12/23/2013 2:09:02 AM |
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luvchu
Irvine, CA
27, joined Jun. 2013
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So I need your advice!
My guy friend and I have been sort of flirting and we have been gone out on dinner dates, but we never go anywhere after this point.
I'm not sure how to ask or at least hint to let him know I wanna hook up...so what should I do? Any ideas?
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12/23/2013 2:21:51 AM |
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mr_lionheart
Silver Spring, MD
41, joined Sep. 2013
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Huh when your alone grab him and kiss him... That is always a sure sign lol
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12/23/2013 3:11:43 AM |
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ricky_63
Beverly Hills, CA
30, joined Dec. 2012
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Tell him yall are going to a bar,pool Hall. Srink. Loosen him up. Then yall eventually end up hooking up.
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12/23/2013 3:23:32 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010
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Huh when your alone grab him and kiss him... That is always a sure sign lol
This will let him know better than anything else.
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12/23/2013 3:30:29 AM |
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mr_lionheart
Silver Spring, MD
41, joined Sep. 2013
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Or one night have him come over sit him down and take control tell him how you feel and do not let him say a word till your done..
Or the romantic dinner at home thing... Call him up and plan a outing but when he gets there have dinner all ready done..
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12/23/2013 3:40:23 AM |
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realdeallover
Tir PolLondon
United Kingdom
35, joined Nov. 2013
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Well all depends he is probably in the same boat and does not know if you want to hok up with him.
Just follow your instinct, if you really do click it just happens. Go for a kiss if he backs of you know, but if he kisses you back you know it is time to hok up. THen have a chat about your feelings and were you want the relationship to go to..
Good luck hun
if it is ment to be. It will be.
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12/23/2013 3:51:20 AM |
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way2old2getsome
Austin, TX
57, joined Jul. 2013
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Do whatever you did the last time if it worked.
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12/23/2013 6:22:18 AM |
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soflwill
Richmond, VA
56, joined Jan. 2012
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Easiest way is to get real close to him, look him in the eyes, and move in for a kiss either he'll respond or he's gay. A bolder way is while out with him just whisper in his ear you're not wearing any panties, again instant response our gay.
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12/23/2013 7:09:25 AM |
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niterydah
Houston, TX
45, joined Jan. 2013
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.......just go on another dinner date with him n when you finish dinner tell him or whisper in his ear that you have some dessert for him
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12/23/2013 9:39:18 AM |
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luvchu
Irvine, CA
27, joined Jun. 2013
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But what if you don't want a relationship? I mean, how to break it to him that all I want is sex?
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12/23/2013 9:51:20 AM |
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zimzane2
High Point, NC
56, joined Jan. 2013
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Just be forward about it.
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12/23/2013 10:12:07 AM |
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niterydah
Houston, TX
45, joined Jan. 2013
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But what if you don't want a relationship? I mean, how to break it to him that all I want is sex?
...well when you at dinner with him just talk about how much relationships is overrated n that you dont want to be in a relationship right now because your to busy but wouldnt mind a friend though
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12/23/2013 11:39:59 AM |
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tasgosa
Knob Noster, MO
61, joined Jul. 2013
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Go out Dancing..!!
Then...after a few hours of 'Kickin'-it'...ask him to join you
In The Shower..!!!
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12/23/2013 12:16:31 PM |
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hadassah169
Dhaneswargati
Bangladesh
82, joined Dec. 2012
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You've got to be kidding...
Grab his crotch and kiss him hard and say you know you want this pus sy
Works every time
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12/23/2013 12:21:10 PM |
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pghguy678
Pittsburgh, PA
41, joined May. 2013
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You've got to be kidding...
Grab his crotch and kiss him hard and say you know you want this pus sy
Works every time
My kinda lady!!!
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12/23/2013 12:22:12 PM |
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hadassah169
Dhaneswargati
Bangladesh
82, joined Dec. 2012
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My kinda lady!!!
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12/23/2013 12:25:13 PM |
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pghguy678
Pittsburgh, PA
41, joined May. 2013
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Gotta love a woman that is assertive and takes initiative
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12/23/2013 12:29:57 PM |
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texas_aries
Austin, TX
42, joined Oct. 2013
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I find that, "Pants. Off. Now!" seems to always work for me.
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12/23/2013 12:31:29 PM |
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pghguy678
Pittsburgh, PA
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I find that, "Pants. Off. Now!" seems to always work for me.
Yes Ma`am
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12/23/2013 1:01:04 PM |
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kingsolemon213
Santa Clara, CA
31, joined Oct. 2013
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Yeah jus when your having dinner talk to him
Like hey let's step it up
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12/23/2013 2:53:02 PM |
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unboxurebox
Middletown, OH
27, joined Nov. 2013
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Let him know that his interests are something you care about. If he starts talking about his favorite sports team, remark that his enthusiasm for the team led you to watch one of their games. Smile when you tell him that you "get" why he likes them. Thank him for the recommendation. Taking an active interest in what he cares about shows him that you care.
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Take his hand when it is appropriate to do so. If you go see a scary movie together or have a nice moment of connectedness, taking his hand can leave a big impression on him. If you caress his hand a bit while you have it in your grasp, that's a pretty strong signal that you have a crush on him.
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Compliment the guy you like. Make sure it is always with complete sincerity. Look for the reasons you like him. Express the compliments at the right moment. You don't want to be telling him how cute his neck is while he is in despair over a failed test. Wait until the right moment. Flashing a smile with an affectionate compliment can make his day.
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Be there for him when he is sad. It's easy to walk away when a friend is having a bad day or is in a grumpy mood. Nobody needs drama. Yet when you step up to the plate at the worst of times to take an interest and be there, this is a clear signal to a guy that you like him.
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Play footsies. This is a bit silly and old-school, but it works like a charm. Caress his foot with your own when you are eating together. He may start laughing, and it may turn into a playful foot battle. Don't be afraid. Just go with it. Having fun together in this way will be a signal of flirtation.
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Start talking about a dance or party you'd like to attend. Joke about how great it would be if the two of you went together. It may be tempting to add on "as friends" to the suggestion, but that can kill any thought that you may like him. Leave it open-ended. Merely suggest that the two of you go out together to an event. He may even ask for clarification to see if you mean a date. Ask him if he would like that. That's a clear sign that you like him, and he will likely take that hint. If he likes you, you will, indeed, have a date.
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12/23/2013 3:43:21 PM |
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brnsuga34
Spring, TX
38, joined Sep. 2012
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So kissing and hugging to guys means sex????
I like kissing but that doesn't always mean sex.
Now if I grab his tool that may send that message.
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12/23/2013 3:44:45 PM |
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max811
Palmetto, FL
36, joined Aug. 2010
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Invite him back to your place.
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12/23/2013 3:46:34 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
48, joined Jan. 2012
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So I need your advice!
My guy friend and I have been sort of flirting and we have been gone out on dinner dates, but we never go anywhere after this point.
I'm not sure how to ask or at least hint to let him know I wanna hook up...so what should I do? Any ideas?
depends on who you are talking to and how long you know them and how you met. But just telling him might be a good way to do it. IMO, it's about being an adult and not acting like a child in high school once you get past the age of 18.
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12/23/2013 4:11:17 PM |
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24milkduds
San Francisco, CA
57, joined Mar. 2012
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Flat out tell him! Good luck
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12/23/2013 4:14:40 PM |
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pghguy678
Pittsburgh, PA
41, joined May. 2013
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Flat out tell him! Good luck
This!
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12/23/2013 4:17:38 PM |
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luvchu
Irvine, CA
27, joined Jun. 2013
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Flat out tell him! Good luck
So just say "hey want to hook up?"
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12/23/2013 4:57:17 PM |
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luvchu
Irvine, CA
27, joined Jun. 2013
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So do all men ok with "friends with benefit" offers?
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12/23/2013 5:06:31 PM |
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muddylum
Mountain City, GA
57, joined Oct. 2013
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So just say "hey want to hook up?"
Well you can put it a little more subtly...say something like..
"love you long time"
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12/23/2013 5:10:40 PM |
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muddylum
Mountain City, GA
57, joined Oct. 2013
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So do all men ok with "friends with benefit" offers?
Most maybe. ?????
Almost always. ????
What's the worst that could happen. What he says no.
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12/23/2013 5:27:16 PM |
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luvchu
Irvine, CA
27, joined Jun. 2013
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If he says no I'd be super embarrassed...like, what have I done and why am I so full of myself
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12/23/2013 5:31:28 PM |
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mr_ctr916
Roseville, CA
53, joined Aug. 2013
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tell him you want to practice being a girl and a friend at the same time; and give him some quality lapdance time.
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12/23/2013 5:56:47 PM |
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luvchu
Irvine, CA
27, joined Jun. 2013
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Give him a blowjob on the spot.
Uh, no....
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12/23/2013 7:25:44 PM |
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singledadinsarn
Sarnia, ON
38, joined Jul. 2009
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If he says no I'd be super embarrassed...like, what have I done and why am I so full of myself
Christ, if he said "no" to you then he is an idiot!!
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12/23/2013 7:29:22 PM |
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rescueranger245
Windsor, VA
63, joined Apr. 2011
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Nothing says hookup like an impromptu blowjob when he least expects it.
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12/23/2013 7:43:05 PM |
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bobbie3411
Tampa, FL
47, joined Jul. 2013
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Sit on his face naked and wiggle.........that should be enough of a hint.......
Just saying...
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12/23/2013 7:48:27 PM |
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singledadinsarn
Sarnia, ON
38, joined Jul. 2009
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Sit on his face naked and wiggle.........that should be enough of a hint.......
Just saying...
well, if he hasn't figured it out by then...wow lol
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12/23/2013 8:52:23 PM |
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muddylum
Mountain City, GA
57, joined Oct. 2013
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If he says no I'd be super embarrassed...like, what have I done and why am I so full of myself
If he doesn't take the hint. Well sorry ,he is a idiot.
Why be embarrassed. We as men embarrass are selves every day.
Just saying do it.
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12/23/2013 9:16:23 PM |
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doktorabstracto
Cocoa, FL
57, joined Aug. 2010
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Dress like you mean it, touch him for no reason (that he knows of), use words with double meaning (one of which is the goal).
If that doesn't work, maybe he's not into women. Because any one of the above three would work on most of us.
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12/23/2013 10:28:18 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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Some guys are kinda slow so turn off the game, take off your clothes and tell him you don't want him behaving like a gentleman as you slide into the bed. Turning down the lights seems romantic too.
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12/23/2013 10:37:26 PM |
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vanir
Victoria
Australia
46, joined Mar. 2008
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The single most assured destructor of nervousness, paranoia or fear is the direct truth. It's like unloading a weight, all butteflies are instantely replaced by inspiration, enlightenment and meaning. It's like giving course to where the butterflies in your stomach wanted to lead you.
Next dinner date put your foot down at some point and tell him that you like him in *that* way, hell you can just tell him you want to do him right there. Say what you mean and mean what you say, those words have strength.
His response is up to him but that's how it's supposed to be, freedom and all that.
Talking around things, meaning one thing and saying another, these create paranoia and awkward moments. Truth is just out there with a life of its own, say it directly and let the other person do as they will.
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12/23/2013 10:49:38 PM |
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pk0357
Eastlake, OH
40, joined Jan. 2010
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So just say "hey want to hook up?"
Yes but let him know up front, thats all it is.
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12/23/2013 10:56:24 PM |
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1darksavior
Far Rockaway, NY
54, joined Mar. 2011
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whisper in is ear tell him you want to fuk the hell out of him
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12/23/2013 11:06:15 PM |
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iamblithe
Carlsbad, CA
45, joined May. 2013
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It's not difficult to get a man into bed silly...for the most part men re total sluts and proud of it...
Now here is the tricky part....
Get him to stay....
Good Luck!
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12/23/2013 11:28:50 PM |
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mr_ctr916
Roseville, CA
53, joined Aug. 2013
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Uh, no....
We can always tell when you are not really serious.
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12/23/2013 11:52:55 PM |
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luvchu
Irvine, CA
27, joined Jun. 2013
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Invite him back to your place.
Why my place?? Is there a rule on people hooking up in the lady's place?
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12/24/2013 12:17:09 AM |
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kingsolemon213
Santa Clara, CA
31, joined Oct. 2013
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Lol at grabbing his tool
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12/24/2013 4:39:58 PM |
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ciscokidsr
Hesperia, CA
56, joined Jun. 2009
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Sit on his face naked and wiggle.........that should be enough of a hint.......
Just saying...
Wow! I wish you were near me.
I would so much be your slave!!!
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12/24/2013 4:57:31 PM |
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newguy072184
Lake City, FL
32, joined Jan. 2013
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Get drunk and let nature take ita course, if it doesn't happe he is gay.
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12/24/2013 5:20:45 PM |
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rescueranger245
Windsor, VA
63, joined Apr. 2011
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If this doesn't work...He's GAY!
Or perhaps you could dress like this...
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12/24/2013 5:39:17 PM |
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slystyle
Fallbrook, CA
27, joined Oct. 2013
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If you two are already at the level where you relax in eachothers places then use that to your advantage.
Very simple, say "I'm going to take a shower. I'd like if you would join so I'll leave the bathroom door open for you."
Don't linger there after you say it, go do just that.
Now the ball is in his court and you'll know how he feels. He may immediately say ok and follow you in,
He may take a few moments to think it over, this may just be his nerves or trying to understand what just happened.
But if he doesn't join then you know he's not ready for that with you.
If you're not hanging out at each others place then it's still just as simple as after a time together say "would you like to come in with me?"
If he makes excuses and his answer isn't yes then quit wasting your time on him.
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12/24/2013 6:08:18 PM |
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luvchu
Irvine, CA
27, joined Jun. 2013
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Yes! Thank you!
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12/24/2013 6:15:21 PM |
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slystyle
Fallbrook, CA
27, joined Oct. 2013
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You are welcome, have 'fun'
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12/24/2013 9:46:18 PM |
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ladiebugg55
Redding, CA
60, joined Jun. 2012
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Start fondling him when you get a chance. That should send the hook up message out loud and clear...lol..
If you arent comfortable just telling him, then you need to do more aggressive flirting..seduce him with your eyes and use your body language..
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12/24/2013 10:06:40 PM |
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luvchu
Irvine, CA
27, joined Jun. 2013
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Start fondling him when you get a chance. That should send the hook up message out loud and clear...lol..
If you arent comfortable just telling him, then you need to do more aggressive flirting..seduce him with your eyes and use your body language..
Ok...I better learn how to fondling then
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12/24/2013 10:19:43 PM |
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ciscokidsr
Hesperia, CA
56, joined Jun. 2009
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So I need your advice!
My guy friend and I have been sort of flirting and we have been gone out on dinner dates, but we never go anywhere after this point.
I'm not sure how to ask or at least hint to let him know I wanna hook up...so what should I do? Any ideas?
This is my idea of what you should do with him from what I read from you. In some ways I was like him when I was his age: naive and not realizing how horny I really was.
You have a diamond in the rough with a man like him and you have the power to make him your slave to care for your needs - and needs you indeed have.
I say you approach him very directly without any subtle hints. You tell him that you have some incredible needs and drives and you want to "train" him.
Start off small with training him to please you the way you want, step by step in more intense increments.
You can return the favor but he will be done in 5 minutes, you may need hours to be taken care of. Just be honest about your needs and direct him how to deliver.
Don't expect him to know much, he will be glad to be told what to do. If you let him take charge, you will be disappointed.
Like I said - you can have a great boy toy but you have to train him.
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12/25/2013 1:03:38 AM |
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luvchu
Irvine, CA
27, joined Jun. 2013
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He is in mid 30s so I am pretty sure he knows what he is doing in terms of "dealing with needs".
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12/25/2013 1:54:28 AM |
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luvchu
Irvine, CA
27, joined Jun. 2013
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I'm not sure what that means...?
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12/25/2013 1:57:44 AM |
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moviejunkie30
Revere, PA
33, joined Sep. 2013
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This is so simple, im not sure what the issue is.
Be aggressive, ask to see his aapartment. THen ask fir the tour, when you get to the bedroom.. grab his d*ck and kiss him hard... throw him down.. yada yada
. Leave before he gets up ..
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12/25/2013 7:21:38 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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But what if you don't want a relationship? I mean, how to break it to him that all I want is sex?
Simple....be upfront and honest
and do it soon, otherwise "if" he is seeking more....all your doing is at this time leading him on.
and from the sounds of it, because he hasn't made any moves yet....this just might be the case here.
Op...break the habit of wanting men to do and be responsible for everything.
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