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2/16/2016 7:50:45 AM Whats the point of FWB when  

enigmaathand
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
Because FWB is boring and a girl would have to be silly to do FWB with a guy imo anyways
Well, there you jave it, folks. FWB, or having sex for fun, is boring to women as admitted to by a woman. Obviously, no woman should ever achieve an orgasm, at the hands or something else of a MAN, unless of course there is money, a house, or a vehicle she can take from you with a court order.

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2/16/2016 8:19:13 AM Whats the point of FWB when  

ctr916v2
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I guess "fwb" is only "fun" when women can manipulate guys instead of just having sex with guys.

2/16/2016 10:58:11 AM Whats the point of FWB when  

enigmaathand
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Quote from ctr916v2:
I guess "fwb" is only "fun" when women can manipulate guys instead of just having sex with guys.
Exactly!

2/16/2016 11:14:56 AM Whats the point of FWB when  
kungfu_candy
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Alsónémedi
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I'm not emotionally suited for FWB. It's not that I fall in love or anything. I just can't look at myself in the mirror.

Whether I like the guy or not, me agreeing to a purely physical relationship translates to me as having nothing to offer but that.

My self-image is already pretty f**ked up right along with my self-esteem so I don't need anything else to help with that.

I want to know that for the person I'm having sex with, that aspect is just the cherry on top. They want to hang out with me and be with me and know about me and like me and sex is just a bonus.

It's a self-worth issue.

I don't see a problem with it and I applaud the people that can do it.

2/16/2016 12:06:03 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

enigmaathand
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Well, spoken. At least you aren't degrading those of us that prefer "non-committal" arrangements, like most of these women here.

2/16/2016 1:18:49 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

mountain901
Pueblo, CO
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Do you really want someone who is exactly like you guys and gals? All the traits good and bad will played out in front of you then saying to yourselves am I like this when looking for FWB, if so then it's a matter of choice to either change or know how this plays out more than likely bad for both parties!

2/16/2016 3:26:50 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

yz27500
Henderson, NC
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Quote from kungfu_candy:
I'm not emotionally suited for FWB. It's not that I fall in love or anything. I just can't look at myself in the mirror.

^^ This

2/16/2016 9:29:57 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

dan9787_3
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Quote from kungfu_candy:
I'm not emotionally suited for FWB. It's not that I fall in love or anything. I just can't look at myself in the mirror.

Whether I like the guy or not, me agreeing to a purely physical relationship translates to me as having nothing to offer but that.

My self-image is already pretty f**ked up right along with my self-esteem so I don't need anything else to help with that.

I want to know that for the person I'm having sex with, that aspect is just the cherry on top. They want to hang out with me and be with me and know about me and like me and sex is just a bonus.

It's a self-worth issue.

I don't see a problem with it and I applaud the people that can do it.


That would be a FWB. The guy is supposed to like you, care about you as a friend.


2/16/2016 10:10:05 PM Whats the point of FWB when  
kungfu_candy
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Alsónémedi
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But if he liked me that much why not make it official?

I'm good enough to poke but not to commit to?

That's what it comes down to and I can't handle having to put up with those thoughts.

Call me greedy but I want the romance as well as the smut. I don't want to do certain things with someone who doesn't even see me worthy of a commitment.

2/16/2016 10:44:05 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

dan9787_3
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No, it's because he separates sex from love. He can have sex for itself. Whereas you find that it's part of a continuum.
Think of it that way: you have a basic drive bothering you and you don't want to wait years to get it..
Even men prefer sex within relationships, but the need knocks at the door.

I'm not saying you should heed guys' desires.

Just explaining how they think. You're not cheap for them in a FWB.

2/16/2016 10:58:58 PM Whats the point of FWB when  
kungfu_candy
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Alsónémedi
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I just feel it's a way for guys to have sex with girls they don't really like.

Men have sleep with women they f**king despise no problem.

I don't care how hot a guy is. If I hate him he's the most repulsive thing to me.

I knew a guy who wanted to sleep with me really bad. He was saying why buy the cow before you sample? And I asked him whose going to buy the cow when the milk is for free.

Maybe that worked for other chicks.

In my experience men have practically killed themselves to get me to cave and sleep with them but those same efforts were never made to make me a girlfriend.

Luckily I never fell for the tricks but eventually it f**ks with your head. When a guy is willing to go the distance for ONE piece of a** that may or may not be good to him but he vehemently refuses to even try to get to know you for something more.

2/16/2016 11:21:37 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

dan9787_3
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You describe unsound guys, the ones who want to have sex with people they don't like.

A friend would really like you but sex is like a kind of relief, until he finds a girlfriend. A mutual help. And he probably wants it more from a friend than random women.
You met a lot of bad guys. No one is interested in you personally?

2/16/2016 11:27:49 PM Whats the point of FWB when  
kungfu_candy
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Usually the guys who are interested in me personally aren't interested in me physically. Sometimes they have girlfriends and we end up being a threesome because I'm actually REALLY good with girlfriends. Call me a professional third wheel. Couples seriously love having me around and I almost almost meet them through the guy.

Guys who are interested in me sexually are interested only in sex.

There's never been an in between for me.

The last guy I hung out with before I left America was a peculiar case. We hung out pretty much every time our off days matched up. He took me every where. We even hung out in his apartment and he never made a move on me. Ever. Not try to hold hands, zilch. But he did things that were romantic like he gave me his favorite coveted stuffed animals or he got me one to pair with his own.

We had a falling out because he blew up at me for being too straight laced. I'm not a heavy drinker and I don't smoke weed.

I guess I was just an activity companion. He was much smarter than me so I enjoyed listening to him teach me about science and engineering and economics and budgeting and all that stuff.

2/16/2016 11:42:00 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

dan9787_3
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Wow, that's weird.

No one who liked you personally and physically...

a guy doesn't have to desire you badly physically, if he's turned on by you - unless he's flat affectively...he'd fall in love with you...strange.

Is it possible you make yourself unavailable, you don't encourage interaction, etc and so...no spark?

Otherwise it's as if you meet ultra geeks or pigs.

2/16/2016 11:45:35 PM Whats the point of FWB when  
kungfu_candy
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You know sometimes I wonder. I have no idea how I come off to men.

Then men who I don't try to attract at all just come out from the wood works.

The guys who I like so much don't even know I exist.

It's weird.

I don't know how to come off as available. Unavailable is easy. Avoid, ignore. Voila.

But if I'm there with him and agree to meet up with him doesn't that entail available?

I feel like I'm missing a key ingredient to the formula and no one wants to tell me what it is.

2/16/2016 11:55:15 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

dan9787_3
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Well, it would be in the body language, not letting go or warming up to someone. I don't know how you are but you sound like you have a lot of defenses about men...maybe they sense a lack of you being there...

And you've tried approaching the ones you really liked, and no result?

They're not just hot, you like them personally too?

2/17/2016 12:42:57 AM Whats the point of FWB when  

sadlsticsienna
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Well, there you jave it, folks. FWB, or having sex for fun, is boring to women as admitted to by a woman.

Yeah it is, well for me.

I'm not emotionally suited for it, but in a different way.
Like I *have* done it but when I don't like the guy I just get really selfish in bed lolol and obviously no kissing or anything like that, you know any actual intimacy.
I'm actually used to it like that now so I kind of worry about how it would be when I am with someone I actually have feelings for


Guys who are interested in me sexually are interested only in sex.

Same for me. That or I'm just paranoid and think they are only interested in that.
They are either completely uninterested or interested only in sex
Pretty much. This includes the ones that BS

2/17/2016 2:25:19 AM Whats the point of FWB when  

enigmaathand
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You view sex negatively and think it has some special meaning. American research has proven that women have a flawed view on what "Love" is, and it is linked to social conditioning.

Of course, I don't think it was flawed, because that is how it USED to be, but Feminists burned bras and rallied to change all that, and well....we see how well THAT turned out.

And women wonder why they aren't leading countries and corporations....

2/17/2016 2:35:05 AM Whats the point of FWB when  

kandykayn
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Quote from dances_in_woods:
Sex without any feelings/emotions involved is pretty cold to me, I have to have that for it to be great & have several O's. If I wanted sex without any emotions or feelings, I'd grab a my toy.
Nothing wrong with a lil "self love"

I don't understand the big hoopla on sex without feeling is, I choose not to sell myself short in that way.


2/17/2016 2:37:14 AM Whats the point of FWB when  

sadlsticsienna
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American research has proven that women have a flawed view on what "Love" is, and it is linked to social conditioning.

What is the flawed view?

2/17/2016 8:19:21 AM Whats the point of FWB when  
kungfu_candy
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Quote from dan9787_3:
Well, it would be in the body language, not letting go or warming up to someone. I don't know how you are but you sound like you have a lot of defenses about men...maybe they sense a lack of you being there...

And you've tried approaching the ones you really liked, and no result?

They're not just hot, you like them personally too?


What exactly is letting go? What does a male translate as warming up? I'm being super serious.

If I'm "not there" I cut it short. I don't endure. So if we're out for a long time it means I enjoy your company and am game for almost whatever is planned.

I used to approach a lot but the consecutive rejections ruined my confidence. It used to be thrilling because I felt so brave in taking the risk but once I hit 23 it started taking a toll on how I viewed myself among women and men.

So basically when I don't like I guy, I don't care how I come off to him. I do and say what I want and I dress the way I like. When I like a guy I make more effort and thinking carefully of what I'm going to say before I say it.

So I'm guessing what I'm interested in either isn't interested at all or only wants sex.

Those are the breaks kiddo.

2/17/2016 8:53:36 AM Whats the point of FWB when  

ctr916v2
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I like it when girl friends insist I get beneficial with them.

2/17/2016 11:11:04 AM Whats the point of FWB when  

dan9787_3
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Quote from kungfu_candy:
What exactly is letting go? What does a male translate as warming up? I'm being super serious.

If I'm "not there" I cut it short. I don't endure. So if we're out for a long time it means I enjoy your company and am game for almost whatever is planned.

I used to approach a lot but the consecutive rejections ruined my confidence. It used to be thrilling because I felt so brave in taking the risk but once I hit 23 it started taking a toll on how I viewed myself among women and men.

So basically when I don't like I guy, I don't care how I come off to him. I do and say what I want and I dress the way I like. When I like a guy I make more effort and thinking carefully of what I'm going to say before I say it.

So I'm guessing what I'm interested in either isn't interested at all or only wants sex.

Those are the breaks kiddo.


I wish I could help!

Did you ever ask anyone who might be a professional (with certification, etc) at relationships if they could help?
Sometimes we need someone who can seize us up and help...

I hate reading about your misfortunes.

You can attract people...



[Edited 2/17/2016 11:11:53 AM ]

2/17/2016 11:58:24 AM Whats the point of FWB when  
nyythawk
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Quote from celyn67:
Okay. But then how is that different than a regular relationship of two people doing different things together along with also having sex?


With a f**kbuddy, you don't ever just hang-out, socialize, have lunch or a beer, talk n chill etc.. You don't do any of the things you do with a "FRIEND." You don't call your f**kbuddy for a favor, or if you need a shoulder. With a f**kbuddy, you JUST F**K and go your separate way. When you get together, the only purpose is sex. A FWB IS A FRIEND FIRST AND FOREMOST... a friend with whom you may or may not sleep with when you get together.

2/17/2016 1:38:15 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

mountain901
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Just remember this; when your done having a quick "Non Committed" roll in the sack and your auto breaks down you're SOL because they got what they needed and they're asleep; too bad, so sad!

2/17/2016 1:58:39 PM Whats the point of FWB when  
ivaiva
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Quote from nyythawk:
A FWB IS A FRIEND FIRST AND FOREMOST... a friend with whom you may or may not sleep with when you get together.

What happens to that friendship in case of STD or pregnancy?

2/17/2016 1:59:48 PM Whats the point of FWB when  
GlassSlipper16
Columbia, MO
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Quote from ivaiva:
What happens to that friendship in case of STD or pregnancy?


That would be
FWSTD
FWP



2/17/2016 2:05:18 PM Whats the point of FWB when  
ivaiva
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Quote from GlassSlipper16:
That would be
FWSTD
FWP




Friends forever.

2/17/2016 2:12:04 PM Whats the point of FWB when  
nyythawk
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Quote from dances_in_woods:
Sex without any feelings/emotions involved is pretty cold to me, I have to have that for it to be great & have several O's. If I wanted sex without any emotions or feelings, I'd grab a my toy.
Nothing wrong with a lil "self love"

I don't understand the big hoopla on sex without feeling is, I choose not to sell myself short in that way.


This here NAILS IT and in a roundabout way proves my point. And all the woman that agree with this , gave the "thumb up" etc. also have cosigned...

All this emotional bullshyt woman attach to sex is just that. .. EMOTIONAL BULLSHYT! Grab your toy? Thats exactly it. Unfortunately there are no toys on the market for men that are "comparable." Women want just the physical, you use whatever you have in the nightstand... vibrator, dildo, bullet etc.. Men?... nothing. So f**kbuddy or FWB if he can get it.

Women and all that emotional shyt... you just want to force or at least think a guy cares about you before you f**k him. Just a headgame women play. Suck my a** and try that on some young guy. You might be able to manipulate him... not happening here.

Like Richard Pryor said..."women wanna f**k. But they'll tell you NO, then go home and have all that electrical/battery-powered shit."

Which is why I deal with mature, independent women. If they want to f**k you, they WILL. They dont care about how it LOOKS to society.

2/17/2016 2:18:48 PM Whats the point of FWB when  
nyythawk
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Quote from mountain901:
Just remember this; when your done having a quick "Non Committed" roll in the sack and your auto breaks down you're SOL because they got what they needed and they're asleep; too bad, so sad!


Thats really naive, adolescent and frankly... just kind of... of nevermind.

Ummm, it's not like if you have a f**kbuddy/FWB, you can't have family or REAL friends. How about "AAA" ... a tow truck or a cab?

That was dumb... and very easily countered.

2/17/2016 2:21:56 PM Whats the point of FWB when  
GlassSlipper16
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AAA like batteries?

2/17/2016 2:54:13 PM Whats the point of FWB when  
ivaiva
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Quote from nyythawk:
Ummm, it's not like if you have a f**kbuddy/FWB, you can't have family or REAL friends.


Hey, that is a new concept - FWB for married people.
Take it easy, I am still struggling to understand FWB by itself.

2/17/2016 4:29:15 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

enigmaathand
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Quote from mountain901:
Just remember this; when your done having a quick "Non Committed" roll in the sack and your auto breaks down you're SOL because they got what they needed and they're asleep; too bad, so sad!
Well, I guess you better take your "Equal Rights" and go learn how to be an auto mechanic, like you women constantly stereotype us men for......

Oh, wait, I forgot. "Isolation Troubleshooting", a technique often used by Auto Mechanics to diagnose the vehicle's problems, requires a LOGICAL approach(ironically a skill that the female human brain is nearly incapable of applying)

2/17/2016 4:49:05 PM Whats the point of FWB when  
nyythawk
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Quote from ivaiva:
Hey, that is a new concept - FWB for married people.
Take it easy, I am still struggling to understand FWB by itself.


Who the hell's talking about married people?

2/17/2016 5:09:13 PM Whats the point of FWB when  
kungfu_candy
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Quote from dan9787_3:
I wish I could help!

Did you ever ask anyone who might be a professional (with certification, etc) at relationships if they could help?
Sometimes we need someone who can seize us up and help...

I hate reading about your misfortunes.

You can attract people...


I think about it all the time but it seems like I was too young at the time.

Attracting what kind? That's the problem.

2/17/2016 6:27:42 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

dan9787_3
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Quote from kungfu_candy:
I think about it all the time but it seems like I was too young at the time.

Attracting what kind? That's the problem.


I know, that's why I was suggesting getting advice from someone you can meet in person.

2/17/2016 6:32:06 PM Whats the point of FWB when  
ivaiva
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Quote from nyythawk:
Who the hell's talking about married people?

I thought that's what you meant by saying that you can have FWB and have a family.

2/17/2016 6:51:33 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

lucky_1million
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Quote from nyythawk:
All this emotional bullshyt woman attach to sex is just that. .. EMOTIONAL BULLSHYT! Grab your toy? Thats exactly it. Unfortunately there are no toys on the market for men that are "comparable." Women want just the physical, you use whatever you have in the nightstand... vibrator, dildo, bullet etc.. Men?... nothing. So f**kbuddy or FWB if he can get it.



I suppose if men were a guaranteed orgasm all the time... a woman might start to think of a man as merely an object to be used and tossed away.

Unfortunately... men are not THAT reliable.

Lol!



Anyhoo... sex for sex sake is not as great as being with someone you love.

2/17/2016 8:13:05 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

celyn67
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Quote from lucky_1million:


Anyhoo... sex for sex sake is not as great as being with someone you love.




2/17/2016 8:16:35 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

phil406
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Quote from nyythawk:
Thats really naive, adolescent and frankly... just kind of... of nevermind.

Ummm, it's not like if you have a f**kbuddy/FWB, you can't have family or REAL friends. How about "AAA" ... a tow truck or a cab?

That was dumb... and very easily countered.


Most of us guys go over to women's place because; it's clean, the toilet seat is down, in a nice neighborhood. What she was getting at was once she's done with the fwb they go back to there hood. Women nowadays know a mechanic(possible fwb also) so why should they worry. A guy would do the same thing especially if the old lady is coming home i.e. fwb is the side piece!

2/17/2016 9:19:12 PM Whats the point of FWB when  
cupocheer
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Getting the milk for free without purchasing the cow

2/17/2016 9:36:44 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

sadlsticsienna
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Men?... nothing.

It's called a fleshlight
and that other crap I won't even go into lol

2/17/2016 10:16:31 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

enigmaathand
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Quote from lucky_1million:
I suppose if men were a guaranteed orgasm all the time... a woman might start to think of a man as merely an object to be used and tossed away.

Unfortunately... men are not THAT reliable.

Lol!



Anyhoo... sex for sex sake is not as great as being with someone you love.
I guess if more women could prove that women were loyal, more men would actually want a reap relationship instead of an Xbox

But, well, we see how that plays out....

2/17/2016 10:43:07 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

sadlsticsienna
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Nah they want sex but often have a hard time getting it
(going by the QQing on sites like these) lol

2/18/2016 1:34:54 AM Whats the point of FWB when  
kungfu_candy
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Quote from dan9787_3:
I know, that's why I was suggesting getting advice from someone you can meet in person.



I've thought about it. I think I'll look into match makers and therapist when I hit 30.

It just felt ridiculous to go knocking on a specialists door at age 23.

2/18/2016 9:27:20 AM Whats the point of FWB when  

ctr916v2
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
Nah they want sex but often have a hard time getting it
(going by the QQing on sites like these) lol


Why is it so much easier to get sex from women when I have enough money?

Capital digging may not be gold digging, but it is not social morals for free, either.

2/18/2016 9:28:33 AM Whats the point of FWB when  

ctr916v2
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From one guy's perspective, women just don't want to have to be friends with us so we can have some benefits.

2/18/2016 10:10:30 AM Whats the point of FWB when  

sadlsticsienna
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well do you buy them stuff if you have the money?
who knows why they do



[Edited 2/18/2016 10:10:43 AM ]

2/18/2016 10:43:46 AM Whats the point of FWB when  

dan9787_3
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Quote from kungfu_candy:
I've thought about it. I think I'll look into match makers and therapist when I hit 30.

It just felt ridiculous to go knocking on a specialists door at age 23.


I sincerely hope you find someone.

By the way, is it better where you are now?

2/18/2016 11:38:22 AM Whats the point of FWB when  
kungfu_candy
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Yes and no.

It's better because now I can admit to myself that I'm the problem and no matter where I go I'm going to have the same problem until I look inside and see what needs to be fixed.

It's not better because it's case of "I'll totally commit to a chick who is just like you or worse than you, but not to you."

What was that phrase in "The Way They Were"?

Any peace but Katie's.

So I am enjoying the bitter-sweetness of it all. I feel as hideous as I ever had and useless but I feel hope for something greater. If I'm the problem then that means I actually do have the power to solve whatever is going on.

Fate isn't out to get me. I'm doing this to me.

2/18/2016 12:08:41 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

yz27500
Henderson, NC
53, joined Nov. 2014


Quote from ltlwing:
FWB...means you are not relationship material.The only worth you have...is what you give sexual.


Where is the friend in that???

^^ This

2/18/2016 2:51:04 PM Whats the point of FWB when  
nyythawk
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Denver, CO
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Quote from ltlwing:
FWB...means you are not relationship material.The only worth you have...is what you give sexual.


Where is the friend in that???


No it doesnt. It means you don't want a relationship... and the reason(s) could be any one if a million things. One reason coukd simply be a guy doesn't want all the drama, restrictions and "honey-do" bullshyt that comes with being in a committed relationship.

Where's the "friend?"... FWB's might do all the the things you and your friend might do. Catch a movie, hang out or WHATEVER. Just with a FWB, when the activity is over, instead of splitting up and each going home, they might get naked and do it... maybe sleep over. No drama attached.

You have FWB and bed/f**kbuddies confused.

2/18/2016 5:21:42 PM Whats the point of FWB when  
ivaiva
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Friendship is a relationship.

2/19/2016 6:22:25 AM Whats the point of FWB when  

sadlsticsienna
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I guess FWB CAN be good but the fact you're not dating em means either they don't like you THAT much
or you don't like them THAT much
or something xD

2/20/2016 7:42:54 AM Whats the point of FWB when  

enigmaathand
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Precisely

2/20/2016 9:08:31 AM Whats the point of FWB when  

ctr916v2
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Roseville, CA
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
I guess FWB CAN be good but the fact you're not dating em means either they don't like you THAT much
or you don't like them THAT much
or something xD


fwb can include activity partners, in my case. i am into full body massage.

2/21/2016 1:41:52 AM Whats the point of FWB when  

sadlsticsienna
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Still means you don't like them that much lol xD

2/22/2016 10:49:58 AM Whats the point of FWB when  
nyythawk
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
Still means you don't like them that much lol xD


No it doesnt. Just means he'd rather not HAVE TO deal with all the extra drama bullshyt that comes with a woman if you're in relationship with her.

If she'll f**k without making him deal... COOL!



[Edited 2/22/2016 10:51:26 AM ]

2/22/2016 12:47:09 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

celyn67
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Doesn't always have to be crap & a lot of drama in a relationship. Fund someone not full of so much of the drama etc.

2/22/2016 12:58:42 PM Whats the point of FWB when  

celyn67
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*find