| 5/22/2017 1:28:32 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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DH is considered a dating site.
It is advertised as such.
If, by a great stretch of the imagination, a couple did meet in person from this site and developed a relationship, and that relationship became sexual in nature, would you:
Kiss and tell on the site like juvenile boys having had their first sexual encounter and bragging about it in the locker room?
Delete your profile and enjoy the relationship in real life?
Keep your profile and "dog" the other person online after the relationship ended?
Keep your mouth shut about the relationship, especially if 'behind closed doors' events took place?
Would you even consider having a real life relationship with another member if you discovered that person had had an intimate relationship with another member; and both were still on the site?
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| 5/22/2017 1:29:31 PM |
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
82, joined Aug. 2013
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Wanna sux sum d*ck, OP?
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| 5/22/2017 1:38:50 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009
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Well, I met a couple of someones from here and have been living with one of them for the last few years. We did not advertise it because it's no one's business and I don't advertise stuff in real life, either.
We were outed by a mutual friend and I gotta say it pissed me off. It was never her story to tell but she had no regret.
Youdont did meet a few other women from here and had relationships with a couple. I don't think they were ever on the forums, though.
I didn't care that he'd met others. I met others, too. Doesn't affect our present.
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| 5/22/2017 1:39:00 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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I'd probably talk about it on here a bit.
Like I was in a LDR with someone from here basically.
I don't mention anything personal really, just good things.
When it ended I whined a bit but never personally slandered them or bashed them.
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| 5/22/2017 4:54:40 PM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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Enjoy the relationship AND keep my profile so I could continue
to make fun of people in the threads.
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| 5/22/2017 4:54:40 PM |
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
99, joined May. 2016
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I certainly wouldn't make a thread and shout it from the roof tops and depending I might still post sometimes...but im not gonna date from online again so really the point is moot....
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| 5/22/2017 5:07:10 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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I am talking to someone on here and it wouldn't bother me cause we're not exclusive and having even went on a date yet so, he's allowed to chat with other women's I controll no one even tho he says he's not so i can only take his word and anything else would be explained later if we connect just between us
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| 5/22/2017 5:10:01 PM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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Cheer, what is your real agenda with this thread?
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| 5/22/2017 5:22:54 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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She'll tell yah later
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| 5/22/2017 8:26:46 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Cheer, what is your real agenda with this thread?
Well, froggie... I may be in the mood to go a'courtin'... uh Huh uh Huh..... You want a kiss?
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| 5/22/2017 10:40:03 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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Lots of guys used to boast about how big their cranks were as if anyone cared or anyone was impressed. If you're going to slum and f**k someone in here like a b*tch in heat then keep it a private matter and try to show a little bit of class. When she dumps you then block her as you must find her obnoxious anyhow. If you're really a man you don't need to brag about every little conquest like a junior high boy in the locker room/ Nobody is impressed but yourself.
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| 5/23/2017 2:44:19 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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DH is considered a dating site.
It is advertised as such.
If, by a great stretch of the imagination, a couple did meet in person from this site and developed a relationship, and that relationship became sexual in nature, would you:
1.Kiss and tell on the site like juvenile boys having had their first sexual encounter and bragging about it in the locker room?
2.Delete your profile and enjoy the relationship in real life?
3,Keep your profile and "dog" the other person online after the relationship ended?
4.Keep your mouth shut about the relationship, especially if 'behind closed doors' events took place?
5.Would you even consider having a real life relationship with another member if you discovered that person had had an intimate relationship with another member; and both were still on the site?
1.I do not "Kiss and tell" so I would not say anything.
2. I might not delete, but I would not be posting either. In fact I would more then likely log off and only return when the relationship ended.
3. No "Dogging" at all. Everything ends, sooner or later.
4. I always keep my mouth shut, no need to advertise anything.
5.Maybe, it would all depend on how long ago it was.
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| 5/23/2017 4:50:03 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Confusing.
you stated developing a relation, then said the relation became sexual in nature.
are we talking about a full fledge relation with feelings and sex finally came into the picture too?
Or this is not really a relation in the classic sense, but a FWB?
there's a huge difference...and FWB's around here would not be deemed..."by the stretch of the imagination", but likely typical....lol
Either way...I'd pursue this relation if viable or seems to be...yet still be on here for the forums, and I keep what goes on to myself.
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| 5/23/2017 5:16:41 AM |
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stratus55
Jackson, GA
51, joined Jan. 2017
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scardy cat cheer.aint answered me in a few months about coffe,an do nuts..
others like it all though o k right..............i hate sarcasm,an fear..no call for it......... 
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| 5/23/2017 7:01:35 AM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
50, joined Feb. 2017
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DH is considered a dating site.
..by some, not by me.
It is advertised as such.
I've never seen an ad for DH.
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| 5/23/2017 3:50:58 PM |
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lets_get_funky
Killeen, TX
28, joined Feb. 2017
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I don't look at any of the guys in my inbox as potential dates. 
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| 5/23/2017 8:21:28 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I don't have any guys in my inbox. Do you think that's a problem?
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| 5/24/2017 1:38:11 AM |
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sparks_01
Ocala, FL
97, joined Feb. 2017
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nope not at all
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| 5/24/2017 12:27:45 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I prefer public conversation and communication with "unfamiliar" individuals.
The inbox acts an accelerant for misconduct, I believe.
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| 5/24/2017 7:27:11 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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If you think someone is obnoxious just BLOCK THEM and GET A LIFE!
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| 5/24/2017 7:39:48 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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Enjoy the relationship AND keep my profile so I could continue
to make fun of people in the threads.
This.
I had a year long relationship with a guy i met here. I kept this profile to continue to play in the forums. He knew, we would discuss some of the stupid threads I ran into.
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| 5/24/2017 7:49:35 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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If you think someone is obnoxious just BLOCK THEM and GET A LIFE!
Sweety, you enjoy your membershio as you see fit and I will do likewise. 
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| 5/25/2017 6:03:41 PM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
63, joined Sep. 2009
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DH is considered a dating site.
It is advertised as such.
If, by a great stretch of the imagination, a couple did meet in person from this site and developed a relationship, and that relationship became sexual in nature, would you:
Kiss and tell on the site like juvenile boys having had their first sexual encounter and bragging about it in the locker room?
Delete your profile and enjoy the relationship in real life?
Keep your profile and "dog" the other person online after the relationship ended?
Keep your mouth shut about the relationship, especially if 'behind closed doors' events took place?
Would you even consider having a real life relationship with another member if you discovered that person had had an intimate relationship with another member; and both were still on the site?
This reads to me, as though what you're really concerned about, is that you don't think highly of this site, and therefore fear that any real relationships developed from it would be "soiled" by having started here. Kind of like, people who meet first in a tawdry ugly dive of a bar, not wanting to admit it.
Me personally, I'm a man of honor, through and through. Old fashioned to the hilt in that way. I take complete responsibility for my mistakes and my accomplishments the same way. If I get involved with someone, it stays between us. I might make reference to it obliquely, as we all do here about our past, but never name names.
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| 5/25/2017 7:41:03 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Testing 1-2-3
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| 5/26/2017 12:14:51 AM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
50, joined Jun. 2013
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I haven't dated or met anyone from this site. I joined specifically for the forums.
I've always stated this in my profile.
I never thought about this. However, I probably switched forums originally just to keep my dating life and forum life a little more separate.
Dating someone from this site, someone who is also a forum member, probably could be like dating someone from a Meetup Group.
It's a small group of people. Some people are more prone to gossip than others.
I like to keep some things private.
If I am in a relationship, I will close my dating profile, but keep this profile open for forums only.
I enjoy reading the forums in my spare time.
So, I wouldn't stop doing this. I don't think it is the same as having a dating profile.
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| 5/26/2017 12:21:09 AM |
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dan9787_3
Laval, QC
53, joined Jul. 2014
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I'd be in the relationship, keep my profile, tell the ones I'm familiar/friendly here with about my gf.
If she'd been intimate with someone else I wouldn't care. If she's mature and sound, I don't worry about it.
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| 5/26/2017 11:50:37 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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| 7/8/2017 7:38:26 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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 ***** Good Morning, Sunshine
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| 7/8/2017 11:50:34 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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Never met anyone on here and don't regret it. Only truly interested in one on here and there's no way she could have possibly cared less. Write to a few now and then and that's good, but they aren't interested either. Just a line or two of bs now and then.
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| 7/8/2017 11:51:22 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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***** Good Morning, Sunshine
The only time I see a sunrise is in the winter because the sun comes up so late.
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| 7/11/2017 2:05:04 AM |
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garfuknuckle
Mountain View, AR
67, joined Jun. 2017
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Personal is personal.I like kiss and kiss again.
Yakkin about an ex lover is boring.Hope you have a good one picked out OP
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| 7/11/2017 10:28:50 AM |
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deaf_heart
Killeen, TX
39, joined Jan. 2017
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Kiss and tell ... yes, I want everyone to know about my sexual exploits or lack there of
Delete profile? How serious are we talking? Only thing that would get me to stop looking at the grass in the next lawn over is a boatload of money, duh 
Hell yes I'd dog the other person out ... and I'd make sure to do it before it ends so that when it ends I can say things like "see, I told you so"
Keep my mouth closed? Are you kidding? I'm a wh*re who believes everyone should get the chance to hear of my sexual exploits.
I have considered it, but after a little time the flame of desire dissipates and I move on.
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| 7/11/2017 10:54:15 AM |
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sandcrabs
Long Lake, WI
53, joined Feb. 2013
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I didn't read any of this but I know I want to kiss " T " and tell the World just how Sweet she is. 
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| 7/11/2017 11:29:33 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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I'd act the same as I do now. I wouldn't be keeping it a secret persay but I'd not be talking about it 24x7 I mean about that I'm in a relationship with someone from here
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| 7/11/2017 11:41:07 AM |
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
99, joined May. 2016
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Kiss and tell ... yes, I want everyone to know about my sexual exploits or lack there of
Delete profile? How serious are we talking? Only thing that would get me to stop looking at the grass in the next lawn over is a boatload of money, duh
Hell yes I'd dog the other person out ... and I'd make sure to do it before it ends so that when it ends I can say things like "see, I told you so"
Keep my mouth closed? Are you kidding? I'm a wh*re who believes everyone should get the chance to hear of my sexual exploits.
I have considered it, but after a little time the flame of desire dissipates and I move on.
Just please...no pictures....
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| 7/11/2017 12:21:28 PM |
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deaf_heart
Killeen, TX
39, joined Jan. 2017
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Butterman I've missed ya
Oh  I posted in FOC 
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| 7/12/2017 10:11:29 AM |
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
82, joined Aug. 2013
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Kiss and tell ... yes, I want everyone to know about my sexual exploits or lack there of
Delete profile? How serious are we talking? Only thing that would get me to stop looking at the grass in the next lawn over is a boatload of money, duh
Hell yes I'd dog the other person out ... and I'd make sure to do it before it ends so that when it ends I can say things like "see, I told you so"
Keep my mouth closed? Are you kidding? I'm a wh*re who believes everyone should get the chance to hear of my sexual exploits.
I have considered it, but after a little time the flame of desire dissipates and I move on.
Can we talk about this, tonight?
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| 7/12/2017 7:05:09 PM |
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bookwormtobutte
Rio Rancho, NM
37, joined Jan. 2016
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Naw I probably wouldn't be on here if I had a man in my life. Maybe every blue moon show up if I needed a bit of advice or guidance but very rarely.
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| 7/12/2017 7:25:31 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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You could post lesbian porn, book, and not bother showing up at all.
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| 7/12/2017 8:00:47 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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I'd keep my profile. Nobody from in here would ever believe I could ever be in a relationship.
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| 7/18/2017 9:48:43 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I will never be in a relationship from here.
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