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8/15/2009 2:39:34 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
trueblkmann
Over 1,000 Posts (1,135)
Atlanta, GA
63, joined Jun. 2009


Never wink never text you a note!
What should you do?
Text them send them a wink?
true





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8/15/2009 2:42:59 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
iamincs
Over 2,000 Posts (2,167)
Colorado Springs, CO
43, joined Jul. 2009


It's happened to me. There's a couple of men who look at my profile every single day, at first I was upset but then just decided to be flattered by it. Since they're not harassing me in any way, just looking, it's harmless.

8/15/2009 2:47:43 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  

vanie18
Linden, NJ
26, joined Aug. 2009


i will said do it
if you want that person show wink then back text too
found true love




that for the man top, have Q about never text , wink

8/15/2009 3:10:06 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
meeagain47
Campbellsville, KY
69, joined Aug. 2009


Yes , He viewed me ,I viewed him many times ,I wrote to him and said lets cut to the chase and talk ,we did , we met , we had a sweet six months together.

8/15/2009 3:20:28 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  

tucowboyj
Mannford, OK
36, joined Aug. 2009


hello everyone in here

8/15/2009 8:18:28 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  

thunderstorms62
Over 1,000 Posts (1,242)
Endicott, NY
55, joined Feb. 2009



1. Write a thread about it so they notice that you notice
them "perving" your profile?

2. Turn the "viewed me" off so that you don't have to agonize
over this predicament?

3. Send them an icebreaker email?

Maybe they are just looking at your profile so that they can
read your profound posts/threads?


8/15/2009 8:21:10 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
firstlight
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,231)
Strasburg, VA
57, joined Feb. 2008


Well if you like her profile then by all means go ahead and send her a message.
Isn't that why we are here?

8/15/2009 8:21:46 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  

alrose
West Point, GA
68, joined Jan. 2008


I have had it happen to me too. I have wondered why? Some are pretty far off too. I feel curious, I guess. Maybe if they interested me, I'd make the 1st move and say hi! By that I mean if we share interests, ect. I guess I was brought up to let the guy make the first move!

8/15/2009 8:49:58 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
thomast444
Alma, AR
74, joined Jan. 2009



YES, iamics YOU SHOULD BE FLATTERED, SOMETIME MEN HAVE BEEN SO "HURT" FROM A DIVORE OR DEATH OF A LOVE ONE, HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT PERHAPS THEY MAY FEEL THEY MAY NOT BE WORTHY OF YOU AND THIS I THINK APPLIES TO THOSE WHO WERE HURT VERY BADLY, AT LEAST ITS MY OPINION. IF YOU REVIEW THERE PROFILE, FEEL SOME KINSHIP TO THEM, SEND THEM A WINK, IT WILL GET THEM OFF OF DEAD CENTER EITHER TO E-MAIL YOU OR JUST MOVE ON. I HAVE HAD PEOPLE
VISIT MY PROFILE A NUMBER OF TIMES, MYSELF I AM FLATTERED.

8/15/2009 9:10:43 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
califgirl1
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (161,699)
Martinsville, VA
71, joined Nov. 2006


It does happen...I do wonder sometimes why...

I don't take it as flattery...because I

don't know why...People look for many reasons...

8/15/2009 9:11:25 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
51, joined Nov. 2007


You've just been perved...

8/15/2009 9:37:39 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
iamalwaysjustme
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (18,074)
Kansas City, MO
58, joined Apr. 2009


I have men on a regular basis , local and long distance that views my profile on a regular basis without ever saying anything . I am flattered they have taken the time out to think about me

8/15/2009 9:56:57 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
95north
Holbrook, MA
39, joined Jul. 2009


Some people just may be shy. If you like the person, then send them an email. The worse thing that could happen if they don't respond or you get a "No thanks" message.

8/15/2009 2:18:04 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
im_single_again
Saint Louis, MO
85, joined Aug. 2009


Quote from trueblkmann:
Never wink never text you a note!
What should you do?
Text them send them a wink?
true


If you're interested in this person, send them a message. He or she may be waiting for you to make the first move. There has to be some interest there if they keep checking your profile.

8/15/2009 2:28:28 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
denbroni
Over 1,000 Posts (1,468)
Portland, OR
39, joined Jun. 2009


If someone keeps viewing me over and over without saying anything then I would wonder why. I dont think it has anything to do with being perverted. maybe they are just doing a daily search of people in thier area and click on all of the profiles that come up. if you view my profile and you like what you see, then leave me a messsage. If you view it and dont write something then Im goin to guess that you did not think that we would be a good match.

8/15/2009 3:02:17 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  

lovethelake17
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (35,596)
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009


I do it mostly because I'm curious about their profile after reading a post.

I notice the same people looking again and again, too. I figure it's because they've read a post, or I've come up in their search and they don't notice that they've already looked or they just want to look at something within my profile again.

But send a message thanking them for looking. If you like their profile and it seems you would match, what harm can come of it? Don't do a wink. They're kinda no effort. You want her to think she's worth some effort.



[Edited 8/15/2009 3:03:15 PM ]

8/15/2009 4:59:28 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
yvette69
Montgomery, AL
58, joined Aug. 2009


not saying anything to me

well maybe he's scare to talk or he doesn't know how to approach you yet

8/15/2009 5:14:00 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
im_single_again
Saint Louis, MO
85, joined Aug. 2009


If you like her you can send her some love via message

8/15/2009 7:35:02 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  

looking4_prince
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,257)
Twin Falls, ID
64, joined Mar. 2009


Just had it happen... So I looked at his profile,but it was one that said he just wanted sex.I mailed him that I wasn't interested,but it continued.So I blocked him..

8/15/2009 7:51:55 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
terri421
Dickson, TN
49, joined Aug. 2009


right o! you just been perved.



[Edited 8/15/2009 7:52:59 PM ]

8/15/2009 8:45:19 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  

darklady09
Over 1,000 Posts (1,258)
Crest Hill, IL
61, joined Jan. 2009


Quote from denbroni:
If someone keeps viewing me over and over without saying anything then I would wonder why. I dont think it has anything to do with being perverted. maybe they are just doing a daily search of people in thier area and click on all of the profiles that come up. if you view my profile and you like what you see, then leave me a messsage. If you view it and dont write something then Im goin to guess that you did not think that we would be a good match.
YES, but what if I was viewing you everyday for weeks on end and never say a word. Not calling that person a pervert either, just wondering what gives?

8/15/2009 8:52:36 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  

lovethelake17
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (35,596)
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009


pathologically shy, maybe?

8/15/2009 8:55:27 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  

122750again
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,136)
Sioux Falls, SD
66, joined Dec. 2008


When I get some of the same ones perving, I just figure they want to see if I've put my foot in my mouth by posting something

8/15/2009 11:05:00 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  

edindro
Orlando, FL
34, joined Aug. 2009


I don't like the wink thing. I cannot physically wink so I think it is false advertising if I do. And winking is creepy whether it comes from a man or a woman. I've had women wink at me, and it somehow made me feel violated.

I do, however, wish more people would whistle at me and ask if fries come with that shake.

8/16/2009 12:20:49 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
viand
Bullhead City, AZ
54, joined Jun. 2009


Quote from trueblkmann:
Never wink never text you a note!
What should you do?
Text them send them a wink?


How do you tell if someone has viewed your profile?

Viand

8/16/2009 1:46:53 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  

imagine_big
Denver, CO
55, joined Jun. 2009


hey, iamincs, i'd love to send u a message but it won't let me, 'cause i'm outta your age group. sorry ! btw, nice pic !

8/16/2009 4:07:11 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
denbroni
Over 1,000 Posts (1,468)
Portland, OR
39, joined Jun. 2009


Quote from darklady09:
YES, but what if I was viewing you everyday for weeks on end and never say a word. Not calling that person a pervert either, just wondering what gives?



have you tried writing him a message. maybe something like " hey, just saw that you have been viewing my profile a lot. Is there something that you like and would want to talk about."

I dont know maybe this is just common sense to me cause I dont think of myself as a shy or bashful person. Im beginning to see that there are alot of people on here that are just to shy in their "real" lives to approach others, and they mimic that behavior online. Think of this as training for when you have real conversations with people.

8/16/2009 4:14:13 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  

dutchboy4u
Over 2,000 Posts (3,352)
Huntington Beach, CA
54, joined Oct. 2007


Dude?

What's wrong with you?

Do you have to get hit in the head with a brick to know that it hurts?

Get to work!

Leave the winks in the winky bag and send her a nice sweet introductory E mail.

Don't mention your winky either...Just thought I'd throw that in...

8/16/2009 4:28:14 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
bjk123
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,674)
Layton, UT
60, joined Jun. 2008


Quote from viand:
How do you tell if someone has viewed your profile?

Viand



Go to Home (at the top of your page) and click on it. On the left side is a box that says view members- click on who has viewed me to see who is looking at you

Yes, I am there

8/16/2009 7:25:43 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
denbroni
Over 1,000 Posts (1,468)
Portland, OR
39, joined Jun. 2009


what I can't get is why people are viewing my profile. let me clarify that. Im seeing that alot of people have viewed my profile from way far away. I could understand if you have seen my pic in a thread and you thought you would like to know more about me. But most of the people that im getting viewed by are not even active in the forums. Dont get me wrong I like the attention, please view my profile and respond. Just curious how Im attracting people that are not in my area or someone that I have not seen on the forum pages.

8/16/2009 7:27:38 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
happyface46
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,042)
Palm City, FL
55, joined Feb. 2009


those of us that post are a miniscule one percent of the profiles.. All people have to do is put in a zip code and hit search to view people . Besides their are many lurkers out there that read posts all day long and never say a word.

8/16/2009 12:36:31 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  

josh_p
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,625)
Los Angeles, CA
31, joined May. 2008


I wouldn't do anything. She probably keeps looking at my profile because she sees how undateable I am.

8/16/2009 1:03:19 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
2sweetbitter
Over 1,000 Posts (1,052)
Orange, CA
48, joined May. 2009


jst go with first responce everybooty has intrest in someone no matter what so if profile iz being looked at so be it if you wright then wright why are you hear

8/16/2009 1:13:53 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
goddess56
Over 1,000 Posts (1,957)
Tulsa, OK
67, joined Jun. 2006


Well, some of the pervs I've gotten have to be the result of searches. If people don't narrow the search field down, it goes global.

Repeat pervs? I figure they have read something I've posted and want to see who that kook is. Too bad they can't find out much...

I look at it this way...if someone wants to get to know me, they have to read my blogs and my posts. Otherwise all they get is a pic and a few stats. I don't mind people reading anything I've written, because it is who I am.

8/16/2009 1:19:06 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
trueblkmann
Over 1,000 Posts (1,135)
Atlanta, GA
63, joined Jun. 2009


Not talking about me! I look at ladies profile over and over my damn self
I'm tall dark and super strong myself and be wondering what the ladies be thinking about me!
I'm very shy
true



[Edited 8/16/2009 1:19:47 PM ]

8/16/2009 1:21:46 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
2sweetbitter
Over 1,000 Posts (1,052)
Orange, CA
48, joined May. 2009


i dont know maybe you can paint there house more move there house superman

8/16/2009 1:33:26 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
trueblkmann
Over 1,000 Posts (1,135)
Atlanta, GA
63, joined Jun. 2009


Quote from 2sweetbitter:
i dont know maybe you can paint there house more move there house superman



Maybe!

true

8/16/2009 2:37:45 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
singleflower
Over 2,000 Posts (2,184)
El Paso, TX
40, joined Feb. 2008


It's happened and I didn't feel flattered maybe if they had sent a message or a wink....looking is the natural thing to do, maybe they don't even realized they've seen me over, and over again

8/16/2009 2:54:34 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
trueblkmann
Over 1,000 Posts (1,135)
Atlanta, GA
63, joined Jun. 2009


Quote from 2sweetbitter:
i dont know maybe you can paint there house more move there house superman

Why make the forums personal
true

8/16/2009 3:01:33 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
ffflllaaagal
Over 2,000 Posts (3,915)
New Port Richey, FL
63, joined May. 2008


Quote from trueblkmann:
Not talking about me! I look at ladies profile over and over my damn self
I'm tall dark and super strong myself and be wondering what the ladies be thinking about me!
I'm very shy
true


looking at someones profile more than twice without saying something is goona start creeping them out.. lol

i get the shy thing as the man i am dating now is just that.. he has to force his self to talk to people. once he gets comfortable you can't stop him lol

my thoughts on your thread are:
make sure you read the whole profile [most don't]
email with your thoughts on her profile
sign off with something like -- hope to hear from you soon..

good luck to you!!

8/16/2009 5:03:38 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
xcitement2
Over 1,000 Posts (1,522)
Durham, NC
60, joined Apr. 2009


Quote from ge0ge0:
You've just been perved...



yuppers.. who knows WHAT they are doing while viewing.. ewwwwww..

8/16/2009 6:00:29 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
st3fani
Houston, TX
36, joined Aug. 2009


thats just laughable. Keep it moving...

8/17/2009 8:40:32 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
yvette69
Montgomery, AL
58, joined Aug. 2009


they are interest
just don't know if they should approach
they want you to approach

8/17/2009 8:42:27 AM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
trueblkmann
Over 1,000 Posts (1,135)
Atlanta, GA
63, joined Jun. 2009


Quote from yvette69:
they are interest
just don't know if they should approach
they want you to approach



A woman or a man got to do what they got to do!

true

8/17/2009 1:18:42 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
tat4tat
Staunton, VA
53, joined Jul. 2009


maybe that person just doesn't have the nerve to go any further...waiting on you to respond!If it doesn't work out let me know!!!

8/17/2009 6:24:43 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
bigdaddy45011
Over 2,000 Posts (2,629)
Hamilton, OH
31, joined Aug. 2008


do nothin they would wink or send you a message if they liked what they seen

8/17/2009 6:42:44 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
2sweetbitter
Over 1,000 Posts (1,052)
Orange, CA
48, joined May. 2009


ya whin that happins meanz the profile looks mystevious

8/17/2009 8:43:14 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
fancyblueeyes
Reading, MA
58, joined Jul. 2009


I think perhaps they want to reach out ,But they are shy or not to sure about it.::

8/17/2009 9:39:11 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
51, joined Nov. 2007


Quote from xcitement2:
yuppers.. who knows WHAT they are doing while viewing.. ewwwwww..


Think O-face ...





8/18/2009 12:42:11 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
yvette69
Montgomery, AL
58, joined Aug. 2009


they better get up the nerve because time is moving on and I will disappear

8/18/2009 1:37:21 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
trueblkmann
Over 1,000 Posts (1,135)
Atlanta, GA
63, joined Jun. 2009


Quote from yvette69:
they better get up the nerve because time is moving on and I will disappear



wow

8/18/2009 2:01:04 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
xpamela_leighx
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,958)
Springville, UT
43, joined Jul. 2009


Nothing. I almost always ignore them.

8/30/2009 6:59:37 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
ginnc
Welcome, NC
60, joined Jul. 2009


I'm that way a lot of times, there are many things that go through my head at those times, she's so cute would she even want anything to do with me is one. For me when I continually look at a profile it is because I'm attracted and interested in them but haven't quite got the nerve up to contact them. I'm definitely not what women would call handsome and indeed rather plain looking but that has to be up to each ladies discriminating taste.

8/30/2009 7:10:49 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
ishouldntsay
Over 1,000 Posts (1,341)
Venice, CA
53, joined Aug. 2009


If I LOOK AT SOME ONES PROFILE AND DONT SEND ANYTHING ITS CAUSE I LIKE THE THINGS THEY POST SO I LOOK AT THERE PROFILE TO SEE IF THEYVE SAID ANT FUNNY STUFF LATELEY
NO CREEPY MOTIVE SHEESH
CHILL

8/30/2009 7:18:24 PM If someone keep looking at your profile but  
mmilesg
Lima, OH
40, joined Jun. 2009


I don't usually say anything. I do sometimes look at their profile after I get some time to do so, but I don't normally say anything unless they have a profile I can relate to or if I myself show interest.

You're a man. Women don't usually initiate. Get with the program.