| 1/2/2016 12:27:39 AM |
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Niknakme
Mesa, AZ
27, joined Nov. 2015
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I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and things around good. I just want to have an open relationship. We are kind of opposites he likes going out I like staying in. I would like to have a buddy that I can hang with when he goes out and I want him to meet with friends and have fun without me around. Anytime I talk about our sex life he gets hurt and assumes the worst but I just want something on the side but my heart belongs to him. How do I go about bringing this up in a conversation with him? 
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| 1/2/2016 1:27:23 AM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
48, joined Dec. 2014
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Ummmm no...I think its kinda funny when you say you love someone but need a side piece...I think you're deluding yourself...the fact is you're probably not compatible....
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| 1/2/2016 1:33:23 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
50, joined Jul. 2014
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i only want one good true one,,they find out an get jealous too easy.......
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| 1/2/2016 1:59:11 AM |
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l380
Alabaster, AL
43, joined Sep. 2014
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If your heart truly belonged to him as you say, this wouldn't even enter your mind.
Sounds like you like the comfort of keeping him around for whatever he comes in handy for but after that, he can go away.
Besides, if you can't even talk to him about sex between the two of you, how do you think he's gonna entertain a conversation about you wanting to have sex with other people?
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| 1/2/2016 2:31:57 AM |
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Mercedes_02
AñatuyaAñatuya
Australia
100, joined Dec. 2014
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Just be a single scrubber.
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| 1/2/2016 3:02:34 AM |
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god_says
Cabo San Lucas
Mexico
47, joined Aug. 2014
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Damn dirty wh*re
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| 1/2/2016 3:17:42 AM |
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silva_13_i_back
White City, OR
40, joined May. 2015
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Just come right out and tell ur BF ur a slut !
Honestly is the best policy in this situation.
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| 1/2/2016 3:22:47 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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another made up troll thread....... 
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| 1/2/2016 8:24:07 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
62, joined Sep. 2009
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Bumble's probably right, but if it's real:
for all relationships of any kind, the answer is the same: tell the truth, and tell it now. Then accept whatever the natural consequences are.
If you want to screw around on your boyfriend, tell him you've decided you don't want to be exclusive any more. If he reacts badly, and decides not to be your boyfriend anymore, that's the natural consequence.
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| 1/2/2016 8:36:41 AM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
49, joined Jun. 2013
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Since you like staying home and he likes going out... why don't you invite a MIXED group of people over to your place to hang out and watch TV?
If you really want an open relationship...this could parlay into a swingers club. 
Just joking.
Truthfully, you've already tried talking to him by his reaction... it sounds like you already know that you aren't on the same page about being unfaithful and disloyal to each other. AND... it seems as though you two are not overly compatible to begin with. You two should break up even though your belongs to him.
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| 1/2/2016 8:44:26 AM |
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bezt
Australian Capital
Australia
95, joined Aug. 2014
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BS
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| 1/2/2016 9:05:57 AM |
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browneyz
San Diego, CA
97, joined Jan. 2008
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The heart strays before the body strays.
Just a matter of time.
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| 1/2/2016 9:06:35 AM |
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bezt
Australian Capital
Australia
95, joined Aug. 2014
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 ^^
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| 1/2/2016 9:07:21 AM |
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bezt
Australian Capital
Australia
95, joined Aug. 2014
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BS
^^^ this was for the OPie not you lucky_1 
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| 1/2/2016 9:11:30 AM |
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SadisticSienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Nov. 2015
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Sex life that bad huh?? lol
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| 1/2/2016 9:59:19 AM |
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
27, joined Aug. 2013
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A lot of us here can't even get in a relationship and you being in a good one has made you far too greedy.
Why don't you let your man go so he can find someone that's interested in only him and then you can see all the gentlemen you desire?
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| 1/2/2016 11:24:14 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
53, joined May. 2011
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So you need help in broaching the subject? Just say
"Honey, I would like to cheat on you." And there you go.
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| 1/2/2016 11:28:21 AM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
63, joined Oct. 2010
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you love your dad .. and he is just as sick as your dad.
If you were a Mrs. Dennis Hastert ... you would discovered that your husband is having sex with the neighbors son .. and you have to consider he is also having sex with YOUR son.
All this time .. making lies about it .. having secrets ... being hurt when you talk about sex.
Later on you discover that he is just like your Dad.
As your Dad was a bi-sexual pederast .. and would have sex with his son .. and his neighbors son.
It is in the Duck Disease that is the Human Condition ...
all you can do is wake up and erase it ... just to re-record over it again.
Every one has to do it ...
or keep doing what you are doing ..
and keep getting what you have always gotten.
simple as that.
sumbuddie wear blind sea
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| 1/2/2016 11:28:55 AM |
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zhaed
Archbold, OH
38, joined Jul. 2011
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Perhaps look into polyamory some. Really research it, then use that to back your claims of wanting a side guy.
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| 1/2/2016 12:21:07 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
63, joined Nov. 2013
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OP - This is the sort of thing to discuss with someone BEFORE you get into a relationship with him / her. Let PROSPECTIVE dates / mates know that you have a wandering c*nt, and want an open relationship. That will scare off the ones who want a closed relationship, and make it easier for you to hook up with understanding souls who want an open relationship just as you do. Then, when you open the relationship up, your SO can't complain, because he / she agreed to an open relationship from the start, and you can always say:
"you do it, too!". Hooking up with someone who wants a closed relationship, and then trying to open it up, is both stupid, and cruel. Dump your current BF, before he dumps you, and then be more OPEN about discussing your need for an open relationship BEFORE you get into your next relationship.
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| 1/2/2016 12:55:50 PM |
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ltlwing
Winchester, OH
52, joined Oct. 2013
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A lot of us here can't even get in a relationship and you being in a good one has made you far too greedy.
Why don't you let your man go so he can find someone that's interested in only him and then you can see all the gentlemen you desire?
Then she couldn't have her cake and eat it too!....I guess getting laid takes center stage rather than her relationship.
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| 1/2/2016 1:07:27 PM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
58, joined Dec. 2013
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I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and things around good. I just want to have an open relationship. We are kind of opposites he likes going out I like staying in. I would like to have a buddy that I can hang with when he goes out and I want him to meet with friends and have fun without me around. Anytime I talk about our sex life he gets hurt and assumes the worst but I just want something on the side but my heart belongs to him. How do I go about bringing this up in a conversation with him?
Tell him sluts are cool, and popular, and you might even be able to make him a little money. 
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| 1/2/2016 1:38:22 PM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
63, joined Oct. 2010
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Perhaps look into polyamory some. Really research it, then use that to back your claims of wanting a side guy.
Yup .. being a boy slut getting taco sauce on the swartzn**ger is GOOD for you and HIM !!!
well in your case you be licking that taco sauce.
Remember .. Mrs. Dennis Hastert ...
it is her son's taco sauce she be licking.
NOW THE TRUTH IS OUT .. and not so much fun any more then when it was a secret behind lies.
Dennis Hastert is Poly Amore Bi-Sexual Child Rapists guy ...
what is wrong with that ???
Hell ... with being Honest he could be a Bruce Jenner and cut off his peckerwood cause he hates having sex with women and wants sex with guys.
Just research it more ... find out the real truth.
sumbuddie wear blind sea
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| 1/2/2016 5:53:16 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
47, joined Jan. 2012
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I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and things around good. I just want to have an open relationship. We are kind of opposites he likes going out I like staying in. I would like to have a buddy that I can hang with when he goes out and I want him to meet with friends and have fun without me around. Anytime I talk about our sex life he gets hurt and assumes the worst but I just want something on the side but my heart belongs to him. How do I go about
If your heart truly belongs to your man then you don't want another man in your life. You
would accept your man 100% for who he is. If he is hurt by this then you getting another
man in your life will end your relationship. It won't work, no matter how much he lies
and pretends to accept it. Just break it off with him and find someone new. He isn't for
you. It will end anyway once you cheat on him.  And yes, you will cheat. That's why
you're on this site asking this question.
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| 1/2/2016 5:56:17 PM |
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god_says
Cabo San Lucas
Mexico
47, joined Aug. 2014
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OPie is still a nasty damn dirty wh*re.
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| 1/2/2016 6:23:40 PM |
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Niknakme
Mesa, AZ
27, joined Nov. 2015
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Perhaps look into polyamory some. Really research it, then use that to back your claims of wanting a side guy.
Thank you
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| 1/2/2016 6:26:10 PM |
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zhaed
Archbold, OH
38, joined Jul. 2011
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Thank you
Thing with it is, if he's not interested in it. You can't force him to be.
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| 1/2/2016 6:27:02 PM |
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Niknakme
Mesa, AZ
27, joined Nov. 2015
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If your heart truly belongs to your man then you don't want another man in your life. You
would accept your man 100% for who he is. If he is hurt by this then you getting another
man in your life will end your relationship. It won't work, no matter how much he lies
and pretends to accept it. Just break it off with him and find someone new. He isn't for
you. It will end anyway once you cheat on him. And yes, you will cheat. That's why
you're on this site asking this question.
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| 1/2/2016 6:29:42 PM |
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Niknakme
Mesa, AZ
27, joined Nov. 2015
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Thing with it is, if he's not interested in it. You can't force him to be.
That's what I'm trying to figure out but I don't even know how to bring it up and see his thoughts on it.
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| 1/2/2016 6:43:46 PM |
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zhaed
Archbold, OH
38, joined Jul. 2011
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Well in Polyamory relationships, it's all about openness and trust with your significant other. It's not really about having a side guy, but sharing love physically and emotionally with more than just one person.
It's a decision almost always made as a couple not as an individual. if there's any trust issues, then you might as well not even consider it. If you have no trust issues, just sit down and talk to him about it. Don't look at it from a selfish 'me' perspective, but look at it from a loving 'us' perspective. Find ways to make it improve your bond with your primary rather than tear it apart.
I personally dated a woman who was polyamorous, but ultimately it wasn't for me. I did learn a lot about it though.
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| 1/2/2016 6:51:08 PM |
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Niknakme
Mesa, AZ
27, joined Nov. 2015
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Thank you to the people that gave actually advice and not just assuming(at least to me face) I'm a slut and a bad person for wan ting to try something new with my sex life. If I ever can figure out how to talk to him about it he might be interested too. If not then I know what I need to do next which is let him go to find someone that will love him the way he needs to be loved or figure out another way to work this out with him. I do love him believe it or not i just want to spice up the sex life either as a threesome, apart or both.
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| 1/2/2016 6:53:08 PM |
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zhaed
Archbold, OH
38, joined Jul. 2011
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well suggest the threesome. He might be into that.
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| 1/2/2016 7:19:50 PM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
63, joined Oct. 2010
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naww .. go for the whole gang bang thingy ...
video tape it so you can shove in his face.
He might like it.
You just love a lot of people along with him .. is all.
Your a Poly .... not a slut.
sumbuddie wear blind sea
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| 1/2/2016 7:52:58 PM |
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jjp184
Somerset, NJ
52, joined Jun. 2013
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I always insist on an exclusive relationship.....then I f**k around behind her back
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| 1/2/2016 9:23:31 PM |
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Niknakme
Mesa, AZ
27, joined Nov. 2015
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I always insist on an exclusive relationship.....then I f**k around behind her back
don't want that..
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| 1/2/2016 9:38:32 PM |
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zhaed
Archbold, OH
38, joined Jul. 2011
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OP, go to morethantwo.com There's all sorts of poly information there.
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| 1/2/2016 11:19:16 PM |
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specwar64
Barnegat, NJ
51, joined Nov. 2013
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I'll be your side dish. Will you make me blueberry pancakes in the morning?? 
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| 1/3/2016 10:08:21 AM |
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nycnini
Bristow, VA
53, joined Jul. 2010
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Your best bet, is to be honest with him but know that there will be repercussions. And there is no better way to start such a conversation up, just do it. And yes you may feel love for him, but honestly there is something lacking in your relationship. & it sounds like sexually youre not compatible, & that can be tough since sex supposed to be the intimate way to show someone you care. Be honest with yourself & then him, but remember you may loose him in the process!
Lots of Luck
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| 1/3/2016 10:56:17 AM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
63, joined Oct. 2010
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OP, go to morethantwo.com There's all sorts of poly information there.
do More then Twenty .... make hubby number 21 and he can do clean up.
Tell him you love spunk all over your body.
Want to SPICE IT UP !!!
later on there be more spice and taco sauce !!!
just keep adding on more and more spice work your way up to 200 guys f**king you up.
As one is just not enough.
After all he is just a f**k ... ahhh .. you love very very much.
Love to have a gang bang as well with him along for the ride.
sumbuddie wear blind sea
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| 1/3/2016 1:27:29 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
51, joined Jun. 2012
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Then she couldn't have her cake and eat it too!....I guess getting laid takes center stage rather than her relationship.
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| 1/4/2016 4:17:07 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
56, joined Feb. 2010
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I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and things around good. I just want to have an open relationship. We are kind of opposites he likes going out I like staying in. I would like to have a buddy that I can hang with when he goes out and I want him to meet with friends and have fun without me around. Anytime I talk about our sex life he gets hurt and assumes the worst but I just want something on the side but my heart belongs to him. How do I go about bringing this up in a conversation with him?
How would you feel if he wanted another woman.
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| 1/4/2016 6:30:36 AM |
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ocnfshn4
Fort Lauderdale, FL
49, joined Sep. 2014
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you're a cheating lying c*nt just like the rest ,,,who the f**k you kidding ,,,you piece of shit
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| 1/4/2016 8:10:09 AM |
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mountain901
Pueblo, CO
43, joined Mar. 2014
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How would you or him explain having an STD to each other? Better to know early before it's too late!
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| 1/4/2016 8:51:11 AM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
58, joined Dec. 2013
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Thank you to the people that gave actually advice and not just assuming(at least to me face) I'm a slut and a bad person for wan ting to try something new with my sex life.
What you fail to realize, or perhaps, refuse to acknowledge, is that it is no longer "your" sex life.
When you commit to someone, "yours" becomes "ours". Although, your perspective is not uncommon among the female of the species.
You're no longer talking about just your sex life, you're talking about his too. And yes, I know that men tend to make the transition from mine to ours much easier than women do, but that's still no excuse for acting like a slut.
If you're going to do that, and leave him out of the equation, at least do it on the corner, and make a little extra money for the household.
After all, he has to live there too.
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| 1/4/2016 8:55:24 AM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
53, joined Oct. 2013
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Just ask him if he'd be interested in such a relationship, if he says yes, give it a try, if he says no then you'll have another decision to make.
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| 1/4/2016 10:06:57 AM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
63, joined Oct. 2010
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How would you or him explain having an STD to each other? Better to know early before it's too late!
If Ah-Nold can get taco sauce on His swartzn**ger ... She can lick it clean ...
fair is fair ..
sumbuddie wear blind sea
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| 1/4/2016 3:17:27 PM |
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apokernut
Elk Grove Village, IL
53, joined Jan. 2008
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Go 4 it OP!!
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| 1/4/2016 5:52:50 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and things around good. I just want to have an open relationship. We are kind of opposites he likes going out I like staying in. I would like to have a buddy that I can hang with when he goes out and I want him to meet with friends and have fun without me around. Anytime I talk about our sex life he gets hurt and assumes the worst but I just want something on the side but my heart belongs to him. How do I go about bringing this up in a conversation with him?
Given my observations and experience, I will give the opinion I have come to. It may make sense, or it may not. You may like it, or may not.
With the information you have provided, you have already established this relationship, prior to your desire to have multiple sexual partners.
Given the difficulty your are having in your relationship, it is very safe to speculate that this relationship was entered into with the legal definition of "implied consent".
The Implied Consent was this relationship would be exclusive to the two of you, and not an open one.
Therefore, to make the relationship "open" requires a renegotiation of initial contract, which I highly doubt will happen.
So, you are left with two options:
1. End this relationship ASAP, and pursue that which makes you happy and find a man that is perfectly fine with having an open relationship.
2. You don't end the relationship, wind up cheating on him(if you haven't already), and eventually he finds out a few months from now, dumps you, trashes your reputation, amd abusively destroys the next ten females or more because of his resentment for your breech of trust.
I'm gonna say it like this: You aren't feeding me, financing me, or f!#$ing me. So whichever you choose will not matter, because it will not affect my life.
I will say this, though. If you choose to deceive and be a cheater, don't you dare come on these forums and make any attempt to justify what you did, or whine and complain about how you messed up.
I can find sympathy in a complete ignorance of a mistake. I have zero empathy or sympathy, when you know what the ethical choice is, but stupidly and with full disregard for other people make a choice to hurt someone else with lies.
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| 1/4/2016 6:44:26 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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Bring that up anymore and he'll probably assume you're cheating and break off with you. The more "relationships" you have the more likely you'll find someone you like better than him. I think open relationships promote instability.
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| 1/5/2016 7:52:20 AM |
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apokernut
Elk Grove Village, IL
53, joined Jan. 2008
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Discuss it with him OP! Maybe he might like it! Open relationships have been known to enhance relationships.
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| 1/5/2016 7:45:11 PM |
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nurseshanna1972
San Marcos, TX
43, joined Oct. 2013
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I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and things around good. I just want to have an open relationship. We are kind of opposites he likes going out I like staying in. I would like to have a buddy that I can hang with when he goes out and I want him to meet with friends and have fun without me around. Anytime I talk about our sex life he gets hurt and assumes the worst but I just want something on the side but my heart belongs to him. How do I go about bringing this up in a conversation with him?
The problem is all inside your head she said to me
The answer is easy if you take it logically
I'd like to help you in your struggle to be free
There must be fifty ways to leave your lover
She said it's really not my habit to intrude
Furthermore, I hope my meaning won't be lost or misconstrued
But I'll repeat myself at the risk of being crude
There must be fifty ways to leave your lover
Fifty ways to leave your lover
You just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don't need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don't need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free
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| 1/5/2016 7:52:10 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
67, joined May. 2010
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50 shades of grey to leave your lover
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| 1/6/2016 3:29:02 PM |
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plain_jane_doe
Biloxi, MS
30, joined Dec. 2014
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One of my best friends is the "open" relationship type. I am friends with a swinger couple, as well.
Given my observations and experience, I will give the opinion I have come to. It may make sense, or it may not. You may like it, or may not.
With the information you have provided, you have already established this relationship, prior to your desire to have multiple sexual partners.
Given the difficulty your are having in your relationship, it is very safe to speculate that this relationship was entered into with the legal definition of "implied consent".
The Implied Consent was this relationship would be exclusive to the two of you, and not an open one.
Therefore, to make the relationship "open" requires a renegotiation of initial contract, which I highly doubt will happen.
So, you are left with two options:
1. End this relationship ASAP, and pursue that which makes you happy and find a man that is perfectly fine with having an open relationship.
2. You don't end the relationship, wind up cheating on him(if you haven't already), and eventually he finds out a few months from now, dumps you, trashes your reputation, amd abusively destroys the next ten females or more because of his resentment for your breech of trust.
I'm gonna say it like this: You aren't feeding me, financing me, or f!#$ing me. So whichever you choose will not matter, because it will not affect my life.
I will say this, though. If you choose to deceive and be a cheater, don't you dare come on these forums and make any attempt to justify what you did, or whine and complain about how you messed up.
I can find sympathy in a complete ignorance of a mistake. I have zero empathy or sympathy, when you know what the ethical choice is, but stupidly and with full disregard for other people make a choice to hurt someone else with lies.
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| 1/6/2016 6:00:20 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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If a man wrote this....everyone would have castrated him by now.
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| 1/6/2016 6:04:22 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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To me...you should know yourself and what you want before entering a relation.
and don't spring this...oh, I never thought about this before bull shit on us.
you can tell early on, if there is the potential for a great sex life together.
If not...then you move on, before people invest time, feelings and all that.
2.5 years and it might break his heart....but if he goes for it...then maybe there wasn't that much to the relation anyway.
Because if he was open to that all along, he would have brought it up by now.
your best bet is if you ask and he is hurt by it....then just say, its better you leave, because your no good for him.
Once a person bring this up, if the other is opposed to it....things will never be the same, even if you don't go thru with it.
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| 1/6/2016 6:10:43 PM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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nyythawk
Denver, CO
53, joined Nov. 2010
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Then she couldn't have her cake and eat it too!....I guess getting laid takes center stage rather than her relationship.
Totally off topic, but that's a saying I never understood. If it's MY cake, why SHOULDN'T I be able to eat it?.... and eat as much as I want, whenever the hell I want to eat it! 
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| 1/6/2016 6:33:11 PM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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badpuditatt
Paris, VA
30, joined Aug. 2014
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If he wants to be monogamous and you don't, you should stop dating him, so that, he can find somebody else who does and you can play the field.
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| 1/6/2016 6:35:52 PM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
50, joined Jul. 2014
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monotanous.....
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| 1/6/2016 9:50:32 PM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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Sounds like you should break up. Couples should not have "others" on the side. You should be happy with each other
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| 1/6/2016 9:55:28 PM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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Discuss it with him OP! Maybe he might like it! Open relationships have been known to enhance relationships.
For who? All this proves is someone is not happy and wants something else to spice up their life. If you want an open relationship just date people do not get in a relationship. Problem solved.
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