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6/18/2017 2:40:50 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

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6/18/2017 3:11:12 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dark_gable0585
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I agree with all of it because if you think about it all roll into one conclusion....women in general is afraid to take up the responsibility and put that on us because we're men....and they wonder why is men don't respect them because of their actions.....and I blame them for simps because simps plays the same game

6/18/2017 4:24:34 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

lucky_1million
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Hmm... I usually try not to make generalizations, although I am sure that I am guilty of slipping up every once in a while.

I try to qualify my statements with "some" or I point out that these are characteristics that both men and women have... or I use a general term like "people"...nobody is immune from the behavior. Sometimes I use specific examples of people I know who are this way rather than make a generalized statement.

I wouldn't want someone to think that I am implying that all men are or all women are this way and that I am including them in my generalization... when obviously they are not that way. Likewise... I certainly do not think ALL people are this way or that way.

I realize that people can be defensive when generalized statements are made.

Maybe it's part of collective-guilt even if it doesn't apply to you.

I don't know if it is always a guilty conscious. Sometimes people are offended.

6/18/2017 5:08:45 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

packersbabe920
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Generalized, disagree cause not all do it


Guilty Conscience, agree i see to much in this thread

Hypocrisy, agree, see that also

6/18/2017 5:58:11 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from packersbabe920:
Generalized, disagree cause not all do it


Guilty Conscience, agree i see to much in this thread

Hypocrisy, agree, see that also
but he didn't say all...generalization doesn't mean all....it means a general statement

6/18/2017 8:42:29 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

pickygirl72
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I generally like peanut butter and jelly.

I am guilty of loving chocolate at midnight.

Hypocrisy is between hypochrondria and hypocrite.

6/18/2017 9:15:19 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from pickygirl72:
I generally like peanut butter and jelly.

I am guilty of loving chocolate at midnight.

Hypocrisy is between hypochrondria and hypocrite.
and you see why nobody respects you....stay on topic

6/18/2017 9:54:09 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

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Quote from dark_gable0585:
but he didn't say all...generalization doesn't mean all....it means a general statement




I'm saying it

6/18/2017 10:31:35 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from packersbabe920:
I'm saying it
but how can you say it if you know the word doesnt mean all

6/19/2017 4:40:39 AM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

bumblebee7
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
but how can you say it if you know the word doesnt mean all


Because to her... maybe it does mean all.

The op asked if you agreed that it doesn't mean all... maybe she doesn't agree with that statement.



[Edited 6/19/2017 4:43:53 AM ]

6/19/2017 4:49:59 AM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

bumblebee7
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In my own views, I would say there are times when what the Doc. said is true, but not all the time....it depends on the person and the situation.

If a person starts out saying in general women or men do this or that...then I take it as they meant most, but not all....vs. if they say men or women do this or that...then I take it as they mean all men or women.

as for the second part...sometimes this is true and sometimes they are just defending their gender or pointing out that they took it as you meant all, and they don't feel it applies to all.

as for the third part, again that applies at times, other times...perhaps not.

6/19/2017 6:41:58 AM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

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Quote from packersbabe920:
I'm saying it


And that's the point I'm making. Look... women (much more so than men) say communication is key, right? But how are we suppose to communicate if you're [b%] redefining, turning and twisting what I AM SAYING into something that it's not??

That's like you telling a man he needs to stop drinking so and spend more time with his family and he say to you "How you gonna say I hate my family and don't care if my kids live or DIE! You'd be like WTF?? "When did I say that??

You wouldn't like it if it was done to you. And when ask "Why don't men wanna just sit and talk anymore?" It's bcuz of that illogic y'all bring and twisting everything into a battle. YES I SAID BATTLE bcuz nobody's gonna just sit there and let someone put words in their mouth.

THAT SHIT IS WRONG ! Pure and simple But women have been doing it for so long now that it's "normal" to them and see either REFUSE or are INCAPABLE of understanding that.

6/19/2017 6:57:31 AM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

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Quote from bumblebee7:
Because to her... maybe it does mean all.

The op asked if you agreed that it doesn't mean all... maybe she doesn't agree with that statement.


Yeah but I also said LOOK IT UP too now didn't I?? My asking if you agree was only to separate those who believe it means all from those who don't. NOT to imply it's ok to CHANGE THE MEANING of generalizations.

It's NOT ok and it's being used by women as a defense tactic to avoid responsibility. Just like when men use to say "It's a Man Thing" or "It's a D*ck Thing" as a defense tactic when asked why they cheated.

It's BULLSHIT! And rather f**king aggravating when you're trying to have a grown up conversation with grown muf**kas in their 30's-70's and they're resorting to this nonsense?? How??

6/19/2017 3:59:48 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

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Quote from bumblebee7:
Because to her... maybe it does mean all.

The op asked if you agreed that it doesn't mean all... maybe she doesn't agree with that statement.



Exactly bee

6/19/2017 4:01:14 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

mylegsarecold
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
and you see why nobody respects you....stay on topic

I respect her.

6/19/2017 4:07:49 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

packersbabe920
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Come on now, we all have different opinions everybody not gonna agree with each and it doesn't mean u have to quote someone because the opinions are different, i am not into bashing men on here or argue cause someone opinion is not what i expected

6/19/2017 4:13:14 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

mylegsarecold
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Quote from dr_i_got_answer:
And that's the point I'm making. Look... women (much more so than men) say communication is key, right? But how are we suppose to communicate if you're [b%] redefining, turning and twisting what I AM SAYING into something that it's not??
...

But... that is what you keep doing when you redefine feminism as
anything negative a woman has done or may possible do in the future.

I guess that sentence will also cover the 'hypocrisy' on your part too.

Why such a cryptic way of picking on Kandy with this thread? Why don't
you just call her a bunch of derogatory names like you will do to me?

Maybe it shows you have a Guilty Consciences.

6/19/2017 5:01:14 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

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Quote from mylegsarecold:
I respect her.
and she cheated on you

6/19/2017 11:48:31 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

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Quote from packersbabe920:
Exactly bee


Ok so if you agree with Bee when he says "maybe to HER it means ALL" that's fine bcuz you have every right to imply whatever YOU choose when YOU'RE speaking, RIGHT? Bcuz I have NO control over what words ppl use or what meaning they put behind them.

Then it's absolutely done out of MALICE when you FORCE your implications on others then, Right? Isn't it YOU trying to control someone else's words or meaning when YOU superimpose and FORCE your meanings on others?

Let's be fair if nothing else! True or False??

6/19/2017 11:55:51 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

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Quote from myassisbleeding:
I respect her.


And we all know why too.



Oh get some toilet tissue and her shit from around your mouth.



Nevermind! You'll just lick it off!

6/20/2017 9:26:06 AM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from packersbabe920:
Come on now, we all have different opinions everybody not gonna agree with each and it doesn't mean u have to quote someone because the opinions are different, i am not into bashing men on here or argue cause someone opinion is not what i expected
yes you're right.....
We all have different opinions but at the same time doc already explained what generalization means and yet you still think that the word means all....we wasn't bashing we just saying that you're wrong....

6/20/2017 10:53:36 AM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dr_i_got_answer
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Quote from packersbabe920:
Come on now, we all have different opinions everybody not gonna agree with each and it doesn't mean u have to quote someone because the opinions are different, i am not into bashing men on here or argue cause someone opinion is not what i expected


I agree 100% with what you said about opinions! That's RIGHT! Can't argue with that baby.

BUT THIS IS NOT ABOUT OPINIONS BABY! Opinions ARE NOT about on facts and opinions DO NOT have definitions that can be looked up either! So saying that a generalization means *All" is just PLUMB F**KING WRONG!

Bcuz it DO have a specific meaning and definition that CAN be verified. Now if I'm wrong, prove me wrong... LOOK IT UP then come back and tell me that "A generalizations means someone's opinion. Then I will respectfully bow out.

Oh and applies to ANYONE IN HERE too. Look it up and prove to me that generalizations ARE NOT what I said they but based on ppls opinions and I'll respectfully bow out.

6/20/2017 11:22:44 AM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

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Quote from dr_i_got_answer:
I agree 100% with what you said about opinions! That's RIGHT! Can't argue with that baby.

BUT THIS IS NOT ABOUT OPINIONS BABY! Opinions ARE NOT about on facts and opinions DO NOT have definitions that can be looked up either! So saying that a generalization means *All" is just PLUMB F**KING WRONG!

Bcuz it DO have a specific meaning and definition that CAN be verified. Now if I'm wrong, prove me wrong... LOOK IT UP then come back and tell me that "A generalizations means someone's opinion. Then I will respectfully bow out.

Oh and applies to ANYONE IN HERE too. Look it up and prove to me that generalizations ARE NOT what I said they but based on ppls opinions and I'll respectfully bow out.


6/20/2017 12:55:56 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dr_i_got_answer
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
yes you're right.....
We all have different opinions but at the same time doc already explained what generalization means and yet you still think that the word means all....we wasn't bashing we just saying that you're wrong....


Exactly! This isn't about bashing (thou you may hear me bash "myassisbleeding bcuz I have Sub-Zero for that maggot muf**ka), this is about "Being about to communicate on a understandable level PBabe!

If I say "I love you" and you reply "kiss my a** and I hope you die" then I'm NOT interested in what your opinion that means. Even if you DO say Well to ME that means "I love you too! But if you continue to say that instead of "I love you too" fo you HONESTLY expect me to accept and believe that??

6/20/2017 1:15:29 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

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Quote from myassisbleeding:
But... that is what you keep doing when you redefine feminism as
anything negative a woman has done or may possible do in the future.

I guess that sentence will also cover the 'hypocrisy' on your part too.

Why such a cryptic way of picking on Kandy with this thread? Why don't
you just call her a bunch of derogatory names like you will do to me?

Maybe it shows you have a Guilty Consciences.


1. You want me to address your post about my view on feminism? After being a punk as b*tch and avoiding my questions after you get answers? Not this time you a** bleeding maggot. I'll address your post on feminism when you answer...

Do you believe everything written in a book...??

Do you believe everything the United Snakes gov't says...??

And...

Have you EVER openly disagreed with or expressed an opinion WOMEN wouldn't like on a "Serious Subject" here in DH...??


As far as Kandy is concerned I ABSOLUTELY DISAGREE with her opinions on the whole Black/White race issue. So far she disagreed NOT DISRESPECTED me. Just as Lake, Renee, scpiper, PBabe, Snatch and Lucky has and we're STILL COOL!

So much for your childish ass, b*tch ass, punk a** theory on me HATING ppl who disagree with me you f*ggedy a** maggot! Now duck MY questions AGAIN and prove me right AHAIN about how much of a p*ssy ass, shit eating spineless maggot you are.

6/20/2017 1:22:39 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from dr_i_got_answer:
Exactly! This isn't about bashing (thou you may hear me bash "myassisbleeding bcuz I have Sub-Zero for that maggot muf**ka), this is about "Being about to communicate on a understandable level PBabe!

If I say "I love you" and you reply "kiss my a** and I hope you die" then I'm NOT interested in what your opinion that means. Even if you DO say Well to ME that means "I love you too! But if you continue to say that instead of "I love you too" fo you HONESTLY expect me to accept and believe that??
like I said we agree to disagree with people who shows respect....but I'll never agree to disagree with people who has a malicious intent

6/20/2017 3:32:51 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

packersbabe920
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ok i can agree with what you and gable are saying see I'm not that hard

6/20/2017 3:37:36 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  
rightguyforu682
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^^^^^ hey mom

6/20/2017 3:49:19 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from rightguyforu682:
^^^^^ hey mom
get lost

6/20/2017 4:42:33 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

kandykayn
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Quote from mylegsarecold:
Why such a cryptic way of picking on Kandy with this thread?

Maybe it shows you have a Guilty Consciences.



6/20/2017 5:03:34 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

packersbabe920
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Quote from rightguyforu682:
^^^^^ hey mom




U almost 40 so i can't be your mom

6/20/2017 5:17:44 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from mylegsarecold:
But... that is what you keep doing when you redefine feminism as
anything negative a woman has done or may possible do in the future.

I guess that sentence will also cover the 'hypocrisy' on your part too.

Why such a cryptic way of picking on Kandy with this thread? Why don't
you just call her a bunch of derogatory names like you will do to me?

Maybe it shows you have a Guilty Consciences.
you probably wouldn't have guilty conscience if you act like a man.....
And stop simping

6/21/2017 12:59:14 AM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

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Quote from packersbabe920:
ok i can agree with what you and gable are saying see I'm not that hard


See I agree that communication is highly important. I see ppl redefining shit all day in here. Sometimes I see ppl arguing when they're BOTH are saying the exact same thing.

NOTHING GET RESOLVED LIKE THIS!

But I see miscommunication being used MORE to avoid issues and ducking responsibility more than anything and it's extremely disappointing. Especially when these SAME PPL make threads about "why men this" and "why men that!"

Bcuz these same women we meet in Walmart, on the job, at a concert, online, through a friend, etc.

6/21/2017 1:20:03 AM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

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Quote from dark_gable0585:
you probably wouldn't have guilty conscience if you act like a man.....
And stop simping


Stop simping!

This is best benefit of the doubt I can give myassisbleeding bcuz I know a few men just like him so I'm familiar with the actions...

A person can ONLY exhibit what they know. You can't speak Russian if you were never taught Russian right? You can't sing a song if you never learned the lyrics.

See myassisbleeding was NEVER TAUGHT a "Real Man's" behavior. How think, speak, respond and the God given duties of a msn. And never taught about God and his true purpose for even being created in the first place.

Just like american women/feminist are NOT taught what a "Real Woman" is, what her God given duties are or where her true beauty and strength comes from. All she knows is the gov't version of what a woman is and where her place is.

That's the kind of woman who raised myassisbleeding. He had NO Man/Role Model in the home so he ONLY had his mother, aunts and other to memic. That's why he talks, acts and use illogic like a b*tch bcuz that's all he had teaching him.

I'll bet he even walked like his a** is tucked in or with his a** heist up on his back to imply that's his best feature and enjoy being bent over.

6/21/2017 1:56:31 AM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

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Quote from dr_i_got_answer:
Stop simping!

This is best benefit of the doubt I can give myassisbleeding bcuz I know a few men just like him so I'm familiar with the actions...

A person can ONLY exhibit what they know. You can't speak Russian if you were never taught Russian right? You can't sing a song if you never learned the lyrics.

See myassisbleeding was NEVER TAUGHT a "Real Man's" behavior. How think, speak, respond and the God given duties of a msn. And never taught about God and his true purpose for even being created in the first place.

Just like american women/feminist are NOT taught what a "Real Woman" is, what her God given duties are or where her true beauty and strength comes from. All she knows is the gov't version of what a woman is and where her place is.

That's the kind of woman who raised myassisbleeding. He had NO Man/Role Model in the home so he ONLY had his mother, aunts and other to memic. That's why he talks, acts and use illogic like a b*tch bcuz that's all he had teaching him.

I'll bet he even walked like his a** is tucked in or with his a** heist up on his back to imply that's his best feature and enjoy being bent over.
His dad would've been ashamed

6/21/2017 2:40:31 AM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

teigeasaurus
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I agree with all three of your points

The only part I disagree with is the percentage of people making comments are doing it because they are saying it out of a guilty conscience or hypocrisy. Sometimes people just think that when you are writing threads that a generalization means ALL. I think that sometimes they are basically saying the same things as others. but in a different way. Sometimes they say things because they are speaking only about themselves and it does not apply to them. This is something you touched when you wrote 95%, but I believe the percentage of people that are with good intentions is much higher than the 5%.

6/21/2017 2:30:29 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from teigeasaurus:
I agree with all three of your points

The only part I disagree with is the percentage of people making comments are doing it because they are saying it out of a guilty conscience or hypocrisy. Sometimes people just think that when you are writing threads that a generalization means ALL. I think that sometimes they are basically saying the same things as others. but in a different way. Sometimes they say things because they are speaking only about themselves and it does not apply to them. This is something you touched when you wrote 95%, but I believe the percentage of people that are with good intentions is much higher than the 5%.
that's why me, doc, and enigma are hates because the same hypocrites are afraid that they have been exposed (hence guilty conscience) so they do what would a bully would do....tried to punk somebody

6/21/2017 2:36:49 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  
4uijack
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Did any of you niggas pass English grammar or are you in an identity crisis, not wanting to be detected?

6/21/2017 2:42:14 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from 4uijack:
Did any of you niggas pass English grammar or are you in an identity crisis, not wanting to be detected?
say that shit in Cali....coward

6/21/2017 2:48:54 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  
4uijack
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What, is that a country filled with bad asses?

6/21/2017 3:11:16 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

kandykayn
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Quote from 4uijack:
Did any of you niggas pass English grammar or are you in an identity crisis, not wanting to be detected?
Stop the ghetto behavior it is quite embarrassing for you to be hoping around like a wild cave man.

Calm down

6/21/2017 3:12:11 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from 4uijack:
What, is that a country filled with bad asses?
go over there and find out

6/21/2017 3:36:10 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dr_i_got_answer
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Quote from teigeasaurus:
I agree with all three of your points

The only part I disagree with is the percentage of people making comments are doing it because they are saying it out of a guilty conscience or hypocrisy. Sometimes people just think that when you are writing threads that a generalization means ALL. I think that sometimes they are basically saying the same things as others. but in a different way. Sometimes they say things because they are speaking only about themselves and it does not apply to them. This is something you touched when you wrote 95%, but I believe the percentage of people that are with good intentions is much higher than the 5%.


First let me say... EVERY SINGLE TIME someone accused me of saying "All" when I'm generalizing I make SURE they understand THAT IM NOT!!! By giving them the correct definition of what generalizations are. Guess what?? Not ONE of them came back to say they looked it up and I was WRONG about it's meaning.

Those EXACT SAME PPL still use that "All" bullshit when I generalize (even after my CONSTANT explanation of it's meaning) they only do it when RESPONSIBILITY IS BEING ASSIGNED!!! So why do they STFU about it when props and credits are given??

The HYPICRISY part comes in when THEY GENERALIZE THEIR GOT DAMN SELVES!!! If I say "women blah blah blah" and they accuse me of say "ALL" even AFTER I explain it doesn't mean that.... THEN turn right around themselves and say "But MEN blah blah blah" either mean that THEY ARE SAYING "ALL" MEN which makes them wrong as a muf**ka or they're NOT saying "ALL" which makes then f**king hypicrites for bashing me about it.

True or false??

6/21/2017 3:50:48 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dr_i_got_answer
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Quote from 4uijack:
Did any of you niggas pass English grammar or are you in an identity crisis, not wanting to be detected?


Shouldn't you be home f**king YOU MOTHER or letting her swallow YOUR load??

Or giving some black guy head so you can swallow his??

Or going to Australia to be with Queen Maphroditi so you can get some p*ssy and d*ck at the same time??

F**king Jackoff a** weirdo!


Quote from Gable
His dad would've been ashamed


Both they're dads are probably sitting in a bar, having drinks, talking about how BOTH their mothers ain't shit and picking up bar flies to take to the hotel.

6/21/2017 4:24:56 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

packersbabe920
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Quote from dr_i_got_answer:
See I agree that communication is highly important. I see ppl redefining shit all day in here. Sometimes I see ppl arguing when they're BOTH are saying the exact same thing.

NOTHING GET RESOLVED LIKE THIS!

But I see miscommunication being used MORE to avoid issues and ducking responsibility more than anything and it's extremely disappointing. Especially when these SAME PPL make threads about "why men this" and "why men that!"

Bcuz these same women we meet in Walmart, on the job, at a concert, online, through a friend, etc.



Of course communication is the key

6/21/2017 5:45:17 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dr_i_got_answer
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Quote from kandykayn:
Stop the ghetto behavior it is quite embarrassing for you to be hoping around like a wild cave man.

Calm down


NO! What's embarrassing is running after and making sexual innuendos at a f**king Hermaphrodite mental patient who loves cartoon gay boys, don't know the difference between fantasy and reality and by law can NOT even consent to sex.

If anything tell his incestuous gay a** to stop that.

If you can pull him off HIS mother long enough to listen.

6/21/2017 5:59:26 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

driver406
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It's all white racism and TRUMP's fault, right OPie? He doesn't care if you blame as he likes the attention.

6/21/2017 6:04:16 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dark_gable0585
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@racist driver stay in your lane troll

6/21/2017 7:16:24 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  
4uijack
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Pathetic n**gers!

6/21/2017 7:41:43 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dark_gable0585
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@jack off you're too stupid to be a good bigot

6/21/2017 7:50:44 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  
4uijack
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Thanks for the compliment!
You know, you can go cut the grass or something. You don't have to stay on here , nobody's gonna steal your place!!



[Edited 6/21/2017 7:52:59 PM ]

6/21/2017 8:04:11 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dark_gable0585
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Wack

6/21/2017 9:33:26 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dr_i_got_answer
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Quote from packersbabe920:
Of course communication is the key


So if a man and his woman we're having an argument and she said to him "I REALLY don't feel like discussing this right now. I had a very hard day today and just need to sleep bcuz I'm stressed!" Would it be fair if he says "Oh that means to me that we're BROKE UP so now I'm free to have sex with whoever I choose!

How many women (including yourself) would say "Oh that's fair bcuz HE said... that's what it means to him?? I may be to most ppl a bit unorthodox with my "NO pacifying, NO bullshit, direct, putting truth before feeling" approach but my points are valid as hell.

Once you start making communication all about YOU instead of an "Across The Board" and universal unstanding... then you open the Doors for ANY and EVERYONE to interpret shit THEIR WAY until one of THEIR meaning bite YOU in the ass. That's when you say "Ok we need understanding that everyone communicates by! No more of my this, my that, my meaning shit!!!"

6/21/2017 9:39:55 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dr_i_got_answer
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Quote from driver406:
It's all white racism and TRUMP's fault, right OPie? He doesn't care if you blame as he likes the attention.


What the F**K does Trump, the presidency, gov't or politics have to with this you "Dukes of Hazzard" a** white racist pig?

Are you sexually attracted to Trump so much that you gotta include him in every conversation even those about baking some f**king cookies?

Give it a rest fool!

I don't do politics.

6/21/2017 11:50:39 PM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  
cruesin
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I don't think generalizations are positive nor is stereotyping. Yes, most people are aware it does not mean ALL but I feel it can be damaging considering most generalizations are negative ones. It discounts our individuality and give haters ammo to hate with. Jmo

6/22/2017 12:25:49 AM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from cruesin:
I don't think generalizations are positive nor is stereotyping. Yes, most people are aware it does not mean ALL but I feel it can be damaging considering most generalizations are negative ones. It discounts our individuality and give haters ammo to hate with. Jmo
it depends how someone can handle the truth....truths in general make haters afraid......
Are you going to please the hating masses or are you going to realized that you are not responsible for other's assumption

6/22/2017 12:38:27 AM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  
cruesin
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Not the point I was trying to make. I agree with it though.

Generalizing is an easy way for many people to escape taking responsibility for their own inefficiencies.

It's not very intelligent either because it's a statement for one person's viewpoint, one person should know that their experiences are too insignificant compared to the population, to be able to general based on it.

Its also very easy to make a self made generalization impossible to argue against just by adding 3 words before making the statement... "in my experience"

6/22/2017 12:50:42 AM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from cruesin:
Not the point I was trying to make. I agree with it though.

Generalizing is an easy way for many people to escape taking responsibility for their own inefficiencies.

It's not very intelligent either because it's a statement for one person's viewpoint, one person should know that their experiences are too insignificant compared to the population, to be able to general based on it.

Its also very easy to make a self made generalization impossible to argue against just by adding 3 words before making the statement... "in my experience"
you should also see that generalization has some accurate facts about a certain issue....like you said nobody likes that word because they thought it applies to them

6/22/2017 1:14:11 AM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  
cruesin
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Well, like what do you find positive? Profiling?

I mean it seems we don't gain much from it.

6/22/2017 1:52:00 AM Generalizations, Guilty Consciences and Hypocrisy!  

dark_gable0585
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Quote from cruesin:
Well, like what do you find positive? Profiling?

I mean it seems we don't gain much from it.
profiting is a stereotype