8/18/2011 12:15:33 PM |
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robertbeto4321
Phoenix, AZ
34, joined Sep. 2010
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and take it personel when you wanna hang-up?
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8/18/2011 12:20:50 PM |
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venichhe
Brooklyn, NY
32, joined May. 2011
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it's the control factor that gets them mad, not actually you wanting to get off the phone.
The other day I was with my friends, and a new guy comes whom I've never met, I've over heard some part of his convo with this girl, he asked if he can hang out with friends for a few hours, I thought to myself how pathetic. And realized, why he had a girl and I didn't.
But, yeah, my motto to the world is "control yourself, not me!"
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8/18/2011 12:27:07 PM |
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kimmyo
Grove City, OH
39, joined Jun. 2011
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I HATE talking on the phone. Its annoying.......
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8/18/2011 12:27:29 PM |
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audlove515
Jasper, IN
27, joined May. 2011
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If a guy and a girl both get a haircut.
Guy's friend: you get a haircut?
Guy: yup.
Guy's friend: cool.
Girls friend: omg! Did you get a haircut? It looks amazing! I LOVE your lowlights!
Girl: oh thanks ! Do you really like them or are they too much? I saw donna at the hair salon. She was getting her nails done and i was really thinking i should do mine! omg, I HAVE to tell you what my hairdresser told me! ...
*proceeds to talk for three more hours*
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8/18/2011 12:32:23 PM |
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hounddoglover
Alliance, OH
41, joined Nov. 2007
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I think if two people have a nice bond they can talk on the phone for hours and it just seems like minutes to them
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8/18/2011 12:33:25 PM |
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tootsiebee
Tarzana, CA
28, joined Jun. 2011
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^^^^ hahahaha
im not a big talker
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8/18/2011 12:37:14 PM |
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iwannaknow2
Grand Blanc, MI
54, joined Jun. 2011
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Haha your lucky all i get is a stupid text message all the time
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8/18/2011 12:38:05 PM |
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tootsiebee
Tarzana, CA
28, joined Jun. 2011
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Thats right tootsie you tell him. What a loser lol
Lmfao.... nooo that was for the comment above him
Hhahahhah your funny
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8/18/2011 12:39:02 PM |
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kimmyo
Grove City, OH
39, joined Jun. 2011
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HoundDoglover you need to get a life and quit petting your hound so much and get out some. If you really think that two people that have the connection you say they do on the phone can talk for hours then you need to get a life. So like Kimmyo said "I hate talking on the phone" lol unless it's phone sex haha
Johnny boy, I don't do phone sex!!
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8/18/2011 12:39:05 PM |
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cutily
New York, NY
29, joined Jul. 2011
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I hate talking on the phone, I always keep it as short as possible.
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8/18/2011 12:41:55 PM |
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veniteadoremus
Baton Rouge, LA
30, joined Jul. 2011
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Texting eliminated conversing by mouth..
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8/18/2011 12:42:50 PM |
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cuddlyguy77
Kent, WA
39, joined Feb. 2011
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Some women are like teenage girls and just love to gossip over the phone.
My GF and I may talk quite a bit in person, however we are hard pressed to talk longer then 10 minutes over the phone. With us it's more conveying info, like "I am going by Carpinito's on the way home. What would you like from there?"
So some just want the control, others just are gabby.
My 2 cents at least.
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8/18/2011 12:43:02 PM |
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hohogs
Bentonville, AR
33, joined May. 2011
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Texting eliminated conversing by mouth..
agreed
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8/18/2011 12:47:04 PM |
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robertbeto4321
Phoenix, AZ
34, joined Sep. 2010
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Texting eliminated conversing by mouth..
I think internet did like facebook and other sites. No need to talk when you get your point across through the internet. But there is still people out there that like to talk on phone.I understand if its family.
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8/18/2011 12:51:36 PM |
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xavierm1979
Toledo, OH
35, joined Aug. 2011
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I cant speak for girls but I do enjoy talking and here are a few reasons:
1) I spend 10 hrs a day typing emails to engineers and dorky business men so it is nice to hear from someone who isnt interested in manufacturing equipment.
2) Most of my friends have something to say not just "hey"
3) it takes 20 texts to figure out what time you are getting together instead of 30 seconds of conversation.
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8/18/2011 12:57:52 PM |
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veniteadoremus
Baton Rouge, LA
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I think internet did like facebook and other sites. No need to talk when you get your point across through the internet. But there is still people out there that like to talk on phone.I understand if its family.
They all ruined conversing by mouth. I hate when a guy wants to text all the time & never talk. No offense, but I wanna hear your voice before we meet in person!
Facespace ruined a lot of things.
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8/18/2011 1:05:13 PM |
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robertbeto4321
Phoenix, AZ
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They all ruined conversing by mouth. I hate when a guy wants to text all the time & never talk. No offense, but I wanna hear your voice before we meet in person!
Facespace ruined a lot of things.
i wont lie i do text alot and thats just because of the plan i have on my phone i gout unlimited text and 300 minutes. But even when i had unlimited text i did more texting than talking. Texting just seems to be faster.
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8/18/2011 1:28:21 PM |
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army_nurse
Clarksville, TN
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I text never talk on the phone it's annoying as hell, wish they just had a plan with unlimited texting and internet..
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8/18/2011 2:33:25 PM |
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cuddlyguy77
Kent, WA
39, joined Feb. 2011
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I text never talk on the phone it's annoying as hell, wish they just had a plan with unlimited texting and internet..
ok so it's better to have to text somehting 5 times to make sure that the other person KNOWS what you mean instead of a 5 second phone conversation?
I have seen so many relationships torn apart by texting.
Mine was almost ripped apart in the early days.
I had a Palm Treo at the time and got Yahoo IM put through to my phone as text. My GF was IMing me from work, I had to go see a freind. Well yahoo did not deliver the IM where I said I'd be driving. So for 40 minutes I did not reply. She assumed I did not want her and pretty much told me bye. Took 2 hours of talking, face to face, to clear it up.
Text is fine for "I'll be 20 minutes late to the party" but not for a conversation.
And if you aonly want text and net, get a tablet, there you go.
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8/18/2011 2:37:06 PM |
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purdibird
Nice
France
79, joined Aug. 2010
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Depends on whom I'm talking too. I can talk for hours to someone whose thought provoking, stimulating, witty and can make me laugh.
I wish I were talking to someone like that right now.
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8/18/2011 2:37:25 PM |
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army_nurse
Clarksville, TN
41, joined Oct. 2010
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I'm a firefighter/paramedic and not able to talk all the time if I'm busy that's why I prefer to text, nothing like being on the phone and getting a call to an emergency and having to hang up..Text me I will get it sooner or later
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8/18/2011 3:00:45 PM |
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esmeraldar
Toms River, NJ
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I HATE talking on the phone. Its annoying.......
I also hate talking on the phone and like to keep it short and sweet. I have a friend who calls and like to ramble on and on and on and on about people and things that I don't know. I let him ramble on for a bit because he is old, but usually find an excuse to hang up.
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8/18/2011 4:27:00 PM |
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joe_226
Winnsboro, TX
38, joined Jul. 2011
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OP,
There are certain things about women that man will never figure out, so we just accept 'em & move on: (1) Why does it take a woman 2 hours to "get ready" ? (2) Why do women talk for HOURS on the phone & still have plenty to say afterwards? (3) Why do women remember sh** that happened 10 years ago, but are always "running behind" schedule?
THE ANSWER: Because they just do
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8/18/2011 4:43:51 PM |
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rhea27
Danbury, CT
47, joined Dec. 2010
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and take it personel when you wanna hang-up?
How soon after the convo start do you want to hang up? Some guys are just "lazy talkers" that only say "huhm.... yeah...no... ok..." and not much else. The girl might want to have him actually talk. If you got to go, then say you have to go and then tell her you'd like to talk to her again, later that day/night. (And don't forget it... or you look flaky.)
Dude... you have a girl talking to you! Some guys here wish they were this lucky!
it's the control factor that gets them mad, not actually you wanting to get off the phone.
The other day I was with my friends, and a new guy comes whom I've never met, I've over heard some part of his convo with this girl, he asked if he can hang out with friends for a few hours, I thought to myself how pathetic. And realized, why he had a girl and I didn't.
But, yeah, my motto to the world is "control yourself, not me!"
That is kind of pathetic... unless they had other plans and he is trying to change them.
I think if two people have a nice bond they can talk on the phone for hours and it just seems like minutes to them
Exactly! It all depends on the topics and the person on the other end.
HoundDoglover you need to get a life and quit petting your hound so much and get out some. If you really think that two people that have the connection you say they do on the phone can talk for hours then you need to get a life. So like Kimmyo said "I hate talking on the phone" lol unless it's phone sex haha
You're an idiot! Talking on the phone is part of staying connected, or connecting to start with.
I think internet did like facebook and other sites. No need to talk when you get your point across through the internet. But there is still people out there that like to talk on phone.I understand if its family.
Written words can be misunderstood.... Texting is better left for short notes. I've gotten texts where I'm like... "what is he/she trying to say?" and then had to spend time and effort, back and forth, to find out. A quick call could have been so much easier. I hate long texts too. I don't have the time....
I cant speak for girls but I do enjoy talking and here are a few reasons:
1) I spend 10 hrs a day typing emails to engineers and dorky business men so it is nice to hear from someone who isnt interested in manufacturing equipment.
2) Most of my friends have something to say not just "hey"
3) it takes 20 texts to figure out what time you are getting together instead of 30 seconds of conversation.
They all ruined conversing by mouth. I hate when a guy wants to text all the time & never talk. No offense, but I wanna hear your voice before we meet in person!
Facespace ruined a lot of things.
Agree!
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8/18/2011 4:51:11 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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I think if two people have a nice bond they can talk on the phone for hours and it just seems like minutes to them
Yep. with the right one, I can talk a lot too.
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8/18/2011 4:57:27 PM |
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northphxhiker
Phoenix, AZ
54, joined Apr. 2009
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never never never let a woman call the shots on the telephone.
-once she has emasculated you she's done with you...
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8/18/2011 7:30:00 PM |
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hounddoglover
Alliance, OH
41, joined Nov. 2007
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Agree!
Thanks rhea27 for understanding. Of course sometimes texting is easier and it's not always practical to talk on the phone for a long time but sometimes you find someone who you really hit it off with and you can talk for hours. Sometimes you can't be with them at the moment or they are not close enough to see like you would like and I have always judged potential women that I would like to build something with by how we interact on the phone before we meet. I've had some where there is just that silence during the conversation and you just know that your not clicking
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8/18/2011 7:39:47 PM |
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diggy3184
Toms River, NJ
31, joined Jun. 2011
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If a guy and a girl both get a haircut.
Guy's friend: you get a haircut?
Guy: yup.
Guy's friend: cool.
Girls friend: omg! Did you get a haircut? It looks amazing! I LOVE your lowlights!
Girl: oh thanks ! Do you really like them or are they too much? I saw donna at the hair salon. She was getting her nails done and i was really thinking i should do mine! omg, I HAVE to tell you what my hairdresser told me! ...
*proceeds to talk for three more hours*
useless extra information guys like to just get to the point.
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8/18/2011 7:46:36 PM |
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daniel8673
Shelby, NC
30, joined Jul. 2011
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I HATE talking on the phone. Its annoying.......
its very annoying!! you have to stop what your doing....just forget whatever activity you had going on before you answered your phone lol i prefer to text so i dont get stuck on the phone with someone i dont wanna talk too and i can answer any question they might have when i want too
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8/18/2011 7:47:33 PM |
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hounddoglover
Alliance, OH
41, joined Nov. 2007
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lol I found that out
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8/18/2011 7:48:25 PM |
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lisa21468
Newton, NJ
48, joined Dec. 2010
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They dont have jobs?
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8/18/2011 7:54:35 PM |
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xyhoney
Atlanta, GA
37, joined Apr. 2010
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I'm not a phone person I will talk non- business no longer then 30minutes tops, I will cut my ringer off after 10 I will text a lot though its just better then just sitting there hold the phone asking did u say something. That's so odd
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8/18/2011 8:04:48 PM |
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xyhoney
Atlanta, GA
37, joined Apr. 2010
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I once give this guy my number he never gotdamn call till after 1am when I had to be up at 4am, and all he would say was " so how was your day " so you liked how I looked huh "what are you doing tomorrow, I told him to call me around 3pm he still called me at 1or 2am I ended up just telling him off, I just cut off my ringer or say I am busy
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8/18/2011 8:12:37 PM |
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rhea27
Danbury, CT
47, joined Dec. 2010
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@ xyhoney: Honey, that must have been a bootie call. No guy calls that late (or early) unless he has bootie on his mind.... he's working nights and is bored.... or calling while his wife or gf is sleeping.
Look at the caller ID before you pick up the phone. I only answer late night calls, when it's my S/O, a family member or a client. (The latter 2 are probably emergency calls.)
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8/18/2011 8:22:16 PM |
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60freebird
Atlanta, GA
65, joined Sep. 2010
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I've never liked talking on the phone. However, it's an essential part of a new relationship. I totally enjoy the calls that go on for hours when we've got something to talk about. Talking is so much more personal and more easily interpretted than email or text. If it's not a conversation that's going somewhere, then keep it short and sweet. I just don't like being tied to that phone........rather have you there in person.
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8/18/2011 8:24:08 PM |
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xyhoney
Atlanta, GA
37, joined Apr. 2010
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We never even went out, or even had sex he just call every night for about a week I be sleeping so good and the the ph scares the hell outta me, then I get up and ansewer the tv cause I be still asleep. We meet one moring when I was on my way to work and he got me number and that was it I never had time for him
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8/18/2011 8:27:04 PM |
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swamp_donkey_v4
Zimatlán de Alvarez
Mexico
97, joined Aug. 2011
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girls talk on phon for long time because it gives donkeys time to get it up and jerk it off!
double space man! you gotta remember the double space!!!
ok ok
and then we all go to sleep!
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8/18/2011 8:27:10 PM |
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xyhoney
Atlanta, GA
37, joined Apr. 2010
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My number
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8/18/2011 8:30:12 PM |
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happyface46
Palm City, FL
53, joined Feb. 2009
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because I would rather someone put a gun to my head, then sit and type on a computer or text.
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8/18/2011 8:31:35 PM |
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xyhoney
Atlanta, GA
37, joined Apr. 2010
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me and my best friend use to fall asleep on the phone when I was a teen lol
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8/18/2011 8:37:23 PM |
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pokerpaul999
Westchester, IL
35, joined Aug. 2011
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i like talking to girls for a long time cuz i know they like it. I will waste the hours just to make a connection and make it that much better. We didnt text in early college and high shcool so that what we did and i liked that better than having to sit there and type little BS messages all goddamn day and get yelled at cuz YOU KNOW how texts get mis understood and misconstued. DAMN
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8/18/2011 8:40:39 PM |
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happyface46
Palm City, FL
53, joined Feb. 2009
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i like talking to girls for a long time cuz i know they like it. I will waste the hours just to make a connection and make it that much better. We didnt text in early college and high shcool so that what we did and i liked that better than having to sit there and type little BS messages all goddamn day and get yelled at cuz YOU KNOW how texts get mis understood and misconstued. DAMN
Doing something just because the other person likes it. A dying art.
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8/18/2011 8:46:10 PM |
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daniel8673
Shelby, NC
30, joined Jul. 2011
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Doing something just because the other person likes it. A dying art.
= pushover, wich no woman likes
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8/18/2011 8:51:11 PM |
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fun2bchattin
Hedgesville, WV
49, joined Feb. 2011
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I only talk for a long time if I am really into the guy. Do not get upset if he has to go though. That's just me though.
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8/18/2011 8:52:25 PM |
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pokerpaul999
Westchester, IL
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so staying on the phone with a girl who like you makes you a pushover? Yea so just hang up on them and treat em bad Im sure thats a great way to start a new relaionship.
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8/18/2011 8:57:31 PM |
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daniel8673
Shelby, NC
30, joined Jul. 2011
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so staying on the phone with a girl who like you makes you a pushover? Yea so just hang up on them and treat em bad Im sure thats a great way to start a new relaionship.
ohh no its just you can take one look at your profile and tell your a complete tool that does his best to sound perfect and tell people what they want to hear....but in reality your probably the biggest creep of them all..goodluck jackass! lol
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8/18/2011 8:58:41 PM |
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jenlynn84
Bemidji, MN
32, joined Jul. 2011
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I enjoy talking to someone on the phone. It has been my experience that if the conversation flows easily, it can be enjoyable for both parties, and time can go really quickly. I'd rather have a nice phone conversation than text.
When I am in a relationship, I want to talk to the person. If they live in the same town, the conversations happen in person. If they live elsewhere, "phone dates" replace the in person conversations because they are the only option.
If you want to hang up, then end the conversation.
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8/18/2011 8:59:40 PM |
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mindovermatter6
Waterford, MI
55, joined Nov. 2008
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They are lonely.
I loath talking on the phone, I'd rather get up close and personal with someone.
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8/18/2011 9:03:41 PM |
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pokerpaul999
Westchester, IL
35, joined Aug. 2011
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2nd week even doing this but if you want to call me a tool cause i just moved to a new city and started something that leaves me open to insult to those who are better than me like you. Well if I was a creep Id be talking crap to people all cuz your afraid. I feel the feer and self loathing. Good luck son
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8/18/2011 9:12:37 PM |
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daniel8673
Shelby, NC
30, joined Jul. 2011
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2nd week even doing this but if you want to call me a tool cause i just moved to a new city and started something that leaves me open to insult to those who are better than me like you. Well if I was a creep Id be talking crap to people all cuz your afraid. I feel the feer and self loathing. Good luck son
LMAO!!! that was funny lol feer? you mean fear?
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8/18/2011 9:13:41 PM |
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jenlynn84
Bemidji, MN
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and again... turning the thread into a stupid argument. FFS stop already.
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8/18/2011 10:43:37 PM |
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swamp_donkey_v4
Zimatlán de Alvarez
Mexico
97, joined Aug. 2011
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No no no! This is all wrong. Make it a Race thread!
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8/19/2011 11:32:36 AM |
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theincal
Studio City, CA
45, joined Aug. 2011
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Someone may have said this in the thread, sorry if its a repeat...
As a guy I know what you're talking about. But you're agreeing to talk, and then subsequently scared of retribution if you want to finish the call. She wants to keep talking (this is an assumption) because she wants to know how you feel, and like prev ppl have implied, you might not be answering. So the only action BTW you two is when you say you want to get off the call, which can be interpreted as rejection by her.
In short, Id suggest opening up more during the conversation, and being more decisive in getting off the phone. You can choose not to engage in the argument. (the argument is also a- a show of emotion & b- engaging keeps you on the phone longer).
Just my two cents.
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8/19/2011 11:36:21 AM |
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skeeter344
Sheffield, MA
31, joined Jun. 2011
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usually they call when they are either bored or tired. from past experiences i've had girls call me up when i'm at work and want to talk about nothing. i give it atleast 10-15 minutes of nothing before i tell them that i'm busy at work and hangup. but i always call them back when i get out of work if they weren't sleeping.
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