| 3/23/2015 8:51:58 AM |
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bakedpirate32
Minneapolis, MN
35, joined Sep. 2014
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Am I the only single man with no children that has a hard time deciding if I am supposed to have children or not?
To begin there are options. if I want kids I can always date a woman who already has them. or I can find a woman who is interested in having them.
Contrastly if I do not want children do I only date women without children and those who are not interested in having children or do I date a woman with children and just be like a really friendly boyfriend kind of dad. not really involved?
my attractions range from young to very old (18-52). And race isn't too big of an issue.
I guess I'm just looking for someone to help sort these thoughts out that are inside of my head and perhaps share some of your experiences. I truly hope if you read this you have a big smile on your face and you contain two very important words which are self love.  
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| 3/23/2015 8:56:10 AM |
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quit_lukin
West Hollywood, CA
40, joined Feb. 2014
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To use a real pic or not use a real pic is the real question...
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| 3/23/2015 11:26:17 AM |
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bakedpirate32
Minneapolis, MN
35, joined Sep. 2014
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Thanks for completely ignoring the topic!!!
100% REAL HUN
YOURE FUNNY THOUGH
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| 3/23/2015 11:30:22 AM |
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ivi_licious
Orlando, FL
39, joined Jul. 2014
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Well that is what we do
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| 3/23/2015 11:32:58 AM |
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got_jen
Encinitas, CA
40, joined Feb. 2015
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You have typed in a date like it's some kind of pictures you took for an Insanity contest...
I would've guessed it were fake also.
Why not just do a pic of you holding a note with today's date right now to put it to rest?
And on topic: do what you want.
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| 3/23/2015 11:36:05 AM |
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quit_lukin
West Hollywood, CA
40, joined Feb. 2014
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Seriously nobody can make the choice to have kids but you. Its a personal preference and everyone's is different. I don't think I'd date a man who has no kids and wants kids since my baby factory is closed. As you will find many women in their 30's and older will say the same.
So if you're hoping for kids it's probably best to look for a younger woman.
A lot of single moms date single dad's because only another single parent can understand the struggles and are understanding when you have to cancel a date last minute because of kids.
This is JMO
[Edited 3/23/2015 11:36:43 AM ]
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| 3/23/2015 11:40:50 AM |
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sc0uting4u
Sarasota, FL
38, joined May. 2011
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^true
I don't have kids, and won't now at this point in my life. I won't date men who have kids. It's a preference.
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| 3/23/2015 2:55:02 PM |
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iloveshruggyguy
Taft, CA
39, joined Jan. 2015
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I have kids, but I'd prefer to date someone without kids. Probably the biggest baggage left over from past relationships.
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| 3/23/2015 4:01:00 PM |
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michaels25
Orlando, FL
35, joined May. 2014
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I wouldn't have kids 
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| 3/23/2015 4:33:17 PM |
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bakedpirate32
Minneapolis, MN
35, joined Sep. 2014
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Wow! I appreciate all the constructive feedback. 
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| 3/25/2015 9:00:40 PM |
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done_lukin
West Hollywood, CA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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if you practice self love, like you said in your open, you don't have to worry about kids. We all win then 
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| 4/11/2015 11:22:51 PM |
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typer202
Chesterfield, MO
36, joined Mar. 2013
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Not have kids... I just went thru an abortion.. damn things are expensive.
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| 4/12/2015 8:23:53 AM |
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done_lukin
West Hollywood, CA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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They sure are expensive, it cost someone their life.
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