| 2/18/2015 7:17:10 AM |
U can't give your heart to a man |
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trisha5473
Columbus, IN
46, joined Sep. 2014
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| 1. when u think its okay to trust he will run off with your rent money. |
| 2. I wish I could put his name on this he on this site |
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| 2/18/2015 7:38:51 AM |
U can't give your heart to a man |
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frank_underwood
Columbia, SC
60, joined Jun. 2013
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You ate the rent money
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| 2/18/2015 1:07:43 PM |
U can't give your heart to a man |
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pike45
Omaha, NE
63, joined Feb. 2009
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Why was he touching your money to begin with.
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| 2/18/2015 5:16:01 PM |
U can't give your heart to a man |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
62, joined Sep. 2009
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Oldest rule there is: never lend anyone anything you can't afford to lose altogether.
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| 2/18/2015 5:49:37 PM |
U can't give your heart to a man |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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How did he get your rent money in the first place?
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| 2/18/2015 5:59:32 PM |
U can't give your heart to a man |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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It wasn't just the rent I bet..sad.
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| 2/18/2015 7:03:52 PM |
U can't give your heart to a man |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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You don't give money.. He's suppose to gave his own!!
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| 2/18/2015 7:50:10 PM |
U can't give your heart to a man |
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
81, joined Aug. 2013
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Should've swallowed, OP!!
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| 2/18/2015 11:49:02 PM |
U can't give your heart to a man |
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tjl503
Portland, OR
36, joined Dec. 2012
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I'm guessing you got boned and taken for your rent money. Nice poll, you come off as a dumb shit posting this poll. Do you really want us to choose between those two options? What will you do with this poll data? Stop thinking about your ex and how you're going to get back at him and MOVE ON HO!
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| 2/22/2015 6:04:23 AM |
U can't give your heart to a man |
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theloser2123
Manassas, VA
24, joined Apr. 2014
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But you can give a blowjob and a cheeseburger. Probably your specialty
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| 2/22/2015 8:12:16 PM |
U can't give your heart to a man |
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blondie855
Fort Madison, IA
60, joined Aug. 2014
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Op.... Never.... Never.... Never... Leave money lying around or loan money!!!!
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| 2/22/2015 8:26:25 PM |
U can't give your heart to a man |
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b2cold
Elk Grove Village, IL
36, joined Mar. 2014
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I will not give a woman my heart, its cold & locked up.
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| 2/24/2015 2:22:13 PM |
U can't give your heart to a man |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
52, joined Mar. 2014
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Op, my paralegal teach told her students in class one day, "Never let your emotions overule your business sense or financial sense."
I stick to that rule no matter what. I am not going to get so hung up on a man that I give him the ability to take advantage of me financially should he turn out to not be the man I thought he was.
Let this be a lesson learned the hard way for you hun. In the future keep your finances seperate from his and do not get yourself in a situation where if something happens between the two of you that you are not able to survive on your own.
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| 2/24/2015 9:30:37 PM |
U can't give your heart to a man |
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trisha5473
Columbus, IN
46, joined Sep. 2014
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I was at work my daughter in law cash her check and gave him the money to pay the rent they left the house and he pack all his clothes abd ran off with the rent money he had gain our trust and was playing with my grandbabies everyday I didn't think he would do that
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| 2/24/2015 9:33:58 PM |
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trisha5473
Columbus, IN
46, joined Sep. 2014
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I was at work so he said he would go an pay it my daughter in law cash her check gave him the rent money they left the house he pack his clothes along with the rent money
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| 2/24/2015 10:04:36 PM |
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frank_underwood
Columbia, SC
60, joined Jun. 2013
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OP's actually dumber than she looks: she's got that early onset dementia going on
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| 2/25/2015 1:31:27 PM |
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my2sunshine
Pulaski, NY
50, joined Apr. 2013
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What happened to using banks and writing checks for rent?
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| 2/27/2015 2:40:05 AM |
U can't give your heart to a man |
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trisha5473
Columbus, IN
46, joined Sep. 2014
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U wouldn't say that if u had two grandbabies in the house that he played with every f**king day an if I didn't have friends me and my family would be on the street
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| 2/27/2015 2:41:24 AM |
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trisha5473
Columbus, IN
46, joined Sep. 2014
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No u good at that
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| 3/1/2015 1:33:53 AM |
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ymia_dikhed
Gresham, OR
42, joined Dec. 2011
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U wouldn't say that if u had two grandbabies in the house that he played with every f**king day an if I didn't have friends me and my family would be on the street
That's F**ked up.
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| 3/7/2015 10:02:27 PM |
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Sanfeliz
Haverhill, MA
30, joined Jan. 2015
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Date someone who has something to lose... My ex bf said
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| 3/9/2015 12:07:55 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
48, joined Jan. 2012
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First off OP you are doing many things wrong if you are (1) living with a man you barely
know, (2) living with a man and not being married first and (3) trusting any man with your
money until you know him very well. You need to step up and take your part of the blame on
this one. Make stupid decisions for some d8ck and you sometimes have to reap the
consequences. 
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| 3/9/2015 1:45:07 PM |
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love2kiss8
Columbus, OH
24, joined May. 2013
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How long did you know him before you let him inside of your home ? Having someone live with you is a big step, and also allowing the guy to be around your grandchildren... Did you even perform a background check?  Op next time don't let a guy you met off datehookup live with you wait until marriage. And I would open a bank account if I were you. If you wrote a check and slipped it in the office for the payment this could have been bypassed but at least this is a lesson for future references. And not being so trusting ..
[Edited 3/9/2015 1:45:36 PM ]
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| 3/17/2015 7:30:44 AM |
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trisha5473
Columbus, IN
46, joined Sep. 2014
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U telling the truth even all friends say I'm to trustworthy toward any body if I got an I don't know u I will still help u but I know u said marriage I was with the same man for 27 years beat me I haf to leave with just the clothes on my back all the money out the bank but $275 I just wish one day I find a true love
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| 3/18/2015 4:14:28 AM |
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ineedalife95
Deer Creek, MN
20, joined Aug. 2014
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Honestly, you can usually kinda tell by a guy's personality if he's gonna be an a$$hole... we women on the other hand can be sweet as sugar one minute, but the next be shredding you to bits because you breathed wrong js... we hold longer grudges too..... and are slightly more likely to possibly get away with murder cuz some.of us will sit there and plan it for years (no I've never/am not planning somebody's murder)..... id much rather trust my heart to a guy then another woman.... at least you can usually see the guy coming at you if you piss him off...and its fairly easy to learn.... youll rarely see the woman coming, you never really know for sure what might piss us off , and its difficult to learn
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| 3/18/2015 4:18:33 AM |
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ineedalife95
Deer Creek, MN
20, joined Aug. 2014
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As for true love? i highly doubt it exists... and if it does its a helluva lot rarer than people seem to believe
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| 3/18/2015 5:39:30 PM |
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ltlwing
Winchester, OH
52, joined Oct. 2013
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U telling the truth even all friends say I'm to trustworthy toward any body if I got an I don't know u I will still help u but I know u said marriage I was with the same man for 27 years beat me I haf to leave with just the clothes on my back all the money out the bank but $275 I just wish one day I find a true love
You need to quit worrying about finding men/love...more pressing issues...like a roof over your head! First mistake was depending on one to take care of your business.
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| 3/18/2015 8:06:44 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
52, joined Mar. 2014
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You need to quit worrying about finding men/love...more pressing issues...like a roof over your head! First mistake was depending on one to take care of your business.
Op, I understand how you feel. You just want to be loved. Most folks want that.
However, back to reality. It takes time to form a solid relationship. It does not happen overnight. Meanwhile back in the real world, you have got to get your affairs in order, such as getting a place to live at, etc.
How do you think you can find someone to really be with if your life is not in order first? There are very few people that want to date someone who is not stable and enter into a serious relationship with you.
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| 3/20/2015 4:34:29 AM |
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nakitaaz
Glendale, AZ
28, joined Nov. 2009
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First, I have to say... some of you out to be ashamed of yourselves for talking to this woman the way you have . What gives you the right to be so aggressively mean... downright cruel to this person, who's only mistake was asking our options on something that hurt affected her life? Newsflash... this is a public forum, in which people can openly discuss topics! That's all she has done here, yet a few of you took it as an opportunity to be complete a**holes. It doesn't make you look cool to berate an innocent woman...it makes you seem pathetic, insecure, and sad. I'm sorry some of these people treated you like this, Trish (I think that's the name of the woman who wrote the initial post). I hope you can get your money back from that man at some point. You said you wish you could put his name out there.... maybe this can help.......last week, I read a story about a woman who got completely scammed out of thousands of dollars by her "boyfriend". She said she found a website called dontdatehimgirl.com
and she was able to explain everything that he did to her AND post his picture! Maybe you could try that, and at least feel a little better that you were able to get his name out there, and prevent him from doing this again. Good luck to you, and God bless
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| 3/21/2015 1:19:06 PM |
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mr_serenemarine
Fremont, CA
45, joined Jul. 2014
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If you picked him. Your picker must be broken..
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| 3/22/2015 4:08:49 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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Op, I understand how you feel. You just want to be loved. Most folks want that.
However, back to reality. It takes time to form a solid relationship. It does not happen overnight. Meanwhile back in the real world, you have got to get your affairs in order, such as getting a place to live at, etc.
How do you think you can find someone to really be with if your life is not in order first? There are very few people that want to date someone who is not stable and enter into a serious relationship with you.
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| 4/1/2015 10:33:56 PM |
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trisha5473
Columbus, IN
46, joined Sep. 2014
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Thanks his name is Michael Sloan
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| 4/4/2015 10:43:03 AM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Sorry to say, but it's your fault too if you are willing to give money to a man just to keep him. Because yes, ultimately that is what you are doing. You are afraid to lose him so you give him your money. I've been there/done that many years ago and learned from it. Just learn and move on and don't do it again.
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| 4/16/2015 5:36:08 AM |
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frasamabinlala
McDonough, GA
31, joined Dec. 2014
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Rent money
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| 6/2/2015 7:13:34 AM |
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trisha5473
Columbus, IN
46, joined Sep. 2014
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To the smart people before u say I need to do this and I need to do that yes it was a posted I know but some people could be a**hole but I'm going to pray for u all but I didn't loose my apartment and I'm still making with God help not a**hole people like some of u are but I do appreciates some that took my side I thank u all and God be with u all it bad to say I hope you all have daughters and something like this happen to them I hope u think about what u said to me but all I have to say is u be bless
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| 6/2/2015 3:49:47 PM |
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ocnfshn4
Fort Lauderdale, FL
49, joined Sep. 2014
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women are way worse
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| 6/3/2015 6:51:15 AM |
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truckerdaddy915
El Paso, TX
41, joined Feb. 2014
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What happened to using banks and writing checks for rent?
Most landlords in El Paso only take cash money order.
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| 6/3/2015 8:59:33 AM |
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Idleeros
Norcross, GA
28, joined Mar. 2015
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Dont trust the next man so easily..they will screw you over everytime!
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| 6/3/2015 9:00:51 AM |
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Idleeros
Norcross, GA
28, joined Mar. 2015
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women are way worse
i dont date women but from what ive seen i doubt it.
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| 6/5/2015 4:32:22 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
52, joined Mar. 2014
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Dont trust the next man so easily..they will screw you over everytime!
It is just not about trust. It is about having business sense.
Never mix your emotions with your business. Keep them separate at all times!
That way it keeps both of you from taking advantage of each other.
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| 6/5/2015 5:30:45 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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Mrs Holland, u said it best
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| 6/5/2015 7:35:21 PM |
U can't give your heart to a man |
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unique_woman
Omaha, NE
28, joined Dec. 2014
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I see
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| 6/6/2015 9:57:51 AM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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This sort of thing happen to us guys all the time . And you don't see guys broad casting which woman did it to them .
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| 6/6/2015 9:05:18 PM |
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lily_bblove
Orlando, FL
21, joined Nov. 2013
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You ate the rent money
Hahaha
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| 6/6/2015 9:19:20 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
58, joined Jul. 2010
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Do not want your heart Luv. 
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| 6/6/2015 11:47:45 PM |
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bernbabe13
Philadelphia, PA
36, joined Dec. 2013
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Girl,in the future be mindful of who you deal with on this site. Don't put him on blast it is so not worth it. Take care
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| 6/7/2015 4:40:43 AM |
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ulh5
Clementon, NJ
42, joined Apr. 2013
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I am sorry to hear that Miss, But there are Women Who do the same thing, Play Games with Men's hearts, Either way it's wrong, I believe if you are coming to someone, be serious about getting to know them, if not then don't talk to them!
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| 6/7/2015 7:51:09 AM |
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msapple79
Sicklerville, NJ
37, joined May. 2010
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What's his screen name??!
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| 6/7/2015 11:48:50 AM |
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melin7035
Cape Coral, FL
43, joined May. 2014
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Consider it a cheap lesson. It could of been way worse. You're lucky to have gotten rid of him. He's no good. We all have had not so nice people enter our lives. It's how you deal with the aftermath is the most important. There is always a silver lining. No matter what. Congratulations of getting rid of more than a bad apple...cancer may be a better word for him. God bless.
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| 6/7/2015 2:39:46 PM |
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nicefitguy
King of Prussia, PA
46, joined Nov. 2007
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Buy a safe.
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| 6/8/2015 7:59:19 AM |
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tlewis215
Philadelphia, PA
42, joined Dec. 2014
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That's the problem all the good women r stupid......ummm
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| 6/9/2015 8:15:01 AM |
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msapple79
Sicklerville, NJ
37, joined May. 2010
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That's the problem all the good women r stupid......ummm
I hope you honestly don't believe that.. even a good woman or man can fall victim to a human emotion of lust/love.
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| 6/9/2015 11:16:09 AM |
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trevor63
Middletown, DE
43, joined Aug. 2012
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Its really sad, and the beat goes on I guess smh
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| 6/9/2015 6:40:17 PM |
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ladytauro
Wilmington, DE
41, joined Mar. 2014
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That is so sad to hear, instead of posting some deragotory about what happened to you. Just consider this a lesson. Believe me, we all have played the fool. You just brave enough to admit it.
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| 6/11/2015 10:37:45 AM |
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wpbjlp
Wildomar, CA
46, joined Mar. 2014
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You don't give money.. He's suppose to gave his own!!
Same thing I was thinking
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| 6/11/2015 10:51:06 AM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
58, joined Jul. 2010
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I can be trusted w/rent money.
I work off my debts.
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| 6/12/2015 5:48:09 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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OP be smart. Use caution. Keep your wallet in your purse.
Trust comes over time.
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| 6/12/2015 3:29:02 PM |
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oolike_honeyoo
Pico Rivera, CA
29, joined Mar. 2013
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First, I have to say... some of you out to be ashamed of yourselves for talking to this woman the way you have . What gives you the right to be so aggressively mean... downright cruel to this person, who's only mistake was asking our options on something that hurt affected her life? Newsflash... this is a public forum, in which people can openly discuss topics! That's all she has done here, yet a few of you took it as an opportunity to be complete a**holes. It doesn't make you look cool to berate an innocent woman...it makes you seem pathetic, insecure, and sad. I'm sorry some of these people treated you like this, Trish (I think that's the name of the woman who wrote the initial post). I hope you can get your money back from that man at some point. You said you wish you could put his name out there.... maybe this can help.......last week, I read a story about a woman who got completely scammed out of thousands of dollars by her "boyfriend". She said she found a website called dontdatehimgirl.com
and she was able to explain everything that he did to her AND post his picture! Maybe you could try that, and at least feel a little better that you were able to get his name out there, and prevent him from doing this again. Good luck to you, and God bless
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| 6/12/2015 6:20:32 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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First, I have to say... some of you out to be ashamed of yourselves for talking to this woman the way you have . What gives you the right to be so aggressively mean... downright cruel to this person, who's only mistake was asking our options on something that hurt affected her life? Newsflash... this is a public forum, in which people can openly discuss topics! That's all she has done here, yet a few of you took it as an opportunity to be complete a**holes. It doesn't make you look cool to berate an innocent woman...it makes you seem pathetic, insecure, and sad. I'm sorry some of these people treated you like this, Trish (I think that's the name of the woman who wrote the initial post). I hope you can get your money back from that man at some point. You said you wish you could put his name out there.... maybe this can help.......last week, I read a story about a woman who got completely scammed out of thousands of dollars by her "boyfriend". She said she found a website called dontdatehimgirl.com
and she was able to explain everything that he did to her AND post his picture! Maybe you could try that, and at least feel a little better that you were able to get his name out there, and prevent him from doing this again. Good luck to you, and God bless
Only reason why people are responding the way they are, she put her business on here, now think about it, nobody knew her bussiness until she put it on here and this is a open forum so anything goes
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| 7/11/2015 10:22:11 PM |
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thehonestangel
San Antonio, TX
46, joined Feb. 2014
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Well I don't have to worry about that, my heart has already been shattered in a million pieces, so no more damage can be done to it.. And I don't expect anything out of men, so I'm not disappointed, sad really that it has come to that, but let the truth be told.
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