Finding Out After The Fact

7/28/2017 1:09:57 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014	This question is for Men and Women BOTH! It's kind of a little experiment and I'll say what about later. But the scenario is... You meet someone, the attraction is mutual, conversation is good, have good fun and many laughs when hanging out, you have common interest and the sex is like OMG! So everything seems good and normal on the surface. Then you find out through the craziest of coincidences that this person slept with your "Best Friend" or "Family Member" but before y'all met, of course. WOULD YOU STOP seeing that person all together? Or just not obligate yourself but keep hanging with them like before? After giving your answer most will say "It Depends!" If so on what? Would it depend on... 1. How many times they slept together... 2. If it violates any principles you live by... 3. Whether they were in a relationship or had feelings involved... 4. How good the sex was between them... 5. How LONG they were f**king... Or something else I haven't mention... Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
7/28/2017 1:18:54 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
purple_dawn73 Rome Italy 44, joined May. 2017	Hummm good question. Never happened to me so I don't really know. I would have to find myself in a real situation to be fully honest with my answer. But it sure would be a weird and difficult situation.
7/28/2017 1:25:58 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
sadlsticsienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 25, joined Jan. 2016 online now!	They're a slimy a**hole for not telling first. Needles to say, I'd not be sleeping with them that early in the first place. So this rubbish would come up first. I don't have any family or friends who could do this anyway so I'm safe Very cunning and manipulatice to not mention it first imo so I'd probably lose interest over it. Speaks a lot about their character
7/28/2017 1:35:15 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
purple_dawn73 Rome Italy 44, joined May. 2017	^ He said "you find out through the craziest of coincidences." So I am assuming he didn't know you were related in any form. At least that's how I understood the OP. [Edited 7/28/2017 1:35:33 PM ]
7/28/2017 1:38:03 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from purple_dawn73: Hummm good question. Never happened to me so I don't really know. I would have to find myself in a real situation to be fully honest with my answer. But it sure would be a weird and difficult situation. Fair enough. But you don't have any rules, principles, etc about those situations? I know for a fact women make packs and rules about dating each other's exes and stuff like that. Even though they break the HELL out of them but they still have them. Are you telling me you NEVER made that pact among friends, family or co-workers??;
7/28/2017 1:41:05 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from purple_dawn73: ^ He said "you find out through the craziest of coincidences." So I am assuming he didn't know you were related in any form. At least that's how I understood the OP. And you are absolutely correct. Never mind that retard. She's just here bcuz she craves me verbally abusing her.
7/28/2017 1:41:37 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
sadlsticsienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 25, joined Jan. 2016 online now!	Ew yuck. Like you'd date someone your best friend dated Or your sibling. Boundarieeees
7/28/2017 1:42:39 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
sadlsticsienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 25, joined Jan. 2016 online now!	Quote from dr_i_got_answer: And you are absolutely correct. Never mind that retard. She's just here bcuz she craves me verbally abusing her. Can't you come up with a scenario that isn't typical black problems lol
7/28/2017 1:52:31 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
Orchidea73 Apolinario SaraviaRome Italy 44, joined Aug. 2016	Quote from dr_i_got_answer: Fair enough. But you don't have any rules, principles, etc about those situations? I know for a fact women make packs and rules about dating each other's exes and stuff like that. Even though they break the HELL out of them but they still have them. Are you telling me you NEVER made that pact among friends, family or co-workers??; After a long reply I found out my pro was frozen, just for a change. So I am using my old back up pro. In short, sure I have my rules and principles. If you ask me now I would say that I would absolutely end the relationship with that person. But as I said I've never been in that situation. So it would be easy for me to say that. [Edited 7/28/2017 1:53:04 PM ]
7/28/2017 3:02:47 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
4uijack New Port Richey, FL 82, joined Aug. 2013	It wouldn't surprise me at all to find out ma boys been tappin' that old nasty mama of yours just like I hate to admit I be doing!!! Damn wh*re!!! Nigga problem tho!!!
7/28/2017 5:50:32 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
packersbabe920 Green Bay, WI 52, joined Jul. 2013	Never been in that predicament but but if they done had sex might as well continue dating cause that was before yall met and didn't know about it
7/28/2017 8:14:17 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
spotforusername Fernandina Beach, FL 51, joined Jan. 2013	For me personally your scenario would take some time. By the time I was to the point of wanting to be intimate with the man it would be very difficult for that sort of thing to be unknown. His name would have been brought up to her and/or hers to him. Also I live in a small damned town. Keeping things quiet around here is next to impossible.
7/28/2017 10:27:53 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 65, joined Oct. 2009	If you can't trust her why would you want to keep seeing her? A cheap slut is a penny a million in this country.
7/28/2017 11:00:20 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
urealysucklol San Benito, TX 45, joined Jul. 2014	Quote from dr_i_got_answer: This question is for Men and Women BOTH! It's kind of a little experiment and I'll say what about later. But the scenario is... You meet someone, the attraction is mutual, conversation is good, have good fun and many laughs when hanging out, you have common interest and the sex is like OMG! So everything seems good and normal on the surface. Then you find out through the craziest of coincidences that this person slept with your "Best Friend" or "Family Member" but before y'all met, of course. WOULD YOU STOP seeing that person all together? Or just not obligate yourself but keep hanging with them like before? After giving your answer most will say "It Depends!" If so on what? Would it depend on... 1. How many times they slept together... 2. If it violates any principles you live by... 3. Whether they were in a relationship or had feelings involved... 4. How good the sex was between them... 5. How LONG they were f**king... Or something else I haven't mention... Dam dude u think to much about Stupid shit!
7/28/2017 11:27:03 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
enigmaathand Leavittsburg, OH 36, joined Mar. 2013	As long as they are done and over with, I wouldn't really care too much. I have a really good friend, that has made it very clear I am never allowed to ever sleep with his ex, though. She got married years ago, and I haven't talked to her in many years, so I think he'll be ok.
7/29/2017 5:36:35 AM	Finding Out After The Fact
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 62, joined Apr. 2011 online now!	I figure this.. If they had been with a best friend or family member. Then I would have known about it beforehand and made a decision I could live with, before anything ever even happened.
7/29/2017 5:51:28 AM	Finding Out After The Fact
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 62, joined Apr. 2011 online now!	I will say this...if I thought that being with this person could offset the relation between me and this best friend or family member.... Its best to end it. Because this: You meet someone, the attraction is mutual, conversation is good, have good fun and many laughs when hanging out, you have common interest and the sex is like OMG! So everything seems good and normal on the surface. happens in the beginning to a lot of us, yet in the long run, things don't work out. Where as best friends and family members are here to stay....or more potentially so.
7/29/2017 11:53:27 AM	Finding Out After The Fact
lovethelake17 Henderson, NV 58, joined May. 2009	Well, say they dated in high school or college and now we're all in our 50's. To me, it would be as if they'd never dated because it was so long ago. It would no longer be relevant. But really, what a person did before me I can't really have a problem with. (I mean, like who he dated, not like who he killed or something.) If it was my best friend or a close family member, wouldn't I have known him through them? It wouldn't come as a surprise, right? Personally, I think he'd have more of a problem with it because he'd think we were talking about him and discussing his performance.
7/30/2017 12:42:12 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from Orchidea73: After a long reply I found out my pro was frozen, just for a change. So I am using my old back up pro. In short, sure I have my rules and principles. If you ask me now I would say that I would absolutely end the relationship with that person. But as I said I've never been in that situation. So it would be easy for me to say that. Well it's NEVER easy to do when there is an emotional attachment between you and the one you're seeing who's been with a friend or family member. But don't confuse easy for "necessary. Necessary is a word specifically designed to uplift "Better judgement" and "Doing the Right Thing" over your emotional deficiencies and weaknesses. I'm sure WE ALL feel it's easy to say when NOT actually in that position. So would it be safe to assume that you "Might" (not saying you will) make an ill decision in that situation if it seems too emotionally unbearable for you??
7/30/2017 4:52:46 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
4uijack New Port Richey, FL 82, joined Aug. 2013	It's safe to say that you're a f**kin' moron, OPie!!!
7/31/2017 6:20:52 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from lovethelake17: Well, say they dated in high school or college and now we're all in our 50's. To me, it would be as if they'd never dated because it was so long ago. It would no longer be relevant. But really, what a person did before me I can't really have a problem with. (I mean, like who he dated, not like who he killed or something.) If it was my best friend or a close family member, wouldn't I have known him through them? It wouldn't come as a surprise, right? Personally, I think he'd have more of a problem with it because he'd think we were talking about him and discussing his performance. Hey Lake! You made an interesting point about them dating in high school and that's why I added "would how long ago it's been matter?" But what if they dated in school but stayed in touch all this time?? Hmmm And when you say "what he did BEFORE meeting you doesnt matter" is it truthful? Bcuz if he slept with your best friend or sister just months before meetings you then that shouldn't matter either right? Granted if your friend or family member was in a committed relationship with him, bring him by on holidays, to the family cookouts, etc. But what if it was just sexual? Or she wanted more but he cheated and left after sleeping with her a few times so you never knew? Then what? Finally! Men really don't care if y'all talk about his performance AFTERWARDS bcuz he's ALREADY slept with both of you and had a GOOD TIME even if y'all didn't.
7/31/2017 6:24:54 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
4uijack New Port Richey, FL 82, joined Aug. 2013	That's what we think of your skank mama, OPie!!!
7/31/2017 8:06:56 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from bumblebee7: I figure this.. If they had been with a best friend or family member. Then I would have known about it beforehand and made a decision I could live with, before anything ever even happened. Like I told lake, you're assuming they may have been married, invited to ALL Family functions and seeing each other for years on end. If that was the case SURE you'd know them. But there are MANY differently scenarios under which you may NOT have known from one night stands to a few fks to getting cheated on to being the "other woman" or "other man" while THEY cheated. But REGARDLESS of which circumstance it is I made it clear, plain and simple that you DID NOT KNOW and found out AFTER you two were together. If it was a situation we're YOU KNEW then the thread would have no purpose. Unless I asked "Would you KNOWINGLY date someone a friend or family member slept with?** You see the difference now between knowing and NOT knowing? This is about NOT KNOWING for WHATEVER reason.
8/1/2017 8:33:08 AM	Finding Out After The Fact
Orchidea73 Apolinario SaraviaRome Italy 44, joined Aug. 2016	Quote from dr_i_got_answer: I'm sure WE ALL feel it's easy to say when NOT actually in that position. So would it be safe to assume that you "Might" (not saying you will) make an ill decision in that situation if it seems too emotionally unbearable for you?? I might or not. To quote Maester Aemon from Game of Thrones: "Oh, we all do our duty when there's no cost to it. Honor comes easy then." So, If I am to be completely honest, I can't possibly know now and be 100% sure about my choice, if I find myself in that situation. Which is quite intricate and have so many if's involved.
8/1/2017 8:36:06 AM	Finding Out After The Fact
cupocheer Assumption, IL 68, joined May. 2010
8/1/2017 12:07:28 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
bookwormtobutte Rio Rancho, NM 37, joined Jan. 2016	So that's never happened to me, so I can't say for sure. But if it was my sister or mom, I honestly don't think I could keep seeing them, it would just creep me out too much. I do have a rule of not dating my friends exes, but generally I know all my friends exes. So that usually wouldn't be a problem. But if it was a guy they only saw or slept with a few times. I'd probably talk to my friend about it, see if there are any red flags that I might of missed that they picked up on, and make sure it wouldn't create any drama between my friend and I, then go from there. If all is good, and she just wasn't really into him, I'd probably keep seeing him.
8/1/2017 12:35:35 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
mylegsarecold Gainesville, FL 55, joined May. 2011	I would simply explain to her that I now have to have sex with her sister, to even the mental angst out.
8/1/2017 1:00:25 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
cupocheer Assumption, IL 68, joined May. 2010	You ask stupid questions, OP.
8/1/2017 1:16:29 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
pickygirl72 Eagle, AK 46, joined Sep. 2011	I can't really answer this because I do not have a sister , my gal pals are married or in a relationship and my mom is married and really no cousins/aunts live near me. So this would probably never happen. [Edited 8/1/2017 1:17:25 PM ]
8/1/2017 9:24:57 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
4uijack New Port Richey, FL 82, joined Aug. 2013	Duh, what else do you expect from a moron?
8/2/2017 9:06:43 AM	Finding Out After The Fact
4uijack New Port Richey, FL 82, joined Aug. 2013	PROOF??? Where you hiding, nger? Didn't think so!!!! Fkin' stupid n**ger!!! YEEEEAAAAH BOIIIII!!!!
8/3/2017 6:09:53 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
4uijack New Port Richey, FL 82, joined Aug. 2013	Yo, n**ger, where you be at???
8/4/2017 7:10:08 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
4uijack New Port Richey, FL 82, joined Aug. 2013	Yo Yo, Nigga!!!! Where art thou????????????????????????????????????????????????
8/6/2017 3:29:00 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from Irealysuckass: Dam dude u think to much about Stupid shit! Dude!!! Instead of oral sexing MY thread make one of your own. Keep me out your mouth and reevaluate what's important to you in life. Fair enough??
8/16/2017 5:01:00 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
serendipity1301 Baltimore, MD 49, joined Feb. 2013	It's a small world. Since I live by the mello code I would have to speak to both and determine if there is still a connection. 3 is a crowd...
8/16/2017 5:49:18 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
gotheon123 Apex, NC 49, joined Jul. 2013	Quote from dr_i_got_answer: This question is for Men and Women BOTH! It's kind of a little experiment and I'll say what about later. But the scenario is... You meet someone, the attraction is mutual, conversation is good, have good fun and many laughs when hanging out, you have common interest and the sex is like OMG! So everything seems good and normal on the surface. Then you find out through the craziest of coincidences that this person slept with your "Best Friend" or "Family Member" but before y'all met, of course. WOULD YOU STOP seeing that person all together? Or just not obligate yourself but keep hanging with them like before? After giving your answer most will say "It Depends!" If so on what? Would it depend on... 1. How many times they slept together... 2. If it violates any principles you live by... 3. Whether they were in a relationship or had feelings involved... 4. How good the sex was between them... 5. How LONG they were f**king... Or something else I haven't mention... I'm assuming that when he and I first started seeing each other, he didn't know about the connection between me and his ex. I admit, for me, it would be a bit of an ewwww factor, but I could get past that and not let it interfere in my relationship with him. For me, I guess it would depend on if it would affect my relationship with the friend or family member. Meaning if continuing seeing him would hurt my friend/family member or hurt my relationship with them.
8/16/2017 6:07:36 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
gasparks La Fayette, GA 44, joined Mar. 2012	(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.) [Edited 8/16/2017 6:10:11 PM ]
8/16/2017 7:31:23 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
enigmaathand Leavittsburg, OH 36, joined Mar. 2013	Quote from gasparks: Oh my, I can relate to this post. Just got out of a relationship that could have been very toxic for me. Met the guy at work, hit it off instantly, started dating quickly, got real close quickly, fell deep and hard in love. Now the hiccup. DUDE has a felony for something that is not the best thing for me to be around or my under 18 child. SHIT!!!! Love this man to death, but I just can't date him, not only would he be sent back to prison, I could be punished also. Hell of a guy, miss him dearly, we were so close but yeah I am walking away from this train wreck. I guess if he had of slept with a family member or best friend, I would be ready to strangle them. Sorry for my story above, but that is what happened to me finding out stuff after the fact. So, he is a felon for sexual assault against a minor child, is what you were trying to say, without saying it....
8/16/2017 7:46:07 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
gasparks La Fayette, GA 44, joined Mar. 2012	Quote from enigmaathand: So, he is a felon for sexual assault against a minor child, is what you were trying to say, without saying it.... Pretty much, I learned about the case and it was pretty mucked up, he got railroaded. But, I still can't, no way no how.
8/16/2017 8:45:09 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
cupocheer Assumption, IL 68, joined May. 2010	Heather Heyer
8/16/2017 9:56:46 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
lucky_1million Pewaukee, WI 50, joined Jun. 2013	My best female friend is very jealous. She's a Scorpio like Enigma. If I were to talk to anyone she once dated, even if she went out with him 1 time and didn't like him... well she would be pissed at me. I've seen her melt down with other friends over similar issues. I tend to take into consideration my friend's feelings, but other than that it would depend on how good our relationship was. If our relationship was awesome, it would seem silly to throw it away just because of a jealous friend. On the flip side, it wouldn't bother me too much if one of my friends dated one of my exes. I tried to fix up one of my exes with a female friend of the man I was currently dating. However, they already knew each other. They went to prom together. Go figure.
8/16/2017 10:06:40 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
cupocheer Assumption, IL 68, joined May. 2010	After the fact -- statues remembering history (good & bad)
8/17/2017 12:42:37 AM	Finding Out After The Fact
enigmaathand Leavittsburg, OH 36, joined Mar. 2013	Quote from gasparks: Pretty much, I learned about the case and it was pretty mucked up, he got railroaded. But, I still can't, no way no how. Railroaded, or not, if he allowed himself into the situation(even IF she was a consenting minor), the law is very clear on these matters. Take it from me, as I have dated women younger than me(LEGALLY). When a man finds himself into that area, it is because of his genetic natural attraction to such things, no different from homosexuality. Meaning, he was guilty and you were going to be a seriously risky situation. I don't blame you for cutting ties and walking away. Self-Awareness and Acknowledgement of the fault in his own genetics is the only way he can discipline himself to not allow something like that to ever happen again. He is lucky that he wasn't killed in prison, for it. Sexual Assault felons typically are raped and killed by the prison populations, because while they may also be criminals, they have families and daughters just like you or anyone else.
8/17/2017 2:38:13 AM	Finding Out After The Fact
kungfu_candy Alsónémedi Hungary 28, joined Aug. 2013	I'd stop seeing them all together. I don't believe in inner-circle incest. If I dated you, I'm not touching your best friend. There could be true love there, but it's not worth being hard up to risk looking for it there. If it was meant to be we'd have met before they got involved with someone in my inner circle.
8/17/2017 3:02:35 AM	Finding Out After The Fact
001snatch Marysville, WA 57, joined Aug. 2013 online now!	Never been in this situation.so it wouldnt phase me.
8/17/2017 2:16:40 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from gasparks: Oh my, I can relate to this post. Just got out of a relationship that could have been very toxic for me. Met the guy at work, hit it off instantly, started dating quickly, got real close quickly, fell deep and hard in love. Now the hiccup. DUDE has a felony for something that is not the best thing for me to be around or my under 18 child. SHIT!!!! Love this man to death, but I just can't date him, not only would he be sent back to prison, I could be punished also. Hell of a guy, miss him dearly, we were so close but yeah I am walking away from this train wreck. I guess if he had of slept with a family member or best friend, I would be ready to strangle them. Sorry for my story above, but that is what happened to me finding out stuff after the fact. Even though this classifies as "after the fact" it inapplicable in case and doesn't qualify under the circumstances. What you described is a TYPICAL MISTAKE women make when JUMPING INTO RELATIONSHIPS prematurely. Caring ONLY about their wants and NOTHING about any responsibilities. Bcuz they only care about what they want AT THAT MOMENT!!! In this thread I'm talking about a unforeseeable and unpredictable situation which was UNAVOIDABLE! You could known the history of that man by simply CARING ENOUGH to properly do your homework and doing a background check BEFORE jumping in feet first instead of listening to your emotions. True or False babe!
8/17/2017 3:25:30 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
enigmaathand Leavittsburg, OH 36, joined Mar. 2013	Easy, Doc. She knows she made a mistake by acting on her impulses. You are right, in what you are saying, and I do know many women with habits of choosing poor men. However, she owns up to that, and that is a true mark of her character and maturity as a person, so tone it down on her a little bit.
8/17/2017 3:34:52 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
cupocheer Assumption, IL 68, joined May. 2010	*In Sympathy, Barcelona*
8/18/2017 2:23:47 AM	Finding Out After The Fact
cavie59 Enid, OK 58, joined Feb. 2010	That is something I do not ever have to worry about. There are no women in my area that are interested in me.
8/18/2017 10:19:53 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from enigmaathand: Easy, Doc. She knows she made a mistake by acting on her impulses. You are right, in what you are saying, and I do know many women with habits of choosing poor men. However, she owns up to that, and that is a true mark of her character and maturity as a person, so tone it down on her a little bit. Tone it DOWN?? I'm not turning it up. I'm simply pointing out the difference between her situation and the situation I'm referencing to. That even though they're both "after the fact" her situation is TOTALLY 100% AVOIDABLE where MY post situation isn't. It takes NOTHING to ask someone their criminal history and do a background check. YOU CAN NOT DO a background check on who someone slept with before you met them. I didn't want her or others to be mislead into thinking that ANY "after the fact" situation applies here. And that being hard on her?? I don't get it!
8/18/2017 10:51:07 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
cupocheer Assumption, IL 68, joined May. 2010
8/18/2017 10:58:44 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from kungfu_candy: I'd stop seeing them all together. Women are going to hate me for this..... The rule is "Never get emotionally involved with a woman who has been with ANYONE in or once was in your personal circle!" Now if all you want is sex they're good for a "Pump & Dump" or even being FWB's but NOTHING serious or emotional. Now if it's MY ex or someone I just slept with that my friend or fam wants to get with I do give a rats ass. Just don't bring her around me or put her and I in ANY situation where I have to see her face or hear her voice. Bcuz "When I'm done IM DONE! But if my friend or fam wants to be stupid enough to get emotionally involved and clutch my cum rag against his heart that's now HIS problem.
8/18/2017 11:06:09 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from cavie59: That is something I do not ever have to worry about. There are no women in my area that are interested in me. Got damn cavie!!! Where do you live in a cemetery???
8/19/2017 11:00:07 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
kungfu_candy Alsónémedi Hungary 28, joined Aug. 2013	Quote from dr_i_got_answer: Women are going to hate me for this..... The rule is "Never get emotionally involved with a woman who has been with ANYONE in or once was in your personal circle!" Now if all you want is sex they're good for a "Pump & Dump" or even being FWB's but NOTHING serious or emotional. Now if it's MY ex or someone I just slept with that my friend or fam wants to get with I do give a rats ass. Just don't bring her around me or put her and I in ANY situation where I have to see her face or hear her voice. Bcuz "When I'm done IM DONE! But if my friend or fam wants to be stupid enough to get emotionally involved and clutch my cum rag against his heart that's now HIS problem. This is nothing new to me. I know the hypocritical sick-ways that men think. I don't care. I feel the same way. I don't even consider men who've hit on women in my vicinity. I don't double dip and I'm no one's second choice.
8/19/2017 11:35:16 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from kungfu_candy: This is nothing new to me. I know the hypocritical sick-ways that men think. I don't care. I feel the same way. I don't even consider men who've hit on women in my vicinity. I don't double dip and I'm no one's second choice. You lost me on the Hypocrisy part baby. Was it something I said or jusy Hypocrisy in general about men? Explain??
8/21/2017 4:29:35 AM	Finding Out After The Fact
cavie59 Enid, OK 58, joined Feb. 2010	Quote from dr_i_got_answer: Got damn cavie!!! Where do you live in a cemetery??? I live in the middle of no where. There are three semi large cities within a two hour drive, but when you work like I do, they are not an option.
8/21/2017 12:35:24 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 51, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from cavie59: I live in the middle of no where. There are three semi large cities within a two hour drive, but when you work like I do, they are not an option. You need to put a sign up on the road passing your house that says For A Hot Times Ladies Stop Here After 6 When I'm Home!!! BYOB! That it turn your place into something like a Bed & Breakfast, add a nice patio out back with a tube and women will STAY coming to your house.
8/22/2017 1:28:34 AM	Finding Out After The Fact
kungfu_candy Alsónémedi Hungary 28, joined Aug. 2013	Quote from dr_i_got_answer: You lost me on the Hypocrisy part baby. Was it something I said or just Hypocrisy in general about men? Explain?? Y'all think that way but don't like: 1. Women knowing you think this way 2. Not caring,or 3. Avoiding you for it, and 4. Thinking and acting the same way herself.
8/22/2017 12:54:47 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
enigmaathand Leavittsburg, OH 36, joined Mar. 2013	Quote from kungfu_candy: Y'all think that way but don't like: 1. Women knowing you think this way 2. Not caring,or 3. Avoiding you for it, and 4. Thinking and acting the same way herself. Women say they want honesty, and hate men that admit to thinking this way.
8/22/2017 12:59:44 PM	Finding Out After The Fact
cupocheer Assumption, IL 68, joined May. 2010	Y'all are DHers when you fall for Kandy, a professed black woman from Hungary, addressing y'all as y'all.

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