ca_dreamer
Cinebar, WA
67, joined Oct. 2013
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It's been a long time, but I'm still so hurt. Hole in my heart that will never heal. Is it just me?? Get on with your life.. make friends.. go back to school.. join clubs.. take up a hobby.. do those things you love and always wanted to do... sigh, they feel empty. I am getting on with my life (as we all must), but all it feels like is that I'm growing old alone.
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moonbeams73
Grand Rapids, MN
62, joined Sep. 2009
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Each survivor copes in his/hers own way. Some get stuck in grief. Perhaps that is you and therapy is needed to sort things out.
For me, I just got tired of being sad all the time so decided to start seeing the positive side of life and all my blessings. I have gone from missing my spouse, to...he has missed out on so much in life. Meanwhile, I still have a life to live and plan on making the best of every day I am given. Hope this helps.
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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my brother..feb 5 1997...had a bad drug monkey on his back,an i didnt get to him in time..
i wouldnt do this,but as im now blocked an hated by some ireally cared about,if the good lord took me as i was sleepin,an to wake up in heaven..well thatssome though,but im mad an very hurt,and i love someone,an they hate an have me blocked over a few words an i really dont even know.i found its not good to text any woman more than a time or two a day,they automatically become the dam boss it seems...............lost my wife to cancer after a real battle,3 years ago,we were together 23 years.........
i have a few good women friends in forums,but some over there have pure devilish evil deep in there hearts...........
[Edited 12/27/2016 5:55:09 PM ]
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ca_dreamer
Cinebar, WA
67, joined Oct. 2013
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Thank you both for your comments, sincerely. I posted this last year and got no response, pretty depressing. Moonbeam, I'm happy for you. This is such a personal struggle....?
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thebigugly0
Kent, OH
46, joined Sep. 2012
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Not a mate, but very close friends
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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Some folks you never get over, but if you cannot deal with it then it is time for some grief counseling to help you get over the hump.
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