didn't make difference to some people. It seem I was blocking someone once or twice a day for sending me inappropriate pic. That's just childish. And stupid. Well maybe I block to many ..but yesterday I could sigh back on my profile. And had get another one. Now my profile is still on here and I can delete it.. That the stupidness of this site. Don't understand . what customer support for if not going to help you .. hell they got email address you think they smart enough to figure out the problem and get back to you. Just say did won't to have make another profile just get back on site.. It stupid.
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| 2/17/2015 8:16:46 PM |
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brandycool1
Syracuse, NY
47, joined Jun. 2013
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Chatting detected, limited quotes, no video, flagging, general skullduggery ...
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| 2/18/2015 3:33:40 AM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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@ pearl52 i think thats also the biggest prob of almost dh members here ,,,i too receive a bad pics ,,,
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| 2/18/2015 3:34:19 AM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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@ brandy ...yeah thats one also
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| 2/18/2015 3:35:00 AM |
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sincetta
Mobile, AL
31, joined May. 2014
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nto enough trolew
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| 2/18/2015 3:37:09 AM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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what ?
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| 2/18/2015 5:19:03 AM |
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stumppy
Wind Gap, PA
71, joined Jan. 2008
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OT
The prevalent problem is the pervasive insistence by many posters is that only their prejudiced beliefs are correct.
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| 2/18/2015 5:41:31 AM |
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sincetta
Mobile, AL
31, joined May. 2014
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Quote from stumppy:OT
The prevalent problem is the pervasive insistence by many posters is that only their prejudiced beliefs are correct.
eh.. i don't think so.. prejudice is all they know. why shouldn't it be "correct"? prejudiced beliefs? ah snap.
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| 2/18/2015 6:01:18 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
64, joined Sep. 2009
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what do you think is the biggest problem here at the forums ? and what do you think people should do about it ?
It's simple.
Problem: no enforced rules of decorum.
Solution: those of us who support such things, ignore or block those who don't.
Secondary problem: all the dweebs who will block and ignore while still being swine themselves. One man's brave freedom of speech, is another one's public masturbation and self worship.
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| 2/18/2015 6:03:59 AM |
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sincetta
Mobile, AL
31, joined May. 2014
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Quote from testsignup:One man's brave freedom of speech, is another one's public masturbation and self worship.
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| 2/18/2015 6:20:39 AM |
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geleen217
Manila
Philippines
57, joined Sep. 2014
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@ test thats a good suggestion to solve the problem at the forums ...
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