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9/14/2015 12:25:26 PM Can sex on the first date ruin the chances for a healthy relationship?  

angelic_magic
Over 1,000 Posts (1,473)
Fond du Lac, WI
60, joined Jul. 2008


It can.... but it doesn't have to......
Considering how many first dates the average person goes on,
......the percentage of first dates that lead to a relationship is very low.
Sex on the first date would seem to have similar odds stacked against it.
It's not that sex on the first date will likely ruin a relationship that otherwise would succeed.....
....it's that the possibility of a successful relationship
............ isn't something someone can determine on the first date,
and having sex with every person you could potentially date....
................ before you find your "good match"...
.............. is pretty fxcking risky.

Anyone else have an opinion?

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9/14/2015 4:56:25 PM Can sex on the first date ruin the chances for a healthy relationship?  

packersbabe920
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (82,358)
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013


I never had sex on a first date, I would like to get to know that person, but everybody got they own opinion on it so that's just mines.

9/22/2015 2:32:27 PM Can sex on the first date ruin the chances for a healthy relationship?  
bwolf174
Fenton, MO
43, joined Jan. 2014


I think it would be okay on the 2nd date... Want to go out on a date...???

9/22/2015 4:24:19 PM Can sex on the first date ruin the chances for a healthy relationship?  

packersbabe920
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (82,358)
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013


Oh then the second day sex


Op he asking u I guess

10/16/2015 11:43:46 PM Can sex on the first date ruin the chances for a healthy relationship?  

outlawdemo1x
Baraboo, WI
37, joined Aug. 2009


sex on the first date aint as bad as alot of people make it out to be.. i aint gonna lie. i have done it a few times on the first date..and it didnt mess anything up for the relationship.it actually makes things better.

10/29/2015 10:40:13 AM Can sex on the first date ruin the chances for a healthy relationship?  
cuileann
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,108)
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Aug. 2015


I think it does most times, but it doesn't have to. It depends on the two people & what they think & what they both want.

11/1/2015 9:21:52 AM Can sex on the first date ruin the chances for a healthy relationship?  
joangel60
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (24,154)
Hartford, WI
60, joined Nov. 2011


Never...Never on the first date...cause it just might be your last...

11/13/2015 10:19:12 PM Can sex on the first date ruin the chances for a healthy relationship?  

chrisswinger
Watertown, WI
47, joined Dec. 2011


If the chemistry is right, the air feels as if it's filled with electricity, and the first kiss makes you feel weak in the knees while you can sense the fireworks being set off, take the chance and go for it. Tomorrow isn't promised, live life to the fullest, and enjoy the experience! Why wait for some unspecified amount of time, invest tons of energy and emotions getting to know someone only to find out that you're not compatible in the bedroom. The longer you wait the more nervous you get, the anxiety building with the expectations.
Sorry, that's just my philosophy. Why wait? Indulge in your basic animal instincts.

1/6/2016 12:20:36 PM Can sex on the first date ruin the chances for a healthy relationship?  
johnnythunders7
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,242)
Irving, TX
46, joined Jun. 2015


Depends on the person and how good the sexual connection is.
Also what both partners are looking for at the moment.
I've had some go long term and some were just an escape from a relationship one or the other had that was in turmoil.

1/14/2016 7:43:50 PM Can sex on the first date ruin the chances for a healthy relationship?  

donb01
Over 1,000 Posts (1,388)
Manitowoc, WI
53, joined May. 2011


Definition of suck: You meet someone online and chat for a bit and seem to be hitting it off well. You meet for your first official date, go out, have a good time and end up having sex, which turns out to be mediocre because you really aren't all that interested in each other yet. It is awkward after because you are both worrying about why the other person wasn't really excited about you, so you kind of avoid each other and don't really talk again - figuring you'll just let it go as a lesson learned, no harm no foul. Two months later she messages you out of the blue and says Hi there - I've really been thinking about you lately and I really wanted to let you know that I'm pregnant with your child.

Nope, that didn't happen to me. Could it happen to you?

1/17/2016 9:27:28 AM Can sex on the first date ruin the chances for a healthy relationship?  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (252,295)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


Sex? Yes.

3/23/2016 9:41:50 PM Can sex on the first date ruin the chances for a healthy relationship?  

come2lee
Over 1,000 Posts (1,354)
Sterling Heights, MI
57, joined Mar. 2012


Of course if one or more of the parties are cheating and get caught!

4/2/2016 1:46:47 PM Can sex on the first date ruin the chances for a healthy relationship?  

texassun2
Green Bay, WI
53, joined May. 2007


i agree with Chris Winger....

4/4/2016 6:46:31 AM Can sex on the first date ruin the chances for a healthy relationship?  

hogaseman
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (16,074)
Benátky nad Jizerou
Czech Republic
66, joined Jun. 2014


Depends on if he has a hair trigger

5/16/2016 6:54:26 AM Can sex on the first date ruin the chances for a healthy relationship?  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (252,295)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


Yes

7/18/2016 6:10:59 AM Can sex on the first date ruin the chances for a healthy relationship?  
cleymax
Over 2,000 Posts (3,658)
Milwaukee, WI
67, joined Aug. 2009


No

9/25/2016 8:03:58 AM Can sex on the first date ruin the chances for a healthy relationship?  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (252,295)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010