6/2/2017 10:57:15 AM |
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gilbert1945
Madrid
Spain
45, joined Feb. 2017
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Here is the thing,I have met a girl a few days ago. She was very sweet and nice,but she told me that she wouldn't date with someone who never went to college... Fortunately I went to college, but I was wondering what if I didn't. No chances? Is it a requirement dating for some people? It is just about education or is about money?
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6/2/2017 10:58:59 AM |
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jakebearr
Simi Valley, CA
52, joined Sep. 2013
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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6/2/2017 11:00:42 AM |
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cherisays
Bloomingdale, GA
52, joined Dec. 2014
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I wouldn't want to get with someone with an assload of student debt.
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6/2/2017 11:02:18 AM |
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iam_resurrected
Reno, NV
46, joined Jul. 2014
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women need security. they want to build but have someone invested in not just keeping a good job, but as the family grows, so does the opportunity for the husband and wife in their employment and financial security to grow. most women who want men with some form of education by degree/trade also have some educational training themselves and are looking at tomorrow before beginning today.
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6/2/2017 11:02:45 AM |
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jakebearr
Simi Valley, CA
52, joined Sep. 2013
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Huh ??? Ass,load ? We're Jack
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6/2/2017 11:04:26 AM |
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criminal_1
FPO, AP
98, joined Jan. 2017
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It's her choice.
Maybe she thinks they'll have more in common.
You can be intelligent and never go to collage.
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6/2/2017 11:06:07 AM |
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orchid1973
Rome
Italy
44, joined May. 2017
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devil, is that you?
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6/2/2017 11:08:36 AM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009
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I assume she was college-educated. Maybe she just believes that for her he must have a similar background, which includes college.
It's not a requirement for me. While I want to ensure my doctor went to med school, and my mechanic to have gone to mechanic school, and my plumber to have...you get the picture, I want only that my mate is doing something that allows him to be a responsible adult. If he had to go to school or didn't have to doesn't matter.
However, I would like him to have a working brain in his head. I really don't want to be dating a himbo.
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6/2/2017 11:10:44 AM |
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korbyn
Bat Cave, NC
98, joined Jun. 2013
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It looks good on an application.
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6/2/2017 11:10:56 AM |
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gilbert1945
Madrid
Spain
45, joined Feb. 2017
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It's her choice.
Maybe she thinks they'll have more in common.
You can be intelligent and never go to collage.
I exactly told her that.
She just said... It's like having a diamond in the rough... and I don't get it. I really like her,but at some point she makes me think she is like those kind of girls who wants a perfect man.
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6/2/2017 11:14:08 AM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009
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Hmmm. Not so much perfect, but more in line with what she sees for herself. I'm thinking she wants a white collar man, not a blue collar one.
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6/2/2017 11:15:55 AM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
50, joined Feb. 2017
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Everyone is educated...just at different levels.
If you can tie your shoe laces...you're educated.
A stupid person assumes education refers to formal education..it' doesn't. A person who has studied a subject themselves for 30yrs is going to know more about it than some idiot who paid to go to college for a couple of years.
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6/2/2017 11:20:50 AM |
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de_aardbei
Montreal, QC
35, joined Mar. 2017
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You can have no formal education but know a lot of things vs you can have 3 degress and know minutiae that you will never use except in academics but not know where to buy stamps. Which is better?
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6/2/2017 11:22:28 AM |
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jakebearr
Simi Valley, CA
52, joined Sep. 2013
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Street smarts^^ Right
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6/2/2017 11:23:57 AM |
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de_aardbei
Montreal, QC
35, joined Mar. 2017
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Tell me do you know where to buy stamps? Bc i need to send a letter.
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6/2/2017 11:26:18 AM |
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jakebearr
Simi Valley, CA
52, joined Sep. 2013
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I just give my mail to Human Resources easy PEZ ...
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6/2/2017 11:27:34 AM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
50, joined Feb. 2017
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Depends on how you use the education.
Formal education is just about getting a job...having the piece of paper that says "yes I've learned the bare minimum".
Self taught education is of course the best...as it obviously means you WANTED to learn and are passionate about the subject...it also generally means you continue to learn..your studying doesn't stop when you leave school.
All the experts I personally know in various fields (electronics for example) are all self taught...they might have the academic qualifications but their primary knowledge comes from years of tinkering and learning themselves.
All your big tech guys...Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Steve Jobs, Mark Zuckerberg etc...all self taught and all dropped out of school.
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6/2/2017 11:29:19 AM |
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rightguyforu632
Lisle, IL
39, joined May. 2017
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Not if you got a 12 inch penis OP ...
Lj said urs is only 5 old man
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6/2/2017 11:29:33 AM |
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orchid1973
Rome
Italy
44, joined May. 2017
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I agree. @crumpet
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6/2/2017 11:31:54 AM |
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jakebearr
Simi Valley, CA
52, joined Sep. 2013
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Lj said urs is only 5 old man
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6/2/2017 11:32:59 AM |
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gilbert1945
Madrid
Spain
45, joined Feb. 2017
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You can have no formal education but know a lot of things vs you can have 3 degress and know minutiae that you will never use except in academics but not know where to buy stamps. Which is better?
Is better if you have both?
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6/2/2017 11:33:46 AM |
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track_empirion
Pineville, NC
49, joined Mar. 2014
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Some people place high value on education, so much so that it is a sexual attraction.
Personally, I'm educated enough for the both of us.
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6/2/2017 11:33:52 AM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009
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I agree in theory, sort of, Olaf.
I just don't think that wanting to learn means you don't go to a formal school. Or that formal schooling means you're just going through the motions and will cease any learning once you leave. Most do the continuing education thing. Most have the interest to always be tinkering and learning and all that.
I still want my M.D. to have completed his schooling and to continue getting his CME's in.
But in the case of the OP's post, I just think the woman in question wanted someone who is similar to her. I don't think she thinks if you don't go to college, you're stupid. Maybe she does. She'd be wrong.
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6/2/2017 11:35:30 AM |
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orchid1973
Rome
Italy
44, joined May. 2017
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I studied music, 12 years. Yet I've been doing a whole different job since many years now.
So much for having a degree in music. lol
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6/2/2017 11:39:52 AM |
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track_empirion
Pineville, NC
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6/2/2017 11:54:40 AM |
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Momentum_007
Casa Nova
Brazil
33, joined Feb. 2017
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I prefer educated women, I have a BS and appreciate a woman who is capable of a conversation
dumb gets old fast
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6/2/2017 11:56:32 AM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
50, joined Feb. 2017
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I prefer educated women, I have a BS and appreciate a woman who is capable of a conversation
dumb gets old fast
^ Example of a poorly educated person who thinks the only education available is formal education
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6/2/2017 11:58:25 AM |
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gilbert1945
Madrid
Spain
45, joined Feb. 2017
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I agree in theory, sort of, Olaf.
I just don't think that wanting to learn means you don't go to a formal school. Or that formal schooling means you're just going through the motions and will cease any learning once you leave. Most do the continuing education thing. Most have the interest to always be tinkering and learning and all that.
I still want my M.D. to have completed his schooling and to continue getting his CME's in.
But in the case of the OP's post, I just think the woman in question wanted someone who is similar to her. I don't think she thinks if you don't go to college, you're stupid. Maybe she does. She'd be wrong.
I think she might just want someone in her same level of education,no less. You know... Doctors related to doctors, lawyers with lawyers, etc, etc.
She never said anything wrong with people who didn't go to college, she just said, no chances with her, she wouldn't be interested to meet people without education. I think is valid, but she might lose the love of her life just because he didn't go to school
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6/2/2017 12:02:01 PM |
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Momentum_007
Casa Nova
Brazil
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^ Example of a poorly educated person who thinks the only education available is formal education
yes you are
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6/2/2017 12:03:12 PM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
50, joined Feb. 2017
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Pulls the rope connected to the nose ring..."yup"
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6/2/2017 12:04:59 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009
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I agree, OP. You have to be open to all the possibilities. But maybe she'd been open to everyone and found it didn't work for her and got too narrow in her thinking.
But I do know of a few couples where the woman has a career that required college, like law and medicine, and they're happily married to plumbers (the attorney) and electricians (the doctor.)
I believe that education in and of itself is not important in my relationship. That we are of similar intellectual capacity and cultural literacy is important. I want to be able to have conversations that consist of more than what a Kardashian is doing today.
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6/2/2017 12:10:10 PM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
50, joined Feb. 2017
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I like my sexual partners to be dumb as rocks...When I get home I want to relax...not sit there talking about f**king climate change or particle accelerators.
If I want intellectual stimulation there are many many many better sources than the dishwasher and d*ck sucker at the house.
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6/2/2017 12:11:27 PM |
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orchid1973
Rome
Italy
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6/2/2017 12:23:40 PM |
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gilbert1945
Madrid
Spain
45, joined Feb. 2017
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Let's see how things turn out.
For now we have a date tonight. I will tell her all what I got here and see what she thinks
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6/2/2017 12:24:34 PM |
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orchid1973
Rome
Italy
44, joined May. 2017
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Don't tell her anything. Just observe. Let her speak.
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6/2/2017 12:24:54 PM |
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jakebearr
Simi Valley, CA
52, joined Sep. 2013
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I like my sexual partners to be dumb as rocks...When I get home I want to relax...not sit there talking about f**king climate change or particle accelerators.
If I want intellectual stimulation there are many many many better sources than the dishwasher and d*ck sucker at the house.
Preach it brother !!!!
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6/2/2017 12:25:51 PM |
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
62, joined Mar. 2014
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Those who don't have any formal education often don't see any value in it. They think they can self-study any subject and be successful. That is probably true for very simple tasks, but that's about as far as it goes. Of course there are exceptions like Gates and Musk, but there aren't many of these kind of people. BTW, even some of these characters weren't successful due to their own efforts but sheer crazy luck.
If Olaf were an actual German, he'd know the Germans have a very fine school system all the way from vocational to the university level. All of it involves a programmed step-by-step formal training. And the benefits of formal training is the efficiency of having knowledgeable instructors who know how to guide their students through varying levels of complexity of a subject. This applies even if the study is automobile engine repair.
Yes I have my bias, since I spent 10 years at the university level to acquire a PhD in finance. However, without it, I would have never gotten the job opportunities and acquired the experience to be successful in my field.
Now it would have been wonderful if I could have self-tutored myself and saved around $200,000 in tuition and living expenses, but the returns have been better than fifty fold!
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6/2/2017 12:26:01 PM |
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Momentum_007
Casa Nova
Brazil
33, joined Feb. 2017
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I like my sexual partners to be dumb as rocks...When I get home I want to relax...not sit there talking about f**king climate change or particle accelerators.
If I want intellectual stimulation there are many many many better source that the dishwasher and d*ck sucker at the house.
yeah, I guess dumb as a rock would need to be a prerequisite in your case fake cawkasian, especially if you expect the poor dumb b*tch to even consider sex with you as an option....
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6/2/2017 12:26:58 PM |
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anglicus_femina
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
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6/2/2017 12:29:14 PM |
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
62, joined Mar. 2014
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Hey those ladies are Olaf's posse!
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6/2/2017 12:29:19 PM |
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gilbert1945
Madrid
Spain
45, joined Feb. 2017
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Don't tell her anything. Just observe. Let her speak.
Alright.
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6/2/2017 12:30:31 PM |
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de_aardbei
Montreal, QC
35, joined Mar. 2017
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I think the one in strapless white dress is not a lady.
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6/2/2017 12:30:41 PM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
50, joined Feb. 2017
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Looks like Momentum_007 is butthurt...not unexpected
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6/2/2017 12:31:13 PM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
50, joined Feb. 2017
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I think the one in strapless white dress is not a lady.
Really? Damn that's the one I'd pick.
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6/2/2017 12:31:37 PM |
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orchid1973
Rome
Italy
44, joined May. 2017
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Alright.
You will know more about her. Trust me. Just throw some questions, now and then. But do not contradict or make her go into defensive.
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6/2/2017 12:36:36 PM |
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gilbert1945
Madrid
Spain
45, joined Feb. 2017
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Those who don't have any formal education often don't see any value in it. They think they can self-study any subject and be successful. That is probably true for very simple tasks, but that's about as far as it goes. Of course there are exceptions like Gates and Musk, but there aren't many of these kind of people. BTW, even some of these characters weren't successful due to their own efforts but sheer crazy luck.
If Olaf were an actual German, he'd know the Germans have a very fine school system all the way from vocational to the university level. All of it involves a programmed step-by-step formal training. And the benefits of formal training is the efficiency of having knowledgeable instructors who know how to guide their students through varying levels of complexity of a subject. This applies even if the study is automobile engine repair.
Yes I have my bias, since I spent 10 years at the university level to acquire a PhD in finance. However, without it, I would have never gotten the job opportunities and acquired the experience to be successful in my field.
Now it would have been wonderful if I could have self-tutored myself and saved around $200,000 in tuition and living expenses, but the returns have been better than fifty fold!
This! She thinks of that way.
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6/2/2017 12:37:27 PM |
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jakebearr
Simi Valley, CA
52, joined Sep. 2013
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I think the one in strapless white dress is not a lady.
Yea it's Matt
Matt
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6/2/2017 12:37:45 PM |
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Momentum_007
Casa Nova
Brazil
33, joined Feb. 2017
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Looks like Momentum_007 is butthurt...not unexpected
did you hear me gently sobbing?
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6/2/2017 12:39:11 PM |
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Momentum_007
Casa Nova
Brazil
33, joined Feb. 2017
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Hey those ladies are Olaf's posse!
actually they were smart enough to say no thank you
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6/2/2017 12:39:28 PM |
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de_aardbei
Montreal, QC
35, joined Mar. 2017
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This! She thinks of that way.
Well if it doesn't work out you can play Cupid to her & sammy!
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6/2/2017 12:39:47 PM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
50, joined Feb. 2017
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did you hear me gently sobbing?
Let it go fatty...put your big girl pants on.
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6/2/2017 12:39:54 PM |
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jakebearr
Simi Valley, CA
52, joined Sep. 2013
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You will know more about her. Trust me. Just throw some questions, now and then. But do not contradict or make her go into defensive.
says the single individual
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6/2/2017 12:41:52 PM |
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Momentum_007
Casa Nova
Brazil
33, joined Feb. 2017
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Let it go fatty...put your big girl pants on.
poor fake cawk....you wish you were me dont ya
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6/2/2017 12:42:16 PM |
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orchid1973
Rome
Italy
44, joined May. 2017
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says the single individual
single individual?
You mean, as in "given to or relating to a single, separate person or thing". Yeah, not plural. Sorry.
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6/2/2017 12:43:50 PM |
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rightguyforu632
Lisle, IL
39, joined May. 2017
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Its only important to Orchid that u drink booze n smoke cigarettes. She wants someone to share an unhealthy lifestyle with.
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6/2/2017 12:44:32 PM |
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jakebearr
Simi Valley, CA
52, joined Sep. 2013
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I saw your edit ...
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6/2/2017 12:44:44 PM |
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rightguyforu632
Lisle, IL
39, joined May. 2017
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Some people place high value on education, so much so that it is a sexual attraction.
Personally, I'm educated enough for the both of us.
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6/2/2017 12:45:10 PM |
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frecklefarmer
Lebanon, MO
45, joined Oct. 2014
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You can be intelligent without college.
You can go to college and still be dumb as a rock...
I wouldn't date someone who doesn't have skills and goals
If your a Wal-Mart or gas station employee...I sure would not date you
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6/2/2017 12:45:43 PM |
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orchid1973
Rome
Italy
44, joined May. 2017
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Yeah, I thought you need it a spell out.
"single individual"
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6/2/2017 12:47:33 PM |
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lunaglider
DPO, AA
97, joined Dec. 2013
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Not if you got a 12 inch penis OP ...
BINGO!
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