| 12/25/2015 1:10:58 AM |
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up2youandme
Chandler, AZ
41, joined Jan. 2014
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I think cheating is when you get caught. ..so don't be caught! !!
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| 12/25/2015 6:50:20 AM |
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rightguyforu92
Lisle, IL
38, joined Feb. 2015
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Cheating is fun...especially when I get away with it.
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| 12/30/2015 1:46:29 PM |
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bezt
Australian Capital
Australia
95, joined Aug. 2014
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Not ok!! Actually NOwhere near ok..
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| 12/30/2015 4:11:33 PM |
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amron1926
Washington, DC
52, joined Jun. 2014
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Never ok. If two people agree to an open relationship then that's different and not considered cheating. Whether or not it's forgivable depends on the person affected and the damage caused by the act. Trust can sometimes be impossible to regain.
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| 12/30/2015 4:21:46 PM |
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six1five
Marietta, GA
29, joined May. 2011
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Unacceptable
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| 12/30/2015 5:14:10 PM |
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gdaddy47
Columbia, TN
68, joined Sep. 2009
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You're gone. Why be an option when you've made them your priority? Don't be the option when you make someone your priority
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| 12/30/2015 5:54:58 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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Not to be tolerated under no circumstances
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| 12/30/2015 5:59:59 PM |
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missamicable
Austin, TX
57, joined Jul. 2014
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is cheating and the cheater must not be trusted
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| 12/30/2015 6:01:55 PM |
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bezt
Australian Capital
Australia
95, joined Aug. 2014
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If someone cheats on me that would never ... never , be forgiven.
Cheating comes under the heading of "Infidelity, Emotional affair and Adultery". Cheating can occur in various forms: physical, emotional, or online. Online infidelity is one way to cheat on a significant other.
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| 12/30/2015 6:30:42 PM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
48, joined Jun. 2014
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i think u have to be with some one first
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| 1/15/2016 9:09:32 PM |
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pisces22469
Jacksonville, FL
47, joined Mar. 2011
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I think cheating is a huge deal. A committed relationship includes a large degree of trust. Once one party cheats, it will take a while if ever for the other to ever fully regain that level of trust again. I might be hurtful enough to the point to end the relationship right away depending on how far it went & what the circumstances were.
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| 1/15/2016 10:06:30 PM |
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blurussian
Tarawa Terrace, NC
27, joined Dec. 2015
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Personally, I think cheating is a character flaw. If you are in a relationship that you find less than lackluster... have the spine to "leave the one you're with" before jumping into the sack with somebody else. Sadly, though, far too many people are 'spineless.'
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| 1/17/2016 8:01:01 PM |
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Glam1627
Hemet, CA
27, joined Dec. 2015
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I think when someone is making it hard to break up with then its ok to cheat
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| 1/18/2016 12:44:31 PM |
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
57, joined Sep. 2012
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Simple Definition of cheat
: to break a rule or law usually to gain an advantage at something
: to take something from (someone) by lying or breaking a rule
The very definition of the word leaves little doubt that it's wrong.
Those who justify it simply have no integrity and care nothing about right or wrong.
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| 1/18/2016 8:29:16 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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If a MAN does it is unforgivable.
If a WOMAN does it it is the guy's tough luck.
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| 1/18/2016 10:36:04 PM |
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mr_imperfect
Philadelphia, PA
54, joined Sep. 2011
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I think when someone is making it hard to break up with then its ok to cheat
Then youre a f**king idiot. If you really dont wa t someone its quite simple. You pack your shit and leave. If youre letting them keep on dragging you back to a relationship you dont want to be in then youre the idiot for allowing it.
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| 1/19/2016 2:33:41 AM |
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teigeasaurus
Sandy, UT
31, joined Aug. 2014
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Or you could just end the relationship.
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| 2/5/2016 6:04:48 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
49, joined Jun. 2013
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Just wondering what percentage thinks it's okay.
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| 2/5/2016 9:34:37 PM |
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zombieglky
Elkton, KY
38, joined Jun. 2014
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The grass is the same color on each side of the fence . I rather that person end it with me instead of cheating on me .
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| 2/8/2016 5:22:36 AM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016
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I think it's very wrong.
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| 2/8/2016 9:30:51 AM |
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Le_Rouge
Montreal, QC
34, joined Jan. 2016
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4 or 5 but leaning towards 5.
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| 2/8/2016 9:54:20 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
67, joined May. 2010
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#5
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| 2/9/2016 1:06:56 PM |
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nyythawk
Denver, CO
53, joined Nov. 2010
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Cheating is fine... the problems only start if/after you get caught.
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| 2/9/2016 2:56:57 PM |
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ifiweruidh8me2
Cheyenne, WY
35, joined Sep. 2014
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Cheating is a complicated matter. There's a lot of hurt and deceit involved. One thing I know for sure, is that it is forgiveable, eventually. I say forgiveness because its not necessarily for the cheaters benefit, its typically for your own sanctity and personal release to.move forward.
Personally I don't believe there is any situation that would justify cheating of any sorts. There is no such thing as "no way out." There are always choices and if I believe that if a person finds themselves unhappy or thinking to the point of acting on that thought it impulse, then its time to leave your current situation.
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| 2/9/2016 3:00:36 PM |
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rightguyforu92
Lisle, IL
38, joined Feb. 2015
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Cheating is fine if I'm the one doing it.... guys cannot help it... but it's unacceptable for my significant other.
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| 2/9/2016 4:39:13 PM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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5
if I forgive her I wont remain with her .
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| 2/9/2016 11:54:22 PM |
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iam_resurrected
Reno, NV
45, joined Jul. 2014
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an 8 letter word 
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| 2/12/2016 10:57:29 AM |
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zombie_ragdoll
Stanley, NC
30, joined May. 2014
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Cheating is wrong...
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| 2/12/2016 1:21:19 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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i have never ever cheated,i have had dates within days of each other,an not been permanant with none,i didnt really even like that,but was way good..was with one woman over 20 years,no desire for another during that time,no..anything is forgiveable though.
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| 2/12/2016 4:50:05 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
67, joined May. 2010
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Criminal
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| 2/15/2016 5:09:33 PM |
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amasxylady
Cooperstown, NY
46, joined Jul. 2014
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Honesty it can go a long way
If your not happy leave Cheating is abuse mental~emotional and can even be physical.
I would rather you walk away then cheat
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| 2/15/2016 5:13:51 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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theres plenty of things that are criminal,like things said on here,some need the friggin mouth mashed,an never ever would say it to no one in person,i dam sure will though.you mean cruel a** woman..cupp cheer are criminal/an too smart a** for your own good.
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| 2/19/2016 11:21:46 PM |
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candles53ss
Seaside, CA
61, joined May. 2014
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Wow, I can't believe what I am reading here. Really has it come to this, have a relationship but, hey its ok to cheat. No, I'm afraid people that if u believe that I surly hope u never find happiness.
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| 2/19/2016 11:52:18 PM |
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
55, joined Nov. 2009
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#5. Not only that....but its cheap, tawdry and certainly beneath me.
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| 2/20/2016 4:57:55 AM |
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apokernut
Elk Grove Village, IL
53, joined Jan. 2008
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I cheat if my partner is receptive to it!!
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| 2/20/2016 7:18:41 AM |
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jjp184
Somerset, NJ
52, joined Jun. 2013
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Nothing wrong with sampling the menu
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| 2/20/2016 6:55:19 PM |
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sweetlime4u
Ocala, FL
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| 2/21/2016 3:06:16 AM |
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
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Unavoidable.
You can't stop your partner from doing it and you can't successfully pick a partner that wont do it.
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| 2/25/2016 3:09:56 PM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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Unavoidable.
You can't stop your partner from doing it and you can't successfully pick a partner that wont do it.
Yes you can pick a partner that wont . You have to do a back ground check and find someone who strongly believes in the relationship . Usually its the ones who doesn't hang out a lot and don't have a lot of opposite sex friends .
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| 2/27/2016 6:58:51 AM |
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
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Yes you can pick a partner that wont . You have to do a back ground check and find someone who strongly believes in the relationship . Usually its the ones who doesn't hang out a lot and don't have a lot of opposite sex friends .
Every one has a moment of weakness. Not every one INTENDS to cheat. Sometimes shit happens and seduction takes over. We are all of flesh. None of us have the will as gods. Our egos blow it out of proportion. When you cheat on a diet, your conscience and weight hurts. No big deal you try again. When you step out on your budget, you feel guilty but you enjoyed indulging. No big deal you try to be stronger next time. But we want to possess other people the same way we possess animals and get mad when shit happens.
I know it's not that simple.
I have more male friends than I do female friends. Not many women except me and those who do LOVE me for who I am: weirdness and all. Most of them women interested in the girly things I'm into completely hate and don't understand my other tastes. It's hard to find girls who respect things they don't understand. My best friend likes the idea of video games but doesn't play them, but she doesn't judge me for playing them. She loves makeup and clothes just like I do. We don't have much in common but we don't let that stop us from liking each other. This is honestly really hard to find among female friends.
I have more guy friends because I like more tv shows geared towards men like old school adults swim: Frisky Dingo, ATHF, Superjail!, Metalocalypse, etc.
I've only met men who watch Archer and even those guys are few and far between. Most girls who do watch Family Guy don't watch it as heavily as I do.
I'm not into Game of Thrones or Walking Dead or any of these current shows. I like the Office because of my brother.
My tastes and hobbies are slightly male-like because I'm still heavily into cartoons and video games.
So because most of my male friends are guys does this mean I'm likely to cheat? I'm not attracted to not one of my guy friends and the majority of them are taken by really sweet girls who I like a lot too.
Your logic is very Korean. Over there when you get a boyfriend/girlfriend you have to drop all your friends of the opposite sex to eliminate temptation and because what do you need with opposite sex friends when you have lover now?
My grandma told me that cheating hurts but if you love that person you can't just break up with them and think your feelings will go away. You'll find yourself still in love ready to get back with them and they've moved on and possibly gotten too involved with the next girl and you're sitting at home angry because you got mad over cheating. If you don't love them anymore and you have your closure then kick them to the curb buuuuuut if you're breaking up to punish the cheater you usually end up punishing yourself.
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| 2/27/2016 4:06:52 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
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My grandma told me that cheating hurts but if you love that person you can't just break up with them and think your feelings will go away. You'll find yourself still in love ready to get back with them and they've moved on and possibly gotten too involved with the next girl and you're sitting at home angry because you got mad over cheating. If you don't love them anymore and you have your closure then kick them to the curb buuuuuut if you're breaking up to punish the cheater you usually end up punishing yourself.
There is a bit of truth in this statement.
It takes much longer to get closure on a relationship when you are madly in love with someone whom you discover is a cheater.
I don't think that it is about punishing a cheater by breaking up.
I just think that if someone needs to cheat then the two of you are not meant to be.
It should be done and over. 
However, the love for someone doesn't just disappear just because they are a cheater.
Silly people sometimes like to go back to a cheater.
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| 2/28/2016 2:19:46 PM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
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Every one has a moment of weakness. Not every one INTENDS to cheat. Sometimes shit happens and seduction takes over. We are all of flesh. None of us have the will as gods. Our egos blow it out of proportion. When you cheat on a diet, your conscience and weight hurts. No big deal you try again. When you step out on your budget, you feel guilty but you enjoyed indulging. No big deal you try to be stronger next time. But we want to possess other people the same way we possess animals and get mad when shit happens.
I know it's not that simple.
I have more male friends than I do female friends. Not many women except me and those who do LOVE me for who I am: weirdness and all. Most of them women interested in the girly things I'm into completely hate and don't understand my other tastes. It's hard to find girls who respect things they don't understand. My best friend likes the idea of video games but doesn't play them, but she doesn't judge me for playing them. She loves makeup and clothes just like I do. We don't have much in common but we don't let that stop us from liking each other. This is honestly really hard to find among female friends.
So you don't think this could be the main reason why those guys just disappeared from you after the date or why you can't find that special guy you are looking for ?
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| 2/28/2016 3:01:27 PM |
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yz27500
Henderson, NC
53, joined Nov. 2014
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Cheating is...............
Cheating 
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| 2/28/2016 7:31:16 PM |
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
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So you don't think this could be the main reason why those guys just disappeared from you after the date or why you can't find that special guy you are looking for ?
I don't open up my soul or volunteer my opinions to people I've just met and are trying to get to know, especially men.
I'm a very loyal person to a point where I expect that same amount of loyal from others since it's not at all hard for me to give. I've cut many "Friends" out of my life simply because I could tell they took my loyalty for granted and treated it as if it was something that was owed.
But romance is something different. Me sympathizing with a cheater doesn't mean I'm going to cheat on the one person who actually gave me a chance no else would have.
But it is wise to understand both sides of cheating and not just peg it into something simply because it's disliked.
I'm thinking about how I would handle it for the sake of my own peace of mind and sanity.
And quite frankly, despite the flaws in my thinking and what not. If crazy, insecure, evil, spiteful, man-hating, disrespectful, disloyal, uneducated, uncouth, drug-addicted, stripping, psychotic, alcoholic, selfish, violent, destructive sociopaths can find good men who like them JUST as they are, I refuse to change one f**king thing about me or the way I am.
I'll take bitterness and sulking for 2,000 Alex. 
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| 2/29/2016 12:08:22 AM |
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Kissable73
Seattle, WA
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Once I thought I could forgive a cheating act. Knowing I forgave him, he just tried it again. He didn't like it when I told him to leave.
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| 2/29/2016 12:20:59 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
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you know its wrong..listen to sobe111,even the name implies its wrong,i only want one good one,cant have concubines no more,that would be cool,but ..nope..the name itsself is a curse word,and no way around it..listen to also pagal,these 2 smart women should be here with me tonite,laughin,an watchin chris rock,an eatin outa my big popcorn bucket..my wife is dead,an i aint gotta steady,so i dont cheat,i date though.....
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| 2/29/2016 7:22:50 AM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
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And quite frankly, despite the flaws in my thinking and what not. If crazy, insecure, evil, spiteful, man-hating, disrespectful, disloyal, uneducated, uncouth, drug-addicted, stripping, psychotic, alcoholic, selfish, violent, destructive sociopaths can find good men who like them JUST as they are, I refuse to change one f**king thing about me or the way I am.
You better believe if you are living with someone like that you are living in misery . You be lucky if you can live 5 years with person like that . But the uneducated you may have longer relationship with them compared to all the rest .
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| 2/29/2016 9:22:28 AM |
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
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That doesn't change the fact that they are choosing to live unhappily with all of that. So nope, I refuse to change. Those b*tches can be accepted as is? So can I or not at all.
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| 2/29/2016 9:23:17 AM |
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hotflagal
Jacksonville Beach, FL
61, joined Sep. 2011
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I don't cheat, I'm a free agent
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| 2/29/2016 10:29:15 AM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
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That doesn't change the fact that they are choosing to live unhappily with all of that. So nope, I refuse to change. Those b*tches can be accepted as is? So can I or not at all.
You can but can you accept someone else ways ? Not everyone is going to be exactly what they want them to be not you and not them .
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| 2/29/2016 10:32:16 AM |
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
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I don't believe in trying to change people so I look for people I can accept as is.
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| 2/29/2016 10:33:00 AM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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Alright
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| 2/29/2016 11:49:59 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010
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When your S.O. cheats on you, they have just shown you the greatest form of "DISRESPECT" that they can show.
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| 2/29/2016 4:15:15 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
49, joined Jun. 2013
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When your S.O. cheats on you, they have just shown you the greatest form of "DISRESPECT" that they can show.
...and staying with a cheater is a form of self-disrespect.
Cheating, especially when marital vows have been exchanged, is a very bad thing to do.
However, lots of people these days seem to be ethically challenged.
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| 3/1/2016 8:39:48 AM |
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marriedncheatin
Twin Falls, ID
49, joined Jul. 2012
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Itci~ who knows... If JFK did it I guess we're all human ppl still openly cry for him
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| 3/11/2016 5:15:28 PM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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Anyone who isn't in love and trapped will cheat sooner or later.
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| 3/11/2016 5:16:47 PM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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...and staying with a cheater is a form of self-disrespect.
Oh well, it's plenty of people who do that!!
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| 3/13/2016 3:58:23 PM |
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Tx_bubblegumm
San Antonio, TX
27, joined Aug. 2015
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I hate cheaters
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| 3/13/2016 4:11:16 PM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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...and staying with a cheater is a form of self-disrespect.
Cheating, especially when marital vows have been exchanged, is a very bad thing to do.
However, lots of people these days seem to be ethically challenged.
Oh well, it's plenty of people who do that!!
Yep that is why so hard to get with a person who has undergone so long through that . They put you through trials and tribulations .
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| 3/16/2016 4:38:24 PM |
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iheartidiots
Grove City, OH
39, joined Feb. 2012
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Everything is forgivable. But when it comes to cheating, I'll forgive yet walk away. Once that trust is gone, you have nothing with that person.
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