Actually yes i do, people on here are frequently always shooting out their preferences

Whether if its about race, weight, prettiness, religion etc.

They do, it is a dating site after all

Ok, apparently we had a misunderstanding.

I do not care about how much you love white guys.

@ Spirit of good, that's fine. Do you.

I just made an observation that other women don't be acting like this. It's unattractive to me as well...when I see nothing but black woman talking about how much they love white men. Not because I'm against interracial, but because I don't see ANY other races of women doing that.

They instead, prefer to use humility, modesty, etc and not scream from the rooftops every week how horrible the men in her race is, while chasing after other races.

Why is that?

Because many women like black men,, THEY JUST HAVE ENOUGH CLASS to not act like a .... like they are throwing themselves at men.

I will not dignify personal attacks.

The topic is about the frequency of one race declaring how they love others..when other races of women...for some reason...don't do that.


And I explained in the opener what I thought about it.

Now trying to character assassinate me, tell lies, etc...is off topic.

Carry on..

Actually, it's not about black men feeling not wanted.

It's about giving a f**k about black women making themselves look like cheap wh*res that throw themselves at men that don't even want them.

According to statistics.

They may f**k them, but the marriage rate is the lowest between bw/wm.

Not to mention, the crimes committed by white males against blacks.

So you would think one would have more class, dignity, and self-respect than to throw yourself at the race of men that specialized in raping you.

Many good white men died to help blacks. So I'm not racist. I'm saying make that good white man have to come seek you with much effort. Be a PRIZE.

A QUEEN!

Make him have to EARN you!


Instead of every f**king day they log in and black women lining up yelling how much they want them like cheap whites lining the streets.


^^^ THAT'S my point!

When I come on a dating site and see people saying they don't date blacks...

I feel blessed!

Because it automatically tells me a few things immediately.

1. I am an enlightened being. Being spiritual, I have elevated past petty differences in skin color. When I see someone who hasn't, it lets me know to stay away from them.

2. I am extremely intelligent. So even if a person did have a hangup over race, they let me know they aren't smart enough to go about their business in an unobtrusive or callous and inconsiderate way.

3. I like honesty. And it saves both of us time. How she goes about informing others of her racist or preferences will reveal a lot also.

4. I'm black. I know exactly who I am, and what I can do compared to other races. I know that blacks are the original race, and all other "races" are just variations and ethnicities that come from me. So I have no problem with people wanting something other than the original.

5. Often, people make topics like that to bait. I laugh. You can read that topic and see 55 comments in a row praising other races and putting black men down. And if ONE black man says ANYTHING in response to the attacks on black men...they get joy out of that. That's why they made it in the first place. I never go in those topics and say ANYTHING negative...because that brings joy to racists or baiters.

6. I get to learn a lot about others and their motives in these topics.

Anyway, that's what happens when I see those topics.

See ya!

Abolitionist, the problem is deeper than that. 9 out if 10 black men don't stick around to help their kids & their baby's mama.

When u see a black man being married to a white or Asian woman, they stick around to help their kids & their wives. They work really really hard to take care of their wives & kids & to put food on the table.

So when black women see this & they get mad at black men. It makes them feel like they are sore losers, losing out to white & Asian women. When black men have kids with black women, they don't married their baby's mother. They don't provide child support. They don't look in to see if the baby is ok, they don't help out with food, money, & well being.

Not only that, but black men who are married to white & Asian women, they are educated, they went to college, they make a lot of money, then they go & marry a white or Asian women. They get to the top & they abandoned their people & their culture. They go & marry out of the race. Black women called this the trophy mentality.

Black men don't treat black women very well. This is why some black women stray away from their race & they stray away from black men.

We need to preach to black men that they need to stick around & help raise the kids & help with the kids well being, & help out with child support. Anyone can have a baby but it takes a lot to be a father or a parent. It doesn't take a whole village to raise a child, it takes 2 caring & very involved parents. Life alone is a challenge on itself. We don't need to add anymore hardship to it. Life is already hard as it is.

We need to preach to black men to stick around & help their baby's mother raise their baby.

If the kids go to jail or get in trouble with the law the father is partly at fault. He didn't stick around to discipline the kids. Black men should say to their kids, don't be afraid of the police when u get in trouble. U should be afraid of me, I will whip your ass. Some kids are afraid of their fathers & they stay out if trouble. Coz they know their dads won't let them here the end of it.