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5/4/2017 5:33:54 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

candidcarmine64
Richmond, VA
67, joined Aug. 2014


This is the unspoken question of these websites. They can be called
dating, romance, matchmaking, or even the specific ones for people
with from health problems to 6 toes [ yes on each foot ]
I try to explain myself, but it many times is over read or just not
read at all.
To me it is totally logical. Compatibility + Communication + Compromise.
The social engineers have sold us on a divide and conquer strategy with the
results in over 60 % divorce rate....Remember the illogic of " find someone
with less in common then you will not become bored because you can learn to
do more activities !!!. Like your LTR was supposed to be a cruise on the Love
Boat and they had an activity coordinator ! This sets in and the couple one day
wakes up to see a stranger across from them eating Hot Quaker Oatmeal with the
extra colon friendly High Fiber This is a day of discovery for sure !
The formula for failure we were exposed to below:
Chemistry = Image Infatuation + High School Peer & Relative Pressure = failed LTR.
The reality of our experiences shows us otherwise , below:
Chemistry= Communication + Compatibility + Compromise = Usually LTR.
Definitions :
Communication = both written & oral..[ think,write,share,etc]before oral. Oral chat
in our learned behavior many times is like a game to win ,compete, not with a LTR.
Compatibility = 2 ways to ruin a LTR...Financial and Libido needs. Both can be topics
on their own..
Compromise = Resist the social engineering sink holes of TMI.[ there is never too much
information. Info builds Truth & Honesty builds TRUST = building blocks of LTR.
RESIST the Comfort Zones & Deal Breakers [ just selfish, self centered, and a reverse
way to control your partner ] when they catch on then the "House of Cards" no longer
is the fun and frolic of " strip poker " if you get my drift.!!
We are two humans and not corporations with attorneys and joint ventures, etc !!
I hope this topic becomes expanded and becomes as important as the topic of what women
are looking for in men..

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5/4/2017 8:08:01 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

driver406
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Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009


Someone to cook and clean and do the dishes and laundry, keep the house nice, cut the grass and trim the hedge.

5/5/2017 5:01:30 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (252,268)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


Free P*ssy or blow jobs so they can die with a smile on their face.

5/5/2017 9:46:07 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

clarity101
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Quote from driver406:
Someone to cook and clean and do the dishes and laundry, keep the house nice, cut the grass and trim the hedge.







5/5/2017 1:50:45 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

denimjeans
Over 2,000 Posts (2,188)
El Dorado, AR
75, joined May. 2009


Quote from clarity101:


ditto

5/5/2017 2:02:42 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

denimjeans
Over 2,000 Posts (2,188)
El Dorado, AR
75, joined May. 2009


Quote from driver406:
Someone to cook and clean and do the dishes and laundry, keep the house nice, cut the grass and trim the hedge.
I can do all of that.

5/5/2017 5:49:08 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

clarity101
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (44,884)
Aurora, CO
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course this is my opinion and im sticking to it!



ya gotta know me to love me

5/5/2017 6:40:51 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (252,268)
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Come To Mama

5/5/2017 9:30:28 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

trisha1
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (44,186)
Erie, PA
68, joined Dec. 2007


Driver, that is what I am looking for.

5/7/2017 8:34:53 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
cupocheer
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5/8/2017 6:41:23 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

steve123steve
Benton, KY
65, joined Oct. 2010


Being in the older age bracket: Not asking a man to do something you're not willing to do yourself. Men like Women do not want to be a slave nor carry the extra load.
Simply saying it doesn’t make it so. Talk the talk then (the hard part) walk the walk…



[Edited 5/8/2017 6:42:32 AM ]

5/8/2017 10:15:30 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (252,268)
Assumption, IL
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Nothing, or they would have already found it and not been online looking for it.

5/8/2017 5:40:22 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

candidcarmine64
Richmond, VA
67, joined Aug. 2014


(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)

5/9/2017 5:24:00 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
cupocheer
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cares?

5/9/2017 3:41:47 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

clarity101
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Aurora, CO
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"I asked my grandparents the secret behind their 70 year marriage"



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KsANc1fPISs
https://youtu.be/KsANc1fPISs

Published on Feb 10, 2015

Follow up video- 5 years later! https://youtu.be/KGUlPv2ZGdM
My Grandparents are 92 yrs old. They met in the 6th grade & just celebrated Anni #72 in 2014. They tell me about their first date, kissing, his proposal, the depression, the war, sex, money, taking out the garbage, the 'other' girl, and Grandpa's haircuts (they drive Grandma crazy). Hope you enjoy this little interview I did of my precious grandparents a couple years ago, around their 70th anniversary. They are such treasures, and two of my biggest blessings!
Watch them rap to Baby Got Back Here!

5/9/2017 5:13:49 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

candidcarmine64
Richmond, VA
67, joined Aug. 2014


Dearest and Darling Charity...
You just made my point..Manifold times over !!!
Your Grand-Pop and Grand-Mom never had
1] DEAL BREAKERS !!!! & YOUR GRANNY WAS NOT A FEMINIST " BALL BREAKER "
2] COMFORT ZONES...YOUR GRAND-PA'S PROSTATE GLAND STARTS THROBBING LIKE A
TOOTH ACHE, AND GRANNY PUTS ON A STRAP-ON & PEGS GRAMPS 2 MASSAGE HIS GLAND
3] CHARITY DOES BEGIN AT HOME !!
4] CHARITY, CAN WE ROLE-PLAY YOUR GRANDPARENTS AND CAN YOU " PEG MY PESKY
GLAND FOR ME ? Be a sport and meet me halfway on the Interstate..we can meet
and greet, dine and get a Motel 6..Tom Bodete will keep the light on for us..
w0w..andHow...Me massage my pesky prostate gland Charity begins at homeor
You decide Charity

5/10/2017 7:28:46 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
bigbob311
Over 1,000 Posts (1,033)
Los Angeles, CA
90, joined Aug. 2010


Hi , at my age someone I can like , talk to, someone who likes me for myself , these so called golden years , not so golden . We all have history , a past life at this age , if I were lucky to find a friend first were we could get along, than take it from there , and I do not mean just sex , I want a gal I want to spend time with and her with me
People at this age have there own , dreams , goals , how they want to live

5/10/2017 7:41:35 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (252,268)
Assumption, IL
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Are you a man, Bob?

Aged 58-72?

Do you tell the truth?

5/10/2017 8:50:11 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
bigbob311
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Los Angeles, CA
90, joined Aug. 2010


Quote from cupocheer:
Are you a man, Bob?

Aged 58-72?

Do you tell the truth?

Hi , yes I am a man , I tell the truth , 60 plus years old , just wondering what to do with the last part of my life. I know I do not want to go on cruise ships , travel to Europe or third world places , my plans were changed when Darlene had three strokes , she will pass soon , she lives in northern California now , she retired early , went back home were she grew up in northern CA. , since then her dad, mom, sister, step dad have passed on , she went back home but not a happy ending , well she did have some good times with her family up north,, when she was married she and JOE raised the family here in southern Ca. , she did have like five good years before her stroke with her family up north , so you can make plans but things happen .



[Edited 5/10/2017 8:53:16 AM ]

5/10/2017 9:19:34 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
cupocheer
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So you're married.

Thanks.

I had a friend whose husband had died. She was a nurse for 35 years. She met a man in the course of her employment. His wife had cancer and had suffered a stroke which left her speechless and paralyzed.

My friend and this woman's husband began an affair. That was 11 years ago. His wife is still living but she did divorce him after their kids found out what was going on.

No. Not me. I have not remarried or become involved with anyone since my husband died 12 years ago.

Anyone who seeks a "relationship" while still in a marriage/relationship is a cheat and to be avoided at all cost.

5/10/2017 11:12:15 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

candidcarmine64
Richmond, VA
67, joined Aug. 2014


Seems we are Wildly going off the Topic of My Posting...
I am talking of mentally and physically healthy enough Humans
with a penis [ d*ck heads ] and Humans without a penis [d*ckless ones]
If you are mentally spent and everyone you know is either dead or is
having " undulating waves of strokes and stroke like signs,symptoms and
brain compromises " you are not really looking for the what is left of
your LTR REALITY...You can go to computer search.." Meet Up " and there
are many groups you might join for the non-sexual intimacy verbal discourse.
Called " chat & chew the fat "... I joined a group called " Practice Makes
Perfect : Is a Group preparing the 60 + Group of potential future realities
in the rest of their life's potential scenarios." It is similar to the old T.V.
Show " Queen For A Day " [ where you list all your problems ,then with a pity
party of teary eyes to try and win the game ". I went for the part of the show
called " Weasel of the Week "..I gave it my best shot, alas and alak , I came
in 2nd .. { winks}
For Cup-Oh-Soup , Cup-O-Cheer [ clothes washing soap ]. You do not have a prostate
gland, so you never have to massage one, you can just with drawl from any form of
Intimate relationship like a FWB and Repeats , Intimacy Partner, Lover, anything, then
talk about Cheating !! . Cheating is some catch all feminist " VICTIMS " mindset. !!
If you had a LTR with a man and he wanted you to give him oral sex 3 times a day as you
both are retired and wake up naked together and aroused [ me and Cup O Soupy ] then if
you only game him oral sex once [ every other Tuesday ] would you call this cheating if
he " hooked up " an attachment to the vacuum cleaner and gave himself an "auto-suck"? In
the car using the auto vacuum cleaner it would be an "Auto-auto-suck ".!! Or maybe he could hook up with your girlfriend who could ablige him during " twilight time " by the romantic lake or pond at your retirement condo,center,or out of the way trailer park with those double wide [ men ,women and trailers] w0w. I am aroused now and how
Help me here Cuppy please !!. If the situation was reversed I would give you intimate service as I would want to PLEASE YOU , as much as you wanted, or until I got Lock Jaw
and had to get my " jaw wired shut " until it healed properly..

5/10/2017 12:16:24 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
bigbob311
Over 1,000 Posts (1,033)
Los Angeles, CA
90, joined Aug. 2010


NO I am not married , you can not read !

5/10/2017 12:39:18 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
bigbob311
Over 1,000 Posts (1,033)
Los Angeles, CA
90, joined Aug. 2010


Quote from cupocheer:
So you're married.

Thanks.

I had a friend whose husband had died. She was a nurse for 35 years. She met a man in the course of her employment. His wife had cancer and had suffered a stroke which left her speechless and paralyzed.

My friend and this woman's husband began an affair. That was 11 years ago. His wife is still living but she did divorce him after their kids found out what was going on.

No. Not me. I have not remarried or become involved with anyone since my husband died 12 years ago.

Anyone who seeks a "relationship" while still in a marriage/relationship is a cheat and to be avoided at all cost.

REALLY!!
SO your going to be the new head of the FBI ??
THIS IS WHAT I AM NOT LOOKING FOR IN A WOMAN !!!!!!!!! A WACK JOB.

5/10/2017 2:30:15 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

duchessa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (40,398)
Yonkers, NY
63, joined Aug. 2008


The same a woman in this age group is looking for in a man: Companionship, compatibility, friendship, a person to share all moments.
Guys and girls, people in their 60s are not old...

5/10/2017 2:48:20 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

toeinthewater11
Over 2,000 Posts (3,016)
Campbell, MO
68, joined Aug. 2011


Dear Big Bob and my pal Cup of Cheer. Find someone who excites you, spend time with that person. The great basketball coach, Jimmy V said it best, "NEVER GIVE UP."

A relationship does not have to be intimate, but that happens, all the better.

5/10/2017 2:53:22 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (252,268)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


Why are you addressing me, Toes? Did I request your advise on something?

5/11/2017 5:15:02 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
bigbob311
Over 1,000 Posts (1,033)
Los Angeles, CA
90, joined Aug. 2010


Quote from toeinthewater11:
Dear Big Bob and my pal Cup of Cheer. Find someone who excites you, spend time with that person. The great basketball coach, Jimmy V said it best, "NEVER GIVE UP."

A relationship does not have to be intimate, but that happens, all the better.

This is good advice .

5/11/2017 8:24:22 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (252,268)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


A woman on top.

5/11/2017 9:42:44 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

toeinthewater11
Over 2,000 Posts (3,016)
Campbell, MO
68, joined Aug. 2011


Quote from cupocheer:
Why are you addressing me, Toes? Did I request your advise on something?


Sorry, won't happen again.

5/11/2017 9:52:39 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (252,268)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


Did you just cop an attitude of pissiness because I asked a non-aggressive question?

5/11/2017 1:42:35 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

toeinthewater11
Over 2,000 Posts (3,016)
Campbell, MO
68, joined Aug. 2011


Quote from cupocheer:
Did you just cop an attitude of pissiness because I asked a non-aggressive question?


Nope....just a simple response. I don't do attitudes.

5/12/2017 11:37:51 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

candidcarmine64
Richmond, VA
67, joined Aug. 2014


Good afternoon Group Grope.
Is this about " attitude or altitude "?
This is the time to reverse your position as a man Bob.
I have red knee pads I bought from Harbor Freight Tools for
this very occasion...It is such a "hot ,horny,and rightous
feeling and concept " to just look DD Cups O Soup or any other
Gal Pal and how..Look her in the eyes..eye 2 eye , and then get on
bended knee...You can either propose to her your undying love,
devotion and dedication as her private and personal sexual servant
and siccophant [ even be her companion to do house chores, repairs,
bring her breakfast in bed, help her in the shower and towel pat dry
her body and those feminine curves , anything to make her feel you want
to please her. This is time to " bury the tongue " so to speak and give
her " undulating waves of orgasmic releases "..anywhere and at anytime to
" jump start the greatest love story ever told " on this website !!
To give pleasures as gifts and treasures..this is the uniqueness that only
humans can share together !!
I will gladly put myself in your shoes Bob , we can make this happen for sure
Your other position Bob is the Kenny Rogers motto ," know when to hold um, no when to fold um ,no when to walk away , and know when to run..
My nose is now running for you Bob.. DD Cups O Soup help me catch my nose

5/14/2017 10:50:45 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

driver406
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (54,391)
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009


Cooking, cleaning, laundry, buy me a beer and I know sex is a no go.

5/17/2017 10:20:38 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
sankie1
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,691)
Irvine, KY
69, joined Dec. 2011


For all the decent and mentally sound members of this site I thank you for your respect and decency in your posts. I can really say that I've developed an attitude because of the trash that's written in postings of Candid Camera. Those with this sense of talking trash are either using the net to hide behind and just be nasty or either coming out of the closet with their hidden desire to be a slut (whether or not it's male or female). Thinking they find themself amusing when spewing their trashy talk.

OK, setting back and waiting for him to go off and beat me up for my opinion. BUT...even if I'm not stupid I still wish to believe that when people talk like that it's their game to see how fast they can be a burr under someone's saddle more than anything else.

5/17/2017 10:45:58 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (252,268)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


Men are looking for women for threesomes to join their homosexual lover and them, or a wh*re, to engage in threesomes.

5/28/2017 7:35:58 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

duchessa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (40,398)
Yonkers, NY
63, joined Aug. 2008


Quote from sankie1:
BUT...even if I'm not stupid I still wish to believe that when people talk like that it's their game to see how fast they can be a burr under someone's saddle more than anything else.


Or are reacting to their limitations...specially the intimate ones....as it was stated by a member not long ago.

5/30/2017 4:41:55 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

clarity101
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6/16/2017 12:52:37 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

clarity101
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6/16/2017 1:43:52 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

clarity101
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"When God shows you someone's true colors over and over again, stop trying to paint a different picture.".....ss

6/16/2017 4:20:57 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011


One that doesn't make life harder than it already is. That doesn't nag me for any one of a thousand reasons. Since I've yet to find one that can meet those two requests, I'll remain blissfully single, and know my future itinerary will not include an argument.

6/16/2017 4:35:35 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

clarity101
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (44,884)
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one thread was started 10/14
the other was started 5/17

whats your point????

6/16/2017 7:25:57 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011


That I didn't see. Oh oh, If we go by a span of time, it's 43 days since it started, we're up to page 4. In the other, Women were up to page 16- at 43 days. Towould appear that women demand more.....So there.

6/17/2017 1:00:33 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

luella2u
Over 1,000 Posts (1,216)
Woodinville, WA
61, joined Sep. 2008


Aren't we all looking for someone to love and love us back. I'm not looking for someone to change or who wants to change my.I just accept people for themselves and want the same in return.

6/17/2017 2:18:59 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
cavie59
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,158)
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010


"What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?"

What I am looking for is something that I will never find.

6/17/2017 9:00:05 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

clarity101
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (44,884)
Aurora, CO
66, joined Oct. 2008


Quote from purplerider1200:
That I didn't see. Oh oh, If we go by a span of time, it's 43 days since it started, we're up to page 4. In the other, Women were up to page 16- at 43 days. Towould appear that women demand more.....So there.



more........
or less!
depends on ones perspective.

6/23/2017 9:26:12 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

clarity101
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6/23/2017 4:36:45 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

bub0492
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,592)
Minneapolis, MN
70, joined Aug. 2014


Trying to find a gal that accepts that fact that a guy honors them, respects them, treats them like a queen, loves and cares for them like they are the most important person in their world.

Just got my dumb azz dumped again because i "Put her on a pedestal and was too romantic"...

She had two bad marriages.... one to a gambler and one to a drunk

Several long term deals that went sour..... never was truly romanced.....

Last one was 7 years long and he didn't kiss her other than a brotherly peck on the cheek.....

never got flowers.....

My parents taught me to carry the utmost respect for women and when you are in a relationship, treat her like a queen; like she REALLY is the most important girl in the world.

I don't get it..... This crap just isn't worth it anymore.....

6/23/2017 9:49:01 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

morles
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (33,403)
San Antonio, TX
73, joined Nov. 2007


Quote from bub0492:
Trying to find a gal that accepts that fact that a guy honors them, respects them, treats them like a queen, loves and cares for them like they are the most important person in their world.

Just got my dumb azz dumped again because i "Put her on a pedestal and was too romantic"...

She had two bad marriages.... one to a gambler and one to a drunk

Several long term deals that went sour..... never was truly romanced.....

Last one was 7 years long and he didn't kiss her other than a brotherly peck on the cheek.....

never got flowers.....

My parents taught me to carry the utmost respect for women and when you are in a relationship, treat her like a queen; like she REALLY is the most important girl in the world.

I don't get it..... This crap just isn't worth it anymore.....




Quit punishing yourself Bub..

...............Be Blessed you have family...

......................You don't need a Split Tail to compare or bribe you...

6/24/2017 5:59:56 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
cavie59
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,158)
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010


Quote from morles:
You don't need a Split Tail to compare or bribe you...


I have not heard that term since I retired from the military.

6/24/2017 8:38:49 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (252,268)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


The 'split tail' shitty comment originated in the black hood brothers lingo and spread (no pun intended) into punk jargon.

6/24/2017 4:37:52 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

lonlyman12
Newport, VT
60, joined Jan. 2012


what happen to just old fashion love when two work together and do things together not just ill do my thing and you do yours now a days its all about me and the women want the man to cook not fair at all

6/24/2017 5:47:21 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

bub0492
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,592)
Minneapolis, MN
70, joined Aug. 2014


interesting commentary.....

I shared the household duties with my late wife.....

She did more of the chores because she was home more and I worked a ton of overtime or was often traveling for the job. But I could run a wash machine, vacuum, stove, dishwasher quite well. Doing a share of the household work gave us more time together and more time to go have fun doing things out of the house. The knowledge served me very well when she died. Kids didn't have to worry about me because I knew how to keep a house.

Marriage and long term relationships today are supposed to be an equal opportunity situation. No one owns any of the chores. Share and share alike. I think if my Dad or my Father-in-law would have helped their wives, maybe their marriages would have been happier.

I would give anything to have a loving, sharing relationship again. I miss it so badly. After 7 years, I am believing it will never happen again..... The memories of days past no longer keep me warm at night..... no longer fill the aching void that permeates my heart.....

If you are in a relationship with a good woman that you love, share life's chores with her. Not just the good times. Scrubbing floors and washing clothes is not fun, especially in your senior years. Lord knows, I would die to be able to scrub a floor with a gal that I loved.

6/24/2017 7:10:12 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

kanedog
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,746)
Onaway, MI
72, joined Dec. 2007


Ah bub the times they are a changing

6/24/2017 8:59:21 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

bub0492
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,592)
Minneapolis, MN
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Quote from kanedog:
Ah bub the times they are a changing

You said it!!

6/24/2017 11:50:14 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
heart_and_soul3
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Quote from bub0492:
interesting commentary.....

I shared the household duties with my late wife.....

She did more of the chores because she was home more and I worked a ton of overtime or was often traveling for the job. But I could run a wash machine, vacuum, stove, dishwasher quite well. Doing a share of the household work gave us more time together and more time to go have fun doing things out of the house. The knowledge served me very well when she died. Kids didn't have to worry about me because I knew how to keep a house.

Marriage and long term relationships today are supposed to be an equal opportunity situation. No one owns any of the chores. Share and share alike. I think if my Dad or my Father-in-law would have helped their wives, maybe their marriages would have been happier.

I would give anything to have a loving, sharing relationship again. I miss it so badly. After 7 years, I am believing it will never happen again..... The memories of days past no longer keep me warm at night..... no longer fill the aching void that permeates my heart.....

If you are in a relationship with a good woman that you love, share life's chores with her. Not just the good times. Scrubbing floors and washing clothes is not fun, especially in your senior years. Lord knows, I would die to be able to scrub a floor with a gal that I loved.


Just to let you know..I get what you are trying to say.

Many, (not all) will never get this..

It is give and take--and, not keeping score.

6/25/2017 2:03:48 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

bub0492
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Quote from heart_and_soul3:
Just to let you know..I get what you are trying to say.

Many, (not all) will never get this..

It is give and take--and, not keeping score.




That is awesome! Too many people will never have a clue!

Yes.... Give and take and no keeping score.....

certainly makes life and love more fulfilling doesn't it!

6/26/2017 9:44:46 AM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

clarity101
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6/26/2017 12:19:35 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
cavie59
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^^ If only that were REALLY true.

6/26/2017 12:24:46 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  
cupocheer
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It is really true, Cavie. Unconditional love is what Bub is referring to.

I had that kind of relationship, too.

They are quite rare, I assure you, but they do exist.

6/26/2017 6:38:39 PM What are men in this age group looking for in a woman?  

clarity101
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Aurora, CO
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yeah....
ya probly should use a little more discretion when choosing a woman to spend time with.