Japetto, the key word here is EMPATHY. Take a moment to think how you'd feel, if you were a woman, looking for Mr.Right-- It's only natural you'd want a guy who's a good provider. This means he has a good-paying job that allows him to afford making monthly mortgage payments on a house, situated in a low-crime neighborhood. If she's young, in her late teens to late 20s, its likely she wants to have children eventually, or is open to having more children on top of what she already has (I'm assuming you're open to dating a single or divorced mother). The majority of most women here are looking for a guy who's not playing mind games, and is ready to make a life-time commitment.

Now take a moment to look at the picture you've posted of yourself. There's a woman next to you with her arm on your shoulder. What do you suppose women are thinking, when they look at your picture. This is what the picture is saying; "standing to my left, is the woman who walked out of my life, when she realized I was anything but Mr-Right." The picture is sending a negative message. Women have an eye for identifying subtle clues, to a guys character. Ever heard of the old saying "trust a woman's intuition?" Though women are physically weak, they are superior in intuitive abilities. They can sense deception and impending danger, much better than men. This is how women know you've been cheating on them, when you're seeing another woman behind her back.

Another thing I must criticize about your pict, is the unshave stuble on your face. It implies you don't have the discipline to fix yourself in the morning, to make yourself presentable to the people you come across to in the day. If you look at the pict I've selected of myself, I'm trying to convey the message, I have $$ issues, which is the truth. The clothes you wear is a subtle clue as to how much $$ you earn. Generally, women wants a guy who's financially secure, and the shirt you're wearing contradicts the income you claim you're earning. I suggest you change your pict, and post a picture of yourself in a business suit, or a shirt & tie. Don't post picts of you standing next to another woman. This sends a message you're not single & available.

And why would you want 40 interested woman?...You'd want only ONE to be your girl...Right?...or maybe Wrong.