6/8/2017 5:09:49 PM |
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lightsquare
Absam
Austria
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Instagram user @a_body_positive_jazzy (awesome handle, BTW) posted an adorable photo with her husband last week and wrote about how she feels being a different size than her husband.
"Over the years this man has loved every curve, every roll, and every stretch mark on my body," she wrote. "I never understood why! How could he love something that isn't 'perfect?' How could a man who was "born fit" love someone like me!"
"I don't have a flat stomach, I jiggle when I walk, if I run up the stairs to fast my body claps! But now I see I do have the 'perfect'"body!!" she wrote. "Every roll, every curve and every stretch mark is put on me just perfect to make both of us happy!!! I love my body and I finally see why he does too!!"
Jazzy started her body positive journey back in May, when she decided she was done being ashamed of her body and constantly trying diets and exercise videos in an effort to change it.
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6/8/2017 5:16:20 PM |
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orchid1973
Rome
Italy
44, joined May. 2017
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Why delusional? He likes her body.
The latins say: De gustibus non disputandum est
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6/8/2017 5:23:21 PM |
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lightsquare
Absam
Austria
44, joined Dec. 2014
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Why delusional? He likes her body.
The latins say: De gustibus non disputandum est
Don't understand what you wrote, is it Spanish, but know that "fat is not where its at".
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6/8/2017 5:27:12 PM |
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uber_goober
Danielsville, GA
51, joined May. 2016
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Chacun à son goût.
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6/8/2017 5:29:20 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Well...by description its not the perfect body, and not typically one you'd look in the mirror with and say...I love it...look at those sags and rolls and stretch marks, aren't you jealous?
But...because he is happy with it...she came to terms with it, and decided not to be concerned about it...and that's likely the happiness she is experiencing.
It may seem delusional, because of the way she said...I love it too and now see why he does too.
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6/8/2017 5:45:48 PM |
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
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6/8/2017 5:52:49 PM |
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sweettlisa
Evansville, IN
52, joined Jul. 2014
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Good For her some men like BBW
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6/8/2017 5:59:20 PM |
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inni_7
Pasadena, CA
51, joined Nov. 2016
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I don't think it's a delusion - everyone likes something different - even if mainstream focuses on skinny.
If she's happy and he's happy - it all gooooooooood.
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6/8/2017 6:28:45 PM |
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lightsquare
Absam
Austria
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Never like the sound of thighs rubbing together or a flap over the vagina...
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6/8/2017 6:31:58 PM |
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Suzhi
Knoxville, TN
54, joined Aug. 2016
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Never like the sound of thighs rubbing together or a flap over the vagina...
You need a flap over your d*ck sucker, Hag...
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6/8/2017 6:40:34 PM |
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lightsquare
Absam
Austria
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You need a flap over your d*ck sucker, Hag...
Good evening Mikey... I see you are well into your bottle tonight. Did you do love your pig a long time? Made her sqeel, eh?
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6/8/2017 6:59:32 PM |
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hippo65
Albuquerque, NM
51, joined Apr. 2013
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Why delusional? He likes her body.
I was thinking a same thing.
She isn't delusional about her body.
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6/8/2017 7:09:28 PM |
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cheep_trick
Herndon, VA
37, joined Mar. 2017
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I'm not one of them.
But, I hear some guys, are into
hefty broads.
The way I see it;
Is if a large woman hooks up with someone,
it's one less horny heifer, that I need to
worry about.
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6/8/2017 7:19:06 PM |
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lightsquare
Absam
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6/8/2017 7:20:29 PM |
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Stopsign_01
Londres
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6/8/2017 7:27:39 PM |
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sarahgoldsmith
Chantilly, VA
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OP, you don't understand black & Hispanic culture. Black & Hispanic women are usually not married. Husband really mean their baby's daddy. It's not really "their husband".
OP, what you don't know is that black & Hispanic people have open relationship. So that is why their men don't care what the women look like. To him, she is just an easy laid. He has many many other girlfriends on the side. The women all know about each other, they accepted this kind of lifestyle.
He lives with one girl, but has 5 other girlfriends on the side. The 6 women all know about each other, but they don't care. They accept that kind of lifestyle. Ask the women to be honest, they will tell you this is true of black & Hispanic culture. The majority have an open relationship. The women share the same men, the women all know about each other.
Most black & Hispanic kids have half brothers & sisters. The cycle continues, & the boys grow up & do the same thing their fathers did. Black & Hispanic culture are very different from white culture, OP. Ask them, the honest ones will tell you this is true of their culture.
They refer to the men as their husband, they really mean their baby's daddy. It's not really their husband. They were never married, so it's not really "their husband". It's their baby's daddy.
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6/8/2017 7:28:55 PM |
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lightsquare
Absam
Austria
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Look!
Up in the sky
Its a bird
No its a plane
No its SuperFatScoobsMan after eating 50 burritos
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6/8/2017 7:35:09 PM |
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lightsquare
Absam
Austria
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@sarahgoldsmith
You are right about the multiple baby daddies. Know a Spanish woman whose sister has 6 kids by 5 different fathers; white, black and Hispanic.
Also seen Maury Povich Show about "Who the baby daddy?" Some of the women he had on were really big!!!
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6/8/2017 7:45:09 PM |
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
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who says you cant love a body that's not perfect...and what is perfection anyway...who says it has to be somebody elses idea of perfection...why cant it be yours?...loving your your body just the way it is as it is...is all part of loving yourself....that's real love...its not saying I will love you when you're perfect or different...its saying I love you just as you are....that's a personal thing and not something that can come from the outside nor should it...
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6/8/2017 7:58:36 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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As long as the babe is white a macho black stud doesn't care how big or ugly she is. Skin color is the only that matters to them.
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6/8/2017 8:03:12 PM |
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lightsquare
Absam
Austria
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As long as the babe is white a macho black stud doesn't care how big or ugly she is. Skin color is the only that matters to them.
I have personally seen this with my own eyes.
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6/9/2017 7:22:00 AM |
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bookwormtobutte
Rio Rancho, NM
37, joined Jan. 2016
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Why delusional? He likes her body.
The latins say: De gustibus non disputandum est
Hey I've met too guys who turned me down cause I wasn't big enough for them
One guy was so amazing, kind, not to mention hot and successful that I actually considered putting on 100lbs.
But no man is worth risking my health over. I'm not little Miss Fitness, I hate working out and I love food, but I've never had to buy plus size clothing, and heart problems and obesity run in my family, no thank you.
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6/9/2017 7:33:19 AM |
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bookwormtobutte
Rio Rancho, NM
37, joined Jan. 2016
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As long as the babe is white a macho black stud doesn't care how big or ugly she is. Skin color is the only that matters to them.
Umm she's not white...
Mixed maybe.
But that's actually kind of true. It doesn't apply to All Black Men, but it does to a good majority. Especially where I live in New Mexico. They will date anything, but a black woman.
I'm 37, single, no kids, no drama, no addictions, have a good career, a cute house, a decent car, good credit score.
But I can't pay enough money for a black man to date me. Hell for most men to date me
They'll sleep with me, but nothing more serious then that.
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6/9/2017 7:34:50 AM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
50, joined Feb. 2017
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Fat f**ks trying to justify their self hatred by saying others love them so it's ok to lack control and be unhealthy
You always get those fat b*tches who go on about how it's the person inside that counts but then they always use the counter "Well I've never had problems getting a man"
Hey fatty, that's because men will pretty much f**k anything..and what the f**k does that have to do with your own personal health and well being...put the f**king pizza down.
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6/9/2017 7:38:34 AM |
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
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Its swim season and I've been dieting and exercising. I've lost 4lbs so far. One thing for sure is that I'll never be perfect. Does this mean I shouldn't be allowed at the beach? Sometimes people have to say screw others opinions and go out and have fun.
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6/9/2017 7:39:55 AM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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Sometimes people have to say screw others opinions and go out and have fun.
The fatties in summer say "Screw swimming...stay in the A/C and eat ice cream"...
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6/9/2017 7:45:00 AM |
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de_aardbei
Montreal, QC
35, joined Mar. 2017
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So whats your ig name, op??
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6/9/2017 7:47:49 AM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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and constantly trying diets and exercise videos in an effort to change it.
...diet and exercise works...if you f**king stick to it.
God damn this fat, excuse filled tub o lard.
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6/9/2017 7:48:51 AM |
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orchid1973
Rome
Italy
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For once I agree with East. We can't all have the body of a top model. Screw what others have to say indeed and have fun.
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6/9/2017 7:50:17 AM |
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
62, joined Mar. 2014
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If people are happy with each other, then that's all that matters. However, as you grow older and observe couples wandering around, it is only normal to wonder what the attraction was that brought them together?
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6/9/2017 7:52:52 AM |
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killerbugs53
Palo Cedro, CA
53, joined Oct. 2016
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I tried to take one for the team once.....I just couldn't do it.
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6/9/2017 7:57:49 AM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
50, joined Feb. 2017
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If people are happy with each other, then that's all that matters.
Well no, your health does too, that should be primary to "people liking you"
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6/9/2017 8:00:52 AM |
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
62, joined Mar. 2014
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^Dummy!
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6/9/2017 8:01:10 AM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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^ Fatty enabler!
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6/9/2017 8:02:04 AM |
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
62, joined Mar. 2014
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^Goat f**ker!
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6/9/2017 8:02:58 AM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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^Goat f**ker watcher!
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6/9/2017 8:09:38 AM |
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
62, joined Mar. 2014
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^Pervert!
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6/9/2017 8:12:06 AM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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^ Pervert's gimp!
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6/9/2017 8:15:42 AM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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Enough of this homoerotic banter...lets get back to ridiculing fat f**ks and their enablers...
Possible 'chatting' detected.
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6/9/2017 8:26:30 AM |
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pento4
Norman, OK
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Did I Blow Up The Page ?
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6/9/2017 8:27:17 AM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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Fat f**ks care...about pie.
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6/9/2017 5:35:14 PM |
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orchid1973
Rome
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6/9/2017 5:40:41 PM |
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rightguyforu602
Lisle, IL
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6/9/2017 7:09:30 PM |
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lightbrownie1
Johnston, IA
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Op. The picture looks some what fake but I will say this.
Different stokes for different folk.
There's a couple at my job. He's really skinny and she is pretty heavy, but they come to work every day togwther, have lunch and breaks together.
Must be
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6/9/2017 7:27:52 PM |
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cern_
Danville, KY
62, joined Mar. 2014
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who says you cant love a body that's not perfect...and what is perfection anyway...who says it has to be somebody elses idea of perfection...why cant it be yours?...loving your your body just the way it is as it is...is all part of loving yourself....that's real love...its not saying I will love you when you're perfect or different...its saying I love you just as you are....that's a personal thing and not something that can come from the outside nor should it...
Right you are, my friend from faux-Texas. Perfection is a virtue and, by definition, all virtues are nothing but unattainable ideals that have nothing to do with reality. Virtues are merely subjective, contextual and relative matters.
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6/9/2017 8:07:12 PM |
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cern_
Danville, KY
62, joined Mar. 2014
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Why delusional? He likes her body.
The latins say: De gustibus non disputandum est
Fine, there's no accounting for taste, but Latins don't say it because there's no nation/state where Latin is spoken. You can get away with it in a Latin class, or if you're unfortunately stuck on a subway with an elderly priest or a nun and you want to give them a pop quiz.
The OP is familiar with a guy that has an unadulterated passion for sheep but, apparently, the sheep do not complain and this self-declared assassin certainly enjoys his experiences -- no harm, no foul.
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6/9/2017 9:34:55 PM |
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
99, joined May. 2016
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Right you are, my friend from faux-Texas. Perfection is a virtue and, by definition, all virtues are nothing but unattainable ideals that have nothing to do with reality. Virtues are merely subjective, contextual and relative matters.
I agree and people who use the excuse of worrying about or focussing on the health of perfect strangers are dummies...they just use that as an excuse to put down people without looking at their own imperfections...I always said..."when you're perfect then you can come and talk to me about my imperfections"....
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6/9/2017 9:35:05 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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The black guy is great shape and the woman is white and that's all that matters to a black guy. To him having sex with a white woman is like f**king the plantation owner's daughter.
As for her, she could lose 50 lbs and never miss it and she's dating the only guys that would have anything to do with her.
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6/9/2017 9:54:19 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
50, joined Jun. 2013
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Its swim season and I've been dieting and exercising. I've lost 4lbs so far. One thing for sure is that I'll never be perfect. Does this mean I shouldn't be allowed at the beach? Sometimes people have to say screw others opinions and go out and have fun.
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6/9/2017 10:18:18 PM |
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Mercedes_3
New South Wales
Australia
90, joined Jun. 2016
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I'm confused as to why you feel people
who are into health is a sign of putting
people down.
That's like saying f**k my Doctor what would he know.
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6/10/2017 2:10:17 AM |
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
99, joined May. 2016
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I don't think that at all...I just think they should focus on their own health and not anybody elses....like in these fat threads...the bottom line is its none of anyone's business....all im saying is do you and let everybody else do themselves....
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6/10/2017 2:23:22 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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I am positive that if any woman saw me without cloths that they would run away screaming, I mean they do that anyway when they see me in cloths.
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6/10/2017 2:29:23 AM |
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Mercedes_3
New South Wales
Australia
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I am positive that if any woman saw me without cloths that they would run away screaming, I mean they do that anyway when they see me in cloths.
Rubbish
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6/10/2017 2:35:50 AM |
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Mercedes_3
New South Wales
Australia
90, joined Jun. 2016
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People on here type shit about my body who have a
weight problem but it doesn't bother me.
When I give advice it's usually to those attending
a gym and it's nice to share stories it's not so
much me telling people what to do it's just me giving
tips that may help their work out and I'm able to learn
from what their experiences are at the gym.
In saying the above I refuse to give compliments to
people like Tia because those that compliment her
almighty girth are lying and that just allows people
like her to die at an early age so to me those that
compliment her are the nasty people not I.
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6/10/2017 4:06:28 AM |
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ltlwing
Williamsburg, OH
53, joined Oct. 2013
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Or maybe he just loves her. Her body isn't high on the list as to "why"
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6/10/2017 5:22:02 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Fine, there's no accounting for taste, but Latins don't say it because there's no nation/state where Latin is spoken. You can get away with it in a Latin class, or if you're unfortunately stuck on a subway with an elderly priest or a nun and you want to give them a pop quiz.
The OP is familiar with a guy that has an unadulterated passion for sheep but, apparently, the sheep do not complain and this self-declared assassin certainly enjoys his experiences -- no harm, no foul.
The person you quoted is from Italy, she speaks English and Italian...as for Latin...its an old language during the Roman Empire days, and sort of evolved into the new languages in what's considered Latin Countries.
Latin was originally spoken in Latium, in the Italian Peninsula. Through the power of the Roman Republic, it became the dominant language, initially in Italy and subsequently throughout the Roman Empire. Vulgar Latin developed into the Romance languages, such as Italian, Portuguese, Spanish, French, and Romanian.
So, it wouldn't be uncommon for an Italian to use a Latin phase in certain circumstances.
and there is no one on here who has a thing for sheep....get over being butt hurt when you supposed intelligence is put on the line...act like an adult instead.
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6/10/2017 10:35:44 AM |
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
62, joined Mar. 2014
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Its swim season and I've been dieting and exercising. I've lost 4lbs so far. One thing for sure is that I'll never be perfect. Does this mean I shouldn't be allowed at the beach? Sometimes people have to say screw others opinions and go out and have fun.
You might consider fat people float better than thin people. The downside is fatties make a tastier meal for a shark!
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6/10/2017 8:38:19 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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Every day I look in the mirror
SOMEHOW I get better looking each day!!
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6/10/2017 9:52:55 PM |
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rubyrose2015
Seagrove, NC
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6/10/2017 10:11:03 PM |
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cern_
Danville, KY
62, joined Mar. 2014
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The person you quoted is from Italy, she speaks English and Italian...as for Latin...its an old language during the Roman Empire days, and sort of evolved into the new languages in what's considered Latin Countries.
Latin was originally spoken in Latium, in the Italian Peninsula. Through the power of the Roman Republic, it became the dominant language, initially in Italy and subsequently throughout the Roman Empire. Vulgar Latin developed into the Romance languages, such as Italian, Portuguese, Spanish, French, and Romanian.
So, it wouldn't be uncommon for an Italian to use a Latin phase in certain circumstances.
and there is no one on here who has a thing for sheep....get over being butt hurt when you supposed intelligence is put on the line...act like an adult instead.
Not a bad recap of Latin origins and the Romance languages, however it was all gratuitous and irrelevant to the lady's post. Latin idiomatic use is common in most languages, including English, et cetera. Now you may feel free to travel to a nation where Latin is spoken today, there is none, but give it a try.
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