| 5/14/2012 4:15:53 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
lynnrichardson
Scottsburg, IN
39, joined Mar. 2012
|
Yep, I, too, wish I could find a man in my area. Attractiveness is relative to each individual. Why is it the young ones message me? I don't want someone young enough to be my child nor do I want someone old enough to be my father. So I'll just mosey on back to the '40s forum 
heck i keep getting older ones lol and a few younger but mostly older
Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
|
| 5/14/2012 5:02:13 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
tsarczar
Fort Wayne, IN
63, joined Apr. 2012
|
Ladies please read completely before bringing out the torches and pitchforks.
This body image thing lies as much with the women as the men. Women routinely find thiner and sometimes bigger breasted models asmore attractive than men do. Vogue models are skinnier than hustlers. This negative self image affects attractiveness look at the pictures of older, heavier, and less naturaly women and you see many setting themselves up for failure. They don't smile but scowl some pretty scarily. They don't use makeup not just to hide things but guys see makeup as avisible cue that you want them to be attracted to you without it you seem unavailible. They don't pose or dress in a sexy mannerr and no I'm not talking about lying nude on a bed of whipped cream but standing up straight, show a little leg or cleavage, winking, a come here big boy finger. If you try to show beauty you will have some. Not not all guys are going to go for BBW's particularly if they are fit young stud muffins if you really want a relationship you too might need to consider inner handsomeness in the guys. BTW I look like Santa Claus but At least my profile pic has me smiling. By the way if any of you bbw's want to be nice by being naughty I can wear the suit.
|
| 5/14/2012 6:57:51 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
indianadave1951
Mishawaka, IN
66, joined Dec. 2010
|
Hi everyone. My name is tamera. New to dating on line and also not a Barbie doll type figure like a lot of men seem to want. I would love  to find a great man to spend my life with between the ages of 40 and 50. I wish more men went by the inner beauty of someone rather than focusing on the outer shell. I am a good woman with a great heart and a lot of love to give. Wish someone would give me the chance to prove that. As for the bedroom I can do everything a skinny girl can do and make you feel like the most loved man on earth in and out of the bedroom if you treat me right
Why is it that large women can only see two sizes of women: BBW and anorexic Barbie's? Most of the "nice guys" I know want a normal sized woman.
"Why is it guys can't get past looks when looking for a romance partner?"...why should we be expected to? You don't catch fish with an unbaited hook.
By the way ladies, the more in-shape and attractive a woman is the pickier she will be. Men aren't the only ones. There are women in my area, my age, who are in terrific shape. However, the upper age limit is, on average, two years or so younger than themself. They, also, write "No picture, no reply" and "If you say you're in shape include a photo that shows this". They're just as picky if not more so.
Most people can be friends and weight isn't an issue. However, most people want to have some physical attraction to their romance partner.
[Edited 5/14/2012 7:00:27 PM ]
|
| 5/14/2012 7:13:38 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
cschaeffer
Jasper, IN
41, joined Apr. 2009
|
What he said 
|
| 5/17/2012 3:21:22 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
adb1976
Elkhart, IN
40, joined Aug. 2011
|
|
| 5/26/2012 9:09:41 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
switch4fun2012
Anderson, IN
59, joined May. 2012
|
Seriously physical appearance isn't all that important. I'm big on responsiveness. 
|
| 6/5/2012 7:23:35 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
ccreswell
Scottsburg, IN
39, joined Jul. 2011
|
well to bad not all men felt that way... i have had a few men since i have been on here leave me messages that i was to fat. But i do know there is some men out there that like bigger women.
|
| 6/5/2012 8:13:36 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
leo8363
Greensburg, IN
53, joined May. 2012
|
I have been in shape all my life,but I have always been attracted to the chunky,full figured,bbw type of women. The skinny super model type don't look healthy to me,my friends know this,but they don't know what they are missing,I tell them when they tease me.
|
| 6/6/2012 12:08:04 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
maggiemay123013
Oxford, OH
49, joined May. 2012
|
Thanks for posting.... Yeah!! I also like a little larger men but have met only one chubby chaser. He's awesome.
|
| 6/6/2012 11:05:02 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
letsply4fun
New Albany, IN
46, joined Apr. 2012
|
I like a lil meat with my taters.
|
| 6/9/2012 2:01:36 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
fabo317
Indianapolis, IN
37, joined Apr. 2012
|
Sign me up
|
| 6/9/2012 10:21:20 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
patty46991
Huntington, IN
48, joined Oct. 2007
|
yOU JUST MIGHT BE MISSING ON A GREAT THING
|
| 6/9/2012 2:18:25 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
earthangel_in
Kokomo, IN
53, joined Oct. 2007
|
Most people can be friends and weight isn't an issue. However, most people want to have some physical attraction to their romance partner.
I agree wholeheartedly. I like some meat with my taters too but I DO have to find the other person attractive. Each of us have our types that we are drawn to for romance.
|
| 6/10/2012 2:31:13 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
25me
North Vernon, IN
30, joined Jun. 2012
|
I am a chubby chaser I love bbw they r great in all ways
|
| 6/10/2012 2:43:20 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
25me
North Vernon, IN
30, joined Jun. 2012
|
Also I got pics if a bbw is interested I am wantin to meet a nice sweet bbw
|
| 6/10/2012 3:57:08 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
hoosierace
Mishawaka, IN
56, joined Mar. 2008
|
Curvy Cuties Welcomed Here!!! :=)
|
| 6/10/2012 6:27:59 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
indianadave1951
Mishawaka, IN
66, joined Dec. 2010
|
I like a lil meat with my taters.
Most people cut the fat off of a nice piece of Prime Rib before eating it.
Meat = muscle.
Fat does not = muscle.
|
| 6/10/2012 6:46:37 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
anywhereusa
Converse, TX
52, joined Dec. 2009
|
Who posted before me?
|
| 6/11/2012 12:36:20 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
kss1975
Indianapolis, IN
41, joined Mar. 2012
|
I've had many guys tlk to me. They seem to be attracted to my smile. Ladies there r a lot of men who simply don't care how big u r as long as u have confidence in urself and show the world that u r beautiful. Believe n urself before someone else can believe n u it doesn't matter about if I wear make-up or not if u spend along time doing ur hair or not ots about being confident and smile.
|
| 6/11/2012 3:17:48 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
earthangel_in
Kokomo, IN
53, joined Oct. 2007
|
Who posted before me?
indianadave
|
| 6/11/2012 8:35:04 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
funtimes10113
Greenwood, IN
32, joined Jun. 2011
|
I do and the best thing is there down to earth and not stuck up
|
| 6/11/2012 10:26:33 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
anywhereusa
Converse, TX
52, joined Dec. 2009
|
Hmmm not sure who that is. Thanks.
|
| 6/11/2012 8:38:05 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
willsilver
Indianapolis, IN
50, joined Feb. 2010
|
I stand by this quote from a couple years ago.
First hello all!
You know until you get to know someone you don't know them. It doesn't matter to me. A few extra pounds or not. Women you are beautiful. It's ok. Skinny, Average, A Few Extra it doesn't matter. If there is someone it bothers well... Maybe it is best to know this upfront.
Too many people are Way to stuck, Way too far offside on Way too many issues to casting judgment on others. We should not be judging others by only this or that or style of shoe. 
We all have likes and dislikes. It is what makes us unique, special, a person.  If someone doesn't like you, OH WELL! There are plenty of people whom do like us and accept us for who we are. (Accept my x-mother in-law.  I don't think that counts.)
 Loving yourself is first and very important. If you are happy with you, it's all good.
Remember it is the quality of good friends not the quantity that counts.
|
| 6/11/2012 9:08:17 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
earthangel_in
Kokomo, IN
53, joined Oct. 2007
|
I'll agree with this.
|
| 6/11/2012 11:34:15 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
dross123
Indianapolis, IN
33, joined May. 2012
|
Hey ive alwsys enjoyed more im not a vegan or vegetarian so.i appreciate a bigger womeen.they are njce amd dont hve issues as bad as a lil petite chick approvrd
|
| 6/11/2012 11:41:55 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
nativelooks
Chandler, IN
48, joined Apr. 2011
|
43 yo female 5'1'' for more information see profile. If choosy about looks dont bother. I am who I am.
|
| 6/12/2012 12:23:59 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
x_brittney_x
Indianapolis, IN
26, joined Mar. 2012
|
Were Yhu Sexi Fellasz At Who Love BBW!!! Add me
|
| 6/12/2012 1:02:17 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
misss15
Indianapolis, IN
30, joined Jun. 2012
|
I definitely love this post! ::thumbsup:
|
| 6/12/2012 1:15:14 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
cschaeffer
Jasper, IN
41, joined Apr. 2009
|
Yes, keep your thumbs up.
It will make it more difficult to lift the spoons and forks that way.
KIDDING!!!!!!!!!
|
| 6/12/2012 1:20:12 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
misss15
Indianapolis, IN
30, joined Jun. 2012
|
That was lame
|
| 6/12/2012 10:18:44 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
cschaeffer
Jasper, IN
41, joined Apr. 2009
|
Humor is a horrible thing to waste....
|
| 6/12/2012 12:10:59 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
dreamama
Indianapolis, IN
38, joined Jun. 2012
|
if this thread isn't for you, why post something negative. There are alot off bbw out here, that are wonderful, but get passed over because of superficial people.
|
| 6/12/2012 12:42:26 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
cschaeffer
Jasper, IN
41, joined Apr. 2009
|
HUMOR!!! Look it up.
|
| 6/12/2012 1:51:16 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
dreamama
Indianapolis, IN
38, joined Jun. 2012
|
You must have a guilty conscious, cuz I was speaking in general. 
|
| 6/12/2012 3:09:02 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
max1261
Evansville, IN
55, joined Mar. 2007
|
Good humor ice cream bar...
|
| 6/12/2012 7:11:37 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
misscocothundar
Columbus, IN
38, joined May. 2011
|
:-*
|
| 6/12/2012 7:48:22 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
willsilver
Indianapolis, IN
50, joined Feb. 2010
|
Looking beyond the cover of the book you can often find amazing people. If you not willing to look beyond the cover it is your loss.
Too many folks are looking for a Ken and Barbie dressed as a Knight and a Princess. Well none of us are perfect but we can still be good people.
Ladies you are all beautiful. Don't worry about the haters.
|
| 6/12/2012 11:38:19 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
earthangel_in
Kokomo, IN
53, joined Oct. 2007
|
Looking beyond the cover of the book you can often find amazing people. If you not willing to look beyond the cover it is your loss.
Too many folks are looking for a Ken and Barbie dressed as a Knight and a Princess. Well none of us are perfect but we can still be good people.
Ladies you are all beautiful. Don't worry about the haters.
|
| 6/13/2012 12:08:37 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
cschaeffer
Jasper, IN
41, joined Apr. 2009
|
Something about this being the most popular thread in Indiana chat is a little sad.....
And for the record, not all "big" women are "beautiful".
|
| 6/13/2012 3:28:33 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
ccreswell
Scottsburg, IN
39, joined Jul. 2011
|
i agree.
|
| 6/13/2012 4:30:25 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
dreamama
Indianapolis, IN
38, joined Jun. 2012
|
not all thin.people ate beautiful either.
|
| 6/13/2012 9:00:58 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
luvs2read44
Shelbyville, IN
57, joined Mar. 2012
|
Hello everyone. Look forward to making new friends here.
|
| 6/13/2012 9:03:24 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
luvs2read44
Shelbyville, IN
57, joined Mar. 2012
|
Sure they are. Look deeper.
|
| 6/14/2012 1:40:54 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
anywhereusa
Converse, TX
52, joined Dec. 2009
|
Different strokes/sizes for different folks.
I'm a big gal but don't necessarily find overly big guys attractive.
|
| 6/16/2012 5:09:52 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
upnorthguy27
Indianapolis, IN
32, joined Apr. 2012
|
I like em all!
|
| 6/17/2012 8:20:07 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
heartsafire59
Portage, IN
57, joined Jul. 2008
|
Your humor is in poor taste in my opinion
HUMOR!!! Look it up.
|
| 6/17/2012 6:14:25 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
ccreswell
Scottsburg, IN
39, joined Jul. 2011
|
Looking beyond the cover of the book you can often find amazing people. If you not willing to look beyond the cover it is your loss.
Too many folks are looking for a Ken and Barbie dressed as a Knight and a Princess. Well none of us are perfect but we can still be good people.
Ladies you are all beautiful. Don't worry about the haters.
thank ya thank ya
|
| 6/19/2012 1:08:05 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
bluerosemama
Evansville, IN
54, joined Aug. 2009
|
Your humor is in poor taste in my opinion
HUMOR!!! Look it up.
This is to csshaeffer
A good sense of humor is sexy as is a great laugh....
Someone who is snarky and mean and then says "just kidding"
Isn't funny they're just sad!
Hurting people's feelings as a form of joking shows an insecurity and at the same time a self-centered careless disregard for how others feel.
But see the great thing for all BBWs ( and others who deal with that sort of crap ) is we can learn that what you say- says WAY more about who you are as a person than it says about us!
We
Learn mind
Over matter----
WE DON'T HAVE TO MIND CUZ YOU DON'T MATTER!
|
| 6/20/2012 2:19:23 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
ledoledo
Fort Wayne, IN
32, joined Jun. 2012
|
I like all shapes and sizes
|
| 6/20/2012 9:00:52 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
cschaeffer
Jasper, IN
41, joined Apr. 2009
|
If people bothered to read instead of assume things from one post that was in a reply to some over sensitive person, the world would be a better place.
To all you larger women who are going to take a joke that was made (in humor and good taste) and base judgment on that, then I suppose its okay to judge you as well.
Oh, that's not fair??? Forgive me but neither is your assumption.
Stop being so self destructive because you are unhappy. Take things for what they are on the surface sometimes, and look deeper when necessary.
Some of you are Sooo predictable..... Sad really.
|
| 6/21/2012 12:09:10 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
ledoledo
Fort Wayne, IN
32, joined Jun. 2012
|
True shit^^^^
|
| 6/21/2012 2:18:11 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
bluerosemama
Evansville, IN
54, joined Aug. 2009
|
Yes, keep your thumbs up.
It will make it more difficult to lift the spoons and forks that way.
See you are the one assuming.....
It doesn't really matter if YOU THINK you're being funny if you have to be mean to do it.
My comment was based in the fact of you coming into a BBW positive thread just to be snarky.....
See you can just do like my mama says ---- just once in awhile.... " if you can't say something nice---- just shut the f&@% up"
The need to put someone down says more about you than about the "over sensitive" person....
Why do YOU get to decide of she's too over sensitive????
Asshole---much????
Don't assume I'm Sad Fat Angry Chick--- just cuz you get called out on your shit! The blog was for BBW lovers ---- don't get spun cuz you're a hater & I said you don't matter....
Maybe you're just being 'over-sensitive'
KIDDING!!!!!!!!!
|
| 6/21/2012 10:33:35 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
cschaeffer
Jasper, IN
41, joined Apr. 2009
|
Did you bother going back and reading any of my other comments in this thread?
No, you just sat on your fat a** and tried to pass judgment because you have self esteem issues that YOU need to resolve.
I'm fat, and happy.
Get over it.
|
| 6/21/2012 11:54:00 AM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
countatorange
Orleans, IN
59, joined Jun. 2008
|
i find thin womne attractive, but larger women.....wow!
|
| 6/21/2012 2:27:32 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
bluerosemama
Evansville, IN
54, joined Aug. 2009
|
Did you bother going back and reading any of my other comments in this thread?
No, you just sat on your fat a** and tried to pass judgment because you have self esteem issues that YOU need to resolve.
I'm fat, and happy.
Get over it.
Since its the longest thread here no I didn't read them all ..... Sorry for letting your words speak for you.
My a** is beautiful btw....
You should be so lucky!!!
Lol
Ease up sheesh.... For a guy who thinks he's so funny
You sure get all uppity if
someone gives you a taste of your own medicine.
Please don't get All butt-hurt and say mean things about me Anymore...
PLEASE MY SELF ESTEEM CAN'T TAKE IT
|
| 6/21/2012 4:18:03 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
cschaeffer
Jasper, IN
41, joined Apr. 2009
|
Yes, cause I always laugh in comments where I am butt hurt
Wanna know why you are single? I can give a few hints. 
|
| 6/21/2012 4:43:58 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
bluerosemama
Evansville, IN
54, joined Aug. 2009
|
Please tell me...
I'd love to hear this!!!
|
| 6/21/2012 6:18:16 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
bulbaiter
Slidell, LA
61, joined Apr. 2009
|
I personlly prefer a bbw that carrys herself well.....good hygiene....chesty...paints her nails....wears sexy clothes for her man...then that is all I will ever need...morning noon and night......and desert....Now I gotta find one near Memphis....
|
| 6/21/2012 11:10:58 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
uaintready4this
Russell Springs, KY
47, joined Aug. 2011
|
Okay, I admit it, Im a thin girl chasin slut... Sorry but its true. I too wish women would take a look at the man and not his abs or ass.. I love a well proportioned curvy woman, and if you wanna get teckkky about it size 12/14 and down. Recently as I explore why I want what I want, it has come to my attention that this countries a** is spreading by leaps and bounds. The sad part is the media and advertizing isnt keepin up. Take a look at the clothing line, its just not there for us rotund people.... I go to the gym, I work all the time and still Im tippin the scales at 365 and there isnt a trouser in the world that fits me correctly. When I look at the profiles, what amazes me is you ladies try to hide it, dont deny it.. The vast majority of you will put "a few lbs" and take the face shot aimed downward, We "MEN" know immidiatly your hiding.. Dont do it, tell the whole story please.. You want us to be honest, thats what we want.. Back to my other thoughts, and I will close with this. Its not your size ladies,,, its how you cover it... If your muffin topped the slacks are too damn tight, if your pockets are on your hamstrings or the crease of you a** and leg and not your but, the trousers are too small... Im beginning to take notice of larger women and finding them attractive but the atire as a whole has to change. Again its advertizing for the most part... side note.. If your shaped like Aretha Franklin "whom I find attractive" dont try to squeeze your a** in a pair of jeans cut for "BRITTany SPEARS" whom I also find attractive.. In my view in case your wondering perfect size / looks Sarah Palin or Sandra Bullock... I love em both from a distance.....
Nice to meet yall Im "D"
HIgh Priest of the Church of the Painfull Truth,, feel free to rip me apart in email if youd like....
Goodevening
and
Respectfully
"D"
|
| 6/21/2012 11:23:48 PM |
Calling all BBW and the men who luv them! | Page 17 |
|
terri6203
Memphis, TN
53, joined May. 2012
|
Hi guys! I didnt know there was a BBW forum on here, do you mind if I join in?
|