| 1/18/2016 9:12:19 AM |
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wavyone
Brooklyn, NY
43, joined Mar. 2013
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It's funny women get on here and talk about "I'm not on here trying to find a boyfriend just looking for new friends" So if you're just looking for "new friends" does it matter if they have a pic or not? Does it matter if they are in any relationship or not? You just want a friend right? Stop lying to yourself! You know you want more than a friend so say what you mean and you just might get what you want!!!
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| 1/18/2016 9:36:52 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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truer words were never spoken,i had one come over one nite..in record time,for a guitar lesson,an she could do nuthin but smile an grin,and it wasnt about guitar,she was in heat,an ended up more than satisfied an walkin with a new feeling....there animals,as they try an hide it at times.
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| 1/18/2016 9:38:48 AM |
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blurussian
Tarawa Terrace, NC
27, joined Dec. 2015
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I won't lie. The sole purpose I'm here is:
an·o·nym·i·ty
?an?'nim?de/
noun
-the condition of being anonymous.
-lack of outstanding, individual, or unusual features; impersonality.
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| 1/18/2016 9:39:19 AM |
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Idleeros
Norcross, GA
28, joined Mar. 2015
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Nigga whine.
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| 1/18/2016 9:40:11 AM |
Women! why are you lying to yourself? |
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
27, joined Aug. 2013
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Isn't this the same lie men tell, also?
You all mention looking for friends and yet you try to pass d*ck onto every female friend you make here.
Do you provide that same offer to the men you call friends?
And they only want you to be me than a friend if they find you attractive.
Most men without a picture seem to be hiding something, especially when they love to show themselves when they're at best average.
Some of the ugliest men think they are Adonis. So if he has not picture and he's trying to meet with people... wtf is wrong with him?
I'm speaking for myself back in the day when I was actually looking to meet people. Back when I was actually young.
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| 1/18/2016 10:06:08 AM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
49, joined Sep. 2014
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It's funny women get on here and talk about "I'm not on here trying to find a boyfriend just looking for new friends" So if you're just looking for "new friends" does it matter if they have a pic or not? Does it matter if they are in any relationship or not? You just want a friend right? Stop lying to yourself! You know you want more than a friend so say what you mean and you just might get what you want!!!
Your opinion doesn't matter to them either, it just makes you look like are whiny little hurt feeling nignog 
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| 1/18/2016 10:06:24 AM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
49, joined Sep. 2014
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Nigga whine.
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| 1/18/2016 11:17:14 AM |
Women! why are you lying to yourself? |
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jjp184
Somerset, NJ
52, joined Jun. 2013
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They can tell themselves whatever they want, if I pay for dinner, somebody's getting sexed
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| 1/18/2016 12:14:30 PM |
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bruce_2014
Dothan, AL
59, joined Jan. 2014
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Why does 'friends first' almost never seem to work out?
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| 1/18/2016 1:25:39 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Isn't this the same lie men tell, also?
You all mention looking for friends and yet you try to pass d*ck onto every female friend you make here.
Do you provide that same offer to the men you call friends?
And they only want you to be me than a friend if they find you attractive.
Most men without a picture seem to be hiding something, especially when they love to show themselves when they're at best average.
Some of the ugliest men think they are Adonis. So if he has not picture and he's trying to meet with people... wtf is wrong with him?
I'm speaking for myself back in the day when I was actually looking to meet people. Back when I was actually young.
If you take your profile off of invisible long enough to send a message, I could send a link with my photos. They won't upload, and I don't know why.
I am only average, but I was extremely wealthy, at one point, and I had women trying to be "just my friend" left and right.
It os all about the money, and looks have recently been the new "trend" with shallow, superficial, hypocritical gold-digger types..
When I first set this profile up, I had clearly stated I was only looking for booty calls, on here.
Men will not.directly say things like that, to women, because 99% of the time, we get rejected.
When we are successful, approximately 63% of my own experiences with that, the female only did it with the expectation that it would lead to a relationship.
Probably why women don't just openly put: I only care about looks and money : in the profile.
Men know it os true, but many of them don't want to hear it. Women know it is true, but don't want to admit it.
Men know if they associate with a female, they are trying to penetrate her. Men have to live with themselves, so they lie about it and result in lying to her, as well.
I would say it is about looks for men, too. And for most, it is true. Me, personally, can sacrifice some of the looks for a decent lay.
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| 1/18/2016 1:32:49 PM |
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truly000
Fort Dodge, IA
37, joined Dec. 2011
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Many people, men and women are here and aren't dating.
Some started here years ago for dating and for one reason or another decided it wasn't the time, or maybe it's not the place for some, or there are other reasons they are not dating.
Still they continue their membership here and continue contribute to the forums.
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| 1/18/2016 1:34:11 PM |
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
27, joined Aug. 2013
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My profile is invisible?
Then how the f**k do random strangers keep messaging me? 
Hmmm I can't sacrifice looks. I always end up being the only one able to turn me on. He's just there because it takes 2 to tango and his john handc*ck is pretty.
I'm a beauty queen not a size queen. I don't like ugly d*cks. No chodes for this girly.
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| 1/18/2016 1:42:24 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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So, your striking out there op???
Oh well....it happens to some dudes.
Ultimately most seek something more than that...but some people think by having this frame of mind, it will keep them from jumping into to something faster, giving them more time to see they aren't making another mistake again.
But...if there is attraction and connection in junction with some loneliness and its been a while.
Well...they pretty much follow the same path, they always have anyway....
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| 1/18/2016 1:45:42 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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^^^^^^^^^anyway op....you see its not lying to themselves, if they have this plan and don't stick to it.
Its like going on a diet and breaking the rules of it.
and here's a novel idea dummy....just skip past the profiles that state that.
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| 1/18/2016 2:17:54 PM |
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blurussian
Tarawa Terrace, NC
27, joined Dec. 2015
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If you take your profile off of invisible long enough to send a message, I could send a link with my photos. They won't upload, and I don't know why.
I am only average, but I was extremely wealthy, at one point, and I had women trying to be "just my friend" left and right.
It os all about the money, and looks have recently been the new "trend" with shallow, superficial, hypocritical gold-digger types..
When I first set this profile up, I had clearly stated I was only looking for booty calls, on here.
Men will not.directly say things like that, to women, because 99% of the time, we get rejected.
When we are successful, approximately 63% of my own experiences with that, the female only did it with the expectation that it would lead to a relationship.
Probably why women don't just openly put: I only care about looks and money : in the profile.
Men know it os true, but many of them don't want to hear it. Women know it is true, but don't want to admit it.
Men know if they associate with a female, they are trying to penetrate her. Men have to live with themselves, so they lie about it and result in lying to her, as well.
I would say it is about looks for men, too. And for most, it is true. Me, personally, can sacrifice some of the looks for a decent lay.
Send me the link. I want to see your photos. I'm rather curious, actually, to see what you look like.
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| 1/18/2016 2:19:54 PM |
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inni_dreamz
Pasadena, CA
52, joined Nov. 2012
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Many people, men and women are here and aren't dating.
Some started here years ago for dating and for one reason or another decided it wasn't the time, or maybe it's not the place for some, or there are other reasons they are not dating.
Still they continue their membership here and continue contribute to the forums.
^ Yep, all this wit and charm - who would ever leave? 
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| 1/18/2016 2:31:06 PM |
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nyythawk
Denver, CO
53, joined Nov. 2010
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And men don't lie to themselves?
Anyway...
They know they're lying and doubt very seriously your telling them to stop will do anything... other than making you seem like you've been shot-down alot.
It mightve been more productive/fun to ASK THEM why are they lying to themselves... the ones that ARE I mean. Some people REALLY are here just for friends, forums etc..
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| 1/18/2016 6:06:26 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
online now!
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Op sounds mad/ and frustrated, not good
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| 1/18/2016 6:30:44 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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So OP someone wasn't interested in you?
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| 1/18/2016 7:50:07 PM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
48, joined Aug. 2013
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I'm not looking, so no, none of it matters to me.
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| 1/18/2016 8:27:52 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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It's funny women get on here and talk about "I'm not on here trying to find a boyfriend just looking for new friends" So if you're just looking for "new friends" does it matter if they have a pic or not? Does it matter if they are in any relationship or not? You just want a friend right? Stop lying to yourself! You know you want more than a friend so say what you mean and you just might get what you want!!!
I think this guy is absolutely correct! Women are being hypocritical about this or showing the old feminine double standard again. Good observation, OPie!
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| 1/18/2016 10:30:52 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
49, joined Jun. 2013
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"I'm not on here trying to find a boyfriend just looking for new friends" So if you're just looking for "new friends"
IDK... To me that sounds like code for "I'm looking for a FWB" and probably already have a boyfriend. I don't date women... so I wouldn't know for sure.
I like to see someone's picture and more than one picture just so I know that it isn't my EX... who I won't talk to. Other than that... I can be genuine friends with ugly people too.... but not FWB's.
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| 1/19/2016 11:52:20 AM |
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SadisticSienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Nov. 2015
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No men go on here in my country so
to the contrary, I am here to spew my crap on these forums 
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| 1/19/2016 11:56:46 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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we can spew together hunny.... 
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| 1/19/2016 12:13:09 PM |
Women! why are you lying to yourself? |
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SadisticSienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Nov. 2015
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We sure can  
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| 1/23/2016 4:09:23 PM |
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aintmyb_tch
Ponchatoula, LA
96, joined Aug. 2015
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Im just on here to raise hell and vent. Its fun and releases stress.
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| 1/23/2016 4:34:04 PM |
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pagal17
Lancaster, PA
51, joined May. 2012
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I admit I want to see a pic before I chat. Kinda creepy not knowing / seeing a face before engaging regardless if it's just for fun and friends or a potential date connection. Feels like a profile with no pic is suspicious...
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| 1/23/2016 7:28:38 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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I admit I want to see a pic before I chat. Kinda creepy not knowing / seeing a face before engaging regardless if it's just for fun and friends or a potential date connection. Feels like a profile with no pic is suspicious...
There is a very easy fix for that. You just send them a PM, with the link from an uploaded photo. Not your actual website, that the photo is displayed on(i.e. Facebook), but only the photo itself(this is actually a separate URL, from your profile page).
That is how I am solving the issue with my photos not uploading. I tried to email the link, to the DH email address, but of course, that did not work.
If you really want to see what I look like, your options are Facebook, a hyperlink, or Kik messenger.
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| 1/23/2016 7:55:32 PM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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Im just on here to raise hell and vent. Its fun and releases stress.
I think a lot people are here to do that .
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| 1/23/2016 8:18:38 PM |
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wavyone
Brooklyn, NY
43, joined Mar. 2013
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Well said digital knight! I love seeing the women come on here and character attack. Saying stuff like "I sound mad" or "I've must have been rejected a lot" Lol Just because I have an opinion. Meanwhile this is the main reason they join these forums so they can voice their opinions! Smh Lol The world we live in now!!!
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| 1/23/2016 8:21:57 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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in all decency,everyone should have a pic,i mean look at bee,an fishtech,dear god..so you can post one too,all cant be tall an sexy handsome as me,but get that pic up there..........
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| 1/23/2016 11:45:49 PM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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It's funny women get on here and talk about "I'm not on here trying to find a boyfriend just looking for new friends" So if you're just looking for "new friends" does it matter if they have a pic or not? Does it matter if they are in any relationship or not? You just want a friend right? Stop lying to yourself! You know you want more than a friend so say what you mean and you just might get what you want!!!
You cannot say the truth considering the many wackos around...
If you say openly you are seeking a bf you can find psychos...yep!
I explain it to you buddy:
Most men have a huge, huuuuge ego.
So even if they are some fat, bald, stinky, ugly and unemployed loser who live in the basement of their mom and ride the bus...they feel entitled....got it?
So, if you tell in advance that you are looking for a bf and then you say " no thanks" to the douche...
You may find the fattie stalking you rading his tricicle or texting you bad words non stop... (unemployed have lot of time on their hands you know?) 
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| 1/24/2016 1:30:59 AM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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You cannot say the truth considering the many wackos around...
If you say openly you are seeking a bf you can find psychos...yep!
I explain it to you buddy:
Most men have a huge, huuuuge ego.
So even if they are some fat, bald, stinky, ugly and unemployed loser who live in the basement of their mom and ride the bus...they feel entitled....got it?
So, if you tell in advance that you are looking for a bf and then you say " no thanks" to the douche...
You may find the fattie stalking you rading his tricicle or texting you bad words non stop... (unemployed have lot of time on their hands you know?)
That was funny .
But like the saying goes the truth hurts . So tell the truth shame the devil.
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| 1/24/2016 5:08:41 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
online now!
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I won't lie. The sole purpose I'm here is:
an·noy·ance
?an?ass?de/
noun
-the condition of being annoying.
-lack of maturity, personality, intelligence, or usual attractive features; personally useless.
Corrected.
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| 1/24/2016 5:22:40 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
online now!
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No men go on here in my country so
to the contrary, I am here to spew my crap on these forums
You're admitting it now but you wouldn't when I called you out on it. This is the level of childishness you bring to adult conversations.
Loser! 
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| 1/24/2016 12:01:46 PM |
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sadisticsienna1
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Dec. 2015
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Wrong, you don't know what we want hunny
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| 1/24/2016 1:53:31 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Corrected.
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| 1/25/2016 2:53:53 AM |
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sadisticsienna1
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Dec. 2015
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You're admitting it now but you wouldn't when I called you out on it. This is the level of childishness you bring to adult conversations.
Rather be childish thaaan
Bitter mean old man DR
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