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6/6/2017 1:43:06 PM Question for the guys  

easttowest72
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How would you feel if your so's best friend was a guy?




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6/6/2017 1:45:15 PM Question for the guys  

stl1
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Saint Louis, MO
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Is he gay?

6/6/2017 1:49:51 PM Question for the guys  

easttowest72
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Bremen, GA
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No lol

6/6/2017 1:49:59 PM Question for the guys  

sillylaugher61
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Quote from easttowest72:
How would you feel if your so's best friend was a guy?


I am not sure about what you are asking.

6/6/2017 1:52:21 PM Question for the guys  

stl1
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Saint Louis, MO
63, joined Jun. 2007


Quote from sillylaugher61:
I am not sure about what you are asking.




She's asking if you like it up the pooper when she invites him to join in.



6/6/2017 1:56:14 PM Question for the guys  

easttowest72
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Bremen, GA
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6/6/2017 2:02:01 PM Question for the guys  
queennawty
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Middlesex
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Quote from sillylaugher61:
I am not sure about what you are asking.



If your significant others best friend was a dude dork

6/6/2017 2:07:28 PM Question for the guys  

jer3552
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Vale, OR
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no such thing as a heterosexual male and female being friends

6/6/2017 2:08:00 PM Question for the guys  
bluesrule
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Marshalltown, IA
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Dude dork? Is that kinda like a nerd?




6/6/2017 2:12:02 PM Question for the guys  
Olaf_the_german
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,241)
Houston, TX
50, joined Feb. 2017


Guys know guys...She would be forbidden from seeing him.

There is a certain type of guy in this world who spends months even years sniffing around women pretending to be their "bestie" praying for the day in a moment of weakness she'll give him some.

..those men are betas...they can't bag a woman using traditional manly methods...they have to be sneaky and sly about it...beta males basically...they are the Hyena of the predators...sniffing around for scraps and leftovers...


She will be banned from further contact from him or she can take a hike and be happy with her beta male kissing her ass.



[Edited 6/6/2017 2:14:06 PM ]

6/6/2017 2:12:25 PM Question for the guys  
sinceresammy
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Dayton, OH
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Let's see? East->West significant other is a guy, I'm assuming this, and his BF is a guy? What would you prefer? A mutt?

The problem here is she hasn't identified who the parties are. Now if we substitute a guy for East->West then his SO is supposedly a woman and her BF is a guy. Well so what? Now if his BF is a goat, then there might be a problem!

6/6/2017 2:13:35 PM Question for the guys  
sinceresammy
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Dayton, OH
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Quote from Olaf_the_german:
Guys know guys...She would be forbidden from seeing him.

There is a certain type of guy in this world who spends months even years sniffing around women pretending to be their "bestie" praying for the day in a moment of weakness she'll give him some.

..those men are betas...they can't bag a woman using traditional manly methods...they have to be sneaky and sly about it...beta males basically.

She will be banned from further contact from him or she can take a hike and be happy with her beta male kissing her ass.


Manly methods? I wonder what that might involve? Whips & chains?

6/6/2017 2:14:25 PM Question for the guys  

jer3552
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Vale, OR
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that bug terminator guy seems to be a beta

6/6/2017 2:14:31 PM Question for the guys  
Olaf_the_german
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Houston, TX
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Manly methods? I wonder what that might involve? Whips & chains?

You'll never know Sammy...you'll never know

6/6/2017 2:16:38 PM Question for the guys  
sinceresammy
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As long as no goats are involved, you'll have my approval.

6/6/2017 2:17:31 PM Question for the guys  

jer3552
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Vale, OR
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Sammy, stick to cats and leave p*ssy for the real men

6/6/2017 2:19:45 PM Question for the guys  

archer513
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Cincinnati, OH
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Quote from Olaf_the_german:
Guys know guys...She would be forbidden from seeing him.

There is a certain type of guy in this world who spends months even years sniffing around women pretending to be their "bestie" praying for the day in a moment of weakness she'll give him some.

..those men are betas...they can't bag a woman using traditional manly methods...they have to be sneaky and sly about it...beta males basically...they are the Hyena of the predators...sniffing around for scraps and leftovers...


She will be banned from further contact from him or she can take a hike and be happy with her beta male kissing her ass.




Creeps on the down low. Waitin around for her to get drunk and needy and desperate...then he pounces like the little b*tch he is.

6/6/2017 2:21:37 PM Question for the guys  

beverduster
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La Feria, TX
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Quote from sinceresammy:
Let's see? East->West significant other is a guy, I'm assuming this, and his BF is a guy? What would you prefer? A mutt?

The problem here is she hasn't identified who the parties are. Now if we substitute a guy for East->West then his SO is supposedly a woman and her BF is a guy. Well so what? Now if his BF is a goat, then there might be a problem!




isnt that how the scarecrow come about?

6/6/2017 2:23:19 PM Question for the guys  
mongoslastride
Western AustraliaWestern Australia
Australia
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Mongo not care as long as she saves the last dance for me.

6/6/2017 2:32:39 PM Question for the guys  

easttowest72
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Bremen, GA
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6/6/2017 2:33:45 PM Question for the guys  

jer3552
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Vale, OR
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Quote from mongoslastride:
Mongo not care as long as she saves the last dance for me.
spoken like a true beta....now go sew some doilies

6/6/2017 2:35:08 PM Question for the guys  
Olaf_the_german
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Houston, TX
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Mongo not care as long as she saves the last dance for me.

Forget sloppy seconds...ol mongo doesn't mind sloppy thirteenths.

6/6/2017 2:37:03 PM Question for the guys  

jer3552
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Vale, OR
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Quote from Olaf_the_german:
Mongo not care as long as she saves the last dance for me.

Forget sloppy seconds...ol mongo doesn't mind sloppy thirteenths.
hes one of those aussie aboriganls... hey I bet his people had horses and cattle eons ago

6/6/2017 2:41:34 PM Question for the guys  
sinceresammy
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Dayton, OH
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Don't forget all of the miscellaneous banjo players. You might have to use scientific notation!

6/6/2017 2:45:42 PM Question for the guys  
walt_hallow
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Lexington, KY
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only chumps would think it's ok

6/6/2017 2:57:59 PM Question for the guys  
Olaf_the_german
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Houston, TX
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hes one of those aussie aboriganls... hey I bet his people had horses and cattle eons ago

having "the last dance" with a woman is like getting in a bathtub when it's full to the brim....



[Edited 6/6/2017 2:58:13 PM ]

6/6/2017 2:59:26 PM Question for the guys  
sarahgoldsmith
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Chantilly, VA
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If you're a woman & your best friend is a man, you should be tactful, & consider your boyfriend's/husband's feelings. Don't flaunt your relationship in front of your boyfriend/husband. It will make him feel jealous & uncomfortable. You should consider the guy's feelings.

I don't mind if his bestfriend is a girl/woman. Sometimes it's healthy for a relationship if he has other friends. It's not cheating if they are not having sex. If they are just hanging out & talking to each other, that's not cheating. Although lots of women considered that cheating.

A lot of women think that if their man is talking & sharing his thoughts & emotions with another woman, then that is cheating. Even if they are not having sex with each other. If their is no sex involved, then it's not cheating.

Example:
If your husband & his co-worker (female) are both accountants, or are both chemists, so naturally they would like to hang out with each other, because they have a lot in common. So they hang out with each other after work, have a drink, talk about their work with each other. That is not cheating. They are not having sex with each other. Most of the wives will be jealous that he likes hanging out with his co-workers.

They hang out with each other after work because it's nice to talk to someone that understand your work. If his co-worker is an attractive looking woman, naturally the wife will feel threatened & jealous. But letting him hang out like that can be healthy for your relationship. It's nice that he can have a friend to talk to that can understand his work fully.

If two chemists, one male & one female work with each other, & they like to hang out after work to discuss the projects they are working on, there is nothing wrong with that.

If he is talking to his co-worker (female) about carbon & his wife doesn't know anything about science, has zero knowledge of science, he won't be able to talk to his wife about it. His wife would have no idea what he is talking about. That's why the wife should let him have friends, & let him talk to his friends. Even if the friends are females.

So if the husband's co-worker is a man, then it's not cheating at all? But since it's a woman, hanging out with her after work is cheating?



[Edited 6/6/2017 3:02:30 PM ]

6/6/2017 2:59:56 PM Question for the guys  

archer513
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Cincinnati, OH
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Mongo should change his name to caboose...

6/6/2017 3:18:55 PM Question for the guys  
sarahgoldsmith
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Chantilly, VA
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A lot of women in the forums said that if a group of 5 people meet up for drinks to talk about their work, & the project they are working on, if the other 3 people didn't show up, only a man, & a woman show up, they should cancel & go home. They shouldn't be alone with each other because it looks suspicious to the wife at home.

Even though the group of 5 always showed up every Friday at a diner to meet for drinks & discuss their work. But on this one Friday, the other 3 people can't make it. Many of the women in the forums said that the man & the woman co-workers should go home too. They shouldn't be alone with each other, the women said.

What are we, in kindergarten?
Adults need permission to be talk to other adults?
Two adults can't be allowed to be alone with each other? Even though they are not having sex? What if they are not attracted to each other? They are just there to discuss their work & nothing more. They like each other as friends because they are co-workers. But they don't like each other romantically because they are not attracted to each other. So that's not cheating if they are spending time alone with each other, because the other 3 people didn't show up.

Yeah, I know most wives feel threatened if the husband's co-worker is a very attractive woman. And the wives become very very jealous. The wives are worried that sparks might start between the husband & his attractive co-worker.



[Edited 6/6/2017 3:20:16 PM ]

6/6/2017 3:40:25 PM Question for the guys  
sarahgoldsmith
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Chantilly, VA
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Quote from Olaf_the_german:
Guys know guys...She would be forbidden from seeing him.

There is a certain type of guy in this world who spends months even years sniffing around women pretending to be their "bestie" praying for the day in a moment of weakness she'll give him some.

..those men are betas...they can't bag a woman using traditional manly methods...they have to be sneaky and sly about it...beta males basically...they are the Hyena of the predators...sniffing around for scraps and leftovers...


She will be banned from further contact from him or she can take a hike and be happy with her beta male kissing her ass.


So you won't marry a clinical researcher or a software engineer then? People in this kind of job usually meet up for dinner after work to discuss about the project they are working on in a more relaxed atmosphere. The dinners are paid for by their HR department.

These kinds of people usually work in a group, working on a project together. They are usually invited to dinner (not required to attend, but they all attend the dinner anyway) to talk about work. Most of them will attend the dinner because they are afraid they will miss out on an important idea that was brought up during dinner. The boss of the group is always there at the dinner, that's why they all attend the dinner.

So if your wife is making $265,000 per year, you would still forbid her to attend these kind of dinners after work? Or this won't happen to you because you won't marry a woman with a professional career in the first place?



[Edited 6/6/2017 3:42:20 PM ]

6/6/2017 3:41:43 PM Question for the guys  

tardsmasher2
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Douglasville, GA
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Id let him watch me pump her anus full of cum and then knock him out

6/6/2017 3:44:32 PM Question for the guys  

patriottype
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Grand Prairie, TX
47, joined Jul. 2013


Angry alpha makes raising the BETAS children.........

6/6/2017 3:45:03 PM Question for the guys  

sparks_01
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6/6/2017 3:45:27 PM Question for the guys  

easttowest72
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So, I'm assuming non of the men who've posted have female friends.

Except mongo

6/6/2017 3:47:08 PM Question for the guys  
Olaf_the_german
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Houston, TX
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So, I'm assuming non of the men who've posted have female friends.

Except mongo


Well there is a significant difference between "friends" and "best friend"

...but I'm sure there is more than one cuck here



[Edited 6/6/2017 3:47:50 PM ]

6/6/2017 3:47:15 PM Question for the guys  
rightguyforu602
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Lisle, IL
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I wudn't care for it one bit.

6/6/2017 3:48:09 PM Question for the guys  
rightguyforu602
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Quote from tardsmasher2:
Id let him watch me pump her anus full of cum and then knock him out


You cudnt hurt a fly u pathetic weakling.



[Edited 6/6/2017 3:48:18 PM ]

6/6/2017 3:49:20 PM Question for the guys  

tardsmasher2
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Douglasville, GA
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ok turdling

6/6/2017 3:57:14 PM Question for the guys  

easttowest72
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A friend isn't anything sexual. I can enjoy being around someone that I have 0 sexual attraction to.

6/6/2017 5:35:19 PM Question for the guys  

M4mischief
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Grand Prairie, TX
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I have a best friend whose a man...he just happens to be my man....

6/6/2017 5:38:01 PM Question for the guys  
curbsideprophet
Tulsa, OK
42, joined Dec. 2010


Quote from easttowest72:
How would you feel if your so's best friend was a guy?


depends on my SO.

I'd probably be uncomfortable with it since every woman I've ever been romantic with has lied to me, cheated on me, and/or stolen from me. (even my late wife that still sits on a pedestal in my memories cheated on me) All of them.

But yes I know, I'm a guy so beyond any shadow of a doubt it was my fault in every case.



[Edited 6/6/2017 5:38:27 PM ]

6/6/2017 5:39:08 PM Question for the guys  
scoobs78
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Kansas City, MO
39, joined Jun. 2013


I think she's wanting to know what we think if her man had a guy friend

Am I correct?

6/6/2017 5:39:09 PM Question for the guys  

M4mischief
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Grand Prairie, TX
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of course...im glad one man finally realizes..its always the mans fault...even when its not...



and he takes full responsibility.....



[Edited 6/6/2017 5:40:36 PM ]

6/6/2017 5:40:38 PM Question for the guys  
scoobs78
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Lol nice spin there flirty



[Edited 6/6/2017 5:40:52 PM ]

6/6/2017 5:41:32 PM Question for the guys  

M4mischief
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Grand Prairie, TX
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Hey..im a spinner from wayyyyyyy back..... Im the original fidget spinner.....

6/6/2017 5:42:32 PM Question for the guys  
scoobs78
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Kansas City, MO
39, joined Jun. 2013


Back in the 70's? I wasn't born till '78




[Edited 6/6/2017 5:42:58 PM ]

6/6/2017 5:45:27 PM Question for the guys  

M4mischief
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Grand Prairie, TX
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of course....I was a 70s kid...back when toys were toys....



I call bullshit on the age thing.....




Possible 'chat po po' detected. You have already posted in this thread recently. Please wait for some other people to reply before posting in this thread again, or wait like an hour or so, whichever comes first. Sorry for the inconvenience.



[Edited 6/6/2017 5:46:05 PM ]

6/6/2017 5:51:05 PM Question for the guys  
curbsideprophet
Tulsa, OK
42, joined Dec. 2010


Born in 74, toys used to be made of metal. I had a Tonka dumptruck that you could change the wheels on. I remember the commercial for it as well, showed and elephant standing on it.

I remember sneaking the car wax away from one of my mom's drunk bfs and waxing it. I loved that Tonka dumptruck.

6/6/2017 5:59:45 PM Question for the guys  

driver406
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Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009


I'd find a new s/o.

If MY best friend were some babe she'd say I was cheating wouldn't she? But if SHE pulls the same thing it's supposed to be ok. No, it's not ok. If she likes the other guy better then let him have her. Seems to me he isn't getting much of a catch.

6/6/2017 6:01:17 PM Question for the guys  

driver406
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (54,519)
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009


They made those in our area, Tonka Toys. Minnetonka or Wayzata I believe. They were a huge concern in their prime. Got you still love them!

6/6/2017 6:52:22 PM Question for the guys  

easttowest72
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Bremen, GA
45, joined Sep. 2014


I was talking to a guy about a female friend of his. He said her husband was a bad guy. He would leave her alone to play cards with his friend. Would leave the yardwork for her to do. He was helping one day when her husband came home. He told the guy He was doing his job for him. The husband said thanks. The guy was clearly in the friend zone and the husband knew he had nothing to worry about because he trusted his wife.

6/6/2017 6:58:17 PM Question for the guys  
scoobs78
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Kansas City, MO
39, joined Jun. 2013


Quote from M4mischief:
of course....I was a 70s kid...back when toys were toys....



I call bullshit on the age thing.....




Possible 'chat po po' detected. You have already posted in this thread recently. Please wait for some other people to reply before posting in this thread again, or wait like an hour or so, whichever comes first. Sorry for the inconvenience.


Granny moo moos in the 70's lol

6/6/2017 7:04:05 PM Question for the guys  

illan615
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Holland, MI
55, joined Oct. 2012


Quote from easttowest72:
How would you feel if your so's best friend was a guy?


I have men that are friends. I also have a former male friend/co-worker that traveled the Midwest with me and the team for 4 years.. we still meet for lunch from time to time. His wife knows we all are friends only.

Trust you gut.

6/6/2017 7:12:00 PM Question for the guys  

hippo65
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,076)
Albuquerque, NM
51, joined Apr. 2013


Wouldn't care.
It's about trusting her.
She'll cheat if she wants to cheat.


6/6/2017 11:13:47 PM Question for the guys  

stratus55
Over 2,000 Posts (2,485)
Jackson, GA
51, joined Jan. 2017


nope,would not do at all for me..no chance for temptation would be any good....

6/6/2017 11:17:13 PM Question for the guys  

dantana77
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Frederick, MD
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online now!


Quote from jer3552:
no such thing as a heterosexual male and female being friends



truth...but can be friends just not true friends. nature always wins

6/6/2017 11:38:30 PM Question for the guys  
sarahgoldsmith
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Chantilly, VA
46, joined Jan. 2014


Harry: "Men & women can't be friends because the sex thing is always there."

Sally: "Oh really? What if you like her & she doesn't like you?"

Harry: "It doesn't matter, he still wants to f**k her anyway."

Sally: "What if she is ugly?"

Harry: "It doesn't matter. He still will want to f**k her. With enough alcohol, if he is drunk enough, & he is feeling horny, he will still want to f**k her, even if she is ugly."

Harry: "If she is ugly they probably can be friends, but he will still want to f**k her."

Men & women can't be friends because the sex thing is always there, LOL according to Harry.

6/6/2017 11:50:15 PM Question for the guys  

lsu_lsu
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Houma, LA
50, joined Apr. 2011


Quote from Olaf_the_german:
Guys know guys...She would be forbidden from seeing him.

There is a certain type of guy in this world who spends months even years sniffing around women pretending to be their "bestie" praying for the day in a moment of weakness she'll give him some.

..those men are betas...they can't bag a woman using traditional manly methods...they have to be sneaky and sly about it...beta males basically...they are the Hyena of the predators...sniffing around for scraps and leftovers...


She will be banned from further contact from him or she can take a hike and be happy with her beta male kissing her ass.



Wow is this true?
Is this how you men truly are?


Animals I tell ya

6/7/2017 1:15:44 AM Question for the guys  

iam_resurrected
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,484)
Reno, NV
46, joined Jul. 2014


why would a man care?
if she bangs the friend, oh well.
it ain't like there is not an influx of women out there (4 to 1) to sweat one hole.

6/7/2017 1:32:30 AM Question for the guys  

stl1
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Saint Louis, MO
63, joined Jun. 2007


I_ammakingshitupagain