10/8/2008 10:02:44 PM |
Can chemistry be developed? |
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barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 52
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If you go out with someone and you do not feel any immediate chemistry, does that mean there never will be? Would you continue to see someone if you really liked them alot even though you feel no chemistry? Can chemistry develop?
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10/8/2008 10:05:49 PM |
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kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 48
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Great thread! I for one believe chemistry can be developed. Not everyone falls in love or lust at first sight.
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10/8/2008 10:07:07 PM |
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pattilee3
Norfolk, VA
age: 49
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I don't think so, I've tried.
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10/8/2008 10:17:19 PM |
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surferguy53
Murrieta, CA
age: 52
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I would say no...if you don't feel the chemistry straight off, it won't develop later. The answer to your second question, I'll answer with one: why would you want to continue seeing this person if you felt nothing? Maintaining a friendship is one thing; expecting it to develop into something more is not probable.
Just one guy's opinion...
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10/8/2008 10:37:26 PM |
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rokkinlion
San Ramon, CA
age: 42
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Personally, I think chemistry happens quickly...you usually know right away.
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10/8/2008 10:45:49 PM |
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orangeburst
Laguna Beach, CA
age: 61
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chemistry can develop with time, patience, understanding and nurturing and brings us things like H2S04, napalm, crack, Diet Coke. any of which will kill you. look where radium got Madam Curie.
relationships take work.
and
Arbeit macht fre
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10/8/2008 10:57:11 PM |
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swifteagle
Elk City, OK
age: 64
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If there isn't some chemistry immediately, there likely won't be any over time. Chemistry is what attracts people - the more there is the better the connection.
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10/8/2008 11:11:14 PM |
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th6231
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
age: 61
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Accepting a second date says that you have something that seems interesting--maybe there is more to it. Why would you want to rush?? savor the dates and enjoy yourself. It's fun to slowly discover things about a person. rome wasn't built in a day--neither is a relationship. If you were to find nothing--absolutely nothing or no reason to go out again--you wouldn't go. But men and women are intricate creatures--with undiscovered personalities and emotions and charms--you can't possibly see all the stuff in one date. What you want to see "immediately" is courtesy, a smile, respect, and effective communications, if these are missing--then they will never show up. What a courteous and pleasant person exhibits on a first or second date will allow you to LURE the inner chemistry out into the light of day. You might even discover that this new person is humorous and entertaining and full of fun--interesting ideas for dates--exciting times that you never had before--that could make you stop and think about how unique this guy is and how much you really enjoy this new man...instead of the creeps that have been tossed to the curb for being rude and boring and dull.
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10/8/2008 11:22:06 PM |
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znorth
Rockford, MI
age: 36
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Possibly
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10/8/2008 11:34:12 PM |
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hotcowgirl4u
Martins Ferry, OH
age: 54
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If there isn't some chemistry immediately, there likely won't be any over time. Chemistry is what attracts people - the more there is the better the connection.
I don't know about more there is the better the connection, BUT the more chemistry there is the better the sex lol
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10/9/2008 12:35:21 AM |
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bekki08
Ridgeland, MS
age: 39
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I don't think it can be developed. It comes naturally and either it's there or it's not.
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10/9/2008 6:42:47 AM |
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piscesbabe
New Fairfield, CT
age: 40 online now!
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for me I think it's either there or it's not.
but my cousin met a guy and didn't really feel initial chemistry
but it did develop and they've been hot an heavy since February
and just moved in together.
so maybe for some it does develop ....
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10/9/2008 7:01:48 AM |
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sweetbtsassy
Mentor, OH
age: 43
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Good Topic
Ive found myself in this postion just recently and wondering myself! I will take any advice from ya all also!
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10/9/2008 7:03:00 AM |
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greenangeleye79
Brooklyn, NY
age: 29
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i have had it develop as i got to know someone. I have noticed for me that its in the mind and the more that they mentally capture my attention the more i become physically attracted to them.
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10/9/2008 7:04:02 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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Women decide in the first 5 seconds if they will spread for a dude.
Dudes have already decided..even before meeting if we've seen your pics.
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