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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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You two are a hoot.
It was not an attack when I "respectfully requested" you to not call me baby. Moreover, the term baby when used with a person of the opposite sex is a term of endearment. (There's a generalization for you.)
The definition of GENERALIZATION does not once say that it is the polled opinion of the masses. Here is the official definition:
Definitions of
generalization
n the process of formulating general concepts by abstracting common properties of instances
n reasoning from detailed facts to general principles
n response learned to one stimulus to a similar stimulus
n an idea or conclusion having general application
It also starts the page saying the following:
Taking something specific and applying it more broadly is making a generalization. It's a generalization to say all dogs chase squirrels. A generalization is taking one or a few facts and making a broader, more universal statement. If all the girls you know play with dolls, you might make the generalization that all girls play with dolls. Scientists try to make generalizations based on research — the more data they have, the more accurate the generalization. Generalizations can be similar to stereotypes in that they are sometimes wrong and harmful. Usually, it's best to stick with specifics and avoid generalizations.
it depends how someone confusing generalization with stereotype.....no one should be responsible for people's assumptions
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deaf_heart
Killeen, TX
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Nor should anyone assume that a person has a guilty conscience when they refute a generalizations application to them self
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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You must be a dumber than dumb mutha f**ka if you've experienced what you rant about!!!
I've mopped the courtroom floor with my exes! DNA test and you won't pay for your cousins kid! I've had stupid b*tches locked up for CDV! I mean WTF!!!
The law is on the side of the one in the right! Maybe it's a white thing?
Let me what tell you what makes you mich more STUPIDER than the most lowest black man and woman in YOUR eyes!
I didn't say ONE F**KING THING about ME going though ANYTHING!!! That's what makes stupider and lower than the WORSE BLACKS in your mind.
All I did was mention things I see going on in society to express why I think the way I do and you ASSUMED (you a**hole) and ran with it like and idiot!
Calling yourself insulting me only made you look stupid. And worse than that... is you're too stupid to see what I'm saying.
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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Nor should anyone assume that a person has a guilty conscience when they refute a generalizations application to them self
so by your logic playing a shame tactic on someone isn't due to guilty conscience....gotcha
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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Nor should anyone assume that a person has a guilty conscience when they refute a generalizations application to them self
See now you're denying someone ELSE of their beliefs. If man believes, that if someone ISNT TALKING ABOUT YOU directly or indirectly but YOU get bitter, nasty and your titty milk is souring over what he said then you're taking it PERSONALLY!
And the ONLY reason you're taking it personally even though NOTHINGS being said TO YOU or ABOUT YOU if you're guilty of what's being said and feel a need to defend yourself against.
Either that or you're just a BITTER B*TCH! Looking for a good battle, some drama or something to get your snatch all sour about. No offense intended.
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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I specifically love DAT N**GER F**KIN' MY ASS!!!!!
So that's what all your "Attention Wh*re" antics is about??
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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In generalization, one takes a specific and extrapolates to a broader group of circumstances. Sometimes, it can be a good thing. Say a child touches a hot burner. The child then generalizes and will not touch a hot burner again. Where generalization can go wrong is that sometimes the specifics are not accurately generalized to a larger group. In the example above, the child might refuse to ever touch any stove.....
Stereotyping is attributing certain characteristics to a group based on some common factor the group has. For example, all fat people are jolly and lazy. Stereotypes by their nature are inaccurate since not all members of a specific group of people who share one commonality necessarily share others.
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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Ok thank you. To me those are ALL stereotypes. In my opinion and from what I have seen, people that generalize and stereotype are simply ignorant. Again though that's not a generalization of ALL PEOPLE that generalize. It is only from what I have experienced with those that do
Ok ok well tell me this...
What's the difference between a stereotype and generalization?? Bcuz stereotypes are based off the same premise. It's just that the words stereotype is MOSTLY in negative scenarios and Generalizations are MOSTLY used without malicious intent.
Generalizations are CLSIMED to be used maliciously by women when they're hearing something "They Don't Like!"
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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Ok ok well tell me this...
What's the difference between a stereotype and generalization?? Bcuz stereotypes are based off the same premise. It's just that the words stereotype is MOSTLY in negative scenarios and Generalizations are MOSTLY used without malicious intent.
Generalizations are CLSIMED to be used maliciously by women when they're hearing something "They Don't Like!" or twisting your words and make you guilty
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
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Looking for a good battle
I can see your point.
People can have differences of opinions and they can also respect each other even if they don't totally agree with everything that the person has to say.
You can acknowledge that there may be a bit of truth contained in a generalization...you can try to see the other side of the issue... even though based on your own experiences you've had a different experience.
I've noticed that some posters will change my qualified (both male and female) generalizations to a one-sided generalization that only women do these things.
Some people have a different opinion.
And... that's okay.
I'm not going to argue that it's obviously BOTH.
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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Dept. of Justice.
It is true for 'crime rate by race' not overall total crime.
white people commit 42% of all crime, black 22%.
But there are 5 times as many white people, so
the rate by race is higher for black than white.
Well the Dept of B*tches (DOB) which is a subsidiary of the "Faggot and Maggot" Coalition for spineless men (F&M) says....
It is true for the 'slime rate of bleeding asses' not the total of you d*ck riders.
Nasty ass, spineless muf**kas who live boots and eat female feces are 150%
"Real Men" -100%
But there 75-100 times more spineless muf**kas whos castrated by women and Gov't
So the rate of boot licking, a** sucking, shit eating and acting feminine is much much higher by f*ggedy ass, d*ck riding maggot like yourself than real men.
If you don't believe then LOOK UP you maggot muf**ka!
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deaf_heart
Killeen, TX
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I will take it personally when you attack me, calling me bitter and b*tch, when Dark and I were having quite a civilized conversation until you came back into it today.
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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I can see your point.
People can have differences of opinions and they can also respect each other even if they don't totally agree with everything that the person has to say.
You can acknowledge that there may be a bit of truth contained in a generalization...you can try to see the other side of the issue... even though based on your own experiences you've had a different experience.
I've noticed that some posters will change my qualified (both male and female) generalizations to a one-sided generalization that only women do these things.
Some people have a different opinion.
And... that's okay.
I'm not going to argue that it's obviously BOTH.
Hey Lucky!
Always a pleasure!
I know, understand and see the "flip side" of this country. I'm a "Black Man" (not that nobody has noticed lol) and I know MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE what image we have in the "world's eyes!" I've seen it all my life but I.... "Do not turn my head, make excuses, pretend it's not happening, drag white ppl into it when it comes up, point out OTHER PPLS FAULTS, act like it's all MADE UP and there's no truth to what's being said!"
Truth is the MAJORITY are doing these things and everyone is seeing it &/or being victimized by it. But what about ME?? I do NONE of those things and preach against it every single day. But I'm of the MINORITY so what can I do? I KNOW how bad it looks AND how the minority (me) is looked bcuz of the actions of majority. I don't want to be look upon as related to shit I don't participate in, font condone OR think that shit is ok!
But I have NO guilty conscience so I'll NEVER jump up and take arms on that subject subject. Now if some say "YOU" (referring DIRECTLY to me and start talking crazy then it's NO LONGER a generalization and I WILL take arms. But NEVER to defend those who are responsible for this negative image being cast on me.
So I DO understand BOTH sides.
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
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Now if some say "YOU" (referring DIRECTLY to me and start talking crazy then it's NO LONGER a generalization
I usually just ignore people when they start making generalizations aimed directly at me... for instance based on their experience I must be "this" or "that"... when in fact they don't know me as a person and their generalization about me is false in my opinion.
However, once someone comes to such conclusion it's really difficult to get them off your back.
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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I will take it personally when you attack me, calling me bitter and b*tch, when Dark and I were having quite a civilized conversation until you came back into it today.
I didn't call you one. Believe me if I had your responses would be much different deaf!
I SAID you was ACTING bitter, catty and b*tchy bcuz in my OPINION you was. You didn't have to be so snappy smart assed about it but you did. All you had to say is "I don't like being called baby!" Not talk all that shit Cmon and be adult about this.
You came IN HERE with your preconceived ideologies about me Gable and enigma and it spilled out when you responded to me like I just sexually felt up your mom. If you felt that we were such horrible, women hating MONSTERS then why come in here?
To cause problems, pull your claws out, argue, battle, run off at your mouth or degrade yourself when you could just left it alone. Other women are in here posting, we're agreeing and disagreeing but getting along just fine. Why you're the only only woman in here looking for a fight? ??
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deaf_heart
Killeen, TX
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a lot if assumption going on in your last post to me.
You assume that telling a person they are acting like something and telling them they in fact are that thing are two entirely different things. They aren't. You assume that I was upset when I made a request that you do not use pet names, I just wanted to make you aware of your lack of respect. You assume my notions are preconceived when in fact they are based on prior "run ins" with them above named. You assume I knew who created this thread prior to opening it. Finally, you assume I was in here looking for a fight simply because I posted my response to the original post and then responded again with intellectual, non-bashing, conversation. Though I was not afford the same respect.
As you can see, your assumptions are wrong, much like many of the generalizations I have seen you make over the last couple of years.
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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Well the Dept of B*tches (DOB) which is a subsidiary of the "Faggot and Maggot" Coalition for spineless men (F&M) says....
It is true for the 'slime rate of bleeding asses' not the total of you d*ck riders.
Nasty ass, spineless muf**kas who live boots and eat female feces are 150%
"Real Men" -100%
But there 75-100 times more spineless muf**kas whos castrated by women and Gov't
So the rate of boot licking, a** sucking, shit eating and acting feminine is much much higher by f*ggedy ass, d*ck riding maggot like yourself than real men.
If you don't believe then LOOK UP you maggot muf**ka!
The reason why there are so many black males in prison is because they
can't control their abusive and violent tempers.
When are you going back?
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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The reason why there are so many black males in prison is because they
can't control their abusive and violent tempers.
When are you going back?
stay in your lane....
amateur
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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The reason why there are so many black males in prison is because they
can't control their abusive and violent tempers....
...towards punk a** b*tches like yourself. Who the very words "Black Man" makes you shit yourself. If you haven't already done so from your Bleeding Ass gaping WIDE open from all those black d*cks you enjoy riding.
Do you truly think you're bothering someone with this "Black men are violent" bullshit?? All you're accomplishing is proving everyone RIGHT about how much of a b*tch you really are and you'd NEVER say that shit you talk in person.
Which verifies WHY you hide even when online. You're not a man or any version of one. This is why at 55-56yrs old you can't get women bcuz (by your words) YOU ACT TOO CHILDISH! You're sweet as a Walmart sheet cake and think you're getting to someone.
Sit down b*tch! ??
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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a lot if assumption going on in your last post to me.
You assume that telling a person they are acting like something and telling them they in fact are that thing are two entirely different things. They aren't. You assume that I was upset when I made a request that you do not use pet names, I just wanted to make you aware of your lack of respect. You assume my notions are preconceived when in fact they are based on prior "run ins" with them above named. You assume I knew who created this thread prior to opening it. Finally, you assume I was in here looking for a fight simply because I posted my response to the original post and then responded again with intellectual, non-bashing, conversation. Though I was not afford the same respect.
As you can see, your assumptions are wrong, much like many of the generalizations I have seen you make over the last couple of years.
You went on for a whole SMART A** paragraph about your name. All that stupid b*tch shit about "If you ever tell me your real name" wasn't necessary. All you had to say was "don't call me baby" and it woulda been done.
And I'm not assuming SHIT! I expressed my opinion about how you addressed me NOT the fact THAT you addressed me. WHAT? Do think you can deny me my opinion bcuz YOU don't like it? What's next my soul? Who the f**k are you Satan??
The FACT that you came in here with negative thoughts about me, Gable and enigma dictated your intent which was shown in your paragraph about your. I don't give a rats a** what you call it, how you define or where you got it from. It brought you in HERE with your a** on your back. And like I said before... If that how you felt then why bring your a** in here with all that negativity?
I don't remember having any words with you or even knowing you PRIOR to this post unless it was with alternate profiles you have u nder other names. But I don't LOVE YOU or any other acting bitter and disturbed to be remembering y'all ANYWAY.
So deaf!!! If it's so unpleasant for you being here that you gotta be going off bcuz of some "prior run ins" as you call it, then do us both a favor. ??
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
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Damn he mad AF
Stupid n**ger, hurry up and die so we can have a party!!!
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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You two are a hoot.
It was not an attack when I "respectfully requested" you to not call me baby. Moreover, the term baby when used with a person of the opposite sex is a term of endearment. (There's a generalization for you.)
The definition of GENERALIZATION does not once say that it is the polled opinion of the masses. Here is the official definition:
Definitions of
generalization
n the process of formulating general concepts by abstracting common properties of instances
n reasoning from detailed facts to general principles
n response learned to one stimulus to a similar stimulus
n an idea or conclusion having general application
It also starts the page saying the following:
Taking something specific and applying it more broadly is making a generalization. It's a generalization to say all dogs chase squirrels. A generalization is taking one or a few facts and making a broader, more universal statement. If all the girls you know play with dolls, you might make the generalization that all girls play with dolls. Scientists try to make generalizations based on research — the more data they have, the more accurate the generalization. Generalizations can be similar to stereotypes in that they are sometimes wrong and harmful. Usually, it's best to stick with specifics and avoid generalizations.
How am I a hoot
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deaf_heart
Killeen, TX
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When you said:
Quote from dark_gable0585:
ok I see you saying that I'm being bias can you please explain why
I said:
not being, as in presently. I have seen you make many a biased and generalised statement about "women".
Bias is not just bad. It is a prejudice in favor of or against; usually in a way considered to be unfair.
Then you asked:
Quote from dark_gable0585: @heart can you give me an example where I'm being bias
And I replied:
Quote from deaf_heart: and while you say "in general" in this generalization, it is still a biased opinion based on people you personally know.
And yes, I had to go look at your post to find it because it isn't like I keep notes or tabs on people I am not a parent of.
Then when I_got_attitude came back in you say:
Quote from dark_gable0585:and she didn't explain why.....its like me calling you a b*tch(just a example)...you asked why did i called you that and I say "oh it's because of what you said" it doesn't make any sense
That is, in part, why you are a hoot. Couple that with you bringing up "shame tactics" when I stated a person who states they are not one in the same as a generalization is not due to guilty conscious.
Are there shifty, shitty, women out there? Most definitely. Can you truthfully generalize, with implication to the majority, that they are only after a man's money or government handouts? No. I have encounter many a woman not like that, myself included. Though I can agree I too have encountered many a woman as you describe.
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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When you said:
Quote from dark_gable0585:
ok I see you saying that I'm being bias can you please explain why
I said:
not being, as in presently. I have seen you make many a biased and generalised statement about "women".
Bias is not just bad. It is a prejudice in favor of or against; usually in a way considered to be unfair.
Then you asked:
Quote from dark_gable0585: @heart can you give me an example where I'm being bias
And I replied:
Quote from deaf_heart: and while you say "in general" in this generalization, it is still a biased opinion based on people you personally know.
And yes, I had to go look at your post to find it because it isn't like I keep notes or tabs on people I am not a parent of.
Then when I_got_attitude came back in you say:
Quote from dark_gable0585:and she didn't explain why.....its like me calling you a b*tch(just a example)...you asked why did i called you that and I say "oh it's because of what you said" it doesn't make any sense
That is, in part, why you are a hoot. Couple that with you bringing up "shame tactics" when I stated a person who states they are not one in the same as a generalization is not due to guilty conscious.
Are there shifty, shitty, women out there? Most definitely. Can you truthfully generalize, with implication to the majority, that they are only after a man's money or government handouts? No. I have encounter many a woman not like that, myself included. Though I can agree I too have encountered many a woman as you describe.
Do you have an experience on dating a woman before
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deaf_heart
Killeen, TX
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Yes, actually I do
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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Yes, actually I do
then you should know what we men are talking about
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deaf_heart
Killeen, TX
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As I said, I've encountered both sides of the proverbial coin. Which is why I do my best not to generalize an entire gender, race, or group. I also use quantifying words.
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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As I said, I've encountered both sides of the proverbial coin. Which is why I do my best not to generalize an entire gender, race, or group. I also use quantifying words.
and as I said....genralization doesn't have any negative connotation....you wanted to think that....we can agree to disagree and disagree to agree
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deaf_heart
Killeen, TX
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When the generalization is "single moms are only after their baby daddies paycheck" or "single moms choose not to work because they get more money from the state and/or the baby daddy" or even "women want their man to pay for everything but don't want to put in the effort at home to keep him happy" they are negative. Where is the positive in that.
Generalization itself does not have to be negative, I agree. But the generalizations, as point out by I_got_attitude, that get the most flack are of the negative persuasion.
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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When the generalization is "single moms are only after their baby daddies paycheck" or "single moms choose not to work because they get more money from the state and/or the baby daddy" or even "women want their man to pay for everything but don't want to put in the effort at home to keep him happy" they are negative. Where is the positive in that.
Generalization itself does not have to be negative, I agree. But the generalizations, as point out by I_got_attitude, that get the most flack are of the negative persuasion.
see....you want him to respect you but you doing the calling out of his name....come on let's be adults here
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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then you should know what we men are talking about
I'm sorry bruh but that's not true! Her sexual experiences with a woman or two is from a WOMAN'S perspective, through a WOMAN'S eyes and about what a WOMEN expects. NOT from, as or about what MAN sees and expects.
Her licking up on other women makes her NO CLOSER to understanding or knowing what a man needs in his relationship NO MOTE than a man wanting to stay home and be a home maker means he understands what it's like to be PREGNANT!
The proof to what I'm saying is [b%]deaf[*/b] start talking about being bias and unfair to women. If she had a f**king CLUE as to how Bias and Unfair this govt, legal system, women and society in general is toward men she wouldn't open her mouth to say some shit like that.
She's probably the type that'll say "If a woman puts her hands on a man and he knock her on her a** then HES ERONG, SHES THE VICTIM and he should go to jail while she go back to live in HIS house.
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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I'm sorry bruh but that's not true! Her sexual experiences with a woman or two is from a WOMAN'S perspective, through a WOMAN'S eyes and about what a WOMEN expects. NOT from, as or about what MAN sees and expects.
Her licking up on other women makes her NO CLOSER to understanding or knowing what a man needs in his relationship NO MOTE than a man wanting to stay home and be a home maker means he understands what it's like to be PREGNANT!
The proof to what I'm saying is [b%]deaf[*/b] start talking about being bias and unfair to women. If she had a f**king CLUE as to how Bias and Unfair this govt, legal system, women and society in general is toward men she wouldn't open her mouth to say some shit like that.
She's probably the type that'll say "If a woman puts her hands on a man and he knock her on her a** then HES ERONG, SHES THE VICTIM and he should go to jail while she go back to live in HIS house.
you right
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
online now!
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So another thread about finding someone to challenge your Godly authority
and when 'how dare they' they do you get to make up all kinds of shit about
them and textually abuse them.
How original
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deaf_heart
Killeen, TX
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Yes, I did disrespect. It was out of line and I apologize.
As for the comment about hitting each other ... I am of firm belief that if a woman hits a man like another man would (with fists) he has every right to hit her back the same. However, because the legal system is typically unfair about abuse in this situation, the man should do what is in his best interest, which most often would be to get the hell out of the area and make the call himself. But far to many men think pridefully and get stuck with the bad rap of it all.
But this topic didn't have anything to do with abuse or sexuality and everything to do with GENERALIZATION. It just got brought to light to try and justify the half truths you are trying to preach.
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
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DAT F**KIN" GORGEOUS ASS!!!!
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dr_i_got_answer
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When the generalization is "single moms are only after their baby daddies paycheck" or "single moms choose not to work because they get more money from the state and/or the baby daddy" or even "women want their man to pay for everything but don't want to put in the effort at home to keep him happy" they are negative. Where is the positive in that.
Generalization itself does not have to be negative, I agree. But the generalizations, as point out by I_got_attitude, that get the most flack are of the negative persuasion.
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for proving my point deaf. I KNEW one of your rants would confirm what I said ALL ALONG!
EOMEN ONLY HAVE A PROBLEM WHEN IT POINTS OUT THE NEGATIVE SHIT THEY DO! If I said "Women are the backbones of our entire society" or "Single mom's carry more weight on their shoulder than a man ever could" or "A woman can do ANYTHING a man can do if not better" (which is absolutely bullshit) WOMEN HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH THOSE GENERALIZATIONS bcuz they give PROPS, CREDITS AND COMPLIMENTS!!!
So I called your WHOLE ARGUMENT before you even know I made the damn thread. Which makes me a God or it simply means I KNOW what I'm talking about. You can choose which one suits you best. But you and NO OTHER WOMAN can or will redefine what a generalization is based on your likes, dislikes, feelings and emotions which you seem to be VERY caught up in.
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
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Doc, you redefined feminism to suit your own emotional needs.
Your thread is more about your own hypocrisy than generalizations.
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6/26/2017 4:37:28 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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So another thread about finding someone to challenge your Godly authority
and when 'how dare they' they do you get to make up all kinds of shit about
them and textually abuse them.
How original
1. Do you believe everything you read in a book??
2. Do you believe anything the gov't says without question??
3. Have you EVER disagreed with WOMEN or expressed an opinion that WOMEN wouldn't like on a serious subject in this forum??
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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Doc, you redefined feminism to suit your own emotional needs.
Your thread is more about your own hypocrisy than generalizations.
. Do you believe everything you read in a book??
2. Do you believe anything the gov't says without question??
3. Have you EVER disagreed with WOMEN or expressed an opinion that WOMEN wouldn't like on a serious subject in this forum??
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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Doc, you redefined feminism to suit your own emotional needs.
Your thread is more about your own hypocrisy than generalizations.
look it here...a textbook simp
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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So another thread about finding someone to challenge your Godly authority
and when 'how dare they' they do you get to make up all kinds of shit about
them and textually abuse them.
How original simp hush....grown folks are talking
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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1. Do you believe everything you read in a book??
2. Do you believe anything the gov't says without question??
3. Have you EVER disagreed with WOMEN or expressed an opinion that WOMEN wouldn't like on a serious subject in this forum??
1) No, the bible is unbelievable
2) No, I am a natural skeptic. Even with scientific claims.
3) Yes, Abortion. I even got blocked by a few women too.
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deaf_heart
Killeen, TX
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Oh my. Now I am confused. The premise of the thread was ...
1.Generalization does not mean all.
I agreed.
2. Guilty conscious is had by those who disagree with a generalization because they have been "called out".
I disagree, on the basis that some who disagree would rather not be lumped into the generalization.
3. Hypocrisy is a tactic used by people of a guilty concious as a sud attack.
Again I disagree, while hypocrisy is alive and well it is the act of saying on thing and doing another. It .isn't a tactic of a guilty conconcious. And it isn't argue with the good, but not the bad.
No where in any of that was that the implied premise of the thread that women don't argue the good but they do the bad. As for the generalization that women will take the good and fight the bad ... have you never disagreed with a boss on an evaluation because you felt it was not quite what you deserved. If you have, then you are biased in your generalization of your own accord ... But truth be told men will argue the negative generalizations as well.
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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Oh my. Now I am confused. The premise of the thread was ...
1.Generalization does not mean all.
I agreed.
2. Guilty conscious is had by those who disagree with a generalization because they have been "called out".
I disagree, on the basis that some who disagree would rather not be lumped into the generalization.
3. Hypocrisy is a tactic used by people of a guilty concious as a sud attack.
Again I disagree, while hypocrisy is alive and well it is the act of saying on thing and doing another. It .isn't a tactic of a guilty conconcious. And it isn't argue with the good, but not the bad.
No where in any of that was that the implied premise of the thread that women don't argue the good but they do the bad. As for the generalization that women will take the good and fight the bad ... have you never disagreed with a boss on an evaluation because you felt it was not quite what you deserved. If you have, then you are biased in your generalization of your own accord ... But truth be told men will argue the negative generalizations as well.
ok...we all agree to disagree with you....lets move on
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rightguyforu732
Lisle, IL
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Do we have a problem, Gable?
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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Do we have a problem, Gable?
yes...you're a stalker
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cruesin
Rockaway, NJ
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You just touched upon the basis of this thread...
I don't give A RATS A** what society thinks. I ONLY respect the recorded definitions of words we use to communicate when the "Actions" put forth supports the definitions. When the actions NO LONGER support the definition then it's pure BULLSHIT!
Like when feminist say "We're all about EQUAL RIGHTS!" But push to pass laws to keep men from their children, pay for kids that are NOT biologically his AND pass laws so women can put their hands on him without him defending himself against a woman's assaults.
See THATS when I have NO respect and REFUSE to support the written definition.
But in here you WILL get bashed just for NOT being a follower, NOT worshipping Gov't and for being a free thinker.
Well I believe myself to be a feminist based on the definition of the term. However, the societal connotation of a feminist is totally different. The word is also one that's outdated and barely necessary in today's society.
My view on respecting others....I guess that all I can say is I try to be understanding because I haven't walked everyday of their lives in their shoes. Not everyone approaches things with an open mind and in writing I believe many things get taken out of context.
I've now seen you try to be reasonable with multiple posters and i don't see that same respect given back to you.
I think that many people think if you start a thread that you are a believer in the topic you chose. I don't see threads that way. I have often made threads in a very generic way and have been attacked because it's believed I agree or disagree with the topic. Often im just curious as to public opinion. I find you are the same. That's a guess though and just my opinion.
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cruesin
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Ok ok well tell me this...
What's the difference between a stereotype and generalization?? Bcuz stereotypes are based off the same premise. It's just that the words stereotype is MOSTLY in negative scenarios and Generalizations are MOSTLY used without malicious intent.
Generalizations are CLSIMED to be used maliciously by women when they're hearing something "They Don't Like!"
Well, generalizing may not be said with malice in most cases but they can offend just as easily as a stereotype.
I suppose if someone fits the generalizational mold that's been either created or a historical norm perhaps it doesn't make any difference.
Every person has a unique identity and I can't think of a generalization that defines each of us (meaning any gender, race, geographical location, religion, career, education or socio-economic status, etc) correctly. There are exceptions to every rule. As time passes those rules change as well.
When people say "women don't want sex" or "men are cheaters" etc. It doesn't offend me but I wonder how many reading truly believe it to be the case. Are they now justified in their incorrect approach to women or men? Do they go into their next encounter with that impression already made?
I think if we understand not everyone of any one group are the same, perhaps we should communicate as such and stop. generalizing.
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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Well, generalizing may not be said with malice in most cases but they can offend just as easily as a stereotype.
I suppose if someone fits the generalizational mold that's been either created or a historical norm perhaps it doesn't make any difference.
Every person has a unique identity and I can't think of a generalization that defines each of us (meaning any gender, race, geographical location, religion, career, education or socio-economic status, etc) correctly. There are exceptions to every rule. As time passes those rules change as well.
When people say "women don't want sex" or "men are cheaters" etc. It doesn't offend me but I wonder how many reading truly believe it to be the case. Are they now justified in their incorrect approach to women or men? Do they go into their next encounter with that impression already made?
I think if we understand not everyone of any one group are the same, perhaps we should communicate as such and stop. generalizing.
generalizing is not negative....stereotyping is
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cruesin
Rockaway, NJ
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That's not true, dark.
A stereotype is a generalization ...
It's almost impossible to generalize without stereotyping and it's not always positive. Its not used correctly by most as it is simply a view point that can be disproved. A stereotype even when disproved the proof is ignored.
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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That's not true, dark.
A stereotype is a generalization ...
It's almost impossible to generalize without stereotyping and it's not always positive. Its not used correctly by most as it is simply a view point that can be disproved. A stereotype even when disproved the proof is ignored.
lol let's agree to disagree and disagree to agree.....i don't think there are the same and you said different.....
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cruesin
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That's cool. I just don't see how generalizing, without making it clear it's based on ones viewpoint is positive but so be it. No big thing
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Mercedes_3
New South Wales
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Come on smile and show us those slimy grey gums
you sunken gilled dip shit
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Mercedes_3
New South Wales
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Come on smile and show us those slimy grey gums
you sunken gilled dip shit
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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Come on smile and show us those slimy grey gums
you sunken gilled dip shit hey hag.....you jelly
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dark_gable0585
Sacramento, CA
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That's cool. I just don't see how generalizing, without making it clear it's based on ones viewpoint is positive but so be it. No big thing
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cruesin
Rockaway, NJ
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I mean cuz people here are negative. Real life maybe I could see it at times not being a negative thing. I'm not sure people here know the difference between generalizing and stereotyping. Its not an enormous difference
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