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12/11/2010 11:54:15 AM No Recognition, Just Rude!  
graywar
Topsham, ME
31, joined Nov. 2010


I can understand someone not responding to a wink, but why is it that 50% of the women that i write a friendly email to are so stuck up that they cant even respond with a thank you or something? I'm starting to understand why they are single, lol.

Me personally i will respond to someone who writes to me, it not as if i have to jump up and get married to them. isn't this site about communication?

So whats up with that ladies? Anyone else run into this dilemma?

anyone else find this rude or is it just me?

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12/11/2010 9:04:29 PM No Recognition, Just Rude!  
jimmy7up
Lebanon, ME
28, joined Dec. 2010


Dude I know, i feel the same way. We are destined to never have love. Or the girls are just being b*tchs lol

12/12/2010 3:20:57 AM No Recognition, Just Rude!  
graywar
Topsham, ME
31, joined Nov. 2010


I guess they dont know that we can tell if they have read the emails or not, id rather they just say "not interested" or something.

12/16/2010 8:06:05 PM No Recognition, Just Rude!  
brighteyes1833
Howland, ME
45, joined Nov. 2010


It is hard sometimes to know what to say. Say nothing and you are rude. Say too much and you are pushy. So, not all of us are rude. I have sent emails that got no response. Over it and life is good.

12/20/2010 4:25:14 PM No Recognition, Just Rude!  
graywar
Topsham, ME
31, joined Nov. 2010


Very true, good words. I guess its just a pet peeve of mine. Kinda like when you say hello, or good morning to someone and they ignore you completely! lol
I don't get angry at it, just don't understand why people would join a web site like this and not want to talk.
Maybe im just intimidating, lol.

12/20/2010 10:35:46 PM No Recognition, Just Rude!  

dougiem
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,567)
Tucson, AZ
37, joined Aug. 2009
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They're just not interested. That's all there is to it. I get a ton of messages through this joint but I only reply to a few of them. It's a waste of my time (and theirs) to reply to somebody I'm completely uninterested in.

1/10/2011 3:02:53 AM No Recognition, Just Rude!  
jemstar322
Augusta, ME
39, joined Jan. 2011


I wish someone would send me an email or a wink I get nothing.
I'm not sure why they aren't replying, I would have.

1/12/2011 8:38:34 PM No Recognition, Just Rude!  
tailguner
Bangor, ME
47, joined Jan. 2011


Jemstar322...Your profile scared me..I'm shy though.



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1/13/2011 10:41:03 PM No Recognition, Just Rude!  

lowenbrau9
Windham, ME
37, joined Aug. 2009


I've pretty much given up on internet dating because of this! I tried it for a long time, but it was too much work. It was actually easier to meet people in person than online, and that can be difficult as well! Especially when you're 30, and your social circle is long moved away, or gotten married and had kids.... And you live in Maine with the oldest average population in the country and there's not much going on after hours. I think it's bad here, can't imagine what it's like for somebody relatively young up in the county?!?

My theory is that the average, attractive woman posting on these sites probably gets about 10-20 messages per day? Maybe more? Probably a lot of them are either generic, three sentences, come across as too cocky, too desperate, or too lewd? Or, they're so use to meeting jerks, they're just predisposed to assume all guys are liars and jackasses just giving them a line and playing the game. So they have their defenses up to avoid being screwed over or used.

I use to think if I took the time to write a sincere e-mail introducing myself, telling a bit about myself and asking about them, that it would stand out among the other e-mails? However, no matter how much work I put into writing these e-mails, I've found I'm lucky to get one reply out of ten! Even if that happens and you correspond for a few e-mails and think they might like to meet, often they'll just stop replying, so you never even get to that first meeting just to see what they're like in person. And in the rare event you do meet them, you usually correspond online too long and get a false perception of what they're like. Then when you meet them, it's like you're not even meeting the person you thought you'd been getting to know!


So, basically I'm done with these sites! As hard as it is to meet potential partners in person, I'll opt for that, because frankly, it's easier! I keep a profile up, and people are welcome to contact me, but it doesn't happen much. It's hard to write a detailed e-mail with body to somebody you know nothing about, but find attractive, and like what they have to say in a brief description. If I'm going to take the time to write one with more than a couple sentences like "Wow, you're hot. I'm Adam. I'm 30. I like to laugh and have fun" than I'd need to get some results in order to motivate me to keep at it. When you've tried the online thing off and on for a long time, but can barley even get a reply, why bother? Just go out and use the energy to do it the old fashion way!