That looks sorta creepy.

I know one of the reasons you said hours you 2 worked was the problem . But I am not going get back into that again because the way I see it if 2 people want things to work out they will make it work no matter what.

That's true, & not necessarily me making the choice to stop seeing each other. So I don't know how that is a twisted story.

I agree that if two people want it to work out, it can. You still don't seem to comprehend that for it to work out, it takes BOTH people, not just one. If I'm willing to do what I can to make it work, but he isn't, then there's nothing I can do about that. I can't control another person.

And you are correct, it's pointless to try to make someone understand this who doesn't at all seem to understand.

Or at least a few of my posts with digital was taking about the conflicting work schedules. I cannot make another person try to work that out if he doesn't want to try. But sometimes it just won't work out anyway & it doesn't mean it's the fault of either of us.

If a man does not want to have another date with me for whatever the reason is...& many times I don't know the reason...I can't make him. This is what I meant when I said it takes two people. It was never about me making a man spend money on me or doing all that other nonsense you posted about.

Dri...don't comment on me doing things if you do not know what I do and don't do & do not know my life.

And AGAIN! This is why we ask for details. I've told several women I didn't want to date or see them again AND THEY KNEW WHY! But I'm SURE when they told that story to others they conveniently forgot what THEY DID to warrant my saying that.

I'm sure they me out to be the bad guy for saying it. Like I had NO REASON or bcuz they didn't give me sex (that's their favorite one to use) that said that.

Details!

Yall ain't done ganging up on Celyn?

Ok, I have already been through that I won't meet a man who I DON'T know by having him in my home or going to his. Nothing is wrong with that. I didn't say it was a man I had known awhile. Someone I did NOT know yet. Not just one man. There were probably a few at least who expected me to meet him at his place or that he could come to mine...when I DO NOT know him at all yet. That's NOT putting a man through hoops.

I'm not going to do something not right for me & that many women would not do. I don't owe it to a man I DON'T know to have him in my home. It's very easy to meet in a public place.

Now this makes me wonder where in the world is these guys that have asked you to do this ? I mean were you hanging out late night on corner or out at the club ? Now I can see if ones those guys ask you to do this if yall were a co worker but you said you didnt know him . So only places I know guys would even ask a woman to come over to your place or his if you are at club or hanging out in the streets late at night . Which it still don't make no sense when the guy is already at public place (the club) seeing you.

Hell, I don't even ask them to go somewhere public for anything, anymore. I already know they will respond with "No", as an automatic response. Or, even worse, they will say "Yes" and then not show up. That is another very common things women love to do to men.

Some of us learned it after have men constantly do it to us.

I won't disagree with you, here. I have seen many men stand up a woman, that I would have given my eye teeth to go on a date with.

Two wrongs don't make a right.

Maybe it is better that she didn't apologize to me. Don't know if I can accept an apology for someone deliberately and consciously hurting me.

It's not completely the woman's responsibility to always be an upstanding and mature individual whenever they are wronged.

I'm not saying that's what your saying but I'm noticing a pattern with the men here.

When they're wrong it's okay to wallow and seek revenge and see the evil in women.

Men seek out ladies to burn when they know damn well they weren't seeking ladies when they got burned.

So by that logic does that mean none of you are real man for not rising above the wrongs done onto you and being mature about the negative experiences with women you were subjected to?

Everyone here is sitting around with bitter and hurt feelings. Some deserving and others not. Are you not a real man simply because the shit eventually got to you?

That's the unreal expectation men have for women in this situation. You want us to get over that shit so you can have a clean slate to possibly f**k over but none of you come onto a relationship trying to clean your own slates.

Men will date a rotten apple, knowing damn well she's a rotten apple. And AFTER the rotten apples leaves him rotten, he seeks out a lady and makes her pay for what the rotten b*tch did.

Not saying women don't do this either.

I meant that men seek out good women to dis, when they know that the b*tches who burned THEM were b*tches from the start.

Oh

No what I have been doing was giving women the benefit of the doubt. I don't bring past relationships into a new one . But I do learn from past mistakes. I asked myself how did I ended up with a rotten woman . I've started learning these rotten women patterns and I have to say its a lot are out here. When you actually sit back watch and listen to women you'll just notice the signs she has the potential of being rotten .

This is why they don't understand why more and more men are starting to avoid relationships, and just go for the quick and easy lay. It reduces the duration of a losing investment, and it prevents even greater damage being sustained by us, later on down the road.

My point is no stranger is going to ask a woman he doesn't hardly know to come over to his house or her house . Only time a man is going to ask something like that if that woman has been giving him some attention from online or some place he see's you often enough to even ask you .

Some of us learned it after have men constantly do it to us.

It's not about not understanding.

It's about the hostility we receive for not wanting to be apart of the plan for you to f**k us and cast us aside.

I gave you several examples as to why I stopped.

I don't want to get all I can out of someone and just walk away but I have no successful way of screening out those with that intention towards me save for taking the exact same route as you and Digital.

You have no choice but to deal with emotional damaged women because those are mainly the types open to being a cum bucket. They're fine with it at the moment, but when they see they're putting in the work and they don't even have a respectful title that shit gets in their heads and poof; here come the issues.

The only damage you men sustain is a loss in funds. None of you are on here crying about being heart-broken or having hurt feelings. So you have to put that card back in the deck.

And for that excuse it's okay to f**k a chick and cast her aside.

You all could go to wh*res but then you bullshit yourselves into believe you don't want to take that route when the fact of the matter is you just want free p*ssy. Plain and simple. So you try to find women open to that, but those who are aren't necessarily open to that with you. So the bitterness roles in when you see the f**kwads who have no problem getting free p*ssy.

I'm saying "you" as in men in general. Not you.

But I do think it's a load of bullshit that you all want to cry about heartbreak when the only thing that's true is all the money you invested and can't get back.

Right. Without the details it's just don't make no sense .

What sort of details do you expect? I already mentioned it the best I can. It isn't all the same exact thing with each man I've dated. I've already said why SOME reasons dates didnt keep happening. And as I ALSO ALREADY said, it wasn't me all the time deciding not to have another date...or to discontinue talking.