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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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They have attraction to?
Always see men whining about the friendzone and telling dudes to "not be an emotional tampon" for the girl or some similar BS. Lol. So yeah are they? And if they are incapable of being just friends with women they are attracted to why is that? Is it the same for women as well? I kinda don't think women behave similarly if they are friendzoned by a guy. I think they just Deal with it and none of this whining entitlement
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1/22/2017 11:06:20 AM |
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stratus55
Jackson, GA
51, joined Jan. 2017
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i have lost an gained some women friends over a 3 year period,had spats with them,aan them blocked me here,an me blocked them,but we usually come back together,there slower to forgive an unblock though,an hold a grudge a long time..but id rather just have piece in the long run.........
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1/22/2017 12:10:46 PM |
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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Men claim they just want to be friends. But you better watch the sneaky bastard. They are always topping off your drink and telling you how terrible your guy is.
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1/22/2017 12:13:16 PM |
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riteguyforu122
Lisle, IL
39, joined Jan. 2017
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Im capable.
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1/22/2017 1:00:39 PM |
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korbyn
Bat Cave, NC
98, joined Jun. 2013
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You need a gay guy friend, Sienna. There are benefits to that. If he is flaming gay then he can even help you look fabulous. Nobody is better with fashion and beauty than flaming gay dudes. That's what you need.
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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They have attraction to?
Always see men whining about the friendzone and telling dudes to "not be an emotional tampon" for the girl or some similar BS. Lol. So yeah are they? And if they are incapable of being just friends with women they are attracted to why is that? Is it the same for women as well? I kinda don't think women behave similarly if they are friendzoned by a guy. I think they just Deal with it and none of this whining entitlement
no...that wasn't all men on here complaining about all that.
Just a select few.
Maybe you took it in and forgot to notice the ones who are not like that.
Women would rarely get friend zoned for obvious reasons...so you can't really compare if they haven't been tested under the exact same circumstance.
And who says these men were attracted to these women? some men will take anything they can get, because its that hard for them, and that's likely the real source of some of these guys problems...but anyone walking in those shoes might become the same way...even women...except even an ugly woman can give up sex just to have an anyone.
Anyway research shows that either gender can friend zone someone they are attracted to...if either of them are taken and their rules pertaining to not messing with taken people are followed.
Other wise both genders can be just friend only, if there is not that attraction...if there is attraction and they are single...then likely something more than friends will happen.
and op...East West here b*tches about men as bad as any guy here who complains about women and she is not the only woman here who is like this....you do it too.
So in the interest of fairness, include both genders in these rants of yours.
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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Some are, I have male friends
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1/22/2017 1:32:33 PM |
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ms_Champagne
AngualastoAustralian Capital
Australia
96, joined Aug. 2016
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You need a gay guy friend, Sienna. There are benefits to that. If he is flaming gay then he can even help you look fabulous. Nobody is better with fashion and beauty than flaming gay dudes. That's what you need.
So true, years ago, one of my BFF was a gay male and I enjoyed hanging out with him, going out to nightclubs with him.. and often he would come to my place before he went out so I could do his eye make up for him. We talked about 'everything'. (he has moved to another city now).
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1/22/2017 2:45:20 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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In no way can you be friends with a guy who likes you. If you do not like the guy DO NOT stick him in the friendszone.
If this is the case let the friendship go!
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1/22/2017 2:58:31 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
64, joined Nov. 2013
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It is possible-but unusual-for men, and women to be friends. Thanks to: native stupidity, soap opera training, women's magazine articles, and romance novel addictions, many women have the idiot notion that one can be a lover, or a friend, but not both a lover and a friend. That is a myth. The best lovers, are friends.
The Friend Zone is a mythical place where women allegedly place men they are not really attracted to as lover material. For most women, there are usually lovers, and "everybody else"...friends, acquaintances, enemies, strangers, etc, Most women will never take a friend, acquaintance, stranger, etc, as a lover....though there are some exceptions, and some women choose ONLY such types as lovers.
Where most women are concerned, most men end up in the "everybody else" (mythical 'Friend Zone') category...because they do not "measure up". Such men are not what the woman is looking for: a White Knight, a millionaire, a man just like daddy, or whatever the woman is looking for in the way of a lover. 'Friend Zoned' men are just too: poor, stupid, brutish, small d*cked, inconsiderate, talentless in bed, un-romantic, sports addicted, car focused, or otherwise uninteresting to women. Such men get rejected, and become angry over it. They spend their lives venting their anger at, and hatred of, women. Such men do not make good friends...especially for women.
Even when they do get accepted (at least temporarily) by women, the stupid, brutish, etc, men tend to focus on getting what they want, and leaving the women without what they want. What sort of 'friend' does that?
There are some women who use men for sex, money, economic stability without working for it, etc, just as much as some men use women for sex, cooking, maid service, etc. Such women want a daddy substitute, with sexual benefits on the side, and such men want a mommy substitute with sexual benefits. Neither type of man, or woman, is emotionally adult enough to matter.
Emotional adults-male, and femal- can easily be friends with a lover. They usually find a friend, make certain of his / her devotion, and then take the friendship into the romantic-sexual zone. Marriages between friends tend to last.
My parents met in grade school. They became friends, long before becoming sexually aware. They remained friends, and then started dating, in high school. They were separated by World War Two, when my dad to be entered The Army. After the war ended, my parents to be got back together, and got married. My older sister arrived three years later, and I came along four years after that. My parents remained together until my dad died of Cancer. My parents were friends first, became lovers, and married each other...staying together until Death parted them. That proves that both men, and women, CAN be friends with each other-even with lovers-IF they WANT to be. The best sexual relationships I have had have been with women who were good friends first.
Live your life by soap opera / movie / novel plots, or by stereotypes, and magazine / internet editorials, if you wish. If you do, your life will not be as happy as it could have been. Alternatively, you could: grow the f**k up, grow a brain, become an individual, and decide whether YOU want to be friends with a lover of the opposite gender, or not.
Whining is pointless, and makes the whiners worthless.
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lyrical_doe
Fort Collins, CO
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All my besties are women.
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1/22/2017 6:56:14 PM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
49, joined Jun. 2014
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yes
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1/22/2017 9:34:18 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Is the man in question taking Viagra or Cialis?
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1/22/2017 10:15:35 PM |
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sillylaugher61
Murrysville, PA
55, joined Aug. 2011
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I get along great with my married best friend.
Also in my group there are several married women that I get along with just fine!
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1/23/2017 12:05:04 AM |
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
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Anything is possible....so I am sure there are men in existence who are fully capable.....
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1/23/2017 5:57:13 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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Wow quite a lot of replies, didn't really expect tat lol xD
I think gays are awesome but I never been friends with them before exactly. I'm probably generalizing how they are. I hear they can be very catty like women.
, many women have the idiot notion that one can be a lover, or a friend, but not both a lover and a friend. That is a myth. The best lovers, are friends.
Well lover AND friend is possible but not JUST a friend if the guy has interest in the girl and she doesn't.
You posted so much really I didn't want to bulk my post by quoting all you said so.. What I'll say is that
Ok for example when people interact with eachother USUALLY if one of them has romantic feelings toward the other that aren't mutual the relationship tends to break down. Even in like Sims, I noticed as soon as one rejected the other, suddenly the relationship just didn't progress in a friend type way or romantic. It was like it creates a sort of hostility and resentment almost, between the two people.
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1/23/2017 9:23:59 AM |
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korbyn
Bat Cave, NC
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Wow quite a lot of replies, didn't really expect tat lol xD
I think gays are awesome but I never been friends with them before exactly. I'm probably generalizing how they are. I hear they can be very catty like women.
, many women have the idiot notion that one can be a lover, or a friend, but not both a lover and a friend. That is a myth. The best lovers, are friends.
Well lover AND friend is possible but not JUST a friend if the guy has interest in the girl and she doesn't.
You posted so much really I didn't want to bulk my post by quoting all you said so.. What I'll say is that
Ok for example when people interact with eachother USUALLY if one of them has romantic feelings toward the other that aren't mutual the relationship tends to break down. Even in like Sims, I noticed as soon as one rejected the other, suddenly the relationship just didn't progress in a friend type way or romantic. It was like it creates a sort of hostility and resentment almost, between the two people.
You need a gay guy friend that is about the same age as you. There are a lot of benefits to that. The gayer the better.
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simplyreal45
Gold Bar, WA
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I think at a certain age yes. Because women don't really care for their man having other woman friends hanging out with them.
Another case that men do collect women friends is when they are single and looking for a real partner. They will befriend and treat his women of interest as friends in hope that one of them gets closer to him in time. Wanting to be chosen is what he feels will give him happiness.
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1/23/2017 10:53:16 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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Right now...I've friend zoned every women on the planet.
I'm not interested in dating right now.
So, there you go.
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1/23/2017 11:34:03 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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You need a gay guy friend that is about the same age as you. There are a lot of benefits to that. The g.ayer the better. well this is not really about me since I don't exactly have any friends.
Yaoi/BL kinda ruined me having a g.ay friend I think lmfao.
Now I was stupid earlier and had a preworkout supplement even though Im sensitive to caffeine now It's messing with me bad like 12+ hrs later. Its like Im relapsing in the anxiety I had before I was on my antipsychotic. So if I say anything stu.pid or insane thats probably why. Ah man I feel like venting and complaining atm lol must restraiin. I need to sleep but the tablets arent making me tired fmlll lol
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1/23/2017 11:46:37 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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Ooo this is a good song https://youtu.be/DT84jorBSkA
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1/23/2017 12:30:02 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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Op....the way you threads all the time in a negative way about men all the time.
A person would think, your a 52 year old woman who has been thru two marriages and 17 relations since then and they all failed.
Yet you and I both know...you haven't lived outside of the parents home yet....and you have only had two relations I think...or was it one?...and you stated it lasted 4 years and had to be to pretty good, because your are still friends....so it couldn't have been that bad, enough to warrant all of this.
So...beyond the needs for your meds, I'd have to wonder what got you to this point.?
Let me guess...
1) the media
2) reading all the negativity on the forums.
3) propaganda documentaries.
4) Dr. Phil
5) assorted other talk shows
6) etc, etc, etc, etc.
Why let the outside world dictate your thinking, mind and life???
Do you really want that on the your head stone? Here lives Sienna, she could have had a happy life, but she let outside influences control her mind and thinking.
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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And op...if this guy from that long relation you had....your still friends with.
doesn't that contradict your thread and accusations?
I think it does.
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1/23/2017 12:38:45 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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No it was all from my own mind tbh. And some things Im not going to talk about here. Iv had issues with guys for a long time
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1/23/2017 12:56:51 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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How can you have that many issues with men....without enough real life experiences????
1) the media
2) reading all the negativity on the forums.
3) propaganda documentaries.
4) Dr. Phil
5) assorted other talk shows
6) etc, etc, etc, etc.
Hey...if you want these above dictate your mind, life and thinking.
whatever!!!!
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mortara
Pittsburgh, PA
63, joined Feb. 2014
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Being friends usually means you are paying for dinner because her real boyfriend with the big d*ck and no job can't. Simple. It's part of the "Get To Know You" phase where she tells you she has a boyfriend with a big d*ck and no job as she orders twin lobsters thank you!!!
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
63, joined Sep. 2009
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This should be obvious.
The reason women who are either actively searching for mates, or are "looking for friends" in a MATE HUNTING AREA, commonly make this complaint, is that they haven't thought things through in the most basic and obvious way.
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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I'll say this much Sienna, I'm glad I got to grow up in a much simpler, better time than what we are in now.
Its crazy in what its gotten too....and it effects the kids and young people the most.
Back in the day, you'd never hear young people with this kind of animosity and etc.
I agree some changes were needed, but it got way out of hand, and its f**king mess now.
Terrible.
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1/23/2017 6:28:24 PM |
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stratus55
Jackson, GA
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yep,actually most dont know its a spiritual,influential force that causes hate an jealousy an war,the thief comes to steal,kill,and to destroy,an its covering the whole spectrum of five senses,and relationships,nothing left out at all.........
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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I'll be your friend but that doesn't mean I'll be exclusive while you run about like a barnyard animal in heat. I get to chase about too.
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1/23/2017 10:43:39 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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No. One of my best friends was male.
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bookwormtobutte
Rio Rancho, NM
37, joined Jan. 2016
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Nope I've been friend zoned plenty of times. I usually end up being their Dr Phil, with all the girlfriend advice.
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riteguyforu122
Lisle, IL
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I would be incapable of friendzoning Book... I would always want to be with her sexually.
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dantana77
Frederick, MD
39, joined Oct. 2010
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FWB:
friends that want benefits become friends with benefits
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riteguyforu122
Lisle, IL
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Book doesn't want me to friendzone her...she wants the Love of a Lifetime.
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1/24/2017 12:17:03 AM |
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teigeasaurus
Sandy, UT
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I have had strictly platonic male friends.
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1/24/2017 6:45:34 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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How can you have that many issues with men....without enough real life experiences????
1) the media
2) reading all the negativity on the forums.
3) propaganda doc.umentaries.
4) Dr. Phil
5) assorted other talk shows
6) etc, etc, etc, etc.
Hey...if you want these above dictate your mind, life and thinking.
whatever!!!!
I dont like to repeat myself. I said Its not from those things.
I was almost always alone at school for one reason or another. I got used to it but not used to cruelty. Kinda got worse as I got older and they also got older and crueler.
Some older boys in my neighbourhood weren't very nice. Kind of started being afraid of them because at first it wasn't bad but then they started harassing me and my sister as we all got older.
At first things were good, me and my sister would swim everyday and ride our scooters around and make cubby houses. but yeah things changed. Like it was already annoying because the boys were agressive and took up all the room and did dangerous crap like jumping into the pool from like 3 stories up. The thing that really did it for me for good was watching them trash and p.iss all over my cubby house (in the national park) and listening to them talking about if they were going to r.ape me or not. I was 11, it was dark but I got away. I never really went out after that and started hating guys. They forgot what they did but I didn't. When I was older I was r.aped but Im not talking about that. Men see women as toys and objects for their pleasure
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
32, joined Feb. 2014
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Men claim they just want to be friends. But you better watch the sneaky bastard. They are always topping off your drink and telling you how terrible your guy is.
but women like you would date them anyway lol
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1/24/2017 11:42:01 AM |
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lyrical_doe
Fort Collins, CO
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I think most of the time, men f*ck up their friendships with women.
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1/24/2017 12:03:38 PM |
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
32, joined Feb. 2014
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I think most of the time, men f*ck up their friendships with women.
and most of the time...women put men in the friend zone
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1/24/2017 9:12:16 PM |
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teigeasaurus
Sandy, UT
32, joined Aug. 2014
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Yes, Clark
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1/24/2017 9:45:24 PM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
59, joined Dec. 2013
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They have attraction to?
Always see men whining about the friendzone and telling dudes to "not be an emotional tampon" for the girl or some similar BS. Lol. So yeah are they? And if they are incapable of being just friends with women they are attracted to why is that? Is it the same for women as well? I kinda don't think women behave similarly if they are friendzoned by a guy. I think they just Deal with it and none of this whining entitlement
Sure, we can be friends.
Come to bat, and I'll tell you all about it.
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1/24/2017 11:05:23 PM |
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
32, joined Feb. 2014
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Yes, Clark who is Clark
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1/24/2017 11:58:19 PM |
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teigeasaurus
Sandy, UT
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It's you
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1/25/2017 1:00:56 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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Sure, we can be friends.
Come to bat, and I'll tell you all about it. idk what that means
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1/25/2017 1:16:26 AM |
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bookwormtobutte
Rio Rancho, NM
37, joined Jan. 2016
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Book doesn't want me to friendzone her...she wants the Love of a Lifetime.
That would be nice, but I'm not holding my breath
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1/25/2017 9:43:14 AM |
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teigeasaurus
Sandy, UT
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Viper, there is a thread about "step up to the plate". If anyone would show up to "bat", I would hope it was you hence the equipment. You are not going to score anything though.
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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I burnt my finger in the oven an it hurts like a bish
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riteguyforu122
Lisle, IL
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That would be nice, but I'm not holding my breath
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
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idk what that means
Autocorrect turned bed into bat.
Viper, there is a thread about "step up to the plate". If anyone would show up to "bat", I would hope it was you hence the equipment. You are not going to score anything though.
I can't score you?
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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Here I am thinking about sports and batting LOL
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riteguyforu122
Lisle, IL
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I could be friends with Sienna because she is not physically attractive.
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fairymaiden
Bristol, CT
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Riteguy, the stuff you say is the definition of a troll. A person who intentionally says things that will anger other people.
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1/27/2017 7:42:43 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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I could be friends with Sienna because she is not physically attractive.
then why did you HMU before hay
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riteguyforu122
Lisle, IL
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I'm not a troll I just speak my mind.
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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You're a bit of an idi.t mate. How about making an actual contribution to my threads instead of idioc.y
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1/27/2017 7:56:54 AM |
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riteguyforu122
Lisle, IL
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Because your threads suck. U ask dumb questions that you should already know the answer to or that you need to figure out the answer to yourself.
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fairymaiden
Bristol, CT
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I'm not a troll I just speak my mind.
You can't fool me... I didn't just fall off the turnip truck ya know.
You know damn well the things you say are going to get a rise out of people, yet you say them anyways even if you don't truly feel that way.
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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Because your threads suck. U ask dumb questions that you should already know the answer to or that you need to figure out the answer to yourself.
If you think my threads suck then wow yours are REALLY sucky
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riteguyforu122
Lisle, IL
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Sienna I know that you want to breed with me.
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