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1/28/2016 1:59:59 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

avulcanrider
Port Clinton, OH
55, joined Jun. 2011


Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just scammers ?

The years I've been at this online stuff, I haven['t had one that didn't ask me from money , even before meeting. 99% now without even a phone call. I guess this kinda answers my question.
Just thought I'd check to see if any ARE serious.

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1/28/2016 2:28:32 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

soulflight
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,054)
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014


Your profile says it all..you want to please everyone, you think you should just let women fill in your profile with what they want you to be? do?

you are basically broadcasting that you are an empty slate. willing to be whatever you need to be for any woman that will have you.

that spells sucker in any language.

1/28/2016 3:29:49 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

zombieglky
Elkton, KY
38, joined Jun. 2014


I like older guys , but I never ask for money or anything from them on here . Only thing I would do is get to know them and see where it goes . If it don't work , I just part ways and head on .

1/28/2016 3:31:16 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

grande_mamon
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,076)
Houston, TX
49, joined Sep. 2014


OP go out rather than f**k around online and actually meet real live people...approach some 20yr olds and ask if they'd like to play with your saggy balls.

Report your results here.

1/28/2016 3:52:44 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

dasnixter
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,253)
Jessieville, AR
58, joined Jul. 2010


"Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just scammers ?"

Oui, le false dichotomy

rears its ugly head yet again.

Trey, trey chic

1/28/2016 5:30:45 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

jjp184
Over 1,000 Posts (1,331)
Somerset, NJ
52, joined Jun. 2013


I'm a millionaire so I'll gladly pay for some young stuff

1/28/2016 6:02:47 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

theloser2123
Manassas, VA
24, joined Apr. 2014


Rape alert kids

1/28/2016 6:14:30 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

packersbabe920
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (55,818)
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013


I don't mind, and you're not that old, but if u looking for a woman to fill in your profile for u, then u do suck

Soul



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1/28/2016 6:23:01 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

digital_knight
Over 2,000 Posts (2,392)
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012


Quote from grande_mamon:
OP go out rather than f**k around online and actually meet real live people...approach some 20yr olds and ask if they'd like to play with your saggy balls.

Report your results here.






There some young ladies with saggy tittes out here .

1/28/2016 7:10:34 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

avulcanrider
Port Clinton, OH
55, joined Jun. 2011


Quote from packersbabe920:
I don't mind, and you're not that old, but if u looking for a woman to fill in your profile for u, then u do suck

Soul

I guess everything I say to this crowd needs to come with an explanation
But first; I'm not on here looking for young girls. I'[m talking more about the ones that contact me, or it says on their profile they are interested in someone my age.

I AM learning from this crowd.
Honored to hear from = low self esteem
Flexible, a work in progress and willing to be molded (because I really don't understand women) = a loser, I suck,etc. What a sick sad world we live in.

But really , the reason for the blank profile is/was " WHAT THE HECK DO YOU WOMEN WANT" comment.

1/28/2016 7:39:45 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

soulflight
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,054)
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014


That's the problem..it's not about being what women in general want it's about being yourself and finding a woman who is compatible.

At your age, I would expect you to know yourself enough to express that..AND comprehend that women are not generic creatures with a single list of wants/needs

1/28/2016 8:11:21 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  
pagal17
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,089)
Lancaster, PA
51, joined May. 2012


vulcan...welcome to the jungle. You will soon see the scammers a mile away and learn to ignore them.
I suggest you turn the tables and have some fun with them. String them along and then pull a "gotcha"

1/28/2016 10:08:24 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

packersbabe920
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (55,818)
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013


Quote from avulcanrider:
I guess everything I say to this crowd needs to come with an explanation
But first; I'm not on here looking for young girls. I'[m talking more about the ones that contact me, or it says on their profile they are interested in someone my age.

I AM learning from this crowd.
Honored to hear from = low self esteem
Flexible, a work in progress and willing to be molded (because I really don't understand women) = a loser, I suck,etc. What a sick sad world we live in.

But really , the reason for the blank profile is/was " WHAT THE HECK DO YOU WOMEN WANT" comment.



Well u did make the thread, so what's being explained needs no explanation, it's your profile so it's not so what a women want, it's what u put in your profile that's readable, interesting, that makes it stand out

1/29/2016 4:18:46 AM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

bumblebee7
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (64,813)
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011


Quote from avulcanrider:
Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just scammers ?

The years I've been at this online stuff, I haven['t had one that didn't ask me from money , even before meeting. 99% now without even a phone call. I guess this kinda answers my question.
Just thought I'd check to see if any ARE serious.


First off....how young are you talking here.???


Next...if after even a year, much less several years, if they all ask for money first.....shouldn't that tell you something and that you would cease barking up the same tree (as in logic and common sense) ????

I think it tells us appr...that your going after extremely young ones.

I've had a few that were way too young for me email with legit offers of more...but I set them on the path of reality that with that much age difference, it can't work in the long run, but that was back when I posted a bit better than I do now.

You should know, there is no logical future in it either, meaning you must be just looking for a good time and if that's the case....then expect to pay for it....unless your extra good looking with a big c*ck....and they have a daddy fetish.

1/29/2016 4:19:46 AM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

sancho____
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (31,984)
Jalisco
Mexico
34, joined Jun. 2014


Damnnnnn!!!!!!! ^^
Didn't read



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1/29/2016 6:51:01 AM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

easttowest72
Over 2,000 Posts (2,836)
Bremen, GA
44, joined Sep. 2014


For a real relationship, you should look for someone close to your own age. The younger women wanting older men is for a sugar daddy. Both people have to be getting something from the relationship. Ive found men around my age are slowing down and becoming couch potatoes.

1/29/2016 1:37:13 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  
iheartidiots
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,286)
Grove City, OH
39, joined Feb. 2012


I'm interested in my age or up to 50. That's my cut off.

Good luck, sir.

1/29/2016 1:47:53 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,212)
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011


This is a FREE site and full of lazy a** women who want someone to take care of their financial needs, scammers who scam people for $ and men who only want p*ssy from some 18 yr old.

If you want someone of quality try a paying site or the real world.

1/29/2016 1:52:17 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

mylegsarecold
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,800)
Gainesville, FL
54, joined May. 2011


OP was talking about 'young' ladies, not middle aged (or older) ones.

1/29/2016 1:58:38 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  
inni_dreamz
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,849)
Pasadena, CA
52, joined Nov. 2012




1/29/2016 2:12:06 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  
myizrstillblue2
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (40,107)
Milwaukee, WI
49, joined Jun. 2013
online now!


Quote from iheartidiots:
I'm interested in my age or up to 50. That's my cut off.

Good luck, sir.

...I'm right here...

1/29/2016 2:26:06 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  
iheartidiots
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,286)
Grove City, OH
39, joined Feb. 2012


Quote from mylegsarecold:
OP was talking about 'young' ladies, not middle aged (or older) ones.

Ohhhh, my bad.

I'm old.

Carry on.


Blue

1/29/2016 7:31:13 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

celyn67
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,609)
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016


OP, do you only look online to date?

1/29/2016 10:56:00 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

driver406
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (48,490)
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009


I had someone 28 contact me! I'm !!!!!!! I'm old enough to be her grandfather. I asked her why, but she never wrote back. I'm thinking she didn't look at my age. She said she wanted a relationship, but she was just pulling ol' Driver's leg! She's not interested in an older gentleman at all.

1/30/2016 8:04:35 AM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

mr_imperfect
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,710)
Philadelphia, PA
54, joined Sep. 2011


Quote from driver406:
I had someone 28 contact me! I'm !!!!!!! I'm old enough to be her grandfather. I asked her why, but she never wrote back. I'm thinking she didn't look at my age. She said she wanted a relationship, but she was just pulling ol' Driver's leg! She's not interested in an older gentleman at all.


Doubt she was real. I get messages from women in their 20s and early 30s at least 2 or 3 times a month. They always start off telling me how much they liked my profile. My profile says im not seeking any kimd of relationship because there is just too much going on in my life right now and I dont have the time necessary to invest into building a new relationship. That combimed with the fact their starting age range is usually at least 10 to 15 years older than them and almost always goes up to 90 spells scam artist.

1/31/2016 1:12:51 AM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  
amusicluvr
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,002)
Salem, OR
63, joined Nov. 2013


OP - By age 54, you should no longer be a work in progress. You should be a finished character, with some un-changeable traits, attitudes, requirements, etc. I am more flexible than most, but I have my limits. When I was looking for someone, I had my wants, and needs, listed on my profile. I filled it out myself, because only I know me well enough to be able to fill it out. I found someone in two weeks, and got acquainted over weeks / months, and then hooked up in person, and have been with her for years now. I changed my profile a bit, to reflect my status as "taken", since I am now here just for the forums...to help others. Being a wishy-washy nobody, with no requirements is just a form of either stupidity, or dishonesty. You are either a true, spineless, nobody, with no personality...or you are an evil actor who poses as whatever he needs to pose as to rip off the suckers. Most women want neither one of those. Until you become a real person, with a real personality, who will not change on some things, you will only attract cons who are as fake as you seem to be.

I do not care about: height, weight, age, hair color, and other externals much. I do care a lot about internals...such as: honesty, intelligence, some compatible tastes / interests, willingness to communicate, etc. I will not bother with a woman who is uncommunicative, dishonest, etc. If you have no standards it is because you have no self respect. If you do not respect yourself, you will not respect anyone else.

GET a life BEFORE you try to share it with someone else.

1/31/2016 11:07:06 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

kandykayn
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,106)
Clarksville, TN
29, joined Dec. 2013


Nope they just want your financial security.

2/1/2016 12:18:35 AM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  
almosttydup
Cocoa Beach, FL
28, joined Jul. 2014


I've always preferred guys to be older than me. But they have to have their shit together.
As far as the money is a good woman will want a man to be a good provider does nothing wrong with that. that's normal.

2/1/2016 12:30:57 AM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

gdaddy47
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,577)
Columbia, TN
68, joined Sep. 2009


Quote from avulcanrider:
I guess everything I say to this crowd needs to come with an explanation
But first; I'm not on here looking for young girls. I'[m talking more about the ones that contact me, or it says on their profile they are interested in someone my age.

I AM learning from this crowd.
Honored to hear from = low self esteem
Flexible, a work in progress and willing to be molded (because I really don't understand women) = a loser, I suck,etc. What a sick sad world we live in.

But really , the reason for the blank profile is/was " WHAT THE HECK DO YOU WOMEN WANT" comment.






I get that all the time. Forget it man and wake the heck up. How can you be so needy?

2/1/2016 4:21:35 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  
amusicluvr
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,002)
Salem, OR
63, joined Nov. 2013


It seems OP was just another phony actor playing a part. He hasn't been back, to comment on the answers he got, or to defend himself. He seems to be another 'Cut & Run' type.

2/1/2016 6:31:43 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

lucky_1million
Over 1,000 Posts (1,305)
Pewaukee, WI
49, joined Jun. 2013


If the woman is younger and better looking than the women who normally approach you in REAL LIFE... chances are they are a scammer.

What you attract in real life is usually close to what you attract online.

Unless you take really AWESOME pictures, chances are people online will see you as LESS attractive than people in real life will see you.




The only advantage of being online is that most people in this market are at least looking for someone else... unless they point out in their profile that they are in a relationship already and here for forums only.

Then they aren't looking.

2/2/2016 7:00:32 AM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

sadlsticsienna
Over 2,000 Posts (2,944)
AƱatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
online now!


If I like them, yeah.

2/2/2016 8:29:17 AM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  
blurussian
Tarawa Terrace, NC
27, joined Dec. 2015


Quote from avulcanrider:
Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just scammers ?

The years I've been at this online stuff, I haven['t had one that didn't ask me from money , even before meeting. 99% now without even a phone call. I guess this kinda answers my question.
Just thought I'd check to see if any ARE serious.


My I be so bold as in to ask? In all those years-- how many you asked for sex before a phone call?

2/2/2016 4:11:00 PM Are any of you young ladies really interested in older men,,,, or just  

digital_knight
Over 2,000 Posts (2,392)
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012


Quote from lucky_1million:
If the woman is younger and better looking than the women who normally approach you in REAL LIFE... chances are they are a scammer.

What you attract in real life is usually close to what you attract online.

Unless you take really AWESOME pictures, chances are people online will see you as LESS attractive than people in real life will see you.




The only advantage of being online is that most people in this market are at least looking for someone else... unless they point out in their profile that they are in a relationship already and here for forums only.

Then they aren't looking.
















I can't agree with that one . I think it all depends on the area you live in and the population.



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