Do all people need perfection?

There's no such thing as perfect.

Quote from burt_hurt:

Not true, perfection is in the eye of the beholder...

Actually both of you are right! There is no "perfect person or ppl" in general. Just perfect in their complete existence.

But there ARE perfect ppl for the job, perfect for the role, perfect for a co-worker, perfect for the position, the perfect trainer, the perfect designer, the perfect cook, the perfect manager and the perfect man/woman as a companion/husband or wife!

Bcuz those things ARE based on ones individual standards.

2/19/2017 3:20:36 PM	Do all people need perfection?
sacishere Delray Beach, FL 63, joined Aug. 2011	I have been on this site a very long time. In that time it seems that 90% of men and women are looking for perfection. They say I want a thin woman with high heels , I want a woman that can keep up with me , I want an independent woman, I will not date heavy set women, and so on and on. What do they think that the woman's looks are going to last forever. I have not read any women's profile since I am looking for male relationship. I also found that most want sex and nothing else or the very successful men. You know the type, I exercise 3x a week ,I play Golf,I love nature and hike as often as possible ,I am looking for long term relationship, I am financially secure and will take care of all your needs. Geeze! I have chatted and met quite a few men on here over the yrs. I don't know if this is the way to go. I would like to meet someone in a natural way. those are the only ones that were with me for yrs. Please women what do you think? thank you for taking time to read my opinion. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
2/19/2017 3:28:34 PM	Do all people need perfection?
Helly_Orchid Oshawa, ON 37, joined Jan. 2017 online now!	No one needs perfection. No one is going to get perfection. If you're looking for perfection, you will be in a failed relationship every single time.
2/19/2017 3:38:04 PM	Do all people need perfection?
masterofbacon2 Kirkjubæjarklaustur Iceland 90, joined May. 2014	I don't need perfection, I'm perfect enough all on my own. Yea right
2/19/2017 3:43:49 PM	Do all people need perfection?
Helly_Orchid Oshawa, ON 37, joined Jan. 2017 online now!	Says the dude who falls asleep during conversations.
2/19/2017 3:47:11 PM	Do all people need perfection?
masterofbacon2 Kirkjubæjarklaustur Iceland 90, joined May. 2014	It's a gift, what can I say.
2/19/2017 4:47:59 PM	Do all people need perfection?
illan615 Holland, MI 56, joined Oct. 2012	There are just too many scammers in online dating. I don't desire perfection. I am not perfect, who is? Common interests, and sense of humor. Seems the hardest part is finding someone within 30 miles. LoL.
2/19/2017 4:57:33 PM	Do all people need perfection?
packersbabe920 Green Bay, WI 52, joined Jul. 2013	Looking for perfection on here, you're kidding..Right? [Edited 2/19/2017 4:59:32 PM ]
2/19/2017 5:28:57 PM	Do all people need perfection?
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 62, joined Apr. 2011	You started out with saying most of both genders wants perfection....then it quickly turned over to another rant about men... Go figure huh? I don't need perfection and it doesn't even exist, neither does perfect for you. I'd be happy with real feelings from a woman, who's not a nutcase...and we have the important compatibilities. But even if your not shallow and real...sure doesn't mean you'll find the above either. And as far as this guys wanting only sex...well, if a guy doesn't try to impose that and just goes with the flow, by the second date, they are all over him for sex. Go figure huh? [Edited 2/19/2017 5:29:36 PM ]
2/19/2017 7:20:32 PM	Do all people need perfection?
lightbrownie1 Johnston, IA 48, joined Feb. 2016	Perfection? I expect the bare necessities. Look for the bare necessities The simple bare necessities Forget about your worries and your strife I mean the bare necessities Old Mother Nature's recipes That brings the bare necessities of life Sing along.
2/19/2017 8:16:36 PM	Do all people need perfection?
sadlsticsienna New South Wales Australia 25, joined Jan. 2016	Lol "exersize 3x a week" is that it I guess its a lot if they are old idk xD Hiking is good unless its heaps humid, which it usually is eww
2/19/2017 8:26:52 PM	Do all people need perfection?
Amantide BadraoMilan Italy 44, joined Feb. 2017	If you come across a man who's smart, hot, humble, educated, financially secure, passionate and patient, great at fixing things around the house and is not materialistic, good in bed, loves you like you are the only girl in the world and watches you whilst you are applying your make up while listening to every word you say...then, please be assured that the weed you have just smoked is of super quality. And before men start whining here "oh it goes for women as well" bla bla bla. Yes it does. You may change the make up with washing your d*cks or whatever thing you do.
2/19/2017 8:39:49 PM	Do all people need perfection?
enigmaathand Leavittsburg, OH 36, joined Mar. 2013	Quote from sacishere: I have been on this site a very long time. In that time it seems that 90% of men and women are looking for perfection. They say I want a thin woman with high heels , I want a woman that can keep up with me , I want an independent woman, I will not date heavy set women, and so on and on. What do they think that the woman's looks are going to last forever. I have not read any women's profile since I am looking for male relationship. I also found that most want sex and nothing else or the very successful men. You know the type, I exercise 3x a week ,I play Golf,I love nature and hike as often as possible ,I am looking for long term relationship, I am financially secure and will take care of all your needs. Geeze! I have chatted and met quite a few men on here over the yrs. I don't know if this is the way to go. I would like to meet someone in a natural way. those are the only ones that were with me for yrs. Please women what do you think? thank you for taking time to read my opinion. Well, for somebody who claims to have been here for a long time, this is the first tike I have seen you post. So, I am calling "bullshit" that you are just another troll that is trying to spark up some kinda man vs woman thread. But, since we all know I can't tolerate or stand women, like you, I'll bite the bait. WOMEN want "perfection". They enjoy polish over principle, and when they are in heat over two men, they will ALWAYS CHOOSE the one that has the better résumé. How women decide what man to date: Is he rich? Can I show him off like a trophy? Does he like to lick my boots? Will he care WHEN I cheat on him, with every other man I think is hotter than him? Is he too stupid to figure out that I am a lying, hypocritical, two-timing, floor flushing whre and only looking for the BBD? Is he stupid enough to raise my 4 illegitimate children, from 3 to 4 other baby daddies? Will he spend all his money on me, while expecting NOTHING in return? Can I divorce him later on, and retire at the age of 35? There are three categories, that women place men in: The No-Go Zone - This is the largest of zones, amd encompasses pretty much 90% or more of the men they know, which are brother considered hot or rich enough for their gold-lined pssy The Fun Zone - Or otherwise known as the "Friendzone". This is for guys that are hot, but broke. The Husband Zone: This is for men that have acquired sufficient amounts of money. Looks are irrelevant, as long as the biggest "bulge" is in his right-back pants pocket.
2/19/2017 9:14:22 PM	Do all people need perfection?
purdibirrdii Fort Collins, CO 51, joined Jan. 2017	Quote from Amantide: If you come across a man who's smart, hot, humble, educated, financially secure, passionate and patient, great at fixing things around the house and is not materialistic, good in bed, loves you like you are the only girl in the world and watches you whilst you are applying your make up while listening to every word you say...then, please be assured that the weed you have just smoked is of super quality. breathe I choked on my water and it came out my nose... when I hit your punch line!! ohgawd!!
2/19/2017 9:17:24 PM	Do all people need perfection?
Helly_Orchid Oshawa, ON 37, joined Jan. 2017 online now!	Quote from Amantide: If you come across a man who's smart, hot, humble, educated, financially secure, passionate and patient, great at fixing things around the house and is not materialistic, good in bed, loves you like you are the only girl in the world and watches you whilst you are applying your make up while listening to every word you say...then, please be assured that the weed you have just smoked is of super quality. And before men start whining here "oh it goes for women as well" bla bla bla. Yes it does. You may change the make up with washing your dcks or whatever thing you do. I f*king love you! Although now I'm questioning my weed..
2/19/2017 10:33:50 PM	Do all people need perfection?
kerseymorris Tavares, FL 57, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from Helly_Orchid: I f**king love you! Although now I'm questioning my weed.. Ditto we don't need better men just better weed
2/19/2017 11:58:09 PM	Do all people need perfection?
pickygirl72 Picher, OK 46, joined Sep. 2011	People that demand perfection have mental problems.
2/20/2017 12:24:18 AM	Do all people need perfection?
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 65, joined Oct. 2009	I don't need perfection, but I am gunshy and afraid of being hurt and I know that only the bottom of the barrel comes in here. Still it's not like many show any interest at all. If I were serious about finding a ate I'd pay to be on some Christian site so I can get rejected by women with my own beliefs.
2/20/2017 12:39:52 AM	Do all people need perfection?
bookwormtobutte Rio Rancho, NM 37, joined Jan. 2016 online now!	I'm looking for an equal.
2/20/2017 1:20:05 AM	Do all people need perfection?
ltlwing Williamsburg, OH 53, joined Oct. 2013	I'm not looking for perfection, just perfectly "normal". Hard to come by these days.
2/20/2017 1:38:53 AM	Do all people need perfection?
cavie59 Enid, OK 58, joined Feb. 2010	Perfection, you have got to be kidding, right???? There is no such thing as the perfect person. The best you can hope for is finding someone that loves your flaws as much as you love their flaws. The more flaws you have, the fewer chances you have at finding what you are looking for.
2/20/2017 2:28:36 AM	Do all people need perfection?
stratus55 Jackson, GA 52, joined Jan. 2017	kersey is so good,and not hid..some are goodd an pretty,an you cant message them.why even be here............
2/20/2017 3:19:09 AM	Do all people need perfection?
sddnly_snoozin Staffordshire United Kingdom 43, joined Mar. 2016	Maybe they want their version of perfection. It maybe idealistic too. Who knows, but it's their choice in what they look for in another.
2/20/2017 7:39:12 AM	Do all people need perfection?
Amantide BadraoMilan Italy 44, joined Feb. 2017	I don't see why blame people who want thin men or women. There are plenty out there who like curvy women too. We like what we like. I'm sure OP you have your likes and dislikes also.
2/20/2017 7:45:07 AM	Do all people need perfection?
burt_hurt Beverly Hills, CA 37, joined Jan. 2017	I really don't care if fat girls need love too OP, they are not getting it from me.
2/20/2017 10:54:06 AM	Do all people need perfection?
mylegsarecold Gainesville, FL 55, joined May. 2011	Is 'washing your d*cks' a common phrase in Italy?
2/20/2017 10:56:08 AM	Do all people need perfection?
Amantide BadraoMilan Italy 44, joined Feb. 2017	Not really. It just came out like that. Maybe cause I had finished washing my bidet. [Edited 2/20/2017 10:56:32 AM ]
2/20/2017 10:56:12 AM	Do all people need perfection?
mylegsarecold Gainesville, FL 55, joined May. 2011	Quote from bookwormtobutte: I'm looking for an equal. And when you find him that would be perfect. Right? And that is why we need perfection.
2/20/2017 10:56:16 AM	Do all people need perfection?
Helly_Orchid Oshawa, ON 37, joined Jan. 2017 online now!	Should be a common phrase everywhere. Go wash your damn d*ck!
2/20/2017 10:57:29 AM	Do all people need perfection?
mylegsarecold Gainesville, FL 55, joined May. 2011	Quote from Amantide: I don't know. It just came out like that. Maybe cause I had finished washing my bidet. I thought you meant changing make-up by washing d*cks which sounded kind of strange.
2/20/2017 10:57:44 AM	Do all people need perfection?
Amantide BadraoMilan Italy 44, joined Feb. 2017	@helly Myle: I couldn't write: while painting your d*cks, could I? OT: screw perfection [Edited 2/20/2017 10:59:38 AM ]
2/20/2017 10:59:15 AM	Do all people need perfection?
RunzInHoze Denver City, TX 49, joined Dec. 2014	There is no such thing as perfection...J/S
2/20/2017 11:47:34 AM	Do all people need perfection?
candlelight_ San Antonio, TX 50, joined Nov. 2016	^^^true
2/20/2017 11:53:09 AM	Do all people need perfection?
burt_hurt Beverly Hills, CA 37, joined Jan. 2017	Not true, perfection is in the eye of the beholder...
2/20/2017 11:57:44 AM	Do all people need perfection?
cupocheer Assumption, IL 68, joined May. 2010	Quote from burt_hurt: Not true, perfection is in the eye of the beholder... No, it isn't. They say 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder'. There are no 'perfect' humans. Only Jesus Christ can claim that recognition.
2/20/2017 12:20:01 PM	Do all people need perfection?
mylegsarecold Gainesville, FL 55, joined May. 2011	and he's dead ....
2/20/2017 12:27:12 PM	Do all people need perfection?
burt_hurt Beverly Hills, CA 37, joined Jan. 2017	No, it isn't. They say 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder'. There are no 'perfect' humans. It's all perception dear, if I find someone beautiful and perfect then to me they are beautiful and perfect...others opinion is irrelevant. Everything is subjective, simply because YOU have not found perfection doesn't mean others have not or could not. Only Jesus Christ can claim that recognition. What about his dad? and Jesus was far from perfect, he smelled of goat cheese. [Edited 2/20/2017 12:27:37 PM ]
2/20/2017 12:43:30 PM	Do all people need perfection?
easttowest72 Bremen, GA 45, joined Sep. 2014	I want a bald, beer bellied, lives in his mama's basement, broke mfer.
2/20/2017 12:56:57 PM	Do all people need perfection?
mylegsarecold Gainesville, FL 55, joined May. 2011	Quote from easttowest72: I want a bald, beer bellied, lives in his mama's basement, broke mfer. JER, someone needs you!
2/20/2017 1:02:59 PM	Do all people need perfection?
Amantide BadraoMilan Italy 44, joined Feb. 2017
2/20/2017 11:51:05 PM	Do all people need perfection?
stratus55 Jackson, GA 52, joined Jan. 2017	nope.jesus is very much alive..and he..is..present tense....perfect..
2/21/2017 12:34:13 AM	Do all people need perfection?
pickygirl72 Picher, OK 46, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from Helly_Orchid: Says the dude who falls asleep during conversations.
2/21/2017 6:26:15 AM	Do all people need perfection?
sadlsticsienna New South Wales Australia 25, joined Jan. 2016	I want perfection damn it. Give me perfection more than perfection
2/21/2017 6:33:07 AM	Do all people need perfection?
mrfckinpetey Orlando, FL 32, joined Jun. 2014	I don't want perfection, that's boring. But I also don't want fat, ugly, annoying, selfish, etc, which is unfortunately the majority.
2/21/2017 8:47:16 AM	Do all people need perfection?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	It's not about perfection, it's about meeting an acceptable margin of your standards, like taking a test almost or applying for a job. It's a position looking to be filled. The qualifications are based on the needs of the position. If I need someone who can cook, clean and manage bills then whoever I select must be capable and WILLING to take on those duties. If I require more money than attention then she must have a good job and WILLING to bring her money home.
2/21/2017 8:53:20 AM	Do all people need perfection?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	OP? What I think you're doing is OVER EXAGGERATING in expressing your disappointment for what you consider to be "next to impossible" standards some men have in women. And that's where the "Perfection" part comes in. Some believe you can be perfect for "Someone" bcuz you might meet their standards perfectly but no one's believes there are "perfect ppl" walking around here.
2/21/2017 9:00:05 AM	Do all people need perfection?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from bumblebee7: You started out with saying most of both genders wants perfection....then it quickly turned over to another rant about men... Go figure huh? Yeah I notice that too. That comes from someone who's expressing disappointment in something.
2/21/2017 9:09:11 AM	Do all people need perfection?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from kerseymorris: Ditto we don't need better men just better weed If you could see (like I have) what that SHIT do to unborn babies when dumb b*tches like you (who care more about getting high than human life) smoke while pregnant maybe you wouldn't be so "gung hoe" about it! Then again... Maybe you wouldn't.
2/21/2017 9:24:41 AM	Do all people need perfection?
easttowest72 Bremen, GA 45, joined Sep. 2014	When I was younger it was Alot easier to find an attractive guy. Now when I find one they have everyone after them. The goodlooking guys are sleeping around and the pretty women are going to fine dinning, shopping, and vacations. With all the scammers, guys hold out believing that one day the beautiful pic will turn out to be a real woman.
2/21/2017 9:28:25 AM	Do all people need perfection?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from bookwormtobutte: I'm looking for an equal. So you're looking for a feminine, sweet, soft man who is a prisoner of his own emotions and don't have basic manly instincts? Who watch the lifetime channel, cry at weddings, like flowers and can't protect his home bcuz he's afraid of guns or might break a nail fighting? Who like wearing sun dresses in the summer, support bras, soft gotten panties with panty liners and flip flops after getting his toes done? And coming to bed in pink things to get you in the mood and a nite gown just to sleep? Be careful of what you ask for! You might end up with myspinehasbeenremoved or nicelilb*tch.
2/21/2017 9:37:59 AM	Do all people need perfection?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from ltlwing: I'm not looking for perfection, just perfectly "normal". Hard to come by these days. I feel baby! But "normal" is NO Longer what we understood "normal" to be. What's "normal" for a man now is a spineless, boot licking, brown noser who let women beat up on him, gives all his money away to women, will never say no or disagree with a woman (be a yes man), give up his self respect, stay home and where the apron and believe without questioning ANYTHING the hov't say. That wasn't normal 40-45yrs ago but that's what's normal NOW!
2/21/2017 9:44:50 AM	Do all people need perfection?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from myassisWIDEopen: Is 'washing your dcks' a common phrase in Italy? I'm sure it's a common phrase in your apartment with all those dudes bending you over and ramming up your a* into where your spine USE TO BE! You maggot a** fggy! BONE* appetite! B*tch!
2/21/2017 10:38:15 AM	Do all people need perfection?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from myassispackedup: I thought you meant changing make-up by washing dcks which sounded kind of strange. WHAT IS YOUR FASCINATION WITH DCKS!?** You talk more about dcks than women do! What is it about Big Dcks do you love so much??
2/21/2017 11:10:46 AM	Do all people need perfection?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	[Quoteheader]Quote from Runs:
2/21/2017 11:38:24 AM	Do all people need perfection?
sadlsticsienna New South Wales Australia 25, joined Jan. 2016	What about attractive Russian guys? Where are they at? Apart from Russia lol
2/21/2017 12:01:51 PM	Do all people need perfection?
mylegsarecold Gainesville, FL 55, joined May. 2011	Quote from sadlsticsienna: What about attractive Russian guys? Where are they at? Apart from Russia lol According to the OP you are now demanding perfection for wanting someone attractive. It's nonsense, just because someone desires certain attributes doesn't mean they need perfection. I think she is just over-expressing her disillusionment over online dating.
2/21/2017 2:23:11 PM	Do all people need perfection?
Amantide BadraoMilan Italy 44, joined Feb. 2017	What about attractive Russian guys? Where are they at? Apart from Russia lol Germany and London. A lot of them. I'm not so sure you really want to know one of them though. [Edited 2/21/2017 2:24:00 PM ]
2/21/2017 2:41:40 PM	Do all people need perfection?
thepanicisover Chesapeake, VA 35, joined Nov. 2016	Russian men are not very cute.
2/21/2017 6:16:14 PM	Do all people need perfection?
enigmaathand Leavittsburg, OH 36, joined Mar. 2013	Quote from pickygirl72: People that demand perfection have mental problems. Yes, we know that women have lots of mental problems. But, thank you for updating us on the obvious.
2/21/2017 6:18:36 PM	Do all people need perfection?
enigmaathand Leavittsburg, OH 36, joined Mar. 2013	Quote from mrfckinpetey: I don't want perfection, that's boring. But I also don't want fat, ugly, annoying, selfish, etc, which is unfortunately the majority. I just don't want them coming with a pack of brats from other men, but apparently that is too much to ask for, let alone hot, skinny, non-nagging, and reasonably sane....
2/21/2017 9:19:15 PM	Do all people need perfection?
sadlsticsienna New South Wales Australia 25, joined Jan. 2016	Quote from thepanicisover: Russian men are not very cute. how not? A lot of them have blonde hair. I saw quite a few on my cruises. The accent is so so so hot

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