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latinxscorpion
Norcross, GA
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Never had a bad date with a girl but I was wondering. If you pick up a girl up and things go wrong on a date do you just leave her there and leave? Without caring whether she has a ride or not or do you feel obligated to take her back home?
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| 8/1/2016 7:24:00 PM |
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greeleybro
Denver, CO
50, joined Oct. 2013
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Give her bus fare and get the hell out!
Oh and Firstolicious!!!!
[Edited 8/1/2016 7:24:49 PM ]
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| 8/1/2016 7:24:40 PM |
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frank_mccloud
Patchogue, NY
59, joined Jul. 2016
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For five dolla I make you holla. Love you long time.
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| 8/1/2016 7:25:20 PM |
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z__devil
Stockbridge, GA
98, joined May. 2016
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Dolt
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| 8/1/2016 7:26:05 PM |
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countryladypoet
Clarion, PA
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| 8/1/2016 7:33:46 PM |
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latinxscorpion
Norcross, GA
27, joined Apr. 2012
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Probably a good idea to give her for a cab. Anything happens to her its her problem. At least that's what I think if I want to leave her there
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| 8/1/2016 7:37:42 PM |
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iam_resurrected
Reno, NV
47, joined Jul. 2014
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If you pick up a girl up and things go wrong on a date do you just leave her there and leave?
i normally sit her down first after picking her up, j/s 
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| 8/1/2016 7:40:47 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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Have her meet you at the location...
If anything goes badly either of you can leave...
All good...
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| 8/1/2016 7:46:31 PM |
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uber_goober
Danielsville, GA
52, joined May. 2016
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What all the nice people above me said.
Plus. Straighten your spine. Set your feet at shoulder distance apart. Get a good grip with your arms around her. And then lift with your legs.
Your welcome! 
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| 8/1/2016 7:49:13 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
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Wait..hv you met her yet ??
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| 8/1/2016 7:52:29 PM |
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latinxscorpion
Norcross, GA
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Wait..hv you met her yet ??
I am only saying if I pick someone up and the date goes wrong do I have to take her back home or leave her there and dont care what happens to her
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| 8/1/2016 7:57:08 PM |
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iam_resurrected
Reno, NV
47, joined Jul. 2014
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if you could end up in jail then ditch her ass.
but if it's just because it won't work drive her home and be nice to her.
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| 8/1/2016 7:58:11 PM |
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seth097
Arvada, CO
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Depends on the depth and nature of her indiscretions. I have come quite close to abandoning a dingbat once. She was drunk (like my kinda drunk-complete and total blotto) and i was sober. Not my idea of a good time. My "patience" paid off though. She took me to her place and f**ked me silly. A lesson there. Always gotta put the "can i at least get a handjob among a squeeze or two on her precious endowments?" angle at the forefront of your mind.
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| 8/1/2016 8:14:06 PM |
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latinxscorpion
Norcross, GA
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Lawfully speaking, if I leave her there (restaurant, movies) after a bad date (ignoring me or treating me like sh*t) will I get into trouble with the law if something happens to her or could she do something to get me into trouble? Do I have to at least offer a ride back what if she says no?
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| 8/1/2016 8:15:57 PM |
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blondie855
Chicago, IL
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Have her meet you at the location...
If anything goes badly either of you can leave...
All good...
This...
Only it was a bad date for me and I ducked out...
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| 8/1/2016 8:17:30 PM |
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blondie855
Chicago, IL
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Lawfully speaking, if I leave her there (restaurant, movies) after a bad date (ignoring me or treating me like sh*t) will I get into trouble with the law if something happens to her or could she do something to get me into trouble? Do I have to at least offer a ride back what if she says no?
Call a cab for her.... Play nice.... And then be polite and say thanks but no thanks.
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| 8/1/2016 8:18:16 PM |
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bricktop502
Louisville, KY
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if you drove to pick her up then the best thing to do is give her a ride home..or at least get her a cab.
If you met her there then you can bounce shes on her own.
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| 8/1/2016 8:22:55 PM |
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bricktop502
Louisville, KY
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and no theres nothing illegal about leaving a date.
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| 8/1/2016 8:25:14 PM |
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sparknspirit
Ocala, FL
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^^^^ Profile
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| 8/1/2016 8:32:25 PM |
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ibane
Zanesville, OH
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Throw em in the back of the truck and drop em off.
Sometimes they like it
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| 8/1/2016 8:35:15 PM |
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fairymaiden
Bristol, CT
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Lawfully speaking, if I leave her there (restaurant, movies) after a bad date (ignoring me or treating me like sh*t) will I get into trouble with the law if something happens to her or could she do something to get me into trouble? Do I have to at least offer a ride back what if she says no?
It sounds like you have a pretty good sense that the date may go badly. If at all possible have her drive herself to the meeting place then. If you pick her up you gotta bring her back home. Don't be a turd and strand her. If she "starts" just say "we're leaving now" and take her home.
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| 8/1/2016 8:53:43 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
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Give her bus fare and get the hell out!
Well OK, but if the public transportation or cab system sucks then he has to drive her home at least.
Oh and Firstolicious!!!!
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| 8/1/2016 8:57:37 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
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I am only saying if I pick someone up and the date goes wrong do I have to take her back home or leave her there and dont care what happens to her
Is this how men think now ?
Is this actually something men do...
Ditch a human...without a way home ?
Oh FFS...
Thank God I dnt date...Thank God...
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| 8/1/2016 9:07:19 PM |
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cajunmister
Kinder, LA
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After a night of partying one of the guy's brought one to the apt. After their activities, they were having words. She said call me a cab! He disappeared for a bit then came out and went to the front door, he invited her out, when she stepped out he stepped in and slammed the door shut and locked it. He then yelled "Your a cab!" 
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| 8/1/2016 9:11:28 PM |
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olderthandirt20
Waldron, AR
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Lawfully speaking, if I leave her there (restaurant, movies) after a bad date (ignoring me or treating me like sh*t) will I get into trouble with the law if something happens to her or could she do something to get me into trouble? Do I have to at least offer a ride back what if she says no?
Only if she's a cops daughter.
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| 8/1/2016 9:21:47 PM |
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hippo65
Albuquerque, NM
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If you pick her up you take her back where you picked her up.
It's not a law, it's a human thing to do.
But...I honestly would worried that she starts screaming that I tried to rape her or something like that..
So..
Best thing to do is not picking her up.
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| 8/1/2016 9:38:48 PM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
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If you pick up your date, you should take her home, even if things don't work out. But if you won't take her home, then call a cab for her. I think it's best that you both meet somewhere though.
Also, are you only concerned about if YOU would get in trouble with the law if you left your date stranded? Do you even care that she might not have a way home?
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| 8/1/2016 9:39:42 PM |
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Zelda88
Sugar Land, TX
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You don't just CALL the cab, YOU PAY FOR IT.
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| 8/1/2016 9:40:52 PM |
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slutfoluv
Colorado Springs, CO
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Give her bus fare and send her on
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| 8/1/2016 9:41:59 PM |
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Zelda88
Sugar Land, TX
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Buses aren't everywhere. Cheapskate
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| 8/1/2016 9:45:58 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
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have never had a bad date etc..it would depend on variables,id treat her the way i wanted to be treated...
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| 8/1/2016 9:47:16 PM |
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slutfoluv
Colorado Springs, CO
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Then she can walk
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| 8/1/2016 9:52:12 PM |
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Zelda88
Sugar Land, TX
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I'd gladly pay my own cab fare after I go out the back door, if I met such a person. 
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| 8/1/2016 9:56:06 PM |
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hippo65
Albuquerque, NM
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Well as I understand it's a scenario where she treats him like a b*tch..
So not sure why would he should pay for the cab?
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| 8/1/2016 9:57:15 PM |
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fishnthec
Mesquite, TX
66, joined Oct. 2010
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Lawfully speaking, if I leave her there (restaurant, movies) after a bad date (ignoring me or treating me like sh*t) will I get into trouble with the law if something happens to her or could she do something to get me into trouble? Do I have to at least offer a ride back what if she says no?
It's not illegal to be an a**hole! 
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| 8/1/2016 9:59:40 PM |
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slutfoluv
Colorado Springs, CO
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Well as I understand it's a scenario where she treats him like a b*tch..
So not sure why would he should pay for the cab?
Don't forget...he's also expected to pick up the tab too
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| 8/1/2016 10:04:57 PM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
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You don't just CALL the cab, YOU PAY FOR IT.
Yes, that too.
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| 8/1/2016 10:05:28 PM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
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Give her bus fare and send her on
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| 8/1/2016 10:05:32 PM |
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Zelda88
Sugar Land, TX
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You just made that up. He didn't post that anywhere. Just said bad date. Maybe he was being an a**hole?
Well as I understand it's a scenario where she treats him like a b*tch..
So not sure why would he should pay for the cab?
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| 8/1/2016 10:07:42 PM |
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Zelda88
Sugar Land, TX
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I'm proud I raised a son who isn't a cheapskate p*ssy.
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| 8/1/2016 10:08:01 PM |
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the_israelite
Rio de JaneiroRio de Janeiro
Brazil
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You can meet her there and then if it's all messed up, go your separate ways.
But then the question becomes, do you still pay for her portion if it was a dinner date or even a bar tab...
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| 8/1/2016 10:11:22 PM |
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fairymaiden
Bristol, CT
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You can meet her there and then if it's all messed up, go your separate ways.
But then the question becomes, do you still pay for her portion if it was a dinner date or even a bar tab...
Yes, just do the gentlemanly thing and pay the bill. Don't be a turd.
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| 8/1/2016 10:14:04 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
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And..this..is why I tell women..
Get there on your own...pay for your own...
Silly bs ....
Have to be stark raving insane
To put up with such bs..but if you are...take care of self at all times...
My dates used to get pissed. When I looked for the closest bus stop...
Shld copy and paste this sht and send it to them...
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| 8/1/2016 10:28:11 PM |
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the_israelite
Rio de JaneiroRio de Janeiro
Brazil
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fairymaiden, I'm talking about if the date went like... really bad. Granted, it's bad enough for man to have to deal with the sting of rejection if it is clear that the woman isn't feeling him but to still have to pay. It is what it is.
But I'm talking about like... maybe the two had an argument or if the woman was actually just a total... well, she wasn't a good person (yes, even some women can be capable of just being really nasty people). For the sake of the discussion, I'm talking about if it was actually her fault (yes, I know men can be douchebags too, but I'm not talking about that).
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| 8/1/2016 10:35:44 PM |
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nicefitguy
King of Prussia, PA
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Most are too heavy to pick up.
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| 8/1/2016 10:39:44 PM |
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marriedncheatin
Twin Falls, ID
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I just tell them I'm married and they come running
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| 8/1/2016 10:40:19 PM |
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gdaddy47
Columbia, TN
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I am only saying if I pick someone up and the date goes wrong do I have to take her back home or leave her there and dont care what happens to her
Pretty damn selfish question sonny. Of course you take her home and tell her it ain't working. She may have something for ya if you don't. You gotta play it smart and at least be a gentleman or maybe that word isn't in your vocabulary.
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| 8/1/2016 10:46:15 PM |
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countryladypoet
Clarion, PA
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If you do not get along. You don't just leave her stranded be a freaking gentleman and make sure she gets home safely..
Or avoid all the crap by just meeting her at the restaurant. .so she can leave your sorry a** there 
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| 8/1/2016 11:02:01 PM |
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sperinkles
Blace
Yugoslavia
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Thank God I dnt date...Thank God...
This.
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| 8/1/2016 11:07:04 PM |
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the_israelite
Rio de JaneiroRio de Janeiro
Brazil
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^^^Yeah, dating is rough. A guy can be the perfect gentleman and still get dissed and dismissed on a regular (at least if he is actually looking for a relationship). It may be that American society (or Westernized society) in general is so messed up that it probably makes things more difficult than they need to be.
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| 8/1/2016 11:19:16 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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I dnt see the benefit of it...
For either party...
Too many expectations...
The fun got sucked right out of it...
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| 8/2/2016 1:15:02 AM |
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calthropstu
Phoenix, AZ
38, joined Aug. 2012
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I have never had a date go so bad that we fought enough for a scenario like that.
But I can imagine if she became openly hostile, I wouldn't put up with it.
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| 8/2/2016 2:00:52 AM |
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sperinkles
Blace
Yugoslavia
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^^^Yeah, dating is rough. A guy can be the perfect gentleman and still get dissed and dismissed on a regular (at least if he is actually looking for a relationship). It may be that American society (or Westernized society) in general is so messed up that it probably makes things more difficult than they need to be.
Same for the ladies. They still get dissed and dismissed by guys too at times. They don't always have it made out there in the dating world.
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| 8/2/2016 2:01:22 AM |
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apokernut
Elk Grove Village, IL
55, joined Jan. 2008
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and if she doesn't have a car tell her 2 cab it!!
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| 8/2/2016 3:45:18 AM |
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Mercedes_02
AñatuyaAñatuya
Australia
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You wouldn't have to take me home simply because your lift home would be an ambulance.
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| 8/2/2016 3:59:22 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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I am only saying if I pick someone up and the date goes wrong do I have to take her back home or leave her there and dont care what happens to her
Dude...it depends on what went wrong.
If you just didn't get along or something like that....you should take her back home, or back to where her friends are or were.
If she turns nutcase on you, and causes something too dramatic or psycho like.....that's different.
But you picked her up, there are no guarantee's.....so in that....your responsible to get her back....that's old school thinking. Either way....to say you don't care what happens to her....seems to be the new way of thinking and that goes for women not caring about what happens to the guy either.
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| 8/2/2016 4:03:18 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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Lawfully speaking, if I leave her there (restaurant, movies) after a bad date (ignoring me or treating me like sh*t) will I get into trouble with the law if something happens to her or could she do something to get me into trouble? Do I have to at least offer a ride back what if she says no?
Dude...your suppose to find out first a little of what she is like, before you date her.
anyway....tell us.
Were you raised with a father around? or just raised by a single mom....just curious here.
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| 8/2/2016 4:06:54 AM |
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calthropstu
Phoenix, AZ
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Dude...it depends on what went wrong.
If you just didn't get along or something like that....you should take her back home, or back to where her friends are or were.
If she turns nutcase on you, and causes something too dramatic or psycho like.....that's different.
But you picked her up, there are no guarantee's.....so in that....your responsible to get her back....that's old school thinking. Either way....to say you don't care what happens to her....seems to be the new way of thinking and that goes for women not caring about what happens to the guy either.
I had a first date go sour once, and I knew I didn't want to see her again.
Didn't hate her, but she was not someone I wanted to keep around.
Towards the end of our date a nasty storm came through and she had a half hour drive. It was kinda late, and since my place was really close, I had her stay on my couch.
She left the next morning and that was that. Unless you are actively fighting, there is no reason not to be civil.
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| 8/2/2016 4:11:25 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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^^^^^^^^^^^^I don't think its a matter of being civil in a sense, but brought up to be caring and responsible.
But, times are changing, kids are treated like a pet, and not being brought up like how it use to be.
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| 8/2/2016 4:14:20 AM |
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calthropstu
Phoenix, AZ
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Have you read my posts on how I was brought up?
I am responsible and caring despite my upbringing.
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