8/15/2009 2:39:34 AM |
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trueblkmann
Atlanta, GA
63, joined Jun. 2009
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Never wink never text you a note!
What should you do?
Text them send them a wink?
true
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8/15/2009 2:42:59 AM |
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iamincs
Colorado Springs, CO
43, joined Jul. 2009
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It's happened to me. There's a couple of men who look at my profile every single day, at first I was upset but then just decided to be flattered by it. Since they're not harassing me in any way, just looking, it's harmless.
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8/15/2009 2:47:43 AM |
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vanie18
Linden, NJ
26, joined Aug. 2009
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i will said do it
if you want that person show wink then back text too
found true love
that for the man top, have Q about never text , wink
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8/15/2009 3:10:06 AM |
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meeagain47
Campbellsville, KY
69, joined Aug. 2009
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Yes , He viewed me ,I viewed him many times ,I wrote to him and said lets cut to the chase and talk ,we did , we met , we had a sweet six months together.
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8/15/2009 3:20:28 AM |
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tucowboyj
Mannford, OK
36, joined Aug. 2009
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hello everyone in here
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8/15/2009 8:18:28 AM |
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thunderstorms62
Endicott, NY
55, joined Feb. 2009
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1. Write a thread about it so they notice that you notice
them "perving" your profile?
2. Turn the "viewed me" off so that you don't have to agonize
over this predicament?
3. Send them an icebreaker email?
Maybe they are just looking at your profile so that they can
read your profound posts/threads?
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8/15/2009 8:21:10 AM |
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firstlight
Strasburg, VA
57, joined Feb. 2008
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Well if you like her profile then by all means go ahead and send her a message.
Isn't that why we are here?
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8/15/2009 8:21:46 AM |
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alrose
West Point, GA
68, joined Jan. 2008
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I have had it happen to me too. I have wondered why? Some are pretty far off too. I feel curious, I guess. Maybe if they interested me, I'd make the 1st move and say hi! By that I mean if we share interests, ect. I guess I was brought up to let the guy make the first move!
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8/15/2009 8:49:58 AM |
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thomast444
Alma, AR
74, joined Jan. 2009
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YES, iamics YOU SHOULD BE FLATTERED, SOMETIME MEN HAVE BEEN SO "HURT" FROM A DIVORE OR DEATH OF A LOVE ONE, HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT PERHAPS THEY MAY FEEL THEY MAY NOT BE WORTHY OF YOU AND THIS I THINK APPLIES TO THOSE WHO WERE HURT VERY BADLY, AT LEAST ITS MY OPINION. IF YOU REVIEW THERE PROFILE, FEEL SOME KINSHIP TO THEM, SEND THEM A WINK, IT WILL GET THEM OFF OF DEAD CENTER EITHER TO E-MAIL YOU OR JUST MOVE ON. I HAVE HAD PEOPLE
VISIT MY PROFILE A NUMBER OF TIMES, MYSELF I AM FLATTERED.
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8/15/2009 9:10:43 AM |
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califgirl1
Martinsville, VA
71, joined Nov. 2006
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It does happen...I do wonder sometimes why...
I don't take it as flattery...because I
don't know why...People look for many reasons...
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8/15/2009 9:11:25 AM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
51, joined Nov. 2007
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You've just been perved...
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8/15/2009 9:37:39 AM |
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iamalwaysjustme
Kansas City, MO
58, joined Apr. 2009
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I have men on a regular basis , local and long distance that views my profile on a regular basis without ever saying anything . I am flattered they have taken the time out to think about me
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8/15/2009 9:56:57 AM |
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95north
Holbrook, MA
39, joined Jul. 2009
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Some people just may be shy. If you like the person, then send them an email. The worse thing that could happen if they don't respond or you get a "No thanks" message.
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8/15/2009 2:18:04 PM |
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im_single_again
Saint Louis, MO
85, joined Aug. 2009
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Never wink never text you a note!
What should you do?
Text them send them a wink?
true
If you're interested in this person, send them a message. He or she may be waiting for you to make the first move. There has to be some interest there if they keep checking your profile.
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8/15/2009 2:28:28 PM |
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denbroni
Portland, OR
39, joined Jun. 2009
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If someone keeps viewing me over and over without saying anything then I would wonder why. I dont think it has anything to do with being perverted. maybe they are just doing a daily search of people in thier area and click on all of the profiles that come up. if you view my profile and you like what you see, then leave me a messsage. If you view it and dont write something then Im goin to guess that you did not think that we would be a good match.
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8/15/2009 3:02:17 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009
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I do it mostly because I'm curious about their profile after reading a post.
I notice the same people looking again and again, too. I figure it's because they've read a post, or I've come up in their search and they don't notice that they've already looked or they just want to look at something within my profile again.
But send a message thanking them for looking. If you like their profile and it seems you would match, what harm can come of it? Don't do a wink. They're kinda no effort. You want her to think she's worth some effort.
[Edited 8/15/2009 3:03:15 PM ]
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8/15/2009 4:59:28 PM |
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yvette69
Montgomery, AL
58, joined Aug. 2009
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not saying anything to me
well maybe he's scare to talk or he doesn't know how to approach you yet
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8/15/2009 5:14:00 PM |
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im_single_again
Saint Louis, MO
85, joined Aug. 2009
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If you like her you can send her some love via message
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8/15/2009 7:35:02 PM |
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looking4_prince
Twin Falls, ID
64, joined Mar. 2009
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Just had it happen... So I looked at his profile,but it was one that said he just wanted sex.I mailed him that I wasn't interested,but it continued.So I blocked him..
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8/15/2009 7:51:55 PM |
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terri421
Dickson, TN
49, joined Aug. 2009
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right o! you just been perved.
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8/15/2009 8:45:19 PM |
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darklady09
Crest Hill, IL
61, joined Jan. 2009
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If someone keeps viewing me over and over without saying anything then I would wonder why. I dont think it has anything to do with being perverted. maybe they are just doing a daily search of people in thier area and click on all of the profiles that come up. if you view my profile and you like what you see, then leave me a messsage. If you view it and dont write something then Im goin to guess that you did not think that we would be a good match.
YES, but what if I was viewing you everyday for weeks on end and never say a word. Not calling that person a pervert either, just wondering what gives?
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8/15/2009 8:52:36 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009
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pathologically shy, maybe?
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8/15/2009 8:55:27 PM |
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122750again
Sioux Falls, SD
66, joined Dec. 2008
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When I get some of the same ones perving, I just figure they want to see if I've put my foot in my mouth by posting something
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8/15/2009 11:05:00 PM |
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edindro
Orlando, FL
34, joined Aug. 2009
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I don't like the wink thing. I cannot physically wink so I think it is false advertising if I do. And winking is creepy whether it comes from a man or a woman. I've had women wink at me, and it somehow made me feel violated.
I do, however, wish more people would whistle at me and ask if fries come with that shake.
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8/16/2009 12:20:49 AM |
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viand
Bullhead City, AZ
54, joined Jun. 2009
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Never wink never text you a note!
What should you do?
Text them send them a wink?
How do you tell if someone has viewed your profile?
Viand
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8/16/2009 1:46:53 AM |
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imagine_big
Denver, CO
55, joined Jun. 2009
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hey, iamincs, i'd love to send u a message but it won't let me, 'cause i'm outta your age group. sorry ! btw, nice pic !
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8/16/2009 4:07:11 AM |
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denbroni
Portland, OR
39, joined Jun. 2009
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YES, but what if I was viewing you everyday for weeks on end and never say a word. Not calling that person a pervert either, just wondering what gives?
have you tried writing him a message. maybe something like " hey, just saw that you have been viewing my profile a lot. Is there something that you like and would want to talk about."
I dont know maybe this is just common sense to me cause I dont think of myself as a shy or bashful person. Im beginning to see that there are alot of people on here that are just to shy in their "real" lives to approach others, and they mimic that behavior online. Think of this as training for when you have real conversations with people.
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8/16/2009 4:14:13 AM |
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
54, joined Oct. 2007
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Dude?
What's wrong with you?
Do you have to get hit in the head with a brick to know that it hurts?
Get to work!
Leave the winks in the winky bag and send her a nice sweet introductory E mail.
Don't mention your winky either...Just thought I'd throw that in...
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8/16/2009 4:28:14 AM |
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bjk123
Layton, UT
60, joined Jun. 2008
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How do you tell if someone has viewed your profile?
Viand
Go to Home (at the top of your page) and click on it. On the left side is a box that says view members- click on who has viewed me to see who is looking at you
Yes, I am there
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8/16/2009 7:25:43 AM |
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denbroni
Portland, OR
39, joined Jun. 2009
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what I can't get is why people are viewing my profile. let me clarify that. Im seeing that alot of people have viewed my profile from way far away. I could understand if you have seen my pic in a thread and you thought you would like to know more about me. But most of the people that im getting viewed by are not even active in the forums. Dont get me wrong I like the attention, please view my profile and respond. Just curious how Im attracting people that are not in my area or someone that I have not seen on the forum pages.
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8/16/2009 7:27:38 AM |
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happyface46
Palm City, FL
55, joined Feb. 2009
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those of us that post are a miniscule one percent of the profiles.. All people have to do is put in a zip code and hit search to view people . Besides their are many lurkers out there that read posts all day long and never say a word.
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8/16/2009 12:36:31 PM |
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josh_p
Los Angeles, CA
31, joined May. 2008
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I wouldn't do anything. She probably keeps looking at my profile because she sees how undateable I am.
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8/16/2009 1:03:19 PM |
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2sweetbitter
Orange, CA
48, joined May. 2009
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jst go with first responce everybooty has intrest in someone no matter what so if profile iz being looked at so be it if you wright then wright why are you hear
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8/16/2009 1:13:53 PM |
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goddess56
Tulsa, OK
67, joined Jun. 2006
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Well, some of the pervs I've gotten have to be the result of searches. If people don't narrow the search field down, it goes global.
Repeat pervs? I figure they have read something I've posted and want to see who that kook is. Too bad they can't find out much...
I look at it this way...if someone wants to get to know me, they have to read my blogs and my posts. Otherwise all they get is a pic and a few stats. I don't mind people reading anything I've written, because it is who I am.
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8/16/2009 1:19:06 PM |
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trueblkmann
Atlanta, GA
63, joined Jun. 2009
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Not talking about me! I look at ladies profile over and over my damn self
I'm tall dark and super strong myself and be wondering what the ladies be thinking about me!
I'm very shy
true
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8/16/2009 1:21:46 PM |
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2sweetbitter
Orange, CA
48, joined May. 2009
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i dont know maybe you can paint there house more move there house superman
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8/16/2009 1:33:26 PM |
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trueblkmann
Atlanta, GA
63, joined Jun. 2009
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i dont know maybe you can paint there house more move there house superman
Maybe!
true
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8/16/2009 2:37:45 PM |
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singleflower
El Paso, TX
40, joined Feb. 2008
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It's happened and I didn't feel flattered maybe if they had sent a message or a wink....looking is the natural thing to do, maybe they don't even realized they've seen me over, and over again
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8/16/2009 2:54:34 PM |
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trueblkmann
Atlanta, GA
63, joined Jun. 2009
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i dont know maybe you can paint there house more move there house superman
Why make the forums personal
true
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8/16/2009 3:01:33 PM |
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ffflllaaagal
New Port Richey, FL
63, joined May. 2008
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Not talking about me! I look at ladies profile over and over my damn self
I'm tall dark and super strong myself and be wondering what the ladies be thinking about me!
I'm very shy
true
looking at someones profile more than twice without saying something is goona start creeping them out.. lol
i get the shy thing as the man i am dating now is just that.. he has to force his self to talk to people. once he gets comfortable you can't stop him lol
my thoughts on your thread are:
make sure you read the whole profile [most don't]
email with your thoughts on her profile
sign off with something like -- hope to hear from you soon..
good luck to you!!
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8/16/2009 5:03:38 PM |
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xcitement2
Durham, NC
60, joined Apr. 2009
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You've just been perved...
yuppers.. who knows WHAT they are doing while viewing.. ewwwwww..
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8/16/2009 6:00:29 PM |
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st3fani
Houston, TX
36, joined Aug. 2009
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thats just laughable. Keep it moving...
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8/17/2009 8:40:32 AM |
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yvette69
Montgomery, AL
58, joined Aug. 2009
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they are interest
just don't know if they should approach
they want you to approach
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8/17/2009 8:42:27 AM |
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trueblkmann
Atlanta, GA
63, joined Jun. 2009
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they are interest
just don't know if they should approach
they want you to approach
A woman or a man got to do what they got to do!
true
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8/17/2009 1:18:42 PM |
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tat4tat
Staunton, VA
53, joined Jul. 2009
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maybe that person just doesn't have the nerve to go any further...waiting on you to respond!If it doesn't work out let me know!!!
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8/17/2009 6:24:43 PM |
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bigdaddy45011
Hamilton, OH
31, joined Aug. 2008
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do nothin they would wink or send you a message if they liked what they seen
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8/17/2009 6:42:44 PM |
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2sweetbitter
Orange, CA
48, joined May. 2009
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ya whin that happins meanz the profile looks mystevious
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8/17/2009 8:43:14 PM |
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fancyblueeyes
Reading, MA
58, joined Jul. 2009
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I think perhaps they want to reach out ,But they are shy or not to sure about it.::
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8/17/2009 9:39:11 PM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
51, joined Nov. 2007
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yuppers.. who knows WHAT they are doing while viewing.. ewwwwww..
Think O-face ...
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8/18/2009 12:42:11 PM |
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yvette69
Montgomery, AL
58, joined Aug. 2009
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they better get up the nerve because time is moving on and I will disappear
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8/18/2009 1:37:21 PM |
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trueblkmann
Atlanta, GA
63, joined Jun. 2009
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they better get up the nerve because time is moving on and I will disappear
wow
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8/18/2009 2:01:04 PM |
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xpamela_leighx
Springville, UT
43, joined Jul. 2009
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Nothing. I almost always ignore them.
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8/30/2009 6:59:37 PM |
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ginnc
Welcome, NC
60, joined Jul. 2009
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I'm that way a lot of times, there are many things that go through my head at those times, she's so cute would she even want anything to do with me is one. For me when I continually look at a profile it is because I'm attracted and interested in them but haven't quite got the nerve up to contact them. I'm definitely not what women would call handsome and indeed rather plain looking but that has to be up to each ladies discriminating taste.
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8/30/2009 7:10:49 PM |
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ishouldntsay
Venice, CA
53, joined Aug. 2009
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If I LOOK AT SOME ONES PROFILE AND DONT SEND ANYTHING ITS CAUSE I LIKE THE THINGS THEY POST SO I LOOK AT THERE PROFILE TO SEE IF THEYVE SAID ANT FUNNY STUFF LATELEY
NO CREEPY MOTIVE SHEESH
CHILL
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8/30/2009 7:18:24 PM |
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mmilesg
Lima, OH
40, joined Jun. 2009
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I don't usually say anything. I do sometimes look at their profile after I get some time to do so, but I don't normally say anything unless they have a profile I can relate to or if I myself show interest.
You're a man. Women don't usually initiate. Get with the program.
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