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iam_resurrected
Reno, NV
46, joined Jul. 2014
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i ain't never begged a woman back for nothing.
ask the cali girl and others who know me.
when i walk and have to take care of business while they get on here and run me down.
that is what you call taking care of business by letting a b*tch yap about being a b*tch and the man does what the hell he chooses 
and ain't a damn thing the woman can do about it 
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scoobs78
Kansas City, MO
39, joined Jun. 2013
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of course....I was a 70s kid...back when toys were toys.... 
I call bullshit on the age thing..... 
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I had a few tonka toys but I liked mask, gi-joe n stompers! For you youngins that don't know what I mean by stompers! These were little battery powered cars that u could build a track n watch them run around on and at the time it was pretty cool! And we can't forget about the TRANSFORMERS!
It was a huge deal to have an Optimus prime truck n trailer! Were talkin like 1980s btw! 
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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The way I see it, if they are best friends, and if she was attracted to him....they would be lovers, not best friends, and I wouldn't have had opportunity become her SO.
So, if she is trust worthy and not attracted to him, then there's not a problem.
But here's the thing...If someone is truly your So, then you two should be best friends. or also.
So, east/west....lets turn the tables here: lets say your So's best friend was a woman, and reasonably attractive, though that doesn't mean he is attracted to her.
Are you okay with that?
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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I think it depends on the person. My 1st husband said a man is never friends with a woman unless he is trying to have sex with her. So obviously, I wouldn't trust that type of person. But I've been friends with guys who never tried anything so its possible to only be friends. I think the key is being with someone you trust. If you know your so would shut down any advances if that ever happened, I don't see the problem. If the friend makes advances knowing there is a relationship, it time to end the friendship.
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
60, joined Dec. 2012
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I had a man as a best friend it was lovely
Prom
Amusement park
Skating
F**king
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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Zee that last part makes him more than just a friend 
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_Technologist01
Powell, OH
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Zee that last part makes him more than just a friend
Sure it's a friend "friends with benefits"!
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
60, joined Dec. 2012
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Zee that last part makes him more than just a friend   hi tech ur married
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track_empirion
Pineville, NC
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How would you feel if your so's best friend was a guy?
I wouldn't like it.
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_Technologist01
Powell, OH
51, joined Aug. 2016
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Yes I am Miss Z
No friends with benefits for me, never really had one
I DO have 2 male friends that my husband is aware of. He knows I know where to draw the line, but my friends wouldn't cross it. I don't date married men, and my friends don't date married woman! We all have our own set of morals
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track_empirion
Pineville, NC
49, joined Mar. 2014
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Having male friends is different than having a male besty.
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
60, joined Dec. 2012
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Morals   
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_Technologist01
Powell, OH
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Having male friends is different than having a male besty.
Well John, I had a male bestie for many years. He was hit by a car, and is now hemipelegic, so obviously he is no threat, even though he can still have sex! My husband and I help him when we can!
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
60, joined Dec. 2012
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Awwwwwww 
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Suzhi
Knoxville, TN
54, joined Aug. 2016
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Guys know guys...She would be forbidden from seeing him.
There is a certain type of guy in this world who spends months even years sniffing around women pretending to be their "bestie" praying for the day in a moment of weakness she'll give him some.
..those men are betas...they can't bag a woman using traditional manly methods...they have to be sneaky and sly about it...beta males basically...they are the Hyena of the predators...sniffing around for scraps and leftovers...
She will be banned from further contact from him or she can take a hike and be happy with her beta male kissing her ass. 
^ Best answer...
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korbyn
Bat Cave, NC
98, joined Jun. 2013
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How would you feel if your so's best friend was a guy?
It would depend. If it was some gay dude or very unattractive dude, like a little fat guy I might not care.
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
62, joined Mar. 2014
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Mikey adopts the caveman style to get the girls. He beats them over the head with a club and drags them off by the hair! ALA Mongo!
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Suzhi
Knoxville, TN
54, joined Aug. 2016
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*thumps chest*
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urealysucklol
San Benito, TX
45, joined Jul. 2014
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How would you feel if your so's best friend was a guy?
Ha, no such thing,
That's called an affair,
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track_empirion
Pineville, NC
49, joined Mar. 2014
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Well John, I had a male bestie for many years. He was hit by a car, and is now hemipelegic, so obviously he is no threat, even though he can still have sex! My husband and I help him when we can!
Sorry to heear about your friend. Best wishes on your marriage.
Yeah, he's no threat. Threat however isn't the operative word, for me and I believe for the op, in this thread. The thread is asking guys how they'd feel about it. For me, I wouldn't like it one bit, whether or not the friend is handicapped.
Now if some other guy poster said they'd feel threatened, that's their issue.
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
62, joined Mar. 2014
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No guy will ever feel threatened by the dimwitted Track! That boy is too ugly even for goats!
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track_empirion
Pineville, NC
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hippo65
Albuquerque, NM
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How does she feels wearing a chastity belt?
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mongoslastride
Western AustraliaWestern Australia
Australia
40, joined May. 2017
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Mikey adopts the caveman style to get the girls. He beats them over the head with a club and drags them off by the hair! ALA Mongo!
Mongo approves of this method. Mongo likes to keep things simple. 
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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Well John, I had a male bestie for many years. He was hit by a car, and is now hemipelegic, so obviously he is no threat, even though he can still have sex! My husband and I help him when we can!
You help him with sex?
(that's what it sounded like)
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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Well John, I had a male bestie for many years. He was hit by a car, and is now hemipelegic, so obviously he is no threat, even though he can still have sex! My husband and I help him when we can!
Women..so naive...of course he's not a threat! the whole "bestie" thing wouldn't work if you saw him as a threat! 
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scoobs78
Kansas City, MO
39, joined Jun. 2013
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I doubt it trogger!
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inni_7
Pasadena, CA
51, joined Nov. 2016
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Wouldn't care.
It's about trusting her.
She'll cheat if she wants to cheat.
Great answer!
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_Technologist01
Powell, OH
51, joined Aug. 2016
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You help him with sex?
(that's what it sounded like )
Bwahahahaha
I just caught that
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huedathunkit
Omaha, NE
40, joined Nov. 2009
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I got no problem with it. If we committed then I already trust her, so no worries. I don't trust her, then we aint dating.
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sillylaugher61
Murrysville, PA
55, joined Aug. 2011
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Mikey adopts the caveman style to get the girls. He beats them over the head with a club and drags them off by the hair! ALA Mongo!
Well many women say that it is a turnon to have their hair pulled.
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_Technologist01
Powell, OH
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I got no problem with it. If we committed then I already trust her, so no worries. I don't trust her, then we aint dating.
Ding ding ding!!! We have a winner here Alex. Hue...........a man with self confidence
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I'm accused so often and for so many years I will respond, regardless.
If I were a man and my s/o's bestie was gay I would be elated.
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hippo65
Albuquerque, NM
51, joined Apr. 2013
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Ding ding ding!!! We have a winner here Alex. Hue...........a man with self confidence
I said a similar thing.
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
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Born in 74, toys used to be made of metal. I had a Tonka dumptruck that you could change the wheels on. I remember the commercial for it as well, showed and elephant standing on it.
I remember sneaking the car wax away from one of my mom's drunk bfs and waxing it. I loved that Tonka dumptruck.
I was born in 67 and yes the toys were much more rugged and interesting back then....my gawdddddddd you had to actually use your imagination to play....not like now where a lot of toys are electronic....
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
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How does she feels wearing a chastity belt?
with a double lock?.....
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hippo65
Albuquerque, NM
51, joined Apr. 2013
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Lock??Pfftt..
I was thinking a voice activated with facial recognition..
Oh and I meant
"how does she feels about wearing a chastity belt.
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
99, joined May. 2016
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she probably wouldn't care as long as it had a hole to pee....
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hippo65
Albuquerque, NM
51, joined Apr. 2013
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she probably wouldn't care as long as it had a hole to pee....
No hole!
Something could get in .
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Grand Prairie, TX
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struckbylite
Oelwein, IA
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If he is gay no problem. If he is way prettier than she is and can have any woman he wants let them be friends. If a woman is going to cheat on you it's most likely going to be with someone who caught you completely by surprise anyway. Someone you'd never expect knowing how well many women cover their tracks.
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GalaxyRogue1
Denver, CO
47, joined Dec. 2016
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This sounds like the husband doesn't give a hoot about her, and is probably cheating on her.
I was talking to a guy about a female friend of his. He said her husband was a bad guy. He would leave her alone to play cards with his friend. Would leave the yardwork for her to do. He was helping one day when her husband came home. He told the guy He was doing his job for him. The husband said thanks. The guy was clearly in the friend zone and the husband knew he had nothing to worry about because he trusted his wife.
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scoobs78
Kansas City, MO
39, joined Jun. 2013
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I was born in 67 and yes the toys were much more rugged and interesting back then....my gawdddddddd you had to actually use your imagination to play....not like now where a lot of toys are electronic....
It's funny tho watching u old farts who can barely operate a personal computer n click a mouse! Then there's these smart phones that irritate u because u don't know how text n operate that phone!
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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How would you feel if your so's best friend was a guy?
Depends on how much time she wants to spend with him.
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apokernut
Elk Grove Village, IL
54, joined Jan. 2008
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It's funny tho watching u old farts who can barely operate a personal computer n click a mouse! Then there's these smart phones that irritate u because u don't know how text n operate that phone!
Or those douchebags who think they are cool owning one!! 
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bigbob311
Los Angeles, CA
90, joined Aug. 2010
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This is a slippery slope at best , if I was dating WEST , Hell no, no guy friends because West is TOO Hot , if he does not want to have sex with her he is brain dead
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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Big is sweet
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009
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I got no problem with it. If we committed then I already trust her, so no worries. I don't trust her, then we aint dating.
I asked my SO this question and this is how he responded, too.
My late husband's best friend was a woman. I had no problem with it. They'd been friends for decades and if anything was to have happened, it would have. But he chose me to be his wife and to commit to.
That said, I don't think many women have the same hopes in accepting the friend zone as do some men. I also think that some men want only to be friends. At least that's been my experience with a lot of the men I knew.
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bigbob311
Los Angeles, CA
90, joined Aug. 2010
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Hi , when I would go out to a dance I had a few female friends I would dance with or talk to only, at the dance hall , not to hang out with at a bar , to go eat with or over to the house , I have a few friends , couples I go over to there place when they are both there , go for a BBQ , hang out, whatever.
One of the women said we were Friday night friends only , 
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
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That's an interesting distinction. I think it's right, too. As I think back, a lot of the male friends I had weren't the kind who I'd go shopping with or talk to on the phone for hours. They didn't get my deepest thoughts. They didn't give me theirs. We may have seen a movie or two, or grabbed a bite to eat, or went out dancing in a sort of a group thing but it was always expected that it was a pay your own way, no expectations or awkwardness because there was no romantic interest on either part. It was a Friday night kind of friendship.
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
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I have a friend who won't even have a male repair guy in the house if her husband isn't home. She thinks it's disrespectful to her husband. Some guy had to deliver and set up their new TV and I went over to be there, too, so she'd feel better.
Another friend whose BF had to meet me to determine that I was actually a woman, and a woman who would not lead his GF astray, before she could accept a ride to and from work from me. 7 months pregnant and he was OK with her taking a bus in the heat, or after dark as long as it wasn't some man driving her.
I think sometimes the fear of who your SO could know in their daily lives can go overboard.
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
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It's funny tho watching u old farts who can barely operate a personal computer n click a mouse! Then there's these smart phones that irritate u because u don't know how text n operate that phone!
Yeah sure...like I said...I call bullshit on your age...so that puts you in the same old fart category.....
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inni_7
Pasadena, CA
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I don't have an issue texting on my phone ... well auto correct has it's moments.
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hippo65
Albuquerque, NM
51, joined Apr. 2013
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Texting isn't an issue.
Well my daughter can text a book while I text a sentence but other than that I am good.
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bigbob311
Los Angeles, CA
90, joined Aug. 2010
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It's funny tho watching u old farts who can barely operate a personal computer n click a mouse! Then there's these smart phones that irritate u because u don't know how text n operate that phone!
I like my I phone , texting is okay , I just do not use the phone when driving , I do not want a ticket
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
62, joined Mar. 2014
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Inquiring minds want to know? How is East->West latest romance going? I've been taking notes, so I might apply them to my relationships.
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inni_7
Pasadena, CA
51, joined Nov. 2016
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Texting isn't an issue.
Well my daughter can text a book while I text a sentence but other than that I am good.
hahahaha, now that is true!! I can't type nearly as fast with my thumbs!
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rightguyforu602
Lisle, IL
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I enjoy blueberry jam.
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track_empirion
Pineville, NC
49, joined Mar. 2014
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You're such a d*ck.
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